On the 15th of July, the day of summer vacation, I stood in the courtyard that night and saw the fluttering clouds covering the moon, and it was like a black hand covering the light. At the beginning of the turbulent adolescence, Wang Xile's learning was also turbulent, and the establishment of values during this critical period determined the life or failure of one. Although necessary measures should be taken to achieve a single academic achievement, and hope to develop in the direction of expectations, there is no need to be anxious at all. "If you lose your horse, you don't know if it's a blessing. "Tell people that the things that have been lost in the great upheaval will come back to you in the future if you really need them.

Children are in a turbulent period of youth, and educators need to adopt tactful and flexible strategies to improve self-discernment, if they focus too much on learning scores, their discernment will not develop, and they will not develop their human nature, and they will be mired in learning and achieve nothing.

Adolescence is the beginning of people's thinking ability, and in the future, Wang Xile's spiritual aspects should be one or two, and that kind of spiritual rigor is also easy to cause children to think about their own state of affairs, which is conducive to spending adolescence safely between liveliness and seriousness. The best education is to know how to maintain a child's confidence in himself, and this confidence is not achieved by beautiful words and inspirational stories, it must be practiced in practice. At this moment, the moon came out of the clouds, and I felt a sense of freshness.

The next morning, I came back from a walk and saw Wang Xile doing his homework. "Why don't you sleep in?" I asked. Wang Xile's eyes swept over me, and there was a strange and uncomfortable look, and I continued, "Why do you look at me like this?"

"Dad, Chen Zhiguang in our class is no longer in school. The son's voice was dry and cold, and he had spoken in this tone before.

"Why?"

"He was last in the overall exam. ”

I stood there and didn't know what to say. In order to improve the pass rate, good rate, and excellent rate, teachers try their best to drive away students with poor scores, and I have seen this kind of thing a lot in middle school over the years. If every teacher drives out the students who are poor in their studies, those key students who study well will be able to raise the pass, good, and excellent rates to a very high level, but it is obvious that this kind of education that eliminates poor students will not complete the great cause of building the country. However, who cares about things a little further away now!,

"I think Chen Zhiguang is just not good at studying, and he is also very clever when he plays, and the teacher has been criticizing him all day long since the first grade, and beating him, I think he is about to drive him crazy, if I can't live. The son said with emotion when he saw that I didn't speak.

"Joy, don't you talk about others, are you clever or not?"

"Clever. ”

"Then why has your academic performance dropped this semester?"

"It was a mistake. I don't know. The son said with the nail of one hand, pinching the flesh of the other.

Our eyes were staring at one another, and Wang Xile's eyes were full of confusion.

"Joy, your studies are declining because you are becoming more and more youthful, and you dare to do more and more things," I said, "and you have to plan your studies during the holidays, which requires greater self-control to complete, and I will check your homework when the time comes." I said.

"No problem. Everything is as guaranteed to be completed as in the past. He smiled.

Throughout the summer vacation, online games, super girls, friends' birthday parties and other things seem to have filled Wang Xile's life. Although it is very annoying at times, it is normal for him to study for one hour a day and go to the middle school at 5 p.m. to participate in sports training, which gives me confidence. Because a child can persist in doing hard things, it is possible to overcome the difficulties in life.

There are five days left to leave school. I asked Wang Xile's homework to be checked. The handwriting was crooked, and only two-thirds of the number was complete. I was so angry that I grabbed his hair in my hand, then looked at the homework book and said, "That's how you write your homework, there are five days before the start of school, and you're only halfway through your homework." ”

"I know," my son said, taking my hand away, "isn't it just homework, and I'll just finish it when school starts." ”

"Joy, you read 'Unexpected Cruelty' three times. I said sternly.

When Wang Xile heard that my tone was wrong, he was frightened and hurried to read the article. After reading it, he came over and stood aside, and my face turned pale, and I really wanted to beat him. My cold eyes kept shooting at my son, and his body opened up.

"Are you cold?"

"Nope. I'm afraid. ”

"Why are you afraid?"

"I feel like you're going to hit me. ”

"I want to beat you, but I weigh your fault, whether you have enough to be beaten. I said, "If you insist on studying for one hour a day, you are actually deceiving yourself and your family." ”

"Dad, I was wrong. ”

Four days later, Wang Xile took the homework book and looked at it, and said in a joking tone: "Dad, isn't it just to write some homework, what's the anger!"

Listening to his voice, I felt that Wang Xile had a taste of self-humor in his body.

"If you don't do your homework as planned, you have been defeated by self-control. Your homework is not finished, but rushed. If you always have this attitude towards learning, then you will fail in life. In addition to your homework, what other books did you read during the holidays?"

"Dad, I have read three copies of your "General History of China" album, and it turns out that many of the ancient war stories you told me were learned from them. But reading war stories isn't as interesting as yours. ”

"When I speak, I add things that are not in the book according to the tone of the children's psychological scriptures, so I have to read more original books to understand the most real things. ”

"Dad, you go outside and put the motorcycle down. ”

I thought to myself, why did Sakuko suddenly turn the conversation on the motorcycle. Suddenly, I remembered what happened last year, and everything was clear.

I put the motorcycle down, and Wang Xile really helped it up.

"When you pick up your motorcycle, it's the day you ride it. "It's my promise to my son. Without saying a word, I took him to a safe place to learn to ride a motorcycle.

Riding a motorcycle is simple. With my help, Wang Xile played for two days. On the third day, when he had more self-confidence, his lack of control also became apparent, and my son looked at me in fear when he broke the wind shield on the motorcycle due to improper operation.

"If you fall, what's so scary about this, hurry up and pick up the car and continue practicing. ”

A week later, Wang Xile supported me on the road to Huxi, riding nearly six kilometers in a row. Then he stopped the car and said to me:

"Dad, you ride, my strength is not enough to control the motorcycle, there is danger. It's easy to ride a motorcycle, but I'm still a long way from safe riding. ”

Since then, Wang Xile has never thought of riding a motorcycle during the period when he graduated from junior high school.