Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, it has entered April, and my son's homework at night has a bit of a worry-free taste. On the first Saturday of April, at noon, my son invited the door to play a game. The door sat alone. His eyes widened in fright when he saw me come in, and he didn't say a word, his eyes followed me. The door whispered: "Wang Xile, your father looks at you." ”

"It's nothing. ”

The son succinctly popped out two words. The door opened his eyes wide, stared at Wang Xile and said, "Your father is so good to you." ”

The son was so focused on the game that he didn't seem to hear what the door was saying. As the hour passed, I was distraught and I could feel my son's brain completely controlled by the game. The atmosphere was too calm for anyone. In this quiet world, there will be nothing else in the child's heart.

I have to help the child learn to get rid of this suffocating stillness, this kind of play is not play, and over time, it will develop an obsessive state of isolation from the world. From a psychological point of view, this is a precursor to mental illness. Wang Xile finally got out of the obsession with cartoons through his changeable life, and now he has entered the obsession with games. I said, "Joy, what are you doing when you come to our house?"

"Play with me on the computer. ”

"Why don't you see the door to play?"

"Menmen, you come to fight. ”

"I won't. Menmen's face was as red as a ripe persimmon.

"Dad, look, it's not that I won't let him play, it's that he won't. The son said.

"He won't, just play alone, the computer will cry. I said.

"Why?"

"Are you happy to play with you?"

"Happy. ”

"Is he your friend?"

"Yes. ”

"Should a friend help a friend?"

"The. ”

"Menmen can't play games, should you help Menmen?"

"The. ”

My son understood from his confusion, shrugged his shoulders at me, turned around, and stretched out his hand to pull the door open. Said:

"Come, I'll teach you. ”

My son's actions seem simple, but it is actually very difficult, because it is very difficult to serve others when he likes it very much. Because of what was happening in front of me, I made two cups of coffee and served them to both of them. Menmen may have seen this for the first time between father and son, and still in the case of playing games. He kept saying no to drink or no to drink in a panic. The son said enthusiastically:

"Menmen, it's okay, drink, drink. ”

The son found a simple game again, teaching Menmen to use the mouse with one hand and teaching the game skills with the other finger on the video screen. The small buttocks of the two children, sitting on a chair, each occupy half of the buttocks. Looking at my son's responsibility for his friends, I love my son even more.

After the door meeting, his voice changed, and there was happiness in his tone. It seems that play is indeed a divine object given by God to children, it can inject happy emotions into all children, and it is also an insurmountable stage for children's wisdom to develop to a high level.

"Is the door there?" came the sound of the door outside. I was just about to go out when my mom came in from the outside. When she saw the door playing games, her face changed suddenly, that is, I was there. She suppressed her voice and said unsatisfactorily: "Menmen, I can't play, the math class will start at half past two." ”

"Mom, I, today, don't want to go to math class, I, I want to, play with Wang Xile," the door stammered, pitifully.

"Why do you say that, study hard and don't play well after being admitted to a good university in the future?" said Menmen's mother, "If you can't get into a good university, it's not interesting to play." ”

The door grinded slightly.

"I don't want to study, but it's okay. Menmen's mother's voice suddenly became irritable, and Menmen ran away.

"Menmen, you can't play, it's useless to play, it's only useful to study hard. "I went out to take a look, and outside the courtyard gate, the grandmother at the gate was also there.

Looking at the weak body of the door, I felt that this pampered male doll was even more female than a female doll, and I couldn't help but curse in my heart: What a fucking hell!

"Menmen is afraid of death, and listening to her makes me break out in a cold sweat. Wang Xile said.

The son's words speak of the pain that the child has suffered under the pressure of excessive learning.

The sun kisses the earth generously, and the earth ripples with life, but unfortunately some children do not have a chance to do so. Parents take their children to various intensive classes and keep passing by in front of my eyes, and the faces of adults are full of hope, but children are not quite. If adults and children do not understand each other, then the endless hope of the family will invisibly turn the home into a fortress for adults and children. Adults always have endless hopes, but children are becoming more and more unfamiliar with the home they live in, it seems that there is nothing else except eating and studying, and when they are older and have more knowledge, they can't find their way home.

"It's three o'clock," I forced my son, "let's play a few games of chess." After a few games, he said it was boring and didn't want to play, and then went into the back room and turned off the computer, came out of the chair and put on his small bicycle, and went to play with the children.

The son took the initiative to turn off the computer and go to the children to play. This shows that when people have a genuine relationship with each other, they can match the needs of children for play. At the same time, it also shows that the socialization of the "Internet café" problem is that our society has a problem in emotional education, and that educational life is lonely, too coercive, and cause and effect reversal in many aspects for children's spiritual growth.