From the perspective of human development, success in play is the original success of children's growth, because this function brings strength to people's minds and produces the courage to overcome difficulties. Once a person becomes brave, his heart will be strong, and he will take the initiative to find ways to save himself no matter what situation he finds himself. For example, the incident of Wang Xile getting lost in the Dalian Qiulin shopping mall proves that my idea is correct. Now, the child has achieved a little success in writing about the events of his life, which has boosted his enthusiasm for writing essays. It seems that the underlying idea that "learning is not motivated by learning per se" is correct, that if this idea is correct, then the motivation for lifelong learning should be outside of learning, and if this idea is correct, then using scores alone to evaluate a child's progress is a humble behavior, and the progress produced by humble behavior is short-term and will not be maintained. The scary thing is that judging a child by humble behavior is actually using something other than the child's body and mind to maintain self-esteem. When the score is not good, the child's self-esteem is gone. If the logic of self-depletion is correct, then in 20 or 30 years, many children in China will lack the spirit of masculinity, which will lead to a series of social problems. Because the bottom of the test score is something that the child, or any other person, has no control over. If the child loses his masculinity because of this, it means that the child's mind is in the process of getting scores, and the risk factors such as the decline and stagnation of human nature also threaten him, and it is difficult for him to be loyal to anything when he grows up. Since ancient times, education has become a sin if it loses loyalty.

Whether I'm right or not. I firmly believe that the fate of the second generation must be decided by themselves, and that children's dreams will not be born under the control of adults. Life is the birthplace of dreams, not the classroom, and the responsibility of adults is not to set great goals for children, but to help them learn the basic knowledge of life and identify difficulties.

Now, what are Wang Xile's common sense and difficulties? There are two states of mind churning in my heart: one is joy because he has made new progress in studying in one hour, and the other is anxiety because he is more energetic than the game "Swordsman Love".

That day, my son and I tossed for a while, and I deeply realized that those games in the past were just "drizzle", and this kind of intelligent game is the beginning of the real challenge. In order to alleviate the anxiety caused by the game, I said to my wife in the evening, "I want to play games for Wang Xile and go to apprenticeship." ”

"Don't make people laugh out of their big teeth. Other people try their best not to let their children play games, but it's better for you to go to the apprenticeship. The wife said puzzled.

"There's a reason why kids get into smart games early. Think about it, why are the new young teachers in our school playing games all night and night? It's very simple, they didn't play anything in the past to study, and they can't play. Now that I work, I have a chance, and I don't have to, playing games is the only option. In fact, many children are obsessed with Internet cafes, but they also have too few things to play, or no opportunity to play at all, and I have a deep understanding of this. When the game first became popular, like I only played for two or three months, I didn't want to play, why was that? because I would play a lot of things, a lot of competitions, and a lot of sense of accomplishment, on the contrary, in the process of playing the game, my relatively weak interest in reading books was maintained. Now I encourage my child to participate in all kinds of play early, encourage him to play at an advanced level, and learn to self-manage for an hour a day, mainly to cultivate Wang Xile's awareness of high efficiency psychologically. When he grows up and forms his own outlook on life, he will develop a sense of balance. This ability allows people to devote their youthful energy to accomplishing their own useful work. As long as we insist on the education of natural nature, at least the child will have a stable temperament for the rest of his life. I said.

"I really think that's the case when you say that. Okay, tomorrow let's go to Mr. Tan's to apprentice for my son. The wife said, "It's really ridiculous, how ridiculous it is, for the sake of their son to play games, my parents have to secretly go to apprenticeship, and there is no second family in China, if this word is spread, others will think that we are mentally ill." ”

On Sunday night, my wife and I went to Mr. Tan's house to take a visit to the house, and learned to play a big game, and only went back at 12 o'clock. The next morning, I told my son about it, and all of a sudden, I had a hard time.

On Monday, I managed to deal with the past, but by Tuesday my ears were tired, and no kind of words and reasoning were useless. "Dad, turn on the computer and play for a while, Dad, you play, I see, I don't play, you can play!" My heart was rubbed like someone was tickling, uncomfortable and comfortable. Sometimes I want to give a shout-out, emotion tells me it's a stupidity. My body seemed to be lying on a blanket that was specifically tickling, and I was scratching it in the past, turning it over and still scratching, "Hey, wife, don't hide far away, come and help," I asked my wife for help, "You asked for it, no one helped you." "My wife secretly teased me.

I was originally a hard-hearted person, but I couldn't stand the grinding of children, and my heart softened. Isn't it just playing the game once, what's the big deal? At this moment a voice came from the sky - it was a stupid idea. I looked sideways and saw nothing. I realized my mistake and took my son's hand and said, "Joy, Daddy is hungry and wants to go out for lamb kebabs, will you go?"

"Didn't you just finish eating?" said the son.

"Adults are hungry fast. ”

"I want to see how you play 'Swordsman Love'. ”

"No, I can't. I play you see you play as you play. You are a child with self-control, and now the self-controlled Wang Xile in your heart is laughing at you. I'll go, if you want to eat lamb skewers and drink drinks, come with me, or you can play at home for a while and go to bed until half past nine. ”

My son reluctantly went out with me, and the happiness of the child's troubles in life also came to my heart. I looked up at the sky, and sometimes there would be light clouds blocking out the twinkling stars, and after the light wind, the clouds would drift away, and the stars would still be as bright as before. The scene is the same as the growth of a child. Being angry about the failures and troubles in your child's growth will only turn the light clouds over the family into dark clouds, adding endless sorrow to the family out of thin air, and even evolving into sin.

Wednesday finally came, and my son came to my office just after the afternoon extracurricular activities to show me his homework, which was the first time he had completed his homework in full ahead of schedule. I said happily, "Joy, you have a clear purpose. ”

"Of course. Dad, I'll go up and tell my mom that today's cooking task will be all for her, and you can teach me to play 'Swordsman Love' when you get home, oh, Dad!" my son coaxed me.

"The key is whether your mother agrees or not. I said.

The son ran away. After work, my son's pleasant words came from the corridor. "Dad, hurry up. My son pushed open the office door and shook his head at me. His movements were like induced currents, and I obediently stood up, gave the training plan to the students, and followed him out of the school building.

As soon as he left the school gate, his son lifted his leg and got on the bicycle, and his foot went crazy against the pedal, as if he didn't want to leave a little strength on his legs. When I got to the club square, I said, "Slow down. There are a lot of people and cars here. ”

"It's fine. I have the technology. ”

"No technology, no technology is used when something happens. ”

"There are a lot of people on the main road, let's go on the small road, it's safe now!" The son turned the handlebars and drove towards the small road not far away, and turned around and added: "Dad, keep up." ”

My wife was left behind, I shook my head, smiled, and chased my son with a limp. "Get home safely" is a smug ending, and the son shows the ruggedness of a northern man.

Open the door. "Daddy, you help me get the car in," the son said briskly as he walked home. I pushed the car into the yard and just put it away. Listen to my son shouting:

"Daddy, come here, everything is ready. ”

"I'll take a look at the stove first. I said.

But my son rushed over from the back room and dragged me and said, "Dad, Mommy will be back soon." The stove showed her to see. ”

No way, my son and I went to the back room. I'm explaining to him how to play the smart game "Swordsman Love" and what to look out for. The wife is back. She said, "Don't you want to eat?" ”

"Shhh The son put his index finger to his lips and made a mysterious gesture.

"Fuck off, playing games is tighter than eating. The wife pushed her son and said.

Mom scolded herself again. ”

"You little bad, see how I clean you up. ”

"Mom, please, we're at a critical moment. ”

"Then have mercy on you!" the wife went to watch the stove cook.

Everything in the world has a place to figure out. After I explained the main points of the game, the secrets and techniques of this kind of game were completely meaningless, and the rest was self-improvement. My son hit the door a few times and touched the doorway, and he openly said that he didn't want me anymore. He said, "Dad, you can help your mother cook." ”

After listening to the child's words, I thought: playing games can lead one to ten, and the road to life growth is actually the process of leading one to ten.

The meal is ready. "Joy – eating. The wife shouted a few times, but the son just said yes but no one was seen. I had to go to the back room and drag him to the dining table, facing the rice bowl and feeling stupid between the child's ruddy and delicate features. I thought to myself: What happened to my son, who used to talk nonsense when he ates, today? I asked puzzledly, "Joy, why don't you talk today?"

"I'm thinking about the problem. ”

"What will the little doll's family think about? The wife said.

"Why do I die faster the braver I play?" said the son, "Dad, what does this mean?"

The son thought he would immerse himself in the characters and asked a very good question. I felt very sweet, and I was excited and wanted to answer immediately, but when I thought about it, this was a good educational opportunity, so I had to think about it. I complimented, "Joy, you're smart enough to find out what's wrong with the game in such a short amount of time." I'll tell you a story. ”

"Don't listen. I asked me how the braver I was, the faster I died, who told the story. ”

The answer to your question is in the story. Do you listen?" I said.

"Speak quickly. ”

It is said that Qin Qiong, Luo Cheng, and Cheng Yanjin were walking on the road and met Yang Lin and the Thirteen Taibao. Luo Cheng thought that he was superior in martial arts, and he had never met an opponent in the world, so he shook the big gun and said, 'Yang Lin Lao'er is here with his life' and rushed forward. Qin Qiong thought that he was wise and brave and fought with all his might, and it was no problem for the Thirteen Taibao to rush forward. Yang Lin has been in the killing field for a long time, and as soon as he saw this formation, he immediately asked the Thirteen Taibao and Luo Cheng to start a wheel battle, and instructed that Luo Cheng's martial arts were strong and each person should not fight with him for more than two rounds. After he takes Qin Qiong, he will fight Luo Cheng together. As soon as the two sides fought, the actual situation was completely opposite to what Qin Qiong and Luo Cheng thought. One is entangled and can't get out, and the other is not as good as others. Cheng Yanjin looked at this formation and knew that he knew that Yang Lin knew all the moves, and it would be a death to rush up. Cheng bit Jinsa's leg and ran, and when he was ready to roll the wood thunder stone on the mountain road, he returned. At this time, Qin Qiong's situation was extremely critical, and Cheng Yanjin shouted, "Yang Lin, I'm fighting with you." At this time, Cheng Biting Jin rushed to the Thirteenth Taibao. The Thirteenth Taibao was shocked by Cheng Biting Jin's reverse shape, and thought that Cheng Biting Jin had that little ability, as long as he came over and poked him to death. But when he saw Cheng Biting Jin running closer, he turned the plate axe into a flying axe and threw it at the Thirteen Taibao, who lacked precautions against this sudden change, and quickly dodged, and at this moment Luo Cheng rushed out of the encirclement. Luo Cheng saw that Qin Qiong was in danger, so he rushed over, and with a shake of the five-hook divine flying spear, he came up with a 'plum blossom nine nod' trick, Yang Lin was startled, and hurriedly lifted the horse backwards. Luo Cheng shouted: 'Qin Qiong, run. ’

'Thirteen Taibao quickly stop them,' Yang Lin hurriedly shouted.

The Thirteenth Taibao had never seen a battle and a way of running away with weapons, and was wondering about Cheng Jin's back, and when he heard Yang Lin's shout and came back to his senses, Qin Qiong and Luo Cheng had already run over from their sides.

'You've bitten the gold and shook the axe on the way. Yang Lin said.

"Uncle, there is only one shot in the book of war, and there is no mention of an axe!" asked the Thirteenth Taibao puzzled.

'Dead Brain Sutra,' Yang Lin shook his head angrily. He said, 'Their horsepower is not enough, so let us catch them.' 'Yang Lin led the Thirteen Taibao into the mountain, and seeing that he was about to catch up, Cheng Yanjin pushed down the Rolling Wood Thunder Stone from the mountain to block Yang Lin's way and save Qin Qiong and Luo Cheng, may I ask why?"

"The stone rolls down from the mountain, and no matter how high the martial arts are, no matter how high the martial arts are, they can't stop it. The son said.

"Cheng Yanjin is the weakest in martial arts among them, but he has become a winner. Think about it, what is the association between your game and this story?"

"I made the mistake of Qin Qiong and Luo Cheng," the son said, "I don't have enough strength, and I always want to fight hard with my opponent." I should learn from Cheng Yanjin to run if I can't beat it, and think of other ways. ”

"Joy, you are too smart. I said, "Greatness and success in the world sometimes need to move forward, but most of the time it is achieved through compromise and consolidation." ”

The son happily ran to the computer.

After watching the "Focus Interview", I went to my son's side and saw that he was fighting many giant bats in a cave. The mouse kept sliding in his hand. After hitting the cave, he said, "Dad, I'm highly skilled, do you know what methods of warfare I use?"

"I don't know. ”

"I'm not good at my skills, I use sports warfare as a whole, and I always break down the opponent one by one in the retreat. ”

My son's words stirred me up. Words that seem useless in previous storytelling, camping, or that children simply don't understand. He used it all at this moment. Think about our great leader Grandpa Mao wanted to teach Mr. Chen to fight back then, which is basically what he said. At this time. I really understood what philosophy is – the uselessness of the great.

After a while, I felt that it was not early, and when I came out of the study, it was 9:20, "Wang Xile, it's time to go to bed," I said.

"It's so fast, it's not fun," he said down the hallway, "and there's still ten minutes to go." ”

"Did you take a break in between?" the son was sad, standing in front of the computer and refusing to turn off the game, frustrated. I said sternly, "Do you want to play games in the future?"

"Yes. ”

"That's what it does. Hopefully, you'll make a decision within a minute. I'll be waiting for you in the study, ready to rest after five minutes of attention training. ”

The son turned off the computer and came over and asked, "Dad, what are you doing with attention?"

"You lean against the wall and close your eyes, and in five minutes your brain doesn't think of anything and becomes empty. ”

The son closed his eyes.

"The time has come. What's going on?"

"No, I can't. As soon as you close your eyes and your mind is full of games. ”

"It means that your self-control still needs to be greatly tempered. ”

The son fell asleep in the story of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".

In the blink of an eye, in the middle of December, that Friday, the beautiful weather was exciting, and my wife said that everyone would go to shabu shabu together in the evening to make it lively. At the end of school, my son ran up in a hurry. Today is the day he plays games. Before he could speak, I preemptively said, "Joy, I have good news for you." ”

"What's the news?"

"We'll take you to shabu-shabu in a moment. ”

"I'm not going. ”

"Why?"

"Today, Friday, is my time to play with the computer. "I don't speak. The son stood there, and after a while, said, "Dad, what time is the shabu-shabu finished? If it's too late to play the game, you'll be delayed!"

I stood up and combed his hair, rubbed his face, tried to dispel his sorrow, and said, "Aren't you called the king bold?

"Shabu-shabu, eat mutton!" The melancholy on his son's face swept away, and he ran out with renewed enthusiasm.

In the evening, the shabu-shabu was a school of five couples, and everyone agreed to bring their children with them.

The children always have a gust of wind when they are full, and when they are full, they play crazy together, and they don't feel like it's ten o'clock. "Come here, Wang Xile," I said.

"Dad, I've eaten enough. ”

"I'm not asking you to eat. Didn't you say you wanted to go home and play on the computer?"

"It's more lively to play with children when you don't play. ”

The son ran away after speaking. I am glad to know that the most attractive thing for children is the play and communication between children, because there is true love in the world.

The party is over. We got home at eleven o'clock.

"Dad, I'm going to play with the computer. The son's round face looked simple and stubborn, and his eyes were full of anticipation.

"What time is it?" I asked.

"Eleven o'clock. ”

"So we said what time do we play on the computer?"

"In the past, when I could play every day, it was no more than eleven o'clock at the latest. After the rules were in place, I didn't say what time I played on Friday and Saturday?"

It's so good for my son to take advantage of this hole. If he refutes, he will say that the rules do not state that they will be followed next time. Usually, I always feel that children are small and ignorant, but in fact, children are using their own unique thinking to think about things in life.

I propped my hands on the back of my chair, and my brain struggled fiercely. My son's hands were shaking. At this moment, I understand that children have far more requirements for life than adults, but their requirements are not as utilitarian as adults. For this reason, adults will think that children are stupid, and it is just adults who are stupid here, and their childlike innocence and happiness are not extinguished. The child's expectant eyes made me understand that every bit of the child's own requirements are fragile in front of adults, and as long as the adult has a slightly utilitarian idea, all innocence will die.

"You can play. But there's a requirement. I said.

"What are you asking?" the son's eyes flashed.

"How long do you play, can you turn off the computer?"

"Two hours. The son whispered.

"That means playing until late at night and finishing your homework tomorrow morning, right?"

"Yes. ”

"Every hour of play, you have to leave the computer and rest for 15 minutes, and the game ends at 1:15. I patted him on the shoulder.

I used kind and encouraging gestures in the hope of strengthening my son's self-control. He played, and at twelve o'clock he left the computer and ran to the living room. "Joy is a child with self-control," I said happily. The son smiled. He sat down next to me and talked about the offense, defense, and escalation of the game, and he spoke quickly, very clearly and competently, although his voice was a little hoarse when he played with the children, but he spoke clearly.

"Dad, it's time to break, I'm going to play. ”

"Joy, Dad finished watching TV, and turned off the computer on time at 1:15. ”

"No problem. ”

Lying in bed, a sense of uneasiness could not go away from my mind. Children are interested in high-intelligence games, and taking the initiative to turn off the computer is something that can only be accomplished with tremendous self-control. Self-control does not arise from compassion and preaching, it requires enough experience to have. Is my son's experience enough?

In a kind of questioning sleep, I opened my eyes violently in ignorance, I looked out through the crack in the door, there was no light, the child went to sleep, and I closed my eyes with satisfaction. Suddenly, the ear heard the sound of a mouse. I put on my clothes and walked to the back room. I pushed open the door to the back room and turned on the light, and my son leaned against the back wall in fright, his head hanging and waiting for criticism. I looked at the computer and said, "Joy, you can turn off the computer according to the operating procedures in your hectic situation, which is better than last time." Do you know what time it is?"

"It's past two o'clock. The son said, "There is time on the computer." ”

"You're just watching your self-control defeat you?" I said, "Dad hopes Wang Xile will win next time." Hurry up and go to bed, I have to do my homework tomorrow. ”

The son stood still. In the silence, "Thank you, Dad," the son said clearly in a low voice, bowing his head and walking into the bedroom.

When I got up the next day, I saw my son's bedroom door open and walked in – there was no one. I wondered, on weekdays, he usually slept until 10 o'clock on every rest day, and it stands to reason that he slept late yesterday, so why did he get up so early today? I think that man is an animal of feelings, and once his feelings are respected, he will act.

I stood beside my son's bed and took a deep breath, when I heard the sound of my son reciting ancient poems coming from the front. I walked into the study and asked curiously, "Why don't you sleep today?"

"I have a lot of homework today, so I finish it early to buy time for the afternoon and tomorrow. ”

My son's answer made me understand that I was thinking that I was being amorous. The child's eyes are full of attachment to play, and it is this attachment that makes him want to get it and act willingly. After reciting the poem, he vented his energy on the homework book. For a moment, I felt that all the thoughts and curiosity of a person depend on whether he has an active heart, and only a living heart can make people constantly generate new actions, so as to accumulate the power of progress and improve the character.

In the face of perception, I am more worried about the difficulties in front of me. After the son finishes his homework and eats lunch, he has to start playing games, and he has to watch cartoons until 5 o'clock, and he has to play games after lunch, and he has to play games at least until 11 o'clock at night, which is nearly 10 hours! I said:

"Joy, if you can get up early to write your homework, it means that you are improving, but you should pay attention to quality and accuracy in your homework, which is your biggest weakness. ”

As soon as I left the house, it was cold outside, and I shivered all over, and when the reaction caused by the cold silence disappeared, I felt that the worry in my heart was even heavier.

Walk on the road to the desert park. What worries me is that my son has moved to do his homework early and play more games. Games are a good thing, and playing for too long will cause great harm, but the temptation of smart games is so strong, how to keep children at a reasonable level, children lack the least self-control. What a conundrum!

Looking out over the forest road lined by poplar trees in the desert park, it just so happened that a flock of sparrows flew overhead, and a bird droppings landed on my hand. The flock of sparrows caught my eye. They landed not far away, and although it was winter, they were not as lively as they were chattering. My heart moved, and I thought: Didn't my son give up playing games yesterday in order to play with children, and it seems that he is still trying to find a way to play. It's time for me to have lunch when I get back from the park. I asked my son if he had finished his homework, and he raised the corners of his mouth and said with a bright smile:

"It's going to be over right away. ”

After lunch, my son didn't talk much, and after eating, he went back to the study. The wife urged, "Eat quickly." After packing up my land to go for beauty. ”

"It's still early!" I said.

"What's early, it's too late, there's no seat. ”

"There you go. I said, "Home, I'll clean up." ”

My wife gave me some secret advice and went out. After tidying up the kitchen, I went out and saw the sun hanging high in the sky, the sky was clear and clear, it was very pleasant, and I had an idea in my heart. At this time, the son ran out of the house and said eagerly, "Dad, my homework is finished!"

The son's voice trembled. I grabbed the time before he could speak again, "Joy, Dad is playing three games of 10 cards with you, see if your level has improved." ”

"I don't want to play. He said with a shrug.

"You're not good at it?"

"Who said that. ”

"I've just finished speaking. ”

"Three plates," the son didn't ring. After a while he said, "Three sets don't take much time. It's like I can't beat you. You lost me three sets in a row the day before yesterday!"

"That's six cards per person, ten cards per person today, it's a lot more difficult. ”

"Hurry up. The son was a little angry and said heavily.

In poker I asked, "Joy, do people need to be cared for?"

"Yes. ”

"Do people and things need to be cared for?"

"What else do you need to care about? ”

"You don't care if the pencil affects your writing, you don't care if the stove gets cold, you don't care if you don't care about the trees, you don't have green. ”

"Something needs to be cared for. The son nodded impatiently and said.

"There's something we need to care about right now. ”

"What's that?"

"Remember the little dam?"

"Yes. ”

"Suoyang there needs our attention urgently. ”

"Why?"

"Now that the Suoyang has grown, just wait for the spring to emerge, if we go and dig out the Suoyang that has grown today, its roots will grow as long as possible. ”

"This, this, this.

"It's beautiful when you say it, but when you actually say it, you can't do it. Let me ask you, were you happy when you dug up Suoyang at the small dam?"

"Happy"

"The friends who bring you joy don't care, what can you care about when you grow up?"

"Why are Suoyang friends!" the son asked with his mouth wide open.

"Everything on earth is a friend of man. A friend is more than just a person. ”

"But, but," the son squeaked.

"There is nothing but help for friends. You've made progress in your second year, are you spending more time on your studies?"

"It's not. ”

"Why is it progressing?"

"I think I'm a little happier in the second grade than I am in the first grade. ”

"In the second grade, you played a lot of things, and the level was higher, and playing brought you happiness, are those things you play your friends?"

"Yes. ”

"Life has to go through different stages and encounter all kinds of things, such as the heroes in mythology, Sui and Tang dynasties, and Water Margin, do they all have joyful and sad experiences between people and people, people and things?"

"Yes. ”

"Do you remember the last time you went to Huxi to get bird eggs?"

"Yes. ”

"Birds nest in remote places because they know they are at risk of being wiped out. The bird was spared when he met his good friend Wang Xile. What if you run into someone else?" I asked, taking my son's hand.

"That's hard to say. The son said proudly.

"Everyone will encounter many difficulties in life, but as long as people learn to love the weak, they will gain the trust and friendship of nature, and the difficulties will be reduced. ”

"Why?"

"Look at the pattern on this piece of wood, do you know what you can do?"

"I don't know. ”

"It lets people know the age of the tree and tell the north-south direction. I said, "This is the power of nature's friends." Is it difficult to find Suoyang in winter?"

"Difficult. ”

"But Dad can find it. Every object in nature has properties that help people. If you can become friends with them, no matter where you go, it is not easy to get lost, and it is not easy for too big a disaster to happen, this is the true meaning of friends all over the world. But then again, if you care about the friends who bring you joy in nature, you will never really care about your father and mother in the future, let alone care about the country! Do you want to be that kind of child?"

"I don't want to. ”

"Then you start with the pit that cares about the little dam. ”

"Then let's finish playing cards and go see Suoyang's friends. ”

"Two to one. I win, I win!" the child jumped up from the couch.

"Joy, your poker skills are improving so fast. ”

"Dad, let's go. ”

My son pushed the bicycle out, and I was so happy that I couldn't tell how happy it was. I put a smile on my face and was about to speak, when my son said:

"Dad, quick. ”

At this moment, I began to believe that education is a panacea, but human beings have not yet discovered the way of education. I pushed out the car and said, "Joy, your car is small and slow, go to the beauty salon and change your mother's car." ”

"Ride a big bike! That 10 kilometers is a piece of cake. The son patted his thigh and said.

I rejoiced at my unconscious decision, and unabashedly rejoiced with the child, saying, "Riding on the big car, Wang Xile must be very majestic." ”

When I got to the beauty salon, I saw that there were only three cars. Didn't my wife say that there were a lot of people in the beauty salon? I entered the front hall to realize that her words were true, it was full of people, the air was shrouded in leisure and helplessness, everyone's expressions were idle, silent, and the only thing they could do was wait. The son ran straight inside, he was familiar with the place. "You will run away again. Has your dad cleaned up the house?" came his wife's voice.

"Cleaned up. ”

"Is the ground dragging?"

"Dragged on. ”

"Is there plastering on the furniture?"

"Mom, don't ask, give me the car keys quickly. ”

"In the bag. ”

"Mom, don't forget to push my little cart back when you leave. ”

The son came out of it laughing and laughing. As soon as he walked out of the beauty salon door, he asked, "Dad, have you cleaned up your house?"

"Nope. ”

"I lied to my mom, what should I do?"

"It's fine. ”

"Why? Don't you often say that lying is the most terrible thing a person can do?"

"Rejoice, there is a good and a bad sense of lying. Lying today is well-intentioned, and like an adult joking, it doesn't hurt. And maliciously lying will not only harm oneself but also others, which is the greatest evil in the world, and it is cursed. ”

After my son heard my words, the speed of the car increased significantly. Ride for two kilometers and look around, there is nothing to excite the eyes. Happiness is created by people. As soon as I accelerated past my son, he immediately overtook me. The son's emotions reached the extreme, saying: "The big car is energetic." At this time, my son seems to have become a hero of the world, and as soon as he surpasses me, he will always say proudly, "Dad, look at how fast I am." Then he giggled and walked forward. When I got to the toll booth I said, "Five kilometers, take a break?"

"Nope. Not tired at all, let's ride all the way to the dam. ”

"Are you okay?" I asked.

"Are you okay?"

My son's words were like a desert fountain, which refreshed my mind, and his self-consciousness sprouted.

"If my son can do it, my father will do it. ”

"Forward!" exclaimed his son.

Yes, all the difficulties in the world will not be difficult for a child with a strong heart.

The dam arrived.

"Tired?" I asked.

"It's not tired, it's just too hot. The son said, "The clothes inside are soaked with sweat." ”

"Daddy too," I said, "you're much faster than last time." ”

During the winter I affirmed my child's progress and proved his progress with evidence. I took my shovel off the car and headed for the dam. The dam, as usual, was nothing but a few crooked trees. The alkaline sand soil was trampled on by the "squeak", and my heart couldn't help but get nervous, "It's so dry, has Suoyang grown?" ”

As for his son, he was very happy to jump around, and kept saying that he would definitely be able to dig a lot of Suoyang today. The closer he got to the dam, the deeper the smile on his face. When I got to the dam, I asked him to find the place where Suoyang was dug last time, but he couldn't find it. I led him to the place where the sun was long, "The wind and sand here are so strong that everything is blown away without a trace. I pointed to the ground and said, "But it's not the same with experienced people." Suoyang is just below. ”

"Dad, dig quickly, there are a lot of locks below. The son said happily.

Why don't I hope. I watched for a while, and was sure that no one else had dug it, so I crouched down and scraped the sand with a shovel. The long-grown lock is only twenty or thirty centimeters above the ground. With the sound of scraping, my brain was buzzing, and my squatting body seemed to be squeezed out of breath, and the hot blood rose to my face, and the hot, shovel was suddenly blocked by a kind thing. I said excitedly, "Suoyang." ”

"Where?"

"Right next to the spade," I said, drawing the spade, "joy, you come and plan." ”

The son slashed with his small hand, and a big pink lock yang head was exposed, "lock yang" he shouted excitedly.

"You dig to the side. I said and picked up.

One seedling, one seedling, another seedling...... , in front of my eyes is a patch of pink. My son was in a warm mood, counting the sun, and I seemed to feel that the earth was injecting him with the energy of success. "How many seedlings?" I asked.

"Thirty-five seedlings. Much more than last time. ”

"Joy, which is the result of loving the roots, is also called sustainable development. Do you know what the roots of a student are?"

"Study well. ”

"Wrong. ”

"The teacher said that students have to study well. ”

"Wrong. ”

"You're still a teacher! What do you mean when you say that students' roots aren't good at learning?"

"It's the heart. ”

"Heart!

"Always self-motivated. ”

"Whoever is not motivated does not want to get good grades. ”

"Joy, the kind of heart that only wants to do well in exams is not self-motivated. ”

"Daddy wasn't right. When teachers criticize students who are not good at studying, they often say that they lack self-motivation, and I don't know how many times I have been told that the teachers of various subjects teach us every day to be self-motivated and strive for good results. ”

"Joy and self-motivation are a kind of consciousness and action that constantly surpasses oneself. You have shown true self-motivation today. ”

"What?"

"You didn't rest at the toll booth when you came, do you have the idea of conquering the ten kilometers in one go?"

"Yes. ”

"That's what real motivation is. I said, "I'll ask you again, why do you want to study?"

"Reading for the rise of the Chinese nation. ”

"It's a kind of slogan that the teacher teaches. I said, "What do you want to do when you study?"

"Go to university.

"This is also taught by the teacher. ”

"Then I don't know what I'm studying for. ”

"That's normal. It is impossible for a child to understand why he or she wants to read before he or she is fifteen or sixteen years old, and education is all about finding the answer for him. The extreme pursuit of scores in learning is a comparative, not self-motivated. ”

My son didn't speak, because I started to pick up a shovel to get the lock yang, and he told me to pay attention to protect the root of the lock yang. It was already half past four after digging the lock sun. The beautiful weather and the happy results make people feel leisurely. On the road, my son said he didn't have to rest and could ride home all the time. My son was happy to say it, and I was even happier when I heard it. He walked down the road and asked, "Dad, can I play with the computer when I go back?"

"Today Saturday, playing with the computer is your right. ”

The son raised his eyes in the direction of home, "Daddy, speed up," and he rushed to the front. In the first half, my son's physical strength was okay, but he couldn't ride after the toll booth. "Rest?" I asked.

"Nope. I can do it. ”

The son gasped for breath and kept going, doing his best to achieve his goal. At five o'clock, I rode to the building community and saw that there were people playing in the community. Son says:

"Dad, you go back first, I'll play for a while." ”

As soon as the scene of playing appeared, the child's fatigue flew to the sky - play is really a divine object given to the child by God.

When I got home, my wife hadn't come back from the beauty salon yet. My son came back at six o'clock, "Why did you come back like that?" I asked.

"There were only three people playing, and I let the adults call them away, so I came back to play the game. The son said. After a while, he said, "Dad, I thought I had hit Lin'an, is my skill high?"

"High. It's really high. I said.

"But I walked around Lin'an several times, and I couldn't find the place I was looking for. ”

"Looking for something in Lin'an is a test of people's memory and direction, and the place that has been found is not repeated and can be found. ”

As the night darkens, the moon crept up like a beauty. I felt that there was someone behind me, and I was about to turn back, and my wife pinched my son's ears and me with her hands, and said, "This is the home you cleaned up, Wang Xile, you should join forces with your father to deceive your mother." ”

"Mom - that's not a lie, it's a white lie, it's a joke with you. ”

"It's the same flavor as your old man, flamboyant, stop playing, hurry up and get to work. ”

"This, this, this. "My son is in a quandary.

"Dad made a mistake, and Dad took responsibility. I'll do it alone, you can play. I said.

"Heh, I'm really good at pretending to be a good person, and I pulled my son away in one sentence," his wife kissed her face and said, "Let's play, Mom is also joking with you." ”

After doing housework, eating dinner, chatting with his wife. At the beginning of the German Football League, I was about to tell my son that it was not too early, but he ran out of the back room and said: "Dad, the computer is off, I will go to sleep first." ”

"Joy, you are awesome, you have self-control. I went up and kissed him.

The son went into the bedroom. After a while, "Good night Dad, you can go to bed early if you are tired today!" Suddenly, a deep sublimation of father-son love filled the heart, making the whole body numb and crispy.