The attitude towards my son's littering of plastic bags in the camping has been rumbling in my mind for the past few days. I kept asking myself: What kind of moral education can bring about changes in children's hearts? I am sure of one thing: a didactic moral education based on memorization will never produce good results.

Man is an emotional animal. I think it is only when something constantly stimulates his emotions that his moral heart changes. On that day, I chose "Unexpected Brutality" from "The Beacon of the Anti-Japanese War" as the educational model for my son's subjective consciousness. The article reads:

When the Lugou Bridge War broke out, I was convinced that Beiping would not be lost, so once Beiping was lost, I left Beiping. But on the way, I was caught by the Japanese military police, and I said I was a businessman, but they still kept me in the detention center for five days.

I walked into a dark, damp detention center with a line of seven or eight people. When I saw what was going on, I was shocked, I was dizzy.

The eight of them didn't have noses, and when they looked at it again, the purple blood in their ears had congealed into a pile, replacing the original position of the ears. Eight men strung together with a single wire, and through their mouths, they pierced their cheeks through two holes, and the wire passed through the middle of their teeth, like a rope for tying horses.

These most heroic fighters of the Chinese nation were the security guards of the anti-Japanese resistance in Beiping. When the other Chinese troops withdrew from Beiping, they still put up stubborn resistance in the western suburbs, and later they were captured and treated like this!

They had been arrested for two days, and they had been dragged out for torture every day, and when they could not be asked, the Japanese beasts replaced the wire that had passed through their mouths with a red-hot one, and at this time, a fishy stench entered their noses, and a sound like fried fritters penetrated their ears. And that's not all, there is a "new invention" in Japan, which is said to be cutting rib bones. Four of the security guards have lost their first ribs. It is said that this is a "new invention" of a famous Japanese medical doctor, who first experimented with us Chinese. These security guards are the test subjects of this cruel medical doctor.

Also, the calves of the eight of them were cut into slits one by one, and I can't tell what kind of medicine was put in them. When they are in the hall, tell them to kneel and press the bar on their calves so that the muscles are flattened.

Strangely, these eight tenacious warriors, under the torture of this brutality, are not dead, they can still let out a low moan, and they have a body that used to be very "good" and can still speak. He said to me, "You can go out, and I want you to go out so that we may die...... Tell the people of the whole country and the whole world that it is worth it for the whole country to fight Japan to the end, and that it is worth it for us to die. He probably said this, because the wire had passed through his mouth, and the words were inarticulate and weak.

Three days later, one of the eight died, and he was the squad leader of the security team. When he died, he whispered, "Look at the Japanese robbers!" and he softened, so that the wire added weight to the mouths of the other seven. And I took hold of the dead man, and made him stand. My tears flowed like a tidal wave on the face of the deceased, dissolving his congealed blood.

It was only after a day that the Japanese robbers took him off the wire. They took the dead man by the hands and pulled him out like a dead pig. I covered my eyes. I can't bear to look at it. Anger exploded in my heart, and I couldn't take it anymore.

On this very day, the man who opened the door told me to go out. I waited quietly for the shooting, and luckily released me. I escaped and died nothing, but fortunately, the brutality of the Japanese bandits and the tragic death of the heroic eight soldiers of my motherland were able to be reported before the people of China and the whole world!

I have repeatedly pondered the dialectical relationship between this article and the inner motivation of human subjectivity. On that day, I was particularly aware of the full meaning of emotional education, and a whole paragraph of the moral character of the experience naturally appeared in my mind. Although these reasons seem intangible, they converge into the phrase "people live and die together with love".

After dinner, I went about my usual memory training and study plan. At nine o'clock, my son finished his homework and took out the animation cards to play, and he was very energetic to play. I looked at him with affectionate, warm eyes. This caught his son's attention, "Daddy, why are you staring at me all the time?" he asked.

"Daddy wants to ask you a question. ”

"What's the problem?"

"Why do you want to study?"

"In order to learn to settle accounts and not to be deceived, in order to be able to read things without accidents. The son replied without thinking.

"It seems that the influence of life education is definitely greater than that of teachers' classroom education." Thinking of this, I said, "No. ”

"Why not? That's what you said during the New Year. ”

My son's words reaffirmed me of how important the impact in my life is to my child's development. I said, "Joy, you're right, but it's only a small aspect. Come here, I'll read you an article called 'Unexpected Brutality', and it will tell you why you want to study. ”

After reading the article, I said with a smile: "This matter has only passed more than fifty years, although China has made progress but not yet, Dad hopes that you will always remember that you are a Chinese, people are weak will inevitably be bullied by others, the country is the same, you must become strong and contribute to the country in the future." ”

"The Japanese are so bad. The son stared at Qing Qing and said, "Dad, make yourself strong Isn't your body particularly strong, like our Ban Han Kaifeng, with infinite strength." ”

"Joy, strength is only a small aspect, not what Dad wants to say. The most powerful thing about people is the ability to do things through learning. The formation of this ability goes through a very difficult process. It is not right for some parents to beat and scold their children because they are not good at studying, learning is the most important thing in a person's life, but it has little to do with the level of test scores. The main purpose of learning is to make your brain better and better, and to be able to quickly come up with good ways to deal with and solve problems when you encounter things, which is the performance of good learning. However, in the future, if you make a mistake, I will make you read 'Unexpected Cruelty', and I will only beat you if you do something evil. ”

"Dad, what kind of thing is evil?"

"Dad doesn't know either, but when it comes time to hit you, you'll understand. ”

"Ding Ding Ding" It was half past nine, and the clock of the watch for my son to go to bed rang. We went to the bedroom, and I said, "Joy, do you still want to play games?"

"Think, I'm going crazy. But you won't let you play. ”

"It's not that you won't be allowed to play. It's not right for you to go to an internet café to play games. We don't have a computer at home, so we will go to Yinchuan to buy one during the May Day holiday. I said, "Before you get it back, you can play in your mother's office after school." ”

"You're really my good dad. My son jumped up from the ground and put his arms around my neck and said. After a burst of enthusiasm, we said goodnight to each other. I was about to go out when my son suddenly asked, "Dad, what's the difference between playing games at Mom's and playing games in an Internet café?"

The son asks an excellent growth question.

"It doesn't make a difference in the game, but it's outside the game," I said, "isn't there a lot of smokers in the arcade?"

"Yes. ”

"There are a lot of people who swear?"

"Yes. ”

"Dad drank a bottle of wine, although he was drunk, but it was good to get some sleep. If you let a child of your age drink such a big glass, just one glass of wine, you will become a foolish vegetative person. Dad didn't become a fool or a vegetative person when he drank because our physical development stopped, and you were at the peak of your development. "I said than painted.

"I don't drink again!" the son wondered.

"By the way, you don't drink. But there's something better than wine in an Internet café. I said in an accentuated tone.

"What's that?"

"Smoke. ”

"I don't smoke!"

"But you have inhaled the cigarettes that others have spit out," I said, "have you ever seen the cigarette oil?"

"Yes. ”

"E-liquid seeds the size of millet grains can poison a large mouse. ”

"That's amazing!"

"It's the time when your brain is growing at a high rate, and smoke is not good for brain development. You used to say that rollerblading is not a bad habit to learn, but then did you have more uncivilized languages such as 'master' and 'fuck'?"

"Yes. ”

"Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. The impact of some things on people is intangible, and it is not a matter of whether you want to learn or not. In short, there is nothing wrong with the game, but the environment of the Internet café may make you the kind of weak person that the family and the country do not need. ”

"Internet cafes are so powerful!" the son said suspiciously.

"It's past ten o'clock. I won't go to school tomorrow. His wife's voice came from that side.

The son fell asleep. I went to my wife and told her what I thought about the game. "Neuropathy. Other families try their best not to let their children play games, and you can just play in the office, and you are ready to buy and let them play. I can't talk about you. The problem with the computer is simple, and the problem is solved as soon as you shell out the money. However, I can warn you once again that your royal family is concerned about such a male grandson as Wang Xile, and you can do it yourself. If you don't think about improving your child's academic performance all day long, you will engage in these useless things. The wife finished what she wanted to say in one breath, turned around and fell asleep unexpectedly.