Chapter 192 Husband and wife are one, how to empathize
Wang Dasheng complained to Wang Nannan and said, if you don't leave the computer on all day and think about writing whenever you have time, who can find those documents so quickly and copy them? .
When Jiang Xi said this, he imitated Wang Dasheng's tone, and my scalp twitched when I heard it.
These words are simply putting all the responsibility on Wang Nannan's head, which is equivalent to saying that because Wang Nannan wrote, the factory went bankrupt, can she not be sad and desperate to the point of collapse? I think, people can't stand it, right?
Even if Wang Dasheng went out to brag before, in his heart, he actually always felt that Wang Nannan was insisting on a futile thing, so once an uncontrollable bad thing happened, this futile little thing would be pulled out and used as a scapegoat. Jiang Xi shook his head, leaned against the head of the bed and sighed, "Ahem"!
"So what now?"
If they really are...... If the grievances are deep, even if Jiang Xi writes the script, Wang Dasheng will do everything he can to make the script into a TV series, and it is estimated that it will not do much good to ease the relationship between the two of them!
"The bell must be tied to the bell, I guess she doesn't know the stupid things Wang Dasheng did for Wang Nannan, if she knows one day......" Jiang Xi covered his eyes, feeling that the road ahead was gloomy.
However, for the next period of time, Jiang Xi finally stopped pulling her few hairs, and the keyboard at home was like the keys of a piano, making a rhythmic and pleasant sound under her hands.
One day I also saw Jiang Xi making a video call with Wang Nannan, in the video, Wang Nannan has changed from lying down to sitting, and her complexion looks much better, but there is still a white bracket tied to her upper body, which looks a little bloated and funny.
"Okay, then I'll accompany you to the hospital tomorrow for a follow-up. After Jiang Xi finished the last sentence, he waved goodbye to Wang Nannan in the video.
After turning off the video, Jiang Xi leaned back in the chair and tapped his fingers on the table.
I walked over and asked her, "What's the matter?"
"I'm thinking...... How to fool her tomorrow to stop by and see a psychiatrist. "Jiang Xi was blunt with me, and this was an idea she had mentioned to me the other day.
"Is she okay with seeing a psychiatrist?"
"I didn't mention it just now, but I've been knocking on her side, and I have shared a lot of medical documents with her before, and she insisted that she is mentally normal and has no problems...... She seems to have wavered a little in the past few days. ”
I nodded, deeply impressed by Jiang Xi's ability. Modern society is stressful, the streets are full of smiles, seemingly sunny people, but I don't know how many are deeply troubled by mental illness, often in the dead of night, some people have insomnia, some people are anxious, but really let them face the dark side of their hearts, I am afraid that few people will willingly reveal it.
After all, drunk people have to hold on to saying that they are not drunk even if they hold on to the wall and stagger, and few patients admitted to psychiatric hospitals take the initiative to admit that they have mental illness and are willing to cooperate with treatment.
Fortunately, when Jiang Xi came back the next afternoon, with a smile on his face and a song in his mouth, I hurriedly asked, "It's done?"
"Of course, my preparation is extremely sufficient, didn't I go out the morning before yesterday? I actually went to the hospital, and then hung up an expert I am quite optimistic about, I went directly to chat with him for a while, I recommended this expert to Wang Nannan today, saying that I had seen him before, it was very reliable, and she did not refuse. ”
"You're the most dedicated I've ever met...... No, helping to write the script and accompanying the doctor is simply unprecedented, and Mr. Jiang is really the first wonderful person in ancient and modern times. ”
I grinned and gave her a thumbs up, I hadn't been a sycophant for a long time, and I had to practice it when I had the chance, lest this skill be rusty.
Jiang Xi smiled, with a smug expression, and seemed to be very affected by this wave of sycophants, but then again, Jiang Xi didn't seem to have any sycophants that were not used.
She was in a good mood and said, "I take Wang Nannan as a friend, and I should have more snacks for my friends!"
I snickered, "Okay, okay, you also have a snack on the script, so the bad guy Wang Dasheng is two million with a stroke of the pen." ”
"Oh, yes, I've made a decision on this matter. Jiang Xi looked at me solemnly and said, "I plan to talk to Wang Dasheng, his remuneration itself is very unreasonable, since I regard Wang Nannan as a friend, this money is ...... I was upset. ”
"Huh?" I was a little surprised, but quickly calmed down, I have been married to Jiang Xi for so many years, of course I know her personality, and she must have a reason to make such a decision.
Looking at my expression, Jiang Xi slapped me lightly on the shoulder and said, "Don't worry, I definitely won't work in vain, and I don't need to twist and pinch what I should take." ”
While talking, Jiang Xi's phone rang, I went to the kitchen to prepare dinner, she opened her backpack and took out her mobile phone.
Who knew that the voice in the mobile phone was so loud that I could hear it in the kitchen, but I didn't hear what Wang Nannan said, I only felt that she seemed to be very excited.
I heard Jiang Xi keep saying at this end: "Nan Nan, you calm down first, you calm down......."
Jiang Xi comforted for a long time, and Wang Nannan on the other end of the phone lowered her volume slightly, but her voice was obviously still a little trembling.
After hanging up the phone, I walked from the kitchen to Jiang Xi, who sat on the sofa in the living room in a daze, his face a little unpleasant.
"What's wrong? Is Wang Nannan's condition bad?"
"It's not. Jiang Xi raised his head and looked at me, "According to the expert's diagnosis, combined with Wang Nannan's series of test results, she is only slightly depressed, plus a little bit of hypothesis, and the expert's advice is to rebuild her confidence in life, enhance physical exercise, and even do not need medication-assisted treatment...... And there is no problem with her lumbar spine recovery, today we are looking for the vice president who operated on her last year, and they also organized a temporary consultation. ”
"When I sent her back, she was still happy......"
Listening to Jiang Xi's next story, my expression became unnatural, I thought that the "stupid things" that Wang Dasheng had done before were only those that Brother Li said, who knew that he had a more abrupt move.
After Wang Dasheng's company suffered a recipe leak crisis, he undertook a large amount of compensation, and his business plummeted, and the loan he borrowed from the bank when he bought land and built a new factory became the last straw that crushed him for a while.
He simply asked a friend to take over his factory, and left with more than 30 million yuan from the sale of the factory, after repaying the loan, his assets shrank seriously, and Wang Nannan at home is like that, I can almost imagine a man who is less than forty years old, after experiencing this, how much is left of the former high spirit?
I recalled the first time I met Wang Dasheng, when I thought he was in his forties, only to learn later that he had just turned 35. Maybe when this crisis came, he could have been comforted by his beloved other half, but he couldn't say a word intentionally or unintentionally, and it just pushed things to a worse situation.
Wang Nannan didn't care about the things in the factory for a long time, and he never left the house, and even thought that he couldn't even take care of the child himself, so he sent the child back to his hometown grandma and grandfather.
The empty house, without the laughter of children, a hostess who lay on the bed all day long and did not dare to move, did not communicate with her, and even resented him, I suddenly felt more sympathy for Wang Dasheng.
No matter how powerful and capable a man is, there are things that cannot be handled, because everyone is a human being, not a god!
I asked Jiang Xi: "Selling the factory should be a big blow to Wang Nannan, so what did she say when she called you now?"
"She knew that Wang Dasheng asked me to continue the article and write the script, and she also knew that the honorarium was 2 million and the continuation was 1,000 words...... But as soon as I was about to explain it to her, she cried and begged me to let it go, begging me and Wang Dasheng to terminate the contract quickly, she thought that my concern for her was all to earn this money, she looked down on my sincerity, in fact, I didn't plan to earn their money. ”
Probably Wang Nannan was a little excited on the phone just now, Jiang Xi was at a loss for a while, and now he should feel very aggrieved in his heart, when he said this, his eyes were still red, and he looked innocent.
I hurriedly comforted her, "Actually, we're confiscating a penny from them now, aren......'t we?" Let's contact Wang Dasheng first to see what the situation is on his side."
Jiang Xi nodded, "That's the only way."
I had a phone call with Wang Dasheng, it can be said that Wang Dasheng was completely open and honest with me, he said that he would explain clearly to his lover, he would not let Jiang Xi be wronged, he also cherished me and Jiang Xi as a friend, and he also said that he could feel our sincerity, and he hoped to have a long-term relationship with us.
Three days later, Wang Dasheng invited us to his house for the second time.
As soon as we entered the door, Jiang Xi and I were stunned.
Wang Nannan was supported by Wang Dasheng, and actually walked to the door, and replaced the bracket that had been wrapped in her upper body for more than a year with an ordinary strap, although it could be seen that her calves were still very weak, trembling slightly, and almost unstable, but her face was full of sincere smiles.
After Wang Dasheng's explanation, she learned that Jiang Xi had actually been selflessly dedicating labor and hard work, and Wang Nannan's expression became very unhappy.
Wang Dasheng and I quickly got into the kitchen and started preparing dinner with ease.
Wang Nannan took Jiang Xi's hand and chatted in the living room, seeing them chatting with laughter, Wang Dasheng's face showed an indescribable happiness, and the work of cooking and cooking in his hands became more and more cheerful.
When a man marries his wife, isn't it just to bring a happy and happy life to his wife? Seeing a smile on his wife's face, a man will feel a sense of satisfaction, and on the contrary, a man will feel that he is a failure!
At the dinner table, Wang Dasheng put his arm on my shoulders and kept pouring wine into my glass, until Jiang Xi reached out to cover my wine glass and glanced at Wang Nannan several times, and I was spared.
Wang Dasheng was a little drunk, and gently patted the table and said: "People around me say that I suffered all year last year, and the pouring rain made me feel cold. Now it seems that I still have to believe in the words of the ancients: the heavens will descend on the people. ”
As he spoke, he poured himself a glass of wine, raised it high and said, "It's really a blessing for me and Nan Nan to meet you and my wife, a blessing in disguise, a blessing in disguise!"
I didn't fully understand what Wang Dasheng said about blessings in disguise, the atmosphere was so good, I was embarrassed to ask, I was afraid to ask privacy questions that shouldn't be asked.
"By the way, I finished renewing your wife's article for her, and according to the price you told me on the phone that day, 100 words per 100, hahaha. Jiang Xi and Wang Nannan exchanged a look and smiled heartily.
"Yes, it should be given. Wang Dasheng couldn't stop nodding, and then said: "Nan Nan said that you wrote well, it must be really good!"
As he spoke, he looked at Wang Nannan's face, as if he was expecting something.
"You really have to apologize to Sister Xi, you obviously don't understand anything, and you're embarrassed to comment on the manuscript handed in by Sister Xi......"
"Hehe, it would be nice if I could give a little hair growth subsidy. ”
I wasted no time in showing off my sense of humor, and it was not surprising that I received a roll of the eyes from Jiang Xi.
Wang Dasheng said, "It's okay, I have a germinal spirit in my house, I'll bring you a bottle when I turn around!"
"Hahahaha!" everyone laughed.
We all had a great time at one meal that day.
When sending us out, Jiang Xi turned around and said, "You said before that you wanted to bring the child back, why don't you come to my house next Sunday?"
"Not next week. Wang Dasheng staggered against the door frame, squinted his eyes and said: "The child is picked up, we are going to go out for a trip, anyway, now Nan Nan and I have nothing to do, we haven't been far away for many years, it's good to take advantage of this gap to rest for a while." ”
In the next two months, Jiang Xi and I watched Wang Dasheng's family be very active in the circle of friends, running from the east to the south, holding hands with two large and one small, strolling on the beach under the sunset, leaving a string of happy footprints.
Jiang Xi also commented on Wang Nannan's appearance in a beach skirt, and his words were full of relief.
"Originally, the bracket only needs to be worn for half a year, but it has accompanied you through a round of spring, summer, autumn and winter, how about it, isn't the feeling of being unrestrained particularly wonderful?" Jiang Xi grinned while praising and commenting on Wang Nannan's circle of friends.
Wang Nannan replied: Very wonderful!
Late one night, Jiang Xi didn't leave the computer for a long time, her fingers fluttering wantonly on the keyboard, and I asked her suspiciously: "Haven't you been more active during the day?"
"Nope. Jiang Xitou didn't look back and said, "I'm changing the script." ”
I was stunned, "Script, when did you take the script again?"
"It's Wang Nannan's article before, it turns out that I've written more than ten episodes, now get some small ideas, small adaptations, add some extra things to them......" Jiang Xi turned her back to me, but I could already hear the joy she couldn't hide from her tone.
"So, why are you still writing that? His wife's dream has set sail again?"
"The dream has indeed set sail, but ...... Come, I'll show you this. Jiang Xi slid a chair next to me and flipped through a long series of conversations on his phone.
Jiang Xi: "I saw that your paper application is over, how is it, I am very moved, right?"
Wang Nannan: "Well, everyone who was moved was crying birds." ”
Jiang Xi: "It's a little promising, I'm moved to cry now, and if it becomes popular in the future and is adapted from film and television, there will be no show."
Wang Nannan: "It's impossible to be hot, you can only look up to Sister Xi, the future big guy seed player, and give you votes, rewards or something every day, like this." ”
Jiang Xi: "Ah?
Wang Nannan: "It's not ...... As long as you persevere to the end, I believe that sooner or later we will succeed."
Later, she followed meaningfully: "My husband's ideal is also an ideal, within three years, I will assist him to reopen the factory first! Later, I will complete my ideal, Sister Xi, you come on first, and when you succeed, take me to fly together." ”
Jiang Xi: "Definitely! Don't forget today's agreement!"
Wang Nannan: "Don't forget!"
Seeing these words, I finally understood why Wang Dasheng said before that he was blessed by misfortune.
Wang Nannan temporarily gave up his ideals and helped Wang Dasheng establish his ideals first, or in fact, Wang Nannan was willing to take her husband's ideals as her own ideals and struggle and struggle with him......
I think that when Wang Dasheng's ideal succeeds, at that time, he can also take Wang Nannan's ideal as his own and try his best to support her.
The Bible says: For husband and wife are one flesh, and wives, submit yourselves to your husbands. In the same way, a husband should love his wife as his own body, and to love his wife is to love himself. No one has ever hated their body, and they always take care of it......
People must always learn to empathize, and they can't blindly and selfishly only think that their own ideals are ideals, and other people's ideals are all bullshit.
"What I want is what I feel, not what you think", this is itself an anti-harmony, anti-harmony bullshit. Just like the words "take a step back and think about it, the more angry you are", it will have a very bad impact on those who are young and vigorous, and what should be thought about is that you are indeed not necessarily unable to move an inch further, because it may be perished!
Jiang Xi put away his mobile phone, turned back to the computer desk, and typed the words into the computer seriously, "I'll find a reliable friend who is engaged in design tomorrow to help Nan Nan design a good-looking cover, since it's a gift for her, it can't be too shabby." ”
I laughed! I can imagine that when Wang Nannan received this gift, she would definitely be moved to tears again.
Although this experience did not make Jiang Xi earn a few dollars, we were moved, tasted the feelings, and were very satisfied...... There is a couple who changed their lives because of Jiang Xi, walked out of the darkness, and regained their happiness, it's worth it!
At the end of the month, when it was time to pay my salary, I received a call from the development manager of the small company I was working for, and he said something to me, which really surprised and shocked me.
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