He said, "After you left in the nightclub that day, a few of us young people were extremely depressed by what you said, and we were not in the mood to play, we retired the young lady, and then several of us drank and drank, and when everyone was half drunk and half awake, Xiao Chen suddenly said a word......."

"What words?" I asked subconsciously.

Xiao Chen said, I think we are like the kind of young people who stink in Jiang Gong's mouth, I have never heard anyone say this kind of thing to us before, we still feel that we live a chic and comfortable life, but after going back, when a person is faced with an empty room and a miserable white wall, he always feels empty in his heart and is at a loss, and even holds his mobile phone to constantly look for boring content, knowing that there is nothing he likes to see on it, and he is constantly rummaging through it, it seems that he is staying up late for the sake of staying up late, but he can't be in a stable mood. Peaceful sleep is actually because of the emptiness of the soul, and the soul has no place to put it......".

At this point, the development manager's voice grew deeper and deeper.

"Suddenly I hate myself, I envy Jiang Gong, I envy him for having a happy family, I envy him for having a wife who loves him, we always complain, why are girls so realistic, so philistine, so vain, in fact, why are we not? It's not that there are no good girls in this world, it's just that we don't have the personality charm to attract good girls who like the personality charm, so we attract the same kind of glamorous sluts as us, who like vanity and the same smell, how can we blame those girls for not giving up on us? We are not 100% loyal to them? In other words, if the really good girls, if they are not deceived by us, who will really like a stinky man like us?"

In fact, I just said a few words about my feelings that day, and I didn't mean to talk about them, because I knew that there were too many young people like this in this society, and I just wanted to remind them that what causes are planted, what fruits will be obtained, but I didn't expect their feelings to be deeper than the effect I wanted to express.

The development manager continued, "After Xiao Chen said those words, he stimulated Xiao Wang to cry, and Xiao Wang said that if everyone is a stinky dick, then he is the most stinky and scummy person, and he once missed a good girl because of his scum...... As soon as he cried, we all cried, and we all felt that Jiang Gong's words pierced our hearts, we really stink, and hated ourselves, in fact, everyone understands the truth, that is, sometimes we can't control ourselves. ”

I hurriedly said, "It's really happy that you can have such a feeling, in fact, I understand you, you don't have to be too depressed, young people, all have the urge to play, but if you have realized that some behaviors are not good behaviors, then in the days to come, try to change it, it is really hard to carve yourself, but those who persist will be able to reap surprises, rather than rotten until they perish." ”

"Well, thank you Jiang Gong, Jiang is really still old and spicy, you not only impress us technically, but you are also an example that we should learn from in terms of personality, now we have figured it out, no wonder you can get happiness, no wonder you can get the woman ...... that really belongs to you."

"Life is long, as long as you have a good heart, exude a fragrant fragrance, and wait patiently, you will also be able to meet the beauty that belongs to you!"

I encourage them from the bottom of my heart, and that's really what I think in my heart.

"Thank you Jiang Gong for your blessings, I asked the manpower to calculate your salary, and I won't give you a penny, I don't open my mouth to keep you, because I think that our small river can't raise you as a big fish, I believe that sooner or later you will find a job that can give full play to your ability, don't worry, even if the situation is not good, excellent talents, many large companies still need them!"

Hearing this, I smiled bitterly in my heart, I can be calm and light when I persuade others, and I will be anxious when it is my turn, but at this moment, I must show the demeanor of an old programmer, and say indifferently, "Thank you for your good words, I also believe that I will not always be unable to find a job, thank you!"

I don't know why, this phone call from the development manager is also warm to me, people make mistakes, but if you can wake up and correct it in time, it's never too late!

After a period of time, in addition to learning some new IT skills, I was doing housework and cooking at home, cough! I really have no talent in cooking, and I can only say that I can only make do with food, Jiang Shi often complains that it is too unpalatable, Jiang Xi is busy making manuscripts, no matter how unpalatable she tries not to say, it is really unpalatable and urgent, she will say a few words.

At that time, I feel that I am useless, my job is gone, and my meals are not good.

One afternoon, I was cooking, and I made a pot of scrambled eggs with tomatoes, and I didn't know what to do, when Cong Feng came with her lover.

This time, both of them had uncontrollable smiles on their faces, Cong Feng's lover was more than seven months pregnant, and her belly was already very big, and Cong Feng helped her walk very carefully.

Jiang Xi couldn't help but laugh when he saw them like this.

"Welcome, welcome, hand in hand, how good it is now, the family is happy!"

"That's wonderful!" I couldn't help but say next to me, genuinely happy for my distant cousin who was in trouble.

After Cong Feng sat down with her lover, Jiang Xi poured them tea, and Cong Feng, who has always been a little talkative, couldn't hold his mouth today.

"Sister-in-law, Brother Dong, we are here to thank you today, my sister-in-law is heartbroken for me and Xiao Yang, and if it weren't for my sister-in-law to give me ideas, I wouldn't have been forgiven by Xiao Yang, and now Xiao Yang's parents have accepted me, we have really achieved happiness after hard work, thank you sister-in-law! I didn't expect that I would have this day!" Cong Feng said and his eyes turned red.

Xiao Yang was particularly understanding, so he took a tissue from the table and wiped it for Cong Feng himself.

Xiao Yang said, "Now that the two of us have a good relationship, I know that because we didn't understand each other before, in our own speculation, we misunderstood a lot of things, and now the misunderstanding has been solved, and we both want to have a happy family, so when we both work the good side, we can reap good results." ”

"What's the process like? Tell me about it, I'm really happy for you!" Jiang Xi couldn't help but ask.

Xiao Yang smiled a little shyly.

As an old man, Cong Feng can talk cheekily at this moment.

He smiled and said, "At the beginning, I followed my sister-in-law's plan, when she was coaxed to cry by my sister-in-law's words, I sent her an apology and confession text message, she cried even more, and the staff of the whole unit knew that she was moved by her husband, but at that time, she was still choked and refused to forgive me, and she refused to see my ......."

Cong Feng took a sip of water, and then said passionately, "I just follow what my sister-in-law said, every day after work, as long as I don't work overtime, I will wait for her at the door of her unit, her leaders and colleagues just asked me who I was looking for, I said, I am Xiao Yang's husband, she is pregnant, I don't worry about her going alone, After work, they didn't care at first, after a long time, I may have moved them first, the leader let me go into Xiao Yang's office every day to wait for her, at first Xiao Yang ignored me, after a long time, her heart slowly began to loosen, I thought at the time, my sister-in-law really estimated accurately, Xiao Yang is not hard-hearted, hahaha!"

At this time, Xiao Yang, who was sitting on the side, smiled shyly, and she said to Jiang Xi, " After talking to Sister Jiang Xi on the phone, I was moved and resisted, Sister Jiang Xi said that kind of love is what everyone yearns for, but I have pursued it for so many years, and I haven't met it, so I just cried, for Cong Feng, who didn't get along well, I didn't have any hope, even if he sent the confession letter, I just wanted to cry after reading it, and I cried for my misfortune, I really didn't expect it, Cong Feng, he actually did everything written in the letter, ......"

Speaking of this, Xiao Yang's tears fell, and it seemed that he was really moved by Cong Feng's behavior.

At this moment, Cong Feng took a tissue to wipe Xiao Yang's tears with a doting face.

"Wife, don't cry, crying too much is not good for the child, those are what I should do. ”

I didn't expect that Cong Feng, who used to be arrogant regardless of time and place, can now become so understanding, incredible.

Xiao Yang said to Cong Feng, "I'll talk about the next thing, there are many things, you may not know the situation!"

"Okay!" Cong Feng smiled, wiping Xiao Yang's tears and brushing her hair.

It is a kind of spontaneous behavior because of love, looking at it really makes people feel comfortable, people who love each other, as if they have the words "I am happy" written on their faces!

Xiao Yang continued, "In the first half month, he waited at the door, and I actually didn't want to pay attention to him, because I concluded that he couldn't hold on for a month, and if he didn't give himself hope, he wouldn't fall badly when he was disappointed, but when he persisted for a month, my heart began to loosen a little bit, especially ...... When those female colleagues in our unit looked at me with envy, jealousy, and hatred, my vanity was greatly satisfied, and Cong Feng was already relatively handsome, and those young girls always came to me to ask for advice, how could I catch such a handsome husband and make him a loyal dog? At that time, my heart softened a little, and I told myself that if he could hold on for three months, I would forgive him. ”

Cong Feng was listening to the beauty, as if he was a praised puppy.

Xiao Yang's eyes blinked, and the expression on his face suddenly became a source of gain and loss, "When it was almost three months, one day, he suddenly didn't come, and my heart was empty all day, I was secretly angry in my heart, gritting my teeth with hatred, I had to forgive him, but he didn't want to insist? I still thought, if he doesn't want to insist, should I take the initiative to find him? At that time, I was really entangled, I didn't want to find him and I couldn't bear him, not to mention that I was four or five months pregnant, of course I also wanted to give the child a complete and happy home!" Looking for him, I was worried that he would not know how to treat me well as before, and even didn't care about me, in short, I was very embarrassed at that time, but fortunately...... I'm really grateful that he was only two hours late to ...... because of overtime."

Speaking of this, Xiao Yang was so excited that he shed tears again.

Cong Feng said with a smile, "Just that time, as soon as I went, she cried and hugged me, and there was no one else in the office at that time, she hugged me and didn't let go, saying that she hoped that I could be good to her for the rest of my life, and not give up on her and the child, she needed the warmth I gave them very much, she was just afraid that she wouldn't get it, so she didn't dare to accept it, she also said, the child is also my own!" I should also be good to the child, I immediately held her tightly in my arms, and swore that I would always be good to her and the child, and that I would only have one wife in my life, and that I would not be good to her, and that other women would not look down on my virtue! At that moment, I felt that I experienced the taste of love, it turned out to be sugar with a bitter taste, it was indeed very similar to chocolate, and when I got it, it was the feeling of eating chocolate in my mouth, and the subtle bitterness was covered up by more sweetness, and if I didn't get it, I could probably only taste the bitter taste. ”

Xiao Yang wiped his tears and said with a smile, "Yes, I also have a feeling of eating chocolate." ”

"Yes, any love will have a bitter component, but as long as it is paired with a sweet ingredient, it will reap a wonderful taste!"

This was said by Jiang Xi, but in fact, I don't agree with it in my heart.

"Why is it that in my love, I don't feel the feeling of eating chocolate, only the feeling of eating "bee poop"...... It's just sweet.

As soon as I finished saying this, Cong Feng slapped me in the face, and then said with a disgusted face, "Brother Dong, go to the room, it's none of your business here, there are a few people who can live by stepping on shit like you." ”

Me, "......". I'm just telling the truth, why am I disliked?

Cong Feng continued to say to Jiang Xi, "After that time, we were also open and honest, and then we could empathize with each other and think about each other, my mother said that she wanted to live with me for a while, I directly refused, I thought about waiting for me and Xiao Yang to stabilize the relationship and then take her and my father to be filial, now I am too busy to take care of myself, picking her up is not filial piety, it will only be self-defeating." ”

Jiang Xi immediately said, "Your choice is right, filial piety also needs wisdom, blind obedience to children is not called filial piety, if your mother comes, this matter will be chaotic, and in the end your own family is gone, at that time you will definitely blame your mother, your heart for your mother to be filial will be weakened, not to mention that your mother does not have to live with you now, she just wants to participate in your life, so you really can't blindly follow, otherwise it is yourself who suffers, and you can't regret it." ”

"Yes, I understood this truth under the advice of my sister-in-law, and in the same way, Xiao Yang also understood, when her parents prevented me from dating Xiao Yang again, or when I said bad things, Xiao Yang no longer listened to her parents, and would say good things about me in front of her parents, at first Xiao Yang's parents not only didn't believe it, but also said that I poured ecstasy soup into Xiao Yang, haha!"

Xiao Yang answered with a smile, "Yes, that's it, I really tried my best to say good things about him, but it was useless for me to say anything, until for a while, my parents saw that I was happy all day long, Happy, nothing to do and humming a little song, gradually they believe that Cong Feng is really good to me, and after a while, they also accept Cong Feng to my house for dinner, last month also said, why don't let Cong Feng move back to live, I said, this time don't let him move back, let him rent a house in the same community as my house, I moved to live with him, so that I don't delay me to take care of my parents, I also figured it out, before the relationship between the young couple and the two people is not stable, it is really not suitable to live with the elderly, the relationship between the two people is really not suitable for family participation。 ”

"That's fine!" Jiang Xi said with a relieved smile.

Xiao Yang's words reminded me of when I fell in love with Jiang Xi, I can only say that I was glad that my family was far away from me at that time, although they stopped it once or twice, but they did not participate in it between me and Jiang Xi every day, and Jiang Xi's mother and her uncle's opposition, Jiang Xi alone relied on her sincerity and persistence to directly suppress it, hehe!

The love between two people is really not suitable for the participation of family members, and it is easy to have problems as soon as they participate! Everyone must clearly distinguish between filial piety and participation! Of course, we must also be clear about our own brains, and we must confirm whether that person is our own beloved? No matter what the outcome is in the future, don't blame others, and there is nothing to regret, look forward, don't look back!

When Cong Feng and his wife finished talking about their affairs, we chatted for a while, mostly the blessings that Jiang Xi and I sent to them, and said that when the child was full moon, he must invite us to dinner.

When they left, my dinner was delayed, mainly the scrambled eggs with tomatoes that were pasted and I couldn't eat, and after I brought the Jiang things back, we went to the fast food restaurant for a meal.

A family of three, in a good mood, everything you eat is fragrant.

When I was lying in bed at night, Jiang Xi suddenly said to me, "I received a call from my daughter's homeroom teacher again today, saying that Jiang Dongxi's grades have not been able to come up, and it has dragged the class back, and the mother who was a teacher who told me not to worry last time has made the children's grades improve by leaps and bounds this year, and they are no longer the last few, maybe because they are teachers and will tutor at home, what should we do?"

was originally quite happy face, but Jiang Xi looked sad as he spoke.

Jiang Dongxi is already in the third grade, and now that it doesn't matter what his grades do, he is a little self-defeating.

"Ahem!" I was also worried, and I didn't know how to comfort Jiang Xi.

I heard Jiang Xi's voice choked up again, "When I combed Jiang Dongxi's hair recently, I found that Jiang Xi's head was shaved by a handful of 'ghost shaved heads'."

I was stunned for a moment, "What's that?"

Jiang Xi said with a sad face, "It's just that a handful of hair is gone, and a place the size of a thumb is bald." ”

"Huh?" I didn't understand these things, but when I heard them, I felt a little scary, "What's going on?

When I asked like this, Jiang Xi was even more worried, "Cough, I don't know, I checked it on the Internet, some said what nutrition didn't keep up, I think our family's nutrition is fine, some say that people are too stressed, and there will be this kind of ghost shaving symptoms, so, I suspect that although Jiang Dongxi smiles every day, but in fact, she is also subconsciously stressed, she is not stupid, can she not worry about her every test results?"

"What can I do about this, wife?" I was really sad in my heart, and I felt very sorry for my eldest daughter.

"Ahem, I also reported to her for all kinds of classes, and I forced her, and I didn't dare to force her too much, lest she become our old neighbor Zhang Shiyu, wouldn't it be over?"

"Of course, the child's health is the first priority, and the child can't be forced out of mental illness, if something happens, we can't forgive ourselves for the rest of our lives. I said nervously.

"Yes, yes!" Jiang Xi thought thoughtfully.

"Let's think about it and see how we can solve it!" my mind kept thinking.

"Actually, I've already thought of a way, but I'm afraid you won't agree. ”

Jiang Xi said this suddenly, it really made me stunned, and after talking for a long time, her focus is all after this, right?

"What the hell is the road, wife, don't sell it, anxious!" I anxiously urged.

Jiang Xi looked at me and said, "Because you haven't been able to find a suitable job, and Jiang Dongxi's grades can't get up, and she herself is working hard, so I took the time to talk to Sun Zhengdong's lover more." ”

As soon as she mentioned Sun Zhengdong, I thought about what she was talking about, and I didn't interrupt her and let her continue.

Before Sun Zhengdong went to New Zealand, IELTS still did not take the test, but this did not become an obstacle for them to go to New Zealand, the agent helped him sign up for a language training course at the University of Auckland, and after signing up for the language class, there will be a short study visa, and very fortunately, he found a job suitable for him during the language class, because IT is in short supply of talents in New Zealand, so he successfully got the one-year official work permit that the employer applied for him, he has a work permit, his children can study for free in New Zealand, and her lover can also work, this road, they can eat and drinkExcept for some language difficulties, it seems that the journey is going very well, and I wondered, is the situation we are facing now suitable for them to follow?"

After listening to it, I feel that Sun Zhengdong's road is really smooth, and other people's families have to work hard to immigrate, and he seems to have reached the sky in one step.

However, I don't think I'll be as lucky as he is.

I said, "Wife, Sun Zhengdong is not good at the same technology as mine, and I don't think I can find a job in New Zealand as easily as he does." ”

Jiang Xi said, " This, I also communicated with Sun Zhengdong's lover, she said, in China, programmers around forty years old are disliked, but in New Zealand, because the country does not allow overtime is very late, so, there is no need for young people to fight physically, New Zealand companies pay more attention to technology, the more experienced programmers, the more priority they are admitted, I heard that many companies still have programmers in their sixties at work, and programmers in their seventies are rehired, which is difficult to imagine in China, of course, New Zealand kind of country, the gap between the monthly salary of engineers and workers repairing water pipes is not large, there is a shortage of people there, so the labor cost is very expensive, and the IT industry is the most lacking industry, so, I don't think it will be bad for us to go, right?"

I was silent, thinking about Jiang Xi's words, but I didn't think I could think clearly, and sometimes, I had difficulty choosing.

Imagine if we immigrate to New Zealand with our family, if we don't mix well, we can't get by, and then we come back, our children can't keep up with their studies, we can't take the college entrance examination, my skills are out of touch with my country, and it's impossible to find a job again.

Going abroad and immigrating is actually a way to open a bow and have no turning back for middle-aged people with their wives and children!

Jiang Xi continued, "Your work is one thing, the most important thing is that I want to go abroad because of Jiangxi, Sun Zhengdong's lover said that her children's primary school is very easy ......."

"How easy is it? Is third grade easy?" I asked.

Children's affairs are, of course, the most important things in the hearts of parents.

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