Chen Yan adjusted his sitting posture slightly, cleared his throat, and said cryptically: "Actually, I don't like to be tied up by my family, my mother thinks I'm extremely selfish and irresponsible. ”

"Adults have the concept of adults, we have ours, in fact, there is no need to convince each other, because no one can convince anyone, my idea is how to maximize the realization of their ideals in the case of conflict of ideas. ”

In just half an hour of meeting, Chen Yan began to look at Ruan Yan with admiration, he has seen a lot of rational girls, and there are not many girls who can still try to balance the conflict between old and new concepts in rationality.

So after that, Ruan Yan put forward his marriage appeal, Chen Yan was quite surprised at that time, he didn't expect that the woman who met for the first time had many ideas that were surprisingly consistent with himself, not so much a blind date, but a different kind of mutual interview.

A week later, they were in a relationship.

Ruan Yu originally proposed one: I hope that after marriage, we can try to maintain the pre-marital state and not interfere with each other's lives. For more than a year and a half, she had been doing this, so even when he was drunk last night, she didn't have any intention of probing, I don't know if it was to abide by the rules she had proposed, or if she really didn't have any interest in him at all.

Just as he was reminiscing about the past, Ruan Yu stuffed the baby into his arms: "I have to talk to Feng Lan before going to work." ”

"Don't you always have to arrive at work on time on weekends?" asked Chen Yan dissatisfiedly.

"Took an hour off. As she spoke, the man had come to the door, and with a bang, no one was gone.

Chen Yan looked at the baby in his arms again and sighed: "Yuanyuan, the two of us together are probably not as important as your mother's best friend, do you think we are pitiful?"

I don't know if the baby understands, giggling in his arms, which instantly makes his mood clear.

At eight o'clock, Ruan Yu knocked on the door of Feng Lan's rented apartment.

"Why did you come here early in the morning?" Feng Lan looked at his friend in astonishment.

Ruan Yu squeezed in, took out the juice from the refrigerator as if she was in her own home, and asked her, "That bastard has been in trouble with you again?"

Feng Lan didn't react for a while, and was stunned for a while: "Which bastard?"

"Qin Kai, who is about to become your ex-husband, has he come to you recently?"

Feng Lan shook his head inexplicably: "No, you came here to me specifically for this? What's wrong with him?"

"I don't know what's wrong with him, what's wrong with you, why are you crying in the bookstore?"

This time Feng Lan was even more surprised, the only person who knew about this matter was Mo Ge, although she went to Chen Yan's café when she went to return her clothes last time, but before entering the door, she had confirmed in advance that Chen Yan was not inside, and even if Chen Yan was there, it was impossible for him to know what happened in the bookstore.

"Feng Lan, tell me honestly, have you suffered any grievances?"

"I can solve the ...... myself"

"If you can really solve it, will you live here alone now?" Ruan Yu frowned, and a thought suddenly flashed through his mind, "Could it be that your mother has come to persuade you to go back to your mother-in-law's house again?"

Speaking of Feng Lan's mother, Ruan Yu really didn't know what words to use to describe her old man.

Feng Lan's parents divorced when she was very young, and her mother remarried when she was in junior high school, and her stepfather was an honest and responsible person, and he always treated Feng Lan as his own daughter. However, in Feng's mother's heart, the previous failed marriage was always a knot that could not be untied in her heart, so she asked Feng Lan in all aspects not to repeat her mistakes back then.

In the second year after graduating from university, Feng Lan met Qin Kai, who was about to become her ex-husband, through a blind date, Qin Kai's family opened a small restaurant, and the business has always been prosperous, so some family background, Qin Kai works in a relative's company, and I heard that sometimes he will help at home, drive a BMW, and have a first-class face project.

Feng's mother liked Qin Kai very much, constantly blowing wind in her daughter's ears, ignoring that Feng Lan was not interested in him at all, and wholeheartedly persuaded Feng Lan to accept Qin Kai. At that time, Feng's mother thought that Qin Kai was a man who could be married, and Ruan Yu also seemed very strange: Qin Kai's parents were very good and the family was harmonious, and Feng Lan would definitely not suffer a loss if he married in the past.

Feng Lan thought that her mother was working hard to raise herself alone, and it was not easy to go all the way, she really didn't want to disobey her mother's will, she was a soft-eared person, and she was unwilling to submit at first, but under Feng's mother's soft grinding day by day, she finally accepted Qin Kai, and the two got married after knowing each other for less than a year.

On the day of the wedding, Ruan Yu was a bridesmaid, but her impression of Qin Kai was not good, she always felt that Qin Kai was not Feng Lan's lover, but Feng Lan's family liked this young man very much, so she could only swallow the frustrating words in her stomach.

Feng Lan was indeed happy for a while after marriage, but soon after, Qin Kai's true nature was exposed, and every bit of life told Feng Lan how inappropriate they were. After four years of marriage without pregnancy, Qin Kai was obsessed with games every day and ignored Feng Lan, and the contradictions between husband and wife became deeper and deeper. Feng Lan wanted to change the status quo between them several times to save the marriage, but he provoked Qin Kai's anger and was almost beaten by his hands, after which Feng Lan gave up and moved back to his parents' house.

Who knew that Feng's mother was furious when she saw her daughter move back to her parents' house, thinking that Feng Lan had done a very embarrassing thing, and she was even more afraid that the neighbors would gossip after knowing about it, so she insisted that Feng Lan go back to her mother-in-law's house. Feng's mother left pain points in her heart because of the failure of her marriage in her early years, so she resolutely did not allow her daughter to follow the same path as herself.

Feng Lan finally found that she was a failure in this marriage, with nothing, and her husband was obsessed with online games, which was undoubtedly cold violence towards herself. The mother didn't forgive herself, thinking that she was unreasonable and didn't work hard to manage the marriage, and her in-laws repeatedly hoped that she would turn around and give Qin Kai another chance, but they knew that she had given him countless chances.

In the end, with the help of Ruan Yu, Feng Lan made up his mind to break away from the status quo and found a bachelor apartment near the school to live.

Feng's mother came to the door to wantonly insult Feng Lan for this, and Ruan Zhen was also present at the time, and even Ruan Zhen was scolded fiercely, thinking that she had harmed Feng Lan.

After countless quarrels, Feng Lan resolutely filed for divorce from Qin Kai, but the divorce process was bad and long, and she was overwhelmed several times.

Feng Lan smiled bitterly and shook his head: "That day, my mother came to scold me again, and brought relatives to persuade me all the time, sometimes I really can't figure it out, my marriage has come to this point, they still repeatedly persuade me to be patient, is their face more important than my happiness?"

That's why I kept telling you to be hard-hearted and not to be kidnapped by the so-called filial piety, which is foolishness. ”

"I actually felt uncomfortable watching my mom cry and scold me......"

Ruan Yu sighed and hugged her: "But if you were willing to insist on it at the beginning, don't listen to your mother's words and marry someone you think is inappropriate and don't like, you won't have the predicament you have now." ”

Feng Lan knew that the reason for all this was precisely because she was not firm at the beginning, if she was willing to stick to her own opinion at that time, although she might still quarrel with her mother, at least she could avoid the pain of the past four years.

"But then again, how the hell do you know about this?"

Chen Yan told me. ”

"Chen Yan, how did he know?"

Ruan Yu glanced at her and said lukewarmly, "The cartoonist you met in the bookstore is Chen Yan's fox friend and dog friend. ”

Feng Lan was speechless in surprise, this world is inevitably too small, how can someone she met inadvertently have this kind of intersection? Yes, she should have thought of this possibility when Mo Geyo was in that café at that time, but Chen Yan's café is very famous in Cicheng, and it doesn't seem so strange to be there.

Ruan Yu patted her shoulder and let out a long sigh of relief: "Okay, since you're okay, I'm relieved, I have to rush back to work, this terrible weekend." ”

Friday to Sunday and holidays are the busiest times for the training school, and she can't remember the last time she spent a weekend.

Before leaving, Ruan Yu repeatedly told Feng Lan: "If you have something, you must remember to call me, sometimes I am busy and it may not be convenient to answer the phone, so you can call more, until I answer, don't carry it alone, you know?"

Her righteousness towards her friends can be seen in heaven and earth.

After 10 o'clock in the morning on Saturday, a bunch of parents who were booked by the marketing department to visit by phone came one after another.

Towards the end of the evening, the parents of Lu Linshan, a student who had always had a good relationship with Ruan Rong, suddenly found the campus, Ruan Xin and Lu's mother have maintained stable telephone communication, but since she took maternity leave, half of the work of maintaining parents has been handed over to Zhang Rong, and the last time she has contacted Lu's mother has been three months ago.

"Teacher Ruan, it's so good to see you, has our family Shanshan been here?" Lu Mu grabbed Ruan Yu with a panicked expression.

"Shanshan's class is scheduled for tomorrow, didn't she arrange a class somewhere else today?"

"But she didn't go, she hadn't been to the teacher since she left in the morning, I couldn't get through to her phone, and I thought the kid liked to stay with you and came here to find you. Lu's mother tongue was crying, and she was almost about to cry.

Ruan Yu hurriedly reassured: "Don't worry, I'll ask the head teacher and the other classmates if they have seen Shanshan today, you wait a while." ”

With that, he hurried towards the large office at the end of the hallway.