Chapter 85 (4) More than 7,000 words begging for subscription and support, please give me the strength to cheer thank you
At this moment, although Jiang Xi was so angry that he glared at my eldest daughter, I could see that Jiang Xi was already very sorry for her, but Jiang Xi gritted his teeth and endured it, and as a result, under the stalemate of our two sides being evenly matched and meeting chess opponents, Jiang Xi's mother couldn't stand it at first, and ran over from another room, scolding while coming.
"You deflated calves, these children who have not been 100 days old, how can you make her cry like this? I just slept for a while, and I couldn't get up in a daze, and you abused my eldest granddaughter like this, woo......."
At this moment, Jiang Xi's mother also fell with big tears in her eyes.
This old and young made Jiang Xi and I look at each other, and each other's faces were full of guilt for making mistakes.
As for my eldest daughter, the moment her grandmother picked her up, the crying dropped by a few decibels, but it didn't stop.
She opened a pair of big watery eyes, looked at Jiang Xi for a while, and looked at me again, her mouth was as flat as a scoop, and she let out that kind of "woo...... Woo ......", a hoarse voice that makes people feel very pitiful.
My heart was about to break into eight petals, and I just wanted to walk to her and hug her, but Jiang Xi still grabbed me and said, "Don't pay attention to her, I'm annoying her now! What a broken child! cough!" Jiang Xi sighed helplessly after speaking.
Her mother immediately said angrily, "You are the broken mother, the broken father! I told you earlier, when people are having a good time, you don't want to hug her, but you want to hug it, hug it, hug it has become a habit, you think you can hug it if you want to, you can not hug it if you don't want to? Treat people as toys? There is no door, she is a person with ideas and character .......
We were counted by Jiang Xi's mother without saying a word, and we felt a little shameless, because she didn't seem to say anything wrong, we used my eldest daughter as a toy at the beginning, but now it feels like a hornet's nest.
Jiang Xi's mother faced the child again and said, "We don't want to pay attention to you yet, we are all deflated calves, we are so young, you will bully us, hum! I will hate them when I grow up in the future, don't be filial to them!"
I don't know if the child really understood or what, but he even made a sound similar to "Hmm!".
Me, "......".
Jiang Xi, "......".
Therefore, this bichivalous rigidity ends with the victory of the child.
But this day was probably because she was so tired from crying, Jiang Xi's mother hugged her for a while, and she fell asleep, and then slept until dawn, which not only liberated me and Jiang Xi, but also changed her problem of sleeping upside down day and night.
Haha, this can be regarded as a blessing in disguise, so it is still good to be just a little bit.
The child will soon be full moon, and the friends around him will come to bless, Jin Dan brought gifts and came with her boyfriend, like Jin Dan, a rich second generation, there is never a shortage of boyfriends around him, and Jin Dan also revealed a message to Jiang Xi after saying some words of blessing, saying that Yang Lin was a junior.
Jiang Xi was just smiling at the time, not taking this stubble, and after everyone was gone, I saw that she was sending a message.
I asked her, "Who are you messaging to?"
She said, "To Yang Lin." β
I said, "You're not trying to persuade her not to be a junior, are you?"
Jiang Xi thought for a moment and said, "I want to try!"
I asked, "Do you think it will be useful?"
Jiang Xi thought thoughtfully for a long time this time before he spoke, "I don't know, but I just don't want to look at my classmates who have known me for so many years, a pretty girl, why not?
Jiang Xi has her reasons for doing things, since she said she wants to try, I will support her, I also think that a good girl, there is really no need to be a junior.
That afternoon, Yang Lin was really invited by Jiang Xi.
As soon as she entered the door, Yang Lin saw the child, and said with envy in her eyes, "Oh, it's so cute, it's really envious, jealous, hateful, I really want to give birth to such a little baby to play." β
As she spoke, she reached out and touched my daughter's face, whose hands were dyed with long, pointy cardamom nails, and as soon as she touched my daughter's face, I was terrified that her nails would scratch my girl's tender skin.
I immediately stepped forward and picked up the child and said, "You talk, I'll take her to another room to play, and I won't disturb you." β
Yang Lin looked at my back and smacked her lips, "Oh my God, I'm afraid I'll break it, your child is papery?"
Jiang Xi smiled and didn't say anything, and I pretended not to hear it. It doesn't matter if it's papier-mΓ’chΓ© or not, I just won't touch it for you anyway.
To tell the truth, I'm used to seeing Jiang Xi's nails that are always neatly trimmed and don't dye anything, and suddenly I am not used to seeing the kind of long pointed nails that have been dyed, repaired and done, and I don't think it looks good at all.
I was playing games with my children in another room, and I could vaguely hear them muttering in the room.
I thought Jiang Xi would persuade Yang Lin from a moral point of view, but I didn't expect it to be.
Jiang Xi said, "I heard you got a new boyfriend again?".
Yang Lin paused for a moment and said, "Ah! yes, Jin Dan told you, right?"
"Yes!"
"I once met Jin Dan and her friend on the street, and then that friend of hers met my boyfriend, I think Jin Dan must have told you too, my boyfriend has a wife and children, right? So you specifically called me here today, do you plan to stand on the moral high ground and give me a moral theory lesson?
Before Jiang Xi could say anything, Yang Lin had already begun to attack Jiang Xi sensitively.
Jiang Xi didn't react much, but said patiently, "You are my classmate, why can't I care about you?" I still remember when I was in school, the two of us talked about the most topics. β
Yang Lin's face was cold and said, "Although the two of us talk about the most topics, our relationship is not very good, because we are not all the way, you make yourself an inspirational benchmark every day, yes, you also have self-esteem, self-improvement, do not take advantage of others, of course, you don't suffer a loss, this is different from us, we are all selfish, self-interested black-hearted ghosts, we just need to be happy, there is not so much American time to care about whether you are sorry for others?"
"Yang Lin!" Jiang Xi's voice suddenly became much deeper, "Do you think you have been happy all these years? Although I don't have as much money as you have, and I don't have as many luxury goods as you have bought, I think I am happy." β
As soon as Jiang Xi said this, Yang Lin immediately turned his face, "Jiang Xi, did you bring me here just to show off in front of me?" That's right, you now have a husband and children, your husband is good to you, and the children are cute, do you think you are happy, do you want to come and trample me to death?"
As soon as she said this, Jiang Xi was also a little unhappy, "How can I say that I want to step on you, I want to tell you that if you are willing to accept my happiness, you can too." β
Yang Lin's voice suddenly rose a few degrees, "I don't want to, let me tell you Jiang Xi, I'm the kind of woman who would rather cry in a BMW than laugh in the back of a bicycle, not to mention that women in a BMW don't necessarily cry and laugh a lot." β
Jiang Xi sighed and continued to say patiently, "Yang Lin, I don't know how many of those women sitting in the BMW are crying and how many are laughing, and I don't care, but I want to tell you that you are a junior in other people's homes, and you must cry more than laugh in your days." β
Yang Lin disagreed, "That's not necessarily! I'm happy when I'm not short of money." β
"But you can't get full love!"
Yang Lin was suddenly stunned and had nothing to say.
Jiang Xi continued, "First, not to mention whether this married man will divorce his wife and marry you? Just saying that he is with you behind his wife's back proves that this man has a bad character, at least he is not a man who will be responsible for women, so where do you have the confidence that he will be responsible for you?"
"He said he loved me so much that he didn't love his wife anymore. Yang Lin's tone was unconvinced.
Jiang Xi still didn't answer her words, I think if Jiang Xi picks up her words, maybe the two will quarrel.
Jiang Xi analyzed her from the perspective of caring for her, following her own train of thought, "Second, I also heard that he has a son who is fourteen or five years old, and the age of fourteen or five is the period of youth rebellion, maybe he can't do anything to you now? If he hates you after the age of seventeen or eighteen, he can do anything to you, and the days when you suffer, that is, 'the mouse pulls the wooden shovel, and the big head is behind', and his wife, if she knows about your existence, will she let you go?"
Even if I heard these words, I was touched, but Yang Lin didn't seem to hear them.
Instead, she pinched her waist and said to Jiang Xi with an angry face, "Jiang Xi, you say these words are full men who don't know how hungry men are hungry, you are lucky, you met a single good young man, I heard that he has a super good temper, according to you, follow you, you live a happy and beautiful life, and I am looking for a boyfriend now, you still want to intervene, who do you think you are? You can find a good husband, just because you are lucky, don't think you are much better than me." β
Jiang Xi was choked by her, and then her fiery temper was also stimulated, and I saw her standing up through the crack in the door, and she also crossed her waist and yelled at Yang Lin.
"How can I be lucky? You see my husband behaving so well now, it's because you don't see how much effort I put into him, how much effort I put into him, in addition to how much I was good to him, how much reason I gave him bitterly, just the big ear scraper, "Bang......!"
As soon as I heard this, I was a little out of the woods, and quickly broke into the house with the child in my arms, "Wife, wife, baby misses you." β
I put the baby in her arms and whispered close to her ear, "Wife, wife, I don't need to talk about that, right?"
Jiang Xi glanced at me, blinked his eyes and whispered to me, "I'm sorry, I was excited to say that I confided." β
It's just that Yang Lin relieved herself for a long time and said, "Hey, it's not good to say that your husband is good, it's your 'training' that is good?"
Jiang Xi said proudly, "Of course, there is no perfect man in this world, but any man has the foundation to become a good man, it depends on how women lead, guide and 'train'?"
As a man, I listened so embarrassed next to me, didn't I persuade her not to be a junior, how did I talk about "training" men?
Just as I was wondering, Jiang Xi changed the subject again.
"As your classmate, even if I don't have much iron with you, I hope you can find a serious man, and I hope you can use your ability and dedication to guide him into a good man and stay by your side, only then can you really 'plant' happiness and be happy. β
Yang Lin listened to Jiang Xi's words, blinked her eyes a few times, and seemed to have a less tough attitude than just now, and began to hesitate.
Jiang Xi continued, "Yang Lin, you used to find a lonely old man, and I didn't talk much about anyone, because I think as long as you are willing to do it, there is nothing to say, and you feel happy, but now you are looking for a wife Children's men, you will hurt a lot of people, and at the same time, there will be a lot of people who want to hurt you, you will have to bear the infamy of destroying other people's families for the rest of your life, in case you are bumped into by your original partner on the street, you are a rat crossing the street, everyone can shout and beat, this kind of thing on the TV news, is it not reported much? Imagine that you are stripped naked, beaten all over your body, and you are the one who has to be filmed and posted on the Internet by everyone, how would you feel?"
Yang Lin blinked, her face turned a little blue, probably really thinking of the evil consequences of Xiao San.
Jiang Xi continued to speak bitterly, "Yang Lin, life is so short for decades, why do you want to do this kind of thing to destroy yourself? There is not only one man left in the world, love should be beautiful, and it should not be repeated with those disgusting hidden dangers at the beginning, like a time bomb, it may be detonated at any time, and show its darkest and ugly side in the light for everyone to abuse, humiliate, and even kill people in serious cases." β
These words made Yang Lin ponder for a while.
In the process of her contemplation, I was also thinking that Jiang Xi said this, which sounded a little mysterious, but it was a bloody reality.
Yang Lin suddenly raised her head and asked Jiang Xi, "If you are dissatisfied with your husband in the future, will you divorce him?"
No one knew why Yang Lin suddenly asked this question, but I saw that Jiang Xi answered without hesitation at all.
"As long as there is no principled problem, a middle-aged woman choosing to divorce is the most stupid behavior, because she has spent her entire youth for the man who has paid and 'trained', may be a little bit worse, this man will become a good man, for example, if a good man scores eighty-five points, that woman may have 'adjusted' the man to eighty points, and the difference is five points This woman can't hold on, and then chooses to divorce, which is equivalent to working hard for half her life' The man who is 'femdom' gives it to another woman, and if someone else's woman 'adjusts' it a little, then there are five points, so why let other women pick up such a big bargain? β
Jiang Xi's remarks, this is really the first time I have heard it, let me digest it for a while.
Obviously, Yang Lin also needed time to accept it, and kept blinking.
Then after a while, Yang Lin pinched his waist and sighed and said, "Jiang Xi, Jiang Xi, I'll tell you the truth, among our wave of girls, we are all like that, only you are special, only you are sexy, pull you into a rich second generation group, you pick and choose, invite you to a dinner, you are happy to go, unhappy to push three and four, you seem out of place......, you know? I also have to admit that what you sometimes say is Chrysostom and Yuyan, which makes sense and hits the nail on the head, and it also pierces the tip of people's hearts. β
So in the end, she was praising Jiang Xi in a way that first suppressed and then raised? I think so, but I still don't like her suppression of Jiang Xi in the first half.
I stood next to me and hugged the child, and said expressionlessly, "It's enough for one person in my family Jiang Xi to like it in this life, and I don't need so many people to like it." β
"Poof!" This sound was made by Jiang Xi, she couldn't help it, looked at me happily and sweetly smiled, and winked at me and discharged.
"Damn!" Yang Lin immediately covered her heart, looking like she was having a heart attack, "Why did I come to find abuse......?
Yang Lin suddenly took a deep breath, his expression suddenly became serious, looked at Jiang Xi and said, "Although I hate you very much, and now I hate you two together, I still decided to use your method to give it a try." β
Jiang Xi was stunned, "What method do I have?"
"I decided...... After going back, find a reason to slap him, if he is reluctant to fight back when he knows that I am unreasonable, then it proves that it must be true love, in that case, even if I am infamous as a junior, even if I am beaten by her wife on the street, I have to go out and fight for my own happiness, if he backslaps me, then I will immediately let him move the potatoes and roll the ball. β
I blinked, thinking that this method was not very reliable, but I didn't expect Jiang Xi to smile and say, "This method is good, I wish you a successful verification." β
Jiang Xi stretched out her hand, Yang Lin high-fived her, and then Yang Lin turned away in a dashing manner, not taking a cloud with her.
"Bang dang"!
The moment the door was closed by Yang Lin, I asked in a daze, "Is she going back to slap someone?"
Jiang Xi suddenly walked up to me with a smile and said confidently, "In my guess, if she really does this, she will definitely leave this man." β
"You mean, this man will fight back, right?"
"Yes!"
"How so?"
"The men she knows, first of all, are rich people, this rich man, he can't even stand his wife's share of the chaff, how can he endure the slap of a lover? Don't look at men like them who have wives and are middle-aged, but it is very easy to find a young lover, Yang Lin is not his only choice, so ......"
"The end is decided," I said.
"Hmm!" Jiang Xi nodded, "This is a good thing for Yang Lin, I hope she can polish her eyes next time to find the right half, although Yang Lin and I are not really good friends, but I still hope that she is good, I don't want to see her go astray, and by the time I want to regret it, it will be too late to regret it." β
"You've done what you need to do, and then what's going on, you don't have to worry about it," I held the child in one hand and stroked the top of her hair lovingly with the other, "As you said before, everyone has their own choices about their own life, and at the same time, everyone has to take responsibility for their own life, and no one will only enjoy it without being responsible." β
Jiang Xi said, "I know all these truths, but sometimes I can't figure it out, a pretty girl, are all the men in the world dead?
"I can't figure it out either, but there are so many things in this world that we can't figure out, and we can't figure it all out. β
So I can only keep my heart. β
Jiang Xi said the last sentence that represented the summary and also represented my heart.
I sat at the head of the bed with the child in my arms, the child fell asleep in my arms, Jiang Xi leaned on my shoulder, and our family of three snuggled quietly together, with an indescribable warmth and peace in my heart.
After a while, Jiang Xi suddenly stretched out a finger and grabbed my chin and said, "Handsome guy, rob me!"
I couldn't help laughing, looked down at her beautiful little face affectionately, and said, "I'm colorless!"
Jiang Xi smiled and said, "What do you think, I'm asking you to rob me of my sex." β
"Poof!" I grinned, and the next second, I slowly lowered my head, and my gaze was precise towards her red mouth......
At the moment when my lips just touched Jiang Xi's lip flap, the eldest girl in my arms was probably squeezed because of my movements, she was like a big worm, she arched her body violently, and suddenly straightened her head.
"Bang!", her little hard skull was supplied to my chin, and the force directly knocked my lips into blood, and I gasped in pain, and instantly I had no beautiful thoughts, I didn't want to rob the color at all, I just wanted to escape from here and stay away from the bear child.
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After another two months, we had a deposit of 60,000 yuan, so Jiang Xi took the initiative to say to me, "You give 40,000 yuan to your mother, let her buy a house quickly." β
I was so grateful to her that I said, "Thank you, wife!"
Jiang Xi put his arm around my neck and said, "I know what? Not only do I want everyone to know that I marry you as the happiest woman in the world, but I also want everyone to know that you marry me and you are also the happiest man in the world."
"I'm the happiest man. β
At that time, I responded to Jiang Xi like this, but in fact, I didn't really get the deep meaning of her words in my heart, until I transferred the money to my eldest sister's account, and my eldest sister said a word to me, I didn't understand Jiang Xi's intentions for me.
My eldest sister said happily, "Oh, I didn't expect Jiang Xi to really agree to give my mother money to buy a house, it turned out that we all thought that Jiang Xi was such a shrewd person, you must be very afraid of your wife, you must be very angry in her family, the kind that has no status, I didn't expect it to be okay, it seems that you still have status!"
I smiled and said, "Of course, my place in the family cannot be ignored." β
My tone is light and breezy, but my eyes are wet, thank you! wife, you are really the best wife in the world!
My mother happily went to buy a house with the money, and then I went to work on time, Jiang Xi and her mother took care of the children at home, wrote, and of course, as always, hit the streets, and could only work full-time.
About half a month later, one day Jiang Xi suddenly asked me, "Well, how is your mother's house going?"
To be honest, my mother said that the house was written in my name, and Jiang Xi was also very happy, I was very poor at that time, and if I could have a house under my name, it would definitely be something to be happy about.
When she asked, I remembered this, so I immediately called my eldest sister to ask about the situation.
The eldest sister quickly picked it up.
"Hey, eldest sister, do you have a fancy to my mother's house? When will I go back to handle the transfer?"
I didn't care about it at all, and asked in a particularly casual tone, but the eldest sister was suddenly silent for a while.
After about half a minute, the eldest sister spoke, "Brother, my mother's house was bought, but after the three of us discussed, we decided not to write it in your name first." β
I was stunned for a moment, and only after half a sound did I react, and I asked a little uncomfortable, "Why?"
My eldest sister said, "Maybe you can't understand it now, but I tell you, neither I nor your second sister will want that house, and it will definitely be left to you in the future, but not ......now."
"Why?" I asked reluctantly.
The eldest sister said, "I am now in a divorce lawsuit with Chen Sheng, and all the property is divided into two, no matter which of us is in the name, it is the joint property of the husband and wife." β
As soon as the eldest sister said this, I completely understood that she was actually afraid that I would not live long with Jiang Xi, and if I divorced soon, I was worried that Jiang Xi would share the house.
I was so uncomfortable that I was speechless, but I still said patiently, "Jiang Xi, it's not the kind of person you think, if she is that kind of person, how can she agree to take out 40,000 yuan to buy a house for my mother?"
The eldest sister said, "Isn't the 40,000 yuan mainly earned by you? We think you are a simple and weak person, if you talk about scheming, you can't calculate Jiang Xi, we will leave a little back for you." β
Me, "......".
I was speechless, but I knew that my eldest sister was doing it for my good, so I was angry but helpless.
"Sister, let me ask you one last time, is it really impossible to write my name?"
The eldest sister said unusually firmly, "Your second sister's name has already been written." β
I hung up the phone with a "pop!", and I didn't want to say a word more.
At this time, Jiang Xi came to me with the child in his arms and asked, "What's wrong?"
When I turned my head to look at her, I felt very guilty, but I didn't want to hide it from her, I said, "My eldest sister said that the house has written my second sister's name, and she said that they will not want that house, but not for the time being, wife, I'm sorry!"
I saw Jiang Xi take a deep breath, but she was such a smart person, she guessed it at once.
"This is to prevent me, it is understandable, forget it, who made you owe others when you were in school, in front of others, you have no right to speak, which is why I repeatedly want to pay off the money you owe them, because no matter who it is, even if it is a brother or sister, the phrase 'taking people's hands is short, and eating people's mouths is short'. β
I kept my head down and didn't say anything, and my heart was very panicked.
Jiang Xi said in a deep tone again, "But I'm angry!"
I looked up at her, a little nervous, but I didn't know what to say to make her angry, and I would be angry if it was me.
As a result, what I didn't expect was that what Jiang Xi said next was completely different from what I thought.
She said angrily, "I don't care about the 40,000 yuan house, because I know that we will definitely have money in the future, and there will be a bigger house, what I care about is, where do they put your dignity? They have never considered your situation, they have not considered how you want to explain to me, which makes me very angry and feel sorry for you!"
At the end of her speech, her eyes were wet and she reached out and hugged my neck, "Jiangdong, this time I endured it with you, but ...... Today I swear here that in the future, I will let you live with dignity in front of outsiders, even if it is your own relatives, and no one can despise you unless you have your permission. β
What else can I say, hugging her and bursting into tears!
Why do I think that my mother who gave birth to me and raised me doesn't understand me, and the sisters who have taken me and helped me don't understand me, only Jiang Xi in this world, she completely understands what I think and what I need.
That's right, what I need is respect, not the forced care of me as a child and a fool, as Jiang Xi said, if they don't have my permission, that's tantamount to contempt.
In this world, Jiang Xi has become the only one who doesn't despise me!
This matter passed like this, and Jiang Xi never mentioned it again, and I didn't want to mention it, I only worked hard and wanted to earn more living expenses for my wife and children.
But at this time, I had some problems with my work.
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