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When I went to college in the late 80s of the last century, when the atmosphere on the college campus was still relatively conservative and not as open as it is now, I met my first love on the college campus, and I called her Yun.

We were not in love at that time like the young ones now, and within a few days they hugged and even ran to the bed, I was born in the countryside, and my own concept was relatively conservative, and most of the girls in that era were also more conservative, so until we graduated and broke up, she and I didn't take a step beyond the thunder pool, and we didn't even hold her hand, let alone kiss and hug.

The content of our usual dates is to study together in the evening, eat and fetch water together, take a walk around the campus, and go out on Sundays to visit the store and book city with her.

At that time, we were still assigned jobs by the state, and Yun was an orientation student, which was already clear when she filled in the volunteers, so she had to return to her hometown to work in that small town after graduation.

I myself was born in the countryside, and it is the hope of several generations of our Zhu family to get ahead in a big city like S City, and it is also the original intention of my parents to work hard for me to study, so it is impossible for me to follow Yun back to the remote town of her hometown to work, and in the end, our young love affair had to end without a problem, Yun returned to her hometown alone with tears in her eyes, and I stayed in the bustling city where we went to college.

After graduating, I was assigned to the credit department of a state-owned commercial bank.

At that time, the person in charge of the credit department was a vice president surnamed Cheng, who was the maternal uncle of my wife Xie Fangju, who later married, and it was Vice President Cheng who matched me and Fang Ju's marriage.

To this day, I still remember the first time I met Fang Ju, when she came to her uncle's office to look for him, I happened to have work to report to Vice President Cheng, I remember that when I knocked on the door and entered, I found a beautiful girl in decent and elegant clothes sitting at Vice President Cheng's desk, holding a financial newspaper in her hand, as if she was reading with relish.

Seeing me enter, the girl put down the newspaper and stood up slightly, Vice President Cheng smiled, pointed at her and introduced me: "Xiao Zhu, come, get to know, this is my niece Xie Fangju." ”

At the same time, he pointed at me and introduced the girl: "Fang Ju, this is the Xiao Zhu I mentioned to you before, although he has not been working for a few years, he is very capable and motivated!"

Xie Fangju smiled sweetly at me and stretched out his hand: "Hello." ”

My smile was a little silly, and I quickly reached out and shook her back, but I didn't dare to shake it hard, because I felt that her little hands were as soft as cotton, and I was afraid that if I tried hard, I would crush her.

In this way, Fang Ju and I met.

Vice President Cheng values me very much, and he also has the heart to be with me and his niece Fang Ju, but to be honest, I feel pressure, because Fang Ju's family is not only a girl who has been pampered and raised in the city since she was a child, but also her family background is very strong, her maternal grandfather and another uncle were both high-ranking officials in this province or other provinces, and her father is also a well-known scholar in China.

But Vice President Cheng cheered me up at that time, and he said to me: "Young man, it's up to people to do things, if you don't fight for it, how do you know if there is such a possibility? You know, when you pursue a girl, you have to be brave, don't be afraid of failure, as long as you like it, go for it, I support you!"

With Vice President Cheng's words, I really had the courage of Wushang, and later took the initiative to pursue Fang Ju and really won her heart, and we began to officially fall in love.

In fact, we were together at the time, Fang Ju's parents didn't quite agree, although I was introduced to her by her uncle, but Fang Ju's parents still felt that the contrast between our family backgrounds was too great, but Fang Ju was very optimistic about me at the time, and at the same time, there was another reason, Fang Ju's first love at that time was also a **, he proposed to break up with Fang Ju after a few years of love, and then went abroad, which hit Fang Ju very hard, so I also came to her when she was most mentally vulnerable, so she depended on me a lot.

In the process of getting along, Xie Fangju's family also slowly recognized me, thinking that I was down-to-earth, reliable, and hard-working, and a talent.

On the wedding night, I found out that Fang Ju was not a virgin, and she asked me a little shyly, "Do you mind?"

Actually, to be honest at the time, I minded. Because I was a virgin at the time, I never touched my girlfriend in college, and I didn't talk to any other girlfriends after I went to work because I was so focused on my work, so I kept myself clean until my wedding night.

However, now that I have married Fang Ju into the family, what can I say? So I had to smile and comfort her, "I don't mind. ”

Hearing me say this, Fang Ju's nervous mood slowly relaxed, she gently snuggled in my arms, told me about the past, and told me that her first night was taken away by her ** first love, but unfortunately although that person is handsome and chic in appearance, but in essence he is a cynical playboy brother, and he didn't cherish her, and he got rid of her by taking the opportunity to go abroad, so Fang Ju was particularly disgusted with the other ** that her family introduced to her and her family** , I would rather choose a poor boy like me who was born in a peasant family.

At that time, Fang Ju snuggled in my arms and said to me sweetly: "As long as you are in this city, with the help of our family, it is not difficult for you to make a career, so I don't mind your family background and background at all, I only care about whether you are good to me," and then looked at me and said to me sincerely, "From the first time I saw you, I felt that you are a very down-to-earth and reliable person, and you are a man who can be relied on for a lifetime." ”

Hearing Xie Fangju's heartfelt words, I was very moved, I thought at the time, just with her trust in me, I will always be good to her, and work hard to make a career to show her family, proving that Fang Ju was not wrong in choosing me in the first place.

However, some things are easier said than done, and when I quit my official job and went to the sea to do business, the biggest resistance came from Xie Fangju's family, especially her mother and brother.

Fang Ju's elder brother Xie Fangyan is a top student who graduated from the Department of Economics at Cambridge University in the United Kingdom, and in front of me, he has always had a strong sense of superiority, and when he knew that I was going to quit my public office and go to the sea to do business, he immediately scoffed.

At that time, he looked at me and said, "Just by you, you also want to go into the sea to make the tide?" Then he patted me on the shoulder and said to me in a mocking tone, "Boy, like you, you should cherish an iron rice bowl, even if you have a section chief or something in the bank, it is good for you, and the faces of the fathers and villagers in your hometown are bright enough." Don't follow others to the sea to do business regardless of the height of the sky, don't let the sea choke when the tide doesn't work!"

In the face of Xie Fangyan's arrogance, I smiled faintly at him at the time, and then said to him: "Then let's go and see!"

Xie Fangyan was stunned for a moment, and then replied to me very angrily: "Okay, I want to see what you can do?"

Fang Ju's mother, although my mother-in-law didn't say it in front of me, the disdain in her expression was also obvious, and she said to Fang Ju in private at that time: "Let him stop tossing around, when the time comes, he won't be able to make a few dollars from doing business in the sea, and our family will have to wipe his buttocks." ”

Fang Ju conveyed these words to me euphemistically, and at that time, Fang Ju didn't quite agree with me going to the sea to do business, for fear that the risk would be too great, after all, I still had a good job in the bank at that time. But with the strength of not admitting defeat in my heart, and under the pressure from all sides, I finally resigned from my public office and went to the sea to do business.

At the beginning, the hard work of eating is needless to mention, and at the beginning, the Xie family, including Fang Ju, was indifferent to the business I did, until I relied on the connections I accumulated in the bank to build the company into a good reputation, Fang Ju gradually became optimistic about my ability, and then mobilized her family background to help me.

I admit that Xie Fangju's family did give me a lot of help in the process of my success, but if it wasn't for my gritted teeth and persistence at the beginning, without the connections I accumulated in the bank, I would not have been able to have the career I had later, in short, under various factors, I finally succeeded and became one of the famous real estate developers in S City.

After I succeeded, the Xie family came to invite merit, Xie Fangyan and my mother-in-law secretly reminded me that without the help of the Xie family, there would be no me today, Fang Ju often put these words on his lips, I know that Fang Ju has no sense of security in his heart, and he is afraid that I will change my mind once I soar, so I endure all this.

What I can't bear is that after my increasing success, I want to bring my parents, who have worked hard all their lives in my hometown, to the city to enjoy Qingfu, but I was desperately opposed by Xie Fangju.

Now that I heard that I was going to bring my parents here, Xie Fangju gave me three chapters of the covenant, which roughly means that my parents are not allowed to live with us, and they can buy another house to live in; to be honest, I feel very uncomfortable, we live in a villa, there are many rooms in it, and the servants have a place to live, how can I give birth to my parents and raise my parents have no place to live? I brought the old man to the city so that they could enjoy the filial piety of my son and daughter-in-law in their old age, and if I bought them another house and let them go out to live, what is the difference between this and letting them stay in the country?

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