Chapter 37: Preparing for Divorce
At that moment, I was already planning for a divorce.
Divorce, about the property issue, in fact, I am not too worried, because I have always trusted Deng Wenliang in my heart, I believe that no matter how greedy he is for the beauty outside, he will not be as ruthless and unrighteous as my wife who has come all the way from adolescence, even if it is divorce, he will give me a certain amount of protection, and this is how I completely believed in him at that time.
I am not a woman with a particularly strong desire to control, although I am doing accounting work, but I have not mastered Deng Wenliang's financial situation, from the marriage of my parents to the marriage of my brother and sister-in-law, I have always believed that women are too strong, often restraining or destroying a man who may have great development, so I give Deng Wenliang the greatest space not to interfere in his career operation.
In fact, whether or not you have a grasp of your husband's financial situation has little to do with the wife's professional habits, but is closely related to her personality.
For example, a friend of Deng Wenliang I know, his wife has a very low level of education, she is an ordinary worker, she doesn't know anything about finance, but her personality is very strong, after he is becoming more and more successful, his wife is afraid that he will be outside, and she begins to seize power, and bluntly insists on becoming the second-in-command of his company, he has no choice but to promise.
As a result, Deng Wenliang's friend started a husband and wife power war in the company.
His wife inserted her younger brother, sister-in-law, cousin, and cousin all into it, and the posture was to overhead and supervise her husband, and her husband was of course not to be outdone, so he replaced some important functional departments, such as the finance department and the personnel department, with his own brother and sister.
I still heard Deng Wenliang talk about these things, when he said it in a ridiculous tone, but I don't sound very good, I think if a husband and wife go to that point, beware of each other for property, tear each other down, and gang up, then what is the meaning of living this life?
So I'd rather delegate power and not interfere in all the operations of Wenliang Company, everything is based on his conscience.
Therefore, I don't care very much about the division of property, I have my own skills, even if I get divorced, I can't starve to death, although Deng Wenliang is unfaithful to me, but he loves his daughter very much, no matter when, he will provide all the expenses that his daughter needs, so I am not worried about our daughter's future.
All I was worried about was my parents' attitude, and my daughter's attitude.
In order to give my parents a vaccination, I first went back to my parents' house.
My parents' situation is not good, my parents are retired from an old state-owned enterprise, with a pension that is not very rich, and my brother since that injury, because of the injury to the waist and kidneys, so he can't do any physical labor at all, and has to be hospitalized from time to time to review and take medicine, these expenses can only be partially covered by medical insurance, and I have to bear a part, and these money can only come out of my parents' meager pension.
In the past, Deng Wenliang was responsible for the daily expenses of our own small family, and he gave me a certain amount of expenses every month, in addition to family expenses, my daughter's tuition and miscellaneous fees, there was a surplus, so my own salary was secretly subsidized by my mother's family.