My name is Wei Hai Chao, doesn't it feel quite romantic to hear my name? The blue tide is coming in waves...... How beautiful, how poetic!

Just looking at this name, I thought that I was born in a scholarly family, and what kind of intellectuals my parents were, so I would give my children such a romantic and beautiful name, but in fact, the last three generations of our ancestors were poor peasants who did not discount at all, and only in my father's generation did he enter the county as a worker, and met my mother, who was also from the same background, became a family, and then raised several of our brothers and sisters.

It may be that I suffered from not being transformed in the early years, although my father is a big man, but he attaches great importance to the education of several children, in his words, that is, as long as you are willing to work hard and have good grades, I will continue to supply, even if I am studying for a master's degree or a doctorate, I will provide all the way to the end even if I smash the pot and sell iron.

There is such an enlightened old man, several of our brothers and sisters are very competitive, one by one passed the college entrance examination from the remote county where we grew up to the first and second tier bustling cities, I myself was admitted to a national key university in S city with excellent results in the nineties.

Because of the relationship between the growth environment, I am not squeamish, and I do not belong to the traditional gentle woman like the bird, and my personality is relatively straightforward, and I do things in a hurry.

In terms of appearance, I look okay, although the skin is not the white jade type that is as delicate as snow like the traditional oriental beauty, but the honey-colored skin looks very healthy, and the facial features are also quite three-dimensional, because I like sports, and my personality is active and I can't be idle all day, so I haven't been fat for so many years, and my figure has been maintained well.

My hairstyle, I've never had long hair, I used to be a tomboy kind of sports head, after college, the length of my hair increased slightly, but the longest is the head to the ear, and now I also keep a little head below the ear, partial bangs, because my hair is thicker, so this hairstyle is still quite suitable for me.

How do I describe it when I was in college, let's put it this way, at that time, if I pursed my lips and didn't smile, I could still barely pretend to be a lady, and even many boys used some more sensual words to describe me when they saw my dignity, such as quiet, dignified, and pure.

However, this has to be done when I smile without opening my mouth, and if I have a mouth, the image of this lady will be discounted by half, because I have a small tiger tooth, so when I open my mouth and smile, my facial expression looks a little funny.

So when I open my mouth and smile, most people can only describe me as cute and playful.

The above two situations are passable, the most terrible is when I laugh, because my laughter is particularly hearty and rhythmic, so once I laugh, then all the adjectives that describe a lady or a pure little girl are far away from me, at this time I can only use bold and hearty words to describe women.

But the funny thing is that although my image is completely out of line with a lady, there are still a lot of boys who pursue me when I go to college, and the funniest thing is that these boys who chase me are generally more white and delicate, and their personalities are all shy, I can't figure out, why do these boys like unruly cheerful girls like me?

As for who I chose in the end, when Dangdang, my husband Xu Minghui will play!

Xu Minghui is an alumnus of my university, one year older than me, and we met through a classmate's introduction, because our hometowns are in the same province and the two cities are not far away, so it is easy to get closer to us.

However, the main reason why I finally accepted Xu Minghui's pursuit was because of his character.

I have a cheerful personality and love to laugh, and Xu Minghui is a chatterbox, he is very knowledgeable, especially good at saying all kinds of witticisms that are not the same, often make me laugh and lean back together, and he will never be annoyed with him, just like that, he used a bunch of jokes that are not the same to completely conquer my girlish heart, I not only became his girlfriend, but also officially married him after graduating from college.

The reason why we got married so early was because of our families.

After Xu Minghui and I fell in love, we both took each other to meet our respective parents, because I was cheerful and generous, so Xu Minghui's parents were very satisfied with me, and Xu Minghui also coaxed my parents very happy because he had a three-inch tongue.

In addition, my parents were born in a peasant family, the concept is relatively conservative, Xu Minghui and I directly stayed in the city where we went to college after graduating from university, my parents were afraid that lonely men and widows would be together for a long time but not married, and it would be easy to have long nights and dreams, so they supported us to get the certificate as soon as possible.

At the same time, Xu Minghui's grandmother and parents also hoped that he would marry his daughter-in-law as soon as possible, so not long after I started working, Xu Minghui and I got the marriage certificate, and we rented a house and started our husband and wife career.

After getting married, because I was young and inexperienced, I soon found out that I was pregnant, and I didn't want it at the time, because Xu Minghui and I were too young, it can be said that we had just walked out of school for less than two years, and I was still a childish child, plus I had no economic foundation, and it was really difficult to support a child.

But after Xu Minghui told his family about my pregnancy, his parents firmly disagreed with my abortion, especially his grandmother, who insisted on seeing this great-grandson in her lifetime. Because Xu Minghui was brought up by his grandmother, he has a very deep relationship with him, so in the end, after thinking left and right, we still kept this little life, she is our daughter Hoppy.

Jumping is our daughter's nickname, why give our daughter such a funny nickname? First, because it is said that the more rustic the nickname, the better the child to feed, and secondly, because the child is more active from birth, crying loudly, and the range of movement is also large, learning to sit, climb, stand, and walk, all earlier than children of the same age, that is, the motor nerves are more developed, especially looking at her big black grape-like eyes, I think she is a child who is particularly jumping, so I gave her such a funny nickname.

Three months after Hop Hop, I started working after maternity leave, and I picked up my mom from my hometown and helped me take care of the baby until Hop Hop was one year old.

After the child was one year old, after discussing with the elderly on both sides, we sent the child back to her grandmother's house, usually Xu Minghui and I went back to visit our daughter on holidays, and brought some things to the elderly by the way, thanking them for helping us take care of the children, so that Xu Minghui and I could have enough time to work hard for our careers.

Work situation, after graduation, I first entered a state-owned enterprise in S City to do case propaganda work, while my husband Xu Minghui entered a public institution, at first he was just a small clerk, and he often had to follow the leader on business trips, which was very hard.

In terms of social communication skills, Xu Minghui is much more sophisticated and tactful than me, so he can work in public institutions for more than ten years, and finally promoted from a small clerk to a small leader.

And because I have a more straightforward personality, I can't get used to the intrigue and flattery within state-owned enterprises, so I simply resigned, jumped to a large-scale advertising company, and began to do case planning work, which has been until now.

In the first few years, although our lives were busy, they were generally relatively happy.

After we rented a house for a few years, Xu Minghui was assigned a house from the unit, although the area is not large, but it is enough for our family of three, at this time our daughter should also go to kindergarten, we took her back from her grandparents' house and took her to raise her.

After a few years, at this time, Xu Minghui's and I were steadily rising, so we gritted our teeth and took out a loan to buy a commercial house.

Like many young housewives who work hard in big cities, since I got married, I have been frugal, and I never buy clothes at the original price in the shopping mall, because I think the added value of the clothes there is too high, and the price does not match the real price, so I would rather buy good quality and cheap clothes in some small shops.

But I am still more willing to buy things for Xu Minghui or my daughter, especially Xu Minghui's clothes, because he is a man after all, and men only wear a few formal clothes all year round, and they must wear some more high-grade clothes, so the clothes I bought for Xu Minghui are some high-grade brand-name goods.

In terms of buying daily necessities, I am also striving for excellence, whether it is rice, flour, oil and salt, or any other daily necessities, I will always pick goods to buy when they are on sale, and after a long time, I have basically mastered the discount rules and price comparison of each supermarket nearby, so I can save a lot of money in this year.

I am such an ordinary little housewife who is frugal, busy and happy.

Originally, I thought that I could continue to be happy like this, work and live well with my husband Xu Minghui, and raise our lively and lovely daughter Hopping to adulthood, but I never thought that in this process, my husband cheated.

Let's talk about my husband Xu Minghui's situation after marriage.

Because of my family, I have been doing housework since I was a child, and when I was a teenager, I would cook for the whole family, and because my parents worked very weekdays, it was not difficult for me to help them share some household chores appropriately after studying.

And Xu Minghui's family because he has sisters and sisters, so he basically doesn't do any housework at home, and he just buries himself in study when he goes to school, until he is admitted to college, so after we graduate and get married, although he also wants to help me do some housework within his ability, but looking at his clumsy appearance, it is better for me to do it myself, so I basically take care of the housework after marriage, so Xu Minghui has developed the problem of being in charge of housework.

In terms of family finances, I am relatively strict, this is no way to do things, we both come from remote mountainous areas, and the family burden is very heavy, so we have to send a part of our salary to the family in addition to keeping a part of our salary after work, in this case, we can also squeeze out money to buy another suite, all by squeezing between my teeth, so I usually can't manage family finances without picking tightly.

Moreover, with the increase of our marriage years, Xu Minghui gradually has a certain status in the unit, and there are more opportunities to go out to socialize, and I am also afraid that he will learn badly, so the spare money he usually gives him is limited, because I firmly believe that it is easy for a man to learn bad when he spends money in his hand.

Basically, before he cheated, our family situation was like this, and there were no discordant notes on the surface at that time, so when I learned that Xu Minghui was cheating, it could be regarded as a thunderbolt from the sky.