I listened quietly to Xie Fangzhi's words, and at this time, a faint sneer appeared on the corner of my mouth, and I asked Xie Fangzhi softly: "Mrs. Zhou, your words are too arbitrary, right? As a celebrity said, happy families are all similar, unhappy families are different, and some things have not been experienced, how dare you make a conclusion about it?"

In fact, my words at this time were already a bit-for-tat with Xie Fangzhi, but she obviously came prepared, so she was not stunned by my words at all.

Hearing me say this now, Xie Fangzhi smiled faintly, leaned back in his seat, and said to me with full confidence: "Based on what I have seen and heard over the years, and the many things I have experienced, I have come to the above conclusion. I have lived most of my life, I have made countless friends in this life, I have seen a variety of family combination models, some are older than me, some are younger than me, such as in their forties, thirties, not to mention the youngest. Speaking of countless couples from your age group onwards, I have seen countless couples, let's just say that the family is stable and happy, and can walk hand in hand for 20 years, generally men and women are of the same age, or a combination of men and women, strong men and weak women. However, in the more than 100 couples I have contacted, none of them are women and men who are happy to grow old, there are two pairs, it is true that women are big and men are small, but the women are also very strong, and they have the initiative in work and family, but their families are also full of problems. And the woman is big and the man is small, and the man is very strong and excellent, even much better than the woman......"

Speaking of this, Xie Fangzhi couldn't help but shake his head and muttered to me, "To be honest, I've never seen a pair like this. Unless this is the case: the couple joined hands when they had nothing, the woman accompanied the man through the most difficult period, and the man thanked the woman for her dedication, so no matter what her appearance was, what her ability was, whether she was a few years older than herself, she would not abandon her after becoming famous. I've heard of such an example, but they are not in my circle of friends, they are a relative of my friend, their family is this combination of women and men, and men are strong and women are weak, and now their children are very large, in order to thank his wife for the grace of the troubles back then, this gentleman did not abandon her, but he has always had an outer room outside all these years, and he knows these things in his heart, but what can she do? She is fifty-six years old, she has already gone through menopause, and she has lost the most attractive stage of a woman, and her husband is five years younger than her, just fifty-one years old, and fifty-one years old is actually a very good age for men, and it can even be said that she is in the prime of life, and you can look at the news reports of some successful people from all walks of life, and you will find that the average age of these men is about fifty years old. So the couple, although they didn't feel the age gap when they were young, now it seems that they are two generations, the lover that my husband is raising outside is not yet thirty years old, and they have a three-year-old son. ”

Then, Xie Fangzhi leaned forward slightly, and said to me in a very sincere tone: "Ms. Wei, please believe me, there is no need for me to deceive you in this matter. To tell you the truth, Yaze's father and I are also a combination of men and women, and when I married him, I was just twenty years old and had not yet graduated from college, and Yaze's father was seven years older than me and had just returned from studying abroad. The turtles in the early eighties were very popular, and he was indeed excellent, and my mother's family and the Zhou family were also world friends, and it was because they were very optimistic about Yaze's father's future that my parents strongly advocated that I marry him. In fact, I was still an ignorant little girl at the time, I always felt that he was much older than me, I had no concept of marriage at that time, even if I was in love, I also wanted to find a boy of a similar age. But my mother told me that in a few years, you will know how right the choice your mother made for you, so I followed my mother's persuasion, married Yaze's father, and gave birth to Yaze the next year. ”

Speaking of this, Xie Fangzhi smiled with some emotion, she paused for a moment, and continued: "Now that more than thirty years have passed, I am really very grateful to my mother for helping me make this decision back then. Because over the past few decades, Yaze's father really loves me very much, at first he regarded me as a little sister, and then he was married for more years, and the relationship became weaker, but at this time there was already a continuous family relationship between us, so even if Yaze's father developed later, there were some warblers around him who took the initiative to post it, but in general, his heart has always put me in the most important position, for decades, he has always loved me, no matter what the occasion, he has saved me enough face, he is also very attached to our family, we are already this age, I think the next ten or twenty years, we will go hand in hand。 ”

When he said this, Xie Fangzhi's tone was full of sweetness and pride that could not be concealed.

After finishing speaking, Xie Fangzhi leaned forward again, got closer to me, and said to me earnestly: "Little sister, listen to the eldest sister, don't be too greedy for this relationship with Yaze. This relationship is like a tempting pie to you, but trust me, it's not easy for you to eat. If you follow Yaze, you will integrate into his life circle in the future, do you know what kind of people he interacts with? To tell the truth, in Yaze's circle of friends, there are no children from ordinary families, and their lovers are all young and beautiful outstanding girls from various good families, don't you feel very tired when dealing with these people? I understand your painful and lost feelings after the divorce, but you shouldn't get out of one whirlpool and fall into another whirlpool, and the reason why I say Yaze is another whirlpool here for you is because Yaze is not suitable for you. Let's not mention the side, just talking about the issue of childbirth, my husband's family is a traditional businessman in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, and the concept of inheriting incense is particularly serious, and now we have better conditions, and we also have the capital to have more children, so if my Zhou family marries a daughter-in-law, he will have to add at least two men and one woman in the day, can you undertake this fertility task? After all, you are now thirty-five years old. ”

Speaking of this, Xie Fangzhi looked at me with a prompting look.

I smiled wryly, didn't look up, and didn't respond positively to her question.

Seeing that I didn't react, Zhou Yaze's mother sighed softly and continued slowly: "Maybe Yaze is now injured by a willful rich girl, so he is particularly attached to the steadfastness and stability brought to him by a mature woman like you, but when you enter into marriage, after five years and eight years, when your face fades, he will be greedy for the good feeling that young girls bring him, because this is the common nature of men, which is determined by physiological differences, so even if he is my son, I can't help but tell the truth." ”

After saying this, Xie Fangzhi said to me very sincerely: "Little sister, if you are willing to listen to the advice of the eldest sister and break off the unrealistic relationship with Yaze, then the eldest sister will not be able to make a guarantee here, and your personal problems in the future will be covered by the eldest sister......

Speaking of this, Xie Fangzhi smiled confidently at me, and then said softly: "I tell you that there are many excellent young men in the eldest sister's circle of friends, ranging in age from forty to fifty years old, some of them were divorced in their early years, and some were widowed in their early years, their economic strength is very strong, and their character is not to say, if you want, after you and Yaze are officially separated, rest for a while, and the eldest sister will arrange for you to go on a blind date with these excellent young men. Believe me, such a man is the man who is really suitable for you, and if you join hands with such a person, the marriage can last longer. ”

After listening to Xie Fangzhi's words that sounded reasonable, I only felt funny in my heart.

I raised my head, looked at Xie Fangzhi calmly, and smiled faintly at her: "Mrs. Zhou, introduce me to a boyfriend, this is not necessary, to be honest, I don't have any other suitable marriage partner except Zhou Yaze." ”

My words are not groundless, because there is Li Wanxiang who promised to introduce me before, and her "so-called excellent friends" mentioned by Xie Fangzhi are nothing more than Li Wanxiang's conditions.

"I just want to say to you," I thought and whispered to Xie Fangzhi, "I really love Yaze, I think he is the same for me, he also said, let me give his parents a little time, he will slowly do the work of thinking through you and his father, and he also said that everything is on him, it is only a matter of time." So actually, I don't have to respond to you today, just wait for Yaze to come forward to mediate and solve it, I just need to believe in the love between us and abide by the agreement between me and him. ”

After saying this, I looked at Xie Fangzhi's reaction, and as I expected, her expression was very surprised, and even her eyes were slightly angry, because after all, when I said this, it can be said that I was openly arguing with her.

Seeing her expression, I secretly smiled bitterly in my heart, if it weren't for the fact that she was Yaze's mother, I would probably give her a few heavier words, but at the moment, I can't do this, who calls her Yaze's biological mother?

So after I finished saying the above words, I thought deeply for a moment, raised my head and continued to say to Xie Fangzhi: "However, even if Zhou Yaze and I are truly in love, he is willing to marry me into the door, but since you are his biological parents, even if I marry him, I can't help but consider the problem of getting along with you in the future." Therefore, if you insist on opposing this marriage, my married life with Yaze will also be full of ups and downs, after all, it is difficult to achieve happiness in a marriage that is not blessed by relatives, so from today onwards, I will reconsider my relationship with Yaze. ”

After hearing my words, Xie Fangzhi breathed a sigh of relief.