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Seeing that my attitude showed signs of relaxation, Xie Fangzhi's attitude also softened, and she said to me softly: "Ms. Wei, in fact, I am not a particularly harsh mother, if that were the case, I would not have agreed to Ya Ze and his first girlfriend Xiaoxuan dating in the first place......

At the mention of Xiao Xuan's name, Xie Fangzhi sighed lightly, and then continued: "Actually, in all fairness, Xiao Xuan's family background and personal appearance conditions are very ordinary, her family is not comparable to our Zhou family, her personal appearance conditions, basically people who have seen her say that she can only be regarded as a middle-class posture, and we Yaze's appearance conditions, you also know," Speaking of this, Xie Fangzhi smiled, her smile was quite smug, she continued, " Basically, people who have seen us Yaze have to admit that he has the appearance of a dragon and a phoenix, and his appearance conditions are not my boast of being a mother, in all fairness, he can definitely be regarded as superior among men. In addition, he himself is very hard-working and intelligent, so, as a mother, he hopes that his son can find an excellent daughter-in-law worthy of him, when he told us about his relationship with Xiaoxuan, I did object, because that girl is too ordinary, and the conditions are much worse than him in all aspects, but he insisted again and again, and I agreed. The reason why I later agreed was mainly due to several considerations, one is that they are classmates who studied abroad together and have the foundation of living together, and secondly, although Xuan is ordinary, she and Yaze are also of the same age, and the history is innocent and simple, and she was still a very innocent little girl at that time. Therefore, although she is not excellent, but people are malleable, as long as she has a good foundation, I think that after she marries into the Zhou family, after my careful training, she should grow into a well-behaved daughter-in-law, and she can also be qualified for the role of the daughter-in-law of our Zhou family. And you ......"

Speaking of this, Xie Fangzhi looked at me, smiled helplessly, and then said softly: "Ms. Wei, let me tell you the truth, my first feeling when I saw you was not to meet a junior, but to meet a peer of my own. You think, you've been married for so long, and you have a teenage child, what ups and downs haven't you experienced in this world? Maybe you don't have as much experience as I do, but I don't think it's much less than me, to be honest, ......."

Speaking of this, Xie Fangzhi laughed self-deprecatingly, shook his head slightly, and said helplessly: "To tell the truth, if a woman like you marries into our Zhou family, I don't dare to train you, I don't dare to train you, I'm afraid you won't be willing to listen, after all, you also have experience, you can be said to have formed your own fixed way of doing things at this age, and it is unlikely that you will easily listen to other people's opinions." But if we don't give advice, with the current social scope of our Zhou family, it can be said that there are 800 pairs of eyes staring at us, if our daughter-in-law of the Zhou family is not particularly particular about speaking and doing things, it is easy to leave people behind, so pointing and teaching the future daughter-in-law is what I should do as a mother-in-law, if I don't do that, it is my dereliction of duty. But for a mature character like you, I can't teach you all my experience, because you may not listen to it, and you can understand what I mean when I say that, right?"

I smiled helplessly, thinking to myself: Of course I understand what you mean.

In fact, Xie Fangzhi's words are the same psychology as many successful men who like to find little girls, successful middle-aged men like to find young and simple little girls, because they feel that their lives are still a blank slate, and they can draw by themselves, which can bring them a great sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.

And Xie Fangzhi likes young girls to be her daughters-in-law, and it is nothing more than that such a girl can be trained by her personally, and finally grow into a daughter-in-law of the Zhou family who satisfies her and is praised by the outside world.

And I, a mature woman with rich experience and even a little silly big sister, is not suitable for such a role, I already have a rebellious personality in my bones, young and fashionable and unwilling to be easily tamed by others, now that I am a lot older, how can I easily grovel in front of a noble lady and let her guide me how to be a qualified daughter-in-law of a wealthy family?

It's a fantasy.

So based on the above considerations, I replied to Xie Fangzhi generously: " Mrs. Zhou, what you said is very realistic, in fact, I have always been concerned about these problems, after all, my marriage to Yaze is not only a matter between the two of us, but also a major event between the two families, I married Yaze, in fact, I am married to the Zhou family, and your Zhou family is such a background, you have to worry about the influence and prestige everywhere, so in the process of interacting with Yaze, I also retreated, and it was Yaze's later persistence and encouragement that gave me the courage to continue with him. Listening to you today, I have a clearer understanding of our future, Mrs. Zhou, or this is the case today, you allow me a few days, I will talk to Ya Ze in the next few days, tell him my real thoughts, and your real thoughts, and then make a more wise decision about our future. ”

Although I didn't seem to say anything to death, I actually made it clear to Xie Fangzhi, in fact, I want to have a showdown with Zhou Yaze, point out all the unreality of our continued progress, and then break up peacefully.

As smart as Xie Fangzhi, how could he not understand the meaning of my words?

Xie Fangzhi smiled faintly with relief, and then said to me kindly: "Xiao Wei, even if you and Yaze break up, I hope we can become friends." Actually, if you think about it from the perspective of a friend, I still admire you as a person, dare to think and dare to do, you are worthy of being a heroine among women!"

Listening to her meaningful laughter, I secretly smiled bitterly in my heart, I think she must have done enough about my background before she met me, including how I clashed with Zhao Bingyan and Wu Xiaona when I was in Yiyou Advertising Agency, and even how to pour rice on Wu Xiaona's head in the cafeteria, she must know it well, so she said this at this moment.

When I think about it this way, I feel like a monkey that has been plucked out of its fur and marches, and I am seen through all over my body, and I can't help but feel a little annoyed in my helplessness.

I smiled faintly at Xie Fangzhi, and then replied to her: "I think that the interaction between people is also a kind of fate, and if I can become a good friend with you, it will also be an honor for me." But the premise of friendship is to have common views and hobbies, and the circle of hobbies between me and you is too far apart, so if we want to be friends, I'm afraid there is still a distance, right?"

Listening to my lukewarm confession, Xie Fangzhi was slightly stunned, but soon a smile resurfaced on her face, and then Yun said to me lightly: "It's okay, you can't be friends, just become strangers who meet and appreciate each other in Pingshui, and it is also a scenery in life." ”

I smiled faintly and whispered to Xie Fangzhi: "Mrs. Zhou, why don't we do this today? I will talk to Yaze another day, I think you will soon know the result of our discussion." ”

Xie Fangzhi smiled at me gently, nodded again and again, and said, "Okay, okay, then I'll wait for your news?"

I smiled coldly, nodded slightly at Xie Fangzhi, and then beckoned the waiter to pay.

Seeing this scene, Xie Fangzhi hurriedly politely stopped me and said, "Hey, Ms. Wei, this cup of small tea, my sister invited you, so don't be polite to me." ”

I was not polite to her, got up politely, and then said goodbye to her, and walked out of the tearoom.

I could feel that behind me, Xie Fangzhi's gaze kept following my back.

Walking on the street corner of the city at the beginning of the bright lights, I carried my bag and walked slowly and slowly, my steps were very heavy, and my mood was as heavy as my steps at this time.

I knew that this might be a fruitless love, why should I still covet its beauty?

To this day, I still believe that Zhou Yaze loves me, but in this flashy city, love is not only between two men and women, but also between two families. And for a woman like me who has been divorced once, love is even more related to the fate of several families and even many people for me.

I'm not a little girl anymore, I can't act arbitrarily like when I was young and ignorant, I just rely on my own will, and the same is true for Zhou Yaze, as mature men and women, we have many responsibilities on us, and every step we make will also have an impact on many people, so today we must be cautious with every step we take.

Frankly speaking, this good time with Zhou Yaze, although short, brought me a warm and honey-like feeling.

However, things that are too sweet and beautiful often can't last long, after all, the two of us don't live in a fairy tale world, we have to take into account a lot of aspects around us, for Yaze, his family is a heavy castle that he can't give up, no matter what kind of attitude his parents have towards our love, but Zhou Yaze can't really turn his face with his parents in the end, or even break up.

Therefore, with the degree of opposition of the Zhou family and his wife now, if I continue to walk with Zhou Yaze, then I will have to experience a protracted family war, and this war is not affordable for me at all, after all, I am not young anymore......

Now, I really understand why my good friend Xu Xin, and even my sister Hai Jing, hope that I can find an older, stable middle-aged man, just because he can give me a stable harbor, because at my age, I can't afford to toss anymore.

This night, I didn't go back to the residence where I lived with Zhou Yaze before, I went back to the house I got when I got divorced.

After entering the house, I kept thinking about how to call Zhou Yaze, and then ask him to talk in detail after returning to China.

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