Chapter 46: Behind a Successful Man
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Bian Xu has a cheerful personality and a sunny image, and when I am with him, I treat him as a little brother, without any pressure at all, let alone think crookedly.
Bian Xu, like me, loves sports, living in such a stressful city, sometimes exercise is the best way to relieve stress, so Bian Xu and I both use sports to pass our spare time, the same hobby, so that we have become friends of the opposite sex who forget the year.
I have a friend who works in a sports gym, and through her connections, we can rent cheaper tennis and badminton courts, both of which Bian Xu and I love, and we often meet together to play tennis or badminton, sometimes with the two of us, sometimes with two friends, and have a mixed doubles.
When the weather is bad, we will go to several indoor swimming pools in the room to swim, Bian Xu's physical strength is great, there is no problem to swim a few kilometers in a row, the backstroke and freestyle posture are very beautiful, although my speed can't catch up with him, but it is also very strong among women, and it is no problem for me to swim a thousand meters in a row.
I spent my spare time like this, avoiding the tedious blind date shows.
To tell the truth, blind date is the greatest test of human endurance and patience, two big men and women sit awkwardly together, and then I am interrogated like a routine: where are you from? After all, which university are you from? Where are you in high school now? By the way, you have been married once, right? Why did you divorce? Who did the children belong to after the divorce?
After grasping these basic questions, the other party began to inquire about my financial situation in a roundabout way: Are you busy with your work now? I heard that you make a lot of money as a planner! It is said that the annual salary ranges from 100,000 to hundreds of thousands, how much can you earn now? By the way, you have your own house, right?
Whenever they are cross-examined, I think in my heart: if this is a chat on QQ, I can set these questions as a quick reply, and then the other party asks, I will "vacate" and click on the shortcut keys that have been set, so as to save me from wasting my tongue here and repeating the same question to them again and again.
After asking these questions, the other party watched me with a scrutinizing gaze, which was probably calculating in his heart, estimating my comprehensive value together, and then comparing it with other women he had met, and finally evaluating one, two, and three, and then selecting the best of the best, deciding which one or which ones to continue to develop.
To be honest, this kind of track is so tiresome that every now and then I feel like a commodity, being picked up from the shelf, carefully comparing it with the others, and then deciding which of us is the most satisfying to buy him home.
Many people's endurance and patience are polished in this cookie-cutter cross-examination, if this kind of blind date is carried out too much, people will have serious aesthetic fatigue, at that time, no matter how good the opposite sex you see next, it may not arouse your special interest, because your patience has been worn out, in your eyes, he is no different from those blind dates you have seen before.
What's even more terrifying is that some leftover men and women have experienced no less than 100 blind dates when they are in their thirties, and such blind date tactics like a wheel war have polished out the edges and passions of people.
The reason why I suspended the blind date show was not because I didn't want to lose the only little enthusiasm in my heart, because I was afraid that when I met a man who was really suitable for me in the future, I would miss him, because at that time my inner enthusiasm had been worn out, so I paused this kind of bothering program and went elsewhere to breathe a breath of fresh air, and those sports times I experienced with Bian Xu were the fresh air I found outside.
There is no worry about being with Bian Xu, he is still so young, he has just graduated and joined the work, like marriage, housing, these painstaking issues are not his turn to consider, because he still has time to squander.
His world is pure, his heart is pure and immaculate, with him, I don't feel any worldly disturbances and confusion at all, our time together is happy, I feel that he treats me as a big sister of his, and he will talk to me about any troubles, of course, more often, he brings me happiness.
Because Bian Xu is engaged in technology, so the computer at home, and other electronic devices are basically let him help me get it again, Bian Xu always takes the trouble to help me solve it, from the personality of Bian Xu is really a perfect boy, both calm and calm, and at the same time enthusiastic and cute, I often think in my heart, Hai Jing is a few years older than Bian Xu, and now he is still a famous flower, if Bian Xu appeared in my life a few years ago, I would definitely introduce my own sister to him, because this is really a reliable boy.
The days passed without even realizing it.
My boss Xu Wenbo is a figure who can't see the end of the dragon, in addition to this advertising agency, he has other businesses in operation, such as a clothing design company, and a film and television company, so he does not always come to the advertising company, but his main asset is still Olin advertising agency.
Xu Wenbo is an excellent man, this kind of excellence mainly refers to his character and ability, he is not tall, medium stature, if you only look at the appearance, it can be said that his appearance is not good, but look at the comprehensive temperament, is to feel different from others, because his smile and speech naturally carry a kind of stability and detachment unique to successful people, he said that the tone of his voice is not high, but it is very shocking, he looks at you with a slight smile, so that you feel that you have been valued, this is the king of a successful person, this kind of spirit is by no means what we ordinary people can have, only those who have experienced the ups and downs of right and wrongOnly those who have a thorough understanding of life will have.
Because Mr. Xu does not always come to the company, I do not have much contact with him, this advertising company is mainly managed by two professional managers appointed by him, and with the profound lessons in Yiyou advertising company, this time I don't want to get so close to the boss again, so as not to cause any more undue criticism, affecting my work and life.
Actually, my worries are also superfluous, just like Zhou Yaze will have a fiancée who is a good match for him, good men in this world are always in demand, don't worry about which good man will be left for you alone, Mr. Xu is so outstanding, of course, it is nothing more than that.
Mr. Xu's ex-wife ran away with others when he was in trouble, which has been mentioned before, but now he is a very successful person in this society, that is, the person at the top of the pyramid, which is often referred to as the person at the top of the pyramid, so naturally there are a lot of outstanding beauties who take the initiative to give them their arms.
Although Mr. Xu did not remarry, he has a formal girlfriend, named Ling Wei is a very good woman, twenty-seven years old, not only and graceful and beautiful, but also very good at studying, it is said that he graduated from a famous school in France, majored in fashion design, and is now a very outstanding young designer in the industry, Mr. Xu's clothing design company is assigned to this beautiful girlfriend to take care of.
Sometimes when Mr. Xu comes to Olin Advertising Agency, he will bring Ling Wei over, her beauty is obvious to all, her appearance is very pure, and her walking posture is also very elegant and generous, I personally feel that on the whole, she is not lost to Zhao Bingyan and Wu Yanran.
Ling Wei is very polite, every time she comes to the company, even if it is an ordinary employee, she will smile at us, which shows that this woman's self-cultivation is also very good, and it also proves that Mr. Xu's vision is very unique, and the level of choosing women is also very high.
After getting rid of the blind date troubles, I have more time to hang out with some of my friends who don't usually have time to move around, including the aforementioned promise to help me in my divorce.
Xinnuo's family looks perfect, with an excellent husband, a lovely daughter, and an old man who is not satisfied with the old, and a sister-in-law who is well-mannered.
Once I went to sit at Xinnuo's, the two of us were bored and leaned on the sofa, drinking coffee, while chatting rambling casually, chatting about her topic and talking about our boss Xu Wenbo.
Xinnuo held the coffee cup and said to me seriously: "Haichao, do you know? ”
I was flipping through a fashion magazine, and when she said that, I put it down and asked her curiously, "Oh, how did you know her?"
Xinnuo smiled and put down the coffee cup, then explained softly to me: "That was many years ago, when I had just graduated and interned at a legal consulting center, and Xu Wenbo's ex-wife Ding Yun was also working in that consulting office, so I was my senior, so I worked with her for a few years." ”
I felt very curious, so I muttered, "So, Mr. Xu's ex-wife is also engaged in legal work?
Xu Xinnuo smiled helplessly, and said to me with slight disgust: "According to your logic, the family members of the lawyer's family will not commit crimes?"
I smiled awkwardly, and then muttered an explanation, "That's a lot less likely than a normal person, isn't it? ”
Xu Xinnuo smiled helplessly, and then whispered to me: "It is said that no one can help Xu Wenbo in that incident, of course, I also heard from others, I just went to work at that time, and I was very young, and I don't know the specific details." But after the accident, his wife left with someone else, this thing is true," Speaking of this, Xu Xinnuo looked at me and told me with some puzzlement, "Hey, you said I don't understand how Ding Yun could do that kind of thing? ”
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