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Xu Minghui's parents originally lived in a small remote county town in the north, Hopping was sent to her grandparents from more than one year old, the two old people loved her very much, and it can even be said that they were pampered, they lived in an old-fashioned alley, there were always many children in that alley, a group of children of similar age always got together to play, and Hopping was a child king there, only she bullied others, and there was no reason for others to bully her.

If she was bullied by someone, she would cry all the way home to complain to her grandparents, and then her grandparents would pull Hop Hop to go door to door to Xingshi to ask for guilt to see who bullied her granddaughter.

It was under such unprincipled pampering that when he was four or five years old, he was more naughty and wild than boys, and he was particularly disobedient.

When I first came back to me, I was more than four years old, like a tomboy, watching TV during dinner, the more I beckoned her to eat, the more she couldn't come, and she talked back to me when she was annoyed, and her big eyes were white and white, and she didn't take me seriously.

In the past, when Hop Hop was eating at her grandparents' house, the two old men would follow her buttocks with a small bowl and feed her, so they developed the stinky problem of eating while watching TV.

However, after returning to me, I will no longer indulge her bad things, as soon as the TV remote control is closed, will you eat? If you don't eat, you will stand against the wall! Stand for an hour and see if you are hungry?

Jumping this kid is very wild, she doesn't take my words seriously, I get angry and hit her ass twice, and she will fight back with her hands, rush up and hit me with her little hands, and sometimes bite me.

I was so angry that I thought to myself, I don't believe I can't clean up your little thing? So, I slipped her up and pressed her on the bed, and hit her hard on the ass until she screamed and begged for mercy, and I asked her, "Will you talk back to me next time?"

She cried and replied to me intermittently, "Woooo......oo Don't dare...... Don't dare anymore!woowoowoo......"

I held her down and asked her loudly, "Will I listen to my words in the future?"

She wiped the tears from her face with her little hands and sobbed back, "Listen!"

Seeing my daughter crying so sadly, I actually feel uncomfortable, the child was born with my hard work in October, and it was a piece of meat that fell from my body, how could I not feel sorry for her?

However, I also firmly believe that educating children must adopt the principle of both grace and power, blindly pampering and obeying the will of the child, it can be said that there is no harm to the child, because the child is like a seedling that is growing crookedly, someone must support and correct her (his) growth posture, so that in the future she (he) may thrive into a towering tree, blindly obedient and doting will only make the seedling difficult to withstand the baptism of wind and rain, and even die halfway, so there is a habit of killing a child.

In terms of my own upbringing, my dad was a rough man, my mom didn't have much education, they loved their children, but in front of us, they were also a very dignified pair of parents.

Our brothers and sisters have been beaten for a few hours, after all, children are naughty by nature, and at that time, parents were busy all day for life, and there was not so much time to persuade and educate us.

However, even so, none of us grew up resentful and blamed our parents, on the contrary, our brothers and sisters were very sensible and precocious, and knew very early to help our parents share a share of housework, and after they became families, they also deeply thanked their parents for their nurturing grace, and tried every means to double their filial piety.

On the other hand, I have seen a lot of pampered children who grow up, and when they grow up, not only do they not miss their parents' nurturing grace, but they are full of complaints, and they complain that their parents did not prepare this, and they complain that their parents did not provide that, which is very special and chilling to parents.

So during my marriage to Xu Minghui, in terms of educating children, I always adhered to a principle, that is, one of the two of us sang with a red face and the other with a white face, and of course the Bao Gong who sang the red face was me, and the Cao Cao who sang the white face was of course Xu Minghui.

Jumping has been brought by me since she was brought back to us, this child was used to the bad things by her grandparents, such as not washing hands before meals, not liking to brush her teeth, not liking to take a bath, sometimes scolding and the like, and then I corrected her little by little, I not only corrected these bad problems on her, but also strictly required her to study, did not complete her homework, did not allow her to sleep, I will always accompany her until she finishes her homework.

It is under my strict supervision that Hopping has always had excellent grades in primary school, always ranking at the top of the grade group, and it can be said that I have always played the role of a strict mother in the family.

And Xu Minghui is busy with work, he has very little time to accompany his daughter, even if he comes back to accompany his daughter, he talks and laughs with her, and rarely reprimands her.

When Jumping was small, he could ride on Xu Minghui's neck, and sometimes Xu Minghui would lie on the floor to ride Jumping as a big horse, Jumping Jumping rode on his back, and gently whipped Xu Minghui's broad back with a small cloth rope, and roared happily in his small mouth, "Gotcha!

Xu Minghui always brings some fun and delicious food to his daughter every time he comes back from a business trip, so Xu Minghui has always been a loving father in front of his daughter, and he rarely strictly restricts his daughter.

Although Hop Hop and I have a good relationship, she is still a little afraid of me in her bones, and at the same time a little annoyed by me, because I am always regulating her behavior, such as some bad habits in life, and teaching her how to get along with teachers and classmates at school, so after a long time, Hop Hop always thinks I am annoyed.

But she was not afraid of her father at all, because Xu Minghui had little time with her, and rarely restrained her in these aspects, so when my marriage with Xu Minghui was about to disintegrate, Hopping finally chose to live with her father.

I know that Xu Minghui has been very busy at work, and he doesn't have so much patience to restrain his daughter's daily behavior, so once his daughter follows him, she will basically be free-range in the future, if he is too busy or on a business trip, he may send his daughter to her grandparents to eat and live, and in front of the two old people, Jumping is even more careless, and he is not afraid of heaven and earth.

Although I am helpless about this, there is no way, after all, I have to follow the wishes of my children.

***

When I was just divorced, I had a very complicated feeling in my heart, and it can be said that there was both a sense of relief and a deep sense of sadness.

The reason why I feel heavy is because I didn't expect my marriage of more than ten years to end like this, and I didn't expect that my hard work for this family for more than ten years would end up with such a chilling end.

Although I don't regret leaving Xu Minghui, his attitude still deeply chills my heart, I can forgive him for cheating, but I can never forgive him for my indifferent attitude over the years, his attitude makes me feel how unworthy my efforts over the years, this is the main reason why I insist on leaving him.

As for me feeling relaxed, it is because since I have recognized the true face of this marriage, it is of course wise to cut through the mess quickly and withdraw as soon as possible, so I would rather give up my savings and insist on a quick divorce with Xu Minghui, so that I will start a new life in the future without any delay.

Although at the time of the divorce, I had less than a few thousand yuan in savings, but I didn't complain at all, because I knew my ability to work, and I firmly believed that even if I was single in the future, I would get better and better.

Although I didn't mention my divorce to anyone in the company, many people in our company knew the news of my divorce.

Moreover, they also vaguely heard that my divorce was because my ex-husband Xu Minghui cheated, and even some people added fuel and vinegar, describing the scene at that time, saying how Xu Minghui and that woman were in my house, they were doing piston movement when I broke in, and then how I separated the two of them, and how the woman who had adultery with Xu Minghui scuffled together, all came together, as if they were all there that day.

There are more women in our company, and there are many places where there are many women, among which there are inevitably some long-tongued women who like to fan the flames for fear that the world will not be chaotic, especially I have always been vigorous and resolute, and I am still a pillar of the same character in the planning department, because of good performance, so I will take more every commission, so I am also hated by some people, so, with the addition of these long-tongued women, soon, my divorce was interpreted into several versions, and it went viral in the company.

Many well-wishers still speculate behind my back, saying that it is difficult for a divorced woman like me to find a suitable partner, and at the same time, divorced women are relatively open to sexuality, so eventually many married men will become my targets, so everyone will be wary of me.

Although these people did not dare to talk about these gossips in front of me, I clearly felt that the way they looked at me was different from before, and even some of them had that deep hint and ridicule in their eyes, which made me feel very uncomfortable, and I also had a feeling of thorns in my back.

I'm a woman with a relatively stubborn personality, I don't think there's anything wrong with an older single woman's own life, and I'm also a clean woman, and I won't hook up with a married man casually because of the emptiness of **, I don't know why someone is so malicious behind my back.

At that time, I even thought of resigning, and it was at this time that my immediate boss, Zhou Yaze, the company's boss, talked to me once.

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