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I am a person who would rather be broken than bent for the whole of the tile, before Xu Minghui's heart was exposed to me, I could still paralyze myself and comfort myself, thinking that although he was a little flowery, his essence was good, and he really loved me and the child, and loved this family, but now once I know the true thoughts in his heart, my heart is completely cold.

I have always thought that although I behave a lot of smugness, in the eyes of my loved ones, I should be a cute little woman, because I am lively, diligent, and truly love Xu Minghui, and I also love our daughter and this little family, isn't this enough for Xu Minghui to love me?

I never expected that in Xu Minghui's eyes, I was just a vulgar woman with a loud voice and tasteless clothes, which made him lose face in front of his friends.

I admit that I set up a trap for Xu Minghui to get in, so that he can pour out all his true thoughts in his heart, but my purpose in doing this is also to know what kind of image I am in his heart, now that I know that I am so unbearable in his heart, then no matter how much I repair this marriage with cracks, no matter how hard I try in the future, it may not be worth mentioning in his eyes, so I don't need to put myself so low, I have to compromise and continue to live this life with him, so I finally decided to divorce。

After making this decision, I called Xu Minghui to tell him, and his attitude was not as emotional as the day I left, but he was also very resolute, and he did not agree to the divorce.

In order to persuade me to change my mind, Xu Minghui sent all the forces that could be used, his old leader, Director Xu, personally called me, and Sister Wang personally came to persuade me to give Xu Minghui another chance, and Xu Minghui's family, including his parents, also called me and asked me to forgive him once.

My parents-in-law didn't understand what was wrong between us, and I always thought that the two of us were just ordinary two people quarreling and vomiting, and I couldn't accuse Xu Minghui of sleeping with other women in front of the two old people and being caught and raped by me in person, after all, they are old, and if they can't bear the blow when they hear this kind of news, I can't afford to be responsible, so in the face of their bitter persuasion, I can only temporarily support me.

Later, one night, my brother-in-law Mingqi and his wife came to my residence to find me, trying to persuade me to reconcile with Xu Minghui, that night, we talked for a long time, I told them all the things that should be said, although Mingqi and his wife both persuaded me to give Xu Minghui another chance, but when they heard the mistakes made by their eldest brother, they were also silent, and then they persuaded me a few more words, but seeing that my attitude was so resolute, in the end they had to return in vain.

Seeing that everyone persuaded me to no avail, Xu Minghui began to adopt a strategy of dragging, he began to travel frequently, and he was always unable to contact him on the phone, he thought that relying on this strategy of dragging, he could drag me back to my mind, but unfortunately, his wishful thinking failed, once I made any decision in Weihaichao, it was not easy for others to change.

Seeing Xu Minghui disappear in hiding, I was furious and prepared to go directly to the court to sue for divorce.

Since I made this decision, of course, I had to consult with a lawyer first, and the lawyer I found was a friend I had met through my work, and her name was Xu Xinnuo.

Xinnuo and I are close in age and experience, originally we were just an ordinary working partnership, but in the later slow contact, gradually became a good friend in life, I know that she sometimes takes over divorce disputes, so I found her for advice.

We met in a quiet little café, Xinnuo was a beautiful woman with beautiful facial features and fair skin, and her demeanor was very elegant, and when she met me that day, she wore a light red dress, which looked very elegant and generous.

Seeing me sitting there sullenly drinking coffee, looking very bitter, Xu Xinnuo smiled at me and asked me softly, "Have you thought about it? Have you really decided to divorce Xu Minghui?"

I nodded at her and replied affirmatively, "It's decided, I must leave this marriage." ”

Xu Xinnuo nodded slightly, looked at me and pondered for a moment, and then said softly: "Actually, many couples I met were very resolute when they first came to me to consult about divorce, but after mediation, they finally dispelled their initial thoughts, after all, it is not easy to run a marriage, although it is easy to break it easily, but if you want to build such a castle again, who would have expected that it would be better than before?"

I understand what Xu Xinpromise meant, she just wants me to think about it calmly and weigh the pros and cons, after all, I am not young anymore, and it may not be easy to find it after divorce, in this society, after all, women are still weak.

However, there is one thing she doesn't know, that is, I Wei Haichao has always been a person who eats soft and does not eat hard and does not believe in evil, once I decide something, the nine cows can't pull it back, the more others persuade me to say how heavy the consequences of divorce are for women, how difficult is the life of divorced women, and even say that the objects of divorced women's remarriage are basically crooked melons and cracked dates, so women don't take the initiative to file for divorce, the more I don't believe in this evil!

I, Wei Haichao, is going to divorce this marriage, and after the divorce, it will be more exciting than before the divorce!

So at this moment, I smiled faintly at Xu Xinnuo, and replied to her in an affirmative tone: "Don't worry, I have thought of these consequences, but since I have decided to divorce this marriage, I have the courage to bear all the consequences arising from this, so you don't have to worry about me at this point, today I just want to consult with you, if Xu Minghui insists on refusing to divorce me by agreement, how can I divorce this marriage through legal means?"

Xu Xinnuo saw that I was resolute, so he smiled helplessly, no longer persuaded me, and then explained to me in detail the precautions in the process of suing for divorce in the court, such as how to write a civil complaint, as well as the issue of child support and property division; 。

Xu Xinpromise told me: "You have to be mentally prepared, the court will mediate first after the case is filed, if Xu Minghui also agrees to divorce, you will agree to divorce, if he does not agree, you still have to insist on divorce, then you can only wait for the court judgment, the court may decide to leave, or it may not be divorced, depending on the specific situation, if the judgment is not divorced, you can re-sue for divorce after half a year." ”

I nodded, and then asked Xu Xinnuo: "Then if Xu Minghui insists on not agreeing to the divorce, then what measures can I take to increase the possibility of the ** court ruling the divorce?"

Xu Xinnuo smiled slightly and said to me: "Of course, it would be better if there was some evidence of his cheating, so that he was at fault, which would increase the possibility of the court ruling the divorce." ”

I thought to myself, where can I find evidence of Xu Minghui's cheating? I was so angry when I caught the rape that day, I didn't have time to take pictures and make audio recordings, and now I have no evidence in my hand.

Seeing that I was sitting there with a lot of thoughts, Xu Xinnuo smiled at me and comforted me: "You don't have to think so much about it first, let's discuss the specific things slowly, what aspects should be paid attention to and strengthened, I will tell you." ”

Of course, I was relieved to have her barrister sitting here, so I smiled lightly, toasted her with a coffee cup instead of a wine glass, and said to her with a smile: "Then thank you Barrister Xu first!"

Xu Xinnuo smiled at me coquettishly: "You, what are you busy thanking for? ”

Under Xu Minghui's policy of dragging and hiding, I was forced to have no choice but to go to court to sue for divorce.

As I expected, during the court mediation process, Xu Minghui began to express his firm disagreement with the divorce, but because my attitude was very resolute, and after Xu Xin's planning, the information I submitted was relatively complete, so in the end, Xu Minghui had no choice but to accept the court's divorce mediation.

Because when I talked to my daughter before, she insisted on living with her father, which made me the most helpless, because the child followed her father, so in terms of property division, although Xu Minghui cheated and made mistakes in marriage first, and should have less property, but in view of the fact that he will raise his daughter in the future, he did not ask too much in terms of child support, so I gave him hundreds of thousands of deposits in our marriage, as for the two houses, the two of us have one set, Xu Minghui lives in the welfare house that his unit divides, that house we have bought in full before, and the property rights are also in our hands, and I live in the commercial house we bought later。

In this way, I finally divorced this marriage.

My friends around me thought I was too cheap Xu Minghui, and he cheated first, but I gave him all the deposits.

For this point, I think about it like this, after all, if I don't look at the face of the monk and see the face of the Buddha, I can not pity Xu Minghui, because he has done something sorry for me, but I have to consider my daughter's living environment in the future, and leave the savings to the two of them, also to make my daughter's life more comfortable after jumping.

As for why Jumping insisted on refusing to follow me, this is also what makes me more sad, Jumping This child grew up in front of his grandparents when he was a child, and it can be said that he was spoiled by the two old men, although the second elder of the Xu family has a serious patriarchal thinking, and was very unhappy when he first learned that I gave birth to a daughter, but later he saw that Jumping was so lively and cute, and felt that this child was born in the wrong place, and it was a child's life, so he raised her like a boy, and developed a pampered character that this child is not afraid of, so that after returning to me, this child is very difficult to tame。

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