Volume VII Section 105 Fear of Marriage
"It's not enough to just hear about it, you have to help us do it. We hope that with the help of the planting of wine grapes and the production of wine, an industrial chain will be formed to drive the income of rural farmers in the northern region, and at the same time, the wine industry will become another growth point of the city's economy. Zhu Fenghou said politely: "I know that this is not an overnight effort, and the wine industry may not be able to compare with the new energy industry, but walking on multiple legs and having a few more growth poles, the structural adjustment of our Qindu will be faster and more stable." ”
"Secretary Zhu, as long as you have this psychological preparation, no matter which industry you support and develop, you can't get immediate results in one or two years, it takes a process. Sha Zhengyang nodded, "If Dongfanghong Group has decided to take this path, I will help you supervise it." ”
"Zhengyang, I've only been in Qin for less than a year, you don't think I'll leave in a year or two, right?" Zhu Fenghou laughed heartily, "I'm mentally prepared to work for a full term of five years, and I haven't counted most of the year, five years, can you give me a thought?"
"That's good, come, Secretary Zhu, I'll toast you. Sha Zhengyang didn't say much, raised his glass and touched Zhu Fenghou.
The atmosphere is created, then Sha Zhengyang will inevitably become a grinding heart, all of them come up to toast, Sha Zhengyang knows that if this continues, he will have to be poured down for two pages no matter how big he is, so he first set up the rules.
Everyone here can come to toast a cup, and he will return a cup, so the total amount of the rest is controlled within three glasses, according to this wine glass for three dollars a cup, these ten or so glasses, half a catty of wine is about the same.
"Zhengyang, Lao Lu has had a drink with you, and you have also returned a glass to Lao Lu, it's time to talk about the Hanqin Expressway, right?"
Zhu Fenghou was also worried about this, he had actually inquired through various relationships before, and specially arranged for Su Lunkang to run through the province a few times, Su Lunkang had something at home today, so he didn't come, otherwise he would have been pulled into battle.
"Well, the Hanqin Expressway may indeed be difficult in the short term, but in fact, it is very difficult to do the same as the high-speed Expressway, it can be said that in addition to the Hanzhaofu Expressway that has been finalized, even the Hanwu Expressway has some follow-up problems to solve, on the other hand, the development of the highway in the coastal area is much faster than our Hanchuan, and some surrounding provinces and cities have also come to the forefront, so the province is also considering how to promote the speed of the construction of transportation infrastructure in the province without sticking to one pattern, and even the development of leapfrogging, there are also some ideas, once implemented, then it may bring a great change to the highway construction mode of our province。 ”
These words are still a little vague, Lu Haodong and the others are obviously still a little dissatisfied, but as Zhu Fenghou, they have already heard some extraneous meanings.
The construction mode will change dramatically, which means that the mode of construction and operation led by the Provincial Expressway Co., Ltd. will change, and even affect the Hanqin Expressway, which is too intriguing.
If this matter is also promoted by Sha Zhengyang, then this guy is really a restless master, and he can make a mess of things wherever he goes.
But today's leaders appreciate and like such subordinates who can toss things, as long as it is conducive to economic development, the more they can toss, the more it can prove that there is a need for change and innovation in this field.
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When I woke up, it was already ten o'clock in the morning, and my mouth was a little bitter, and I would feel this way the next day after drinking too much wine, which was very uncomfortable, but people sometimes couldn't help themselves in the rivers and lakes.
Sha Zhengyang has a lot of alcohol, half a catty of wine is not a problem, but in fact, he hasn't drunk so much for a long time, and the amount of alcohol seems to be decreasing.
The phone rang twice, but he didn't answer.
One is from Jiang Bingyan and the other is from Zhao Yuyang.
For him, it's all annoyance.
In fact, there are not so many specific matters for the centennial celebration of Han University, and more telephone contact, at least for now, but Jiang Bingyan and Zhao Yuyang seem to have found such a reason.
In the early stage, Sha Zhengyang ran Wuling and Puchi too much, so there were not many times when a few people met, and there were two times, and Jiang Bingyan and Zhao Yuyang seemed to have felt each other's existence, but no one was willing to quit.
Sha Zhengyang doesn't have too many entanglements, in fact, he has always maintained a respectful attitude towards Jiang Bingyan, whether it is in the past life or the contact in this life, Sha Zhengyang feels that the other party is not very suitable for him.
As for Zhao Yuyang, she has been in contact twice, this is a very outgoing and cheerful girl, and her conditions are good in all aspects.
At Sha Zhengyang's position and age, Sha Zhengyang felt that it seemed that it was difficult for him to pursue any pure emotional agitation, as long as he was in tune, he could accept it.
So in Sha Zhengyang's view, maybe he thinks it is suitable one day, and Zhao Yuyang agrees, so it seems very possible to suddenly determine the love relationship, even the kind of relationship similar to "engagement", and then find a suitable time to get married.
In this regard, Sha Zhengyang is really not too picky, and even occasionally an idea suddenly pops into his mind, even if Sun Yan suddenly comes to him at this time to get back together, he seems to be okay with it.
This kind of bizarre and strange thought made Sha Zhengyang himself feel shocked and scared, as if he actually had such an indifferent attitude in his relationship and marriage, as long as he could get by.
But I do have this kind of thought in my heart, and it is very real.
This kind of relationship and even the indulgence in marriage is in stark contrast to his dedication to his career, because of this, Sha Zhengyang is very confused, he can only use hard work to reduce the pressure brought by this once he is idle, he is afraid of facing his emotional absence and helplessness, and he doesn't know how to face it.
"If you're not sure yourself, I don't advise you to make a decision, it's too late to regret it. "Lei Ting hasn't been alone with Sha Zhengyang for a long time, and it's rare that he can finally have a meal alone.
"Yes, if you change roles, after being together, if you feel that it is not suitable, you can still separate, but the nature of my work, if you want to separate, the price may be a little bigger. The fork in Sha Zhengyang's hand poked at the steak on the plate for a while.
No appetite, unhappy mood, no appetite for anything to eat.
"It's the same for everyone, not only for you, I plan to get married early next year, and if I really want to divorce in the future, I will pay the same price, but I don't think I will get divorced. Huafeng and Huatai's assets have made him the youngest invisible rich and rich generation in China, but he is already a Hong Kong resident, so he is not a mainlander.
His fiancée is also from Hong Kong, surnamed Huang, a friend of the Lei family, a native of Chaozhou, four years younger than Thunder, graduated from Cambridge University in the United Kingdom, can speak fluent English, but Mandarin is not too good, it is said that after dating Thunder, the vicious situation has slowly improved, but the family wealth is not too much, and even compared to the current net worth of Thunder is far behind.
That girl Sha Zhengyang has seen, her personality is gentle and sunny, but she is very independent in her bones, and she has been dating Lei Ting for three years, and she feels like a passionate relationship, and it seems that you can see the end of the relationship from the beginning.
So Lei Ting said that he might not divorce if he got married, and Sha Zhengyang thought that was indeed the case.
But what about yourself?
"Then what should I do?" Sha Zhengyang finally cut off a piece of steak and stuffed it into his mouth, and said slowly: "It's not okay not to get married, but it's not okay to get married hastily, but if you want to choose marriage hastily, I'm at a loss, what do you want me to do? Why did I lose interest in marriage?"
"Because you went to two extremes, either you had too high expectations of your feelings, and then you found out that after being disillusioned, you suddenly went to the other extreme, as long as you made do, and as a result, when it came to the end, you found that you couldn't afford the price, so ......" Thunder took a sip of white wine and shrugged, "so you're confused." ”
"You mean I should choose the one between the two of them that is more satisfying, that's almost?" Sha Zhengyang had a splitting headache, "But what if I don't think it's suitable?"
"Then don't choose. Thunder said very blandly: "Your choice is so narrow, or are they not good enough?"
Sha Zhengyang shook his head, "It may be my personal problem, well, everyone says it's good, and I think it's good, but when I think of getting married and living together for the rest of my life, I can't resist it, and this reason is ......."
Lei Ting has no choice, he feels that Sha Zhengyang seems to have entered a certain dead end and can't get out, if he continues like this, maybe his old friend's anxiety will become more and more serious, and that is the big trouble:" Zhengyang, this kind of advice is not easy for anyone to give, and you have to rely on yourself, but I think you may have a certain jealous and defensive mentality from the beginning, so it will evolve into a good and suitable object, you feel suspicious, well, I suggest that you can get in touch with it more deeply, didn't you live like this with Sun Yan before? After you don't try, is this kind of life what you want, or can it last for a long time, how do you choose to judge?"
Sha Zhengyang raised his gaze and thoughtfully, "Living together, trying to get married?"
"I originally thought that this shouldn't be your way of life, but I think your current state seems to be the only way to go, of course, how to do it, I think maybe you also need to think about it seriously, at least you have to reach a certain stage of relationship to be like this, right?" Thunder didn't know what to say or what to say.
But Sha Zhengyang accepted this suggestion and quickly put it into action, of course, it was not about living together and trying to get married, but he felt that maybe he should give Zhao Yuyang a chance, and also give himself a chance, and everyone should have more contact.