On this weekend, Fang Tingting told her parents to pay attention to what they said, and only after the two sides made heavy promises, the three of them went to the blind date banquet.

During the banquet, looking at the good wine and good food, my father didn't speak much, drank cup by cup, and constantly praised the good wedding banquet prepared by my future uncle, while my mother kept asking Qian Haiping, "Where is your house? Who are you? What are you doing? What ......is your current work situation and income?"

Qian Haiping returned 1510, "My home is from the local countryside, and I only have a mother and a younger sister. Her mother is an ordinary peasant woman, and her younger sister is now working in other places. The income is not bad, I have already bought a house and a car, and I am waiting to marry Tingting as soon as possible. ”

Obviously, when Qian Haiping talked about the family situation, his mother frowned slightly, but when she heard that he already had a house and a car, she was relieved, after all, she didn't want her daughter to suffer with a poor boy, and she would make trouble around trivial money every day. Looking at Qian Haiping, the mother is more satisfied, maybe she is also older, the mother has no strength to quarrel with her father now, and puts more attention on her daughter, and it is only now that Fang Tingting feels some family warmth.

Sending his parents home, his parents received a gift from Qian Haiping and were very satisfied.

Fang Tingting finally breathed a sigh of relief, fortunately, there were no accidents at the banquet, and the heart that she had been carrying was finally let go. "Haiping, thank you for your careful preparation, let's go back to your hometown to see your mother in a few days!" At this time, Fang Tingting, who was sitting in the co-pilot, felt that happiness was coming to her, and she finally had her own little home, a happy little home.

At the wedding, except for the sixth and seventh sisters in the dormitory, who couldn't rush back from other places, the other sisters arrived, and Liu Xiaoqian was of course the bridesmaid. In the blessing of everyone, this couple, who has always been envied and optimistic by everyone, finally embarked on the palace of marriage, and set off for a happy life with everyone's blessings.

Ouyang Rui learned about Fang Tingting's wedding from Chen Keying, but because he didn't receive an invitation, he just asked Chen Keying to help send a big gift. If it weren't for this gift, it is estimated that Fang Tingting would have forgotten this person, that's right, in her consciousness, he is not her friend, and when she invited guests, she didn't even think about it, he was more like a spiritual object of worship, not part of her life.

The days after marriage are still relatively comfortable and harmonious. However, the biggest trouble that bothers her is that Qian Haiping is too busy with work, often going home in the middle of the night, and sometimes staying in the company for several days for a project.

Many IT practitioners, such a state of work has been well-known to everyone, because they gave up the family happiness with their families, selfless hard work to achieve the rapid development of China's IT technology, to achieve corner overtaking, from 3G to 4G to 5G, for the rapid development of China's independent research and development capabilities to win time. Is it really worth sacrificing family happiness and personal quality of life, albeit with a good reward? This may be a thought-provoking topic worth exploring. Maybe everyone has their own aspirations, and each has their own understanding and opinion.

Seven years have passed in this way, and some sudden changes have changed Fang Tingting's life.

The first is work, Li Yali was mentioned to the position of the head of the editorial team because of her strong social communication skills, and it is said that soon the deputy editor-in-chief will retire, and she will be able to take over. Li Yali, who was proud of the spring breeze, began to use her rights to set up various obstacles for Fang Tingting, making it difficult in every way, making Fang Tingting afraid of going to work. The house leak happened to rain overnight, this year's Zhengde Group's sponsorship fee of one million suddenly stopped, she also called Ouyang Rui, but she never got through, his phone has been turned off, listening to Chen Keying said, he has temporarily stopped actually controlling the group, it may be that there have been some changes in the family, therefore, an important advertising income that can ensure that Fang Tingting can survive the past few years is gone, and it is even more difficult for Li Yali to find an excuse to make things difficult for her.

"Daughter-in-law, don't do it, it's more than enough to support you and your family now, why do you have to go to work and be tortured by that woman?" Seeing Fang Tingting, who was having trouble sleeping, Qian Haiping comforted her with concern.

"Let's take a look", Fang Tingting looked sad.

"Why don't we take this opportunity to have a child, it turns out that we are both busy with work, and we don't have time to take care of children, if you don't do it, you have time to take care of children, I believe that fun doesn't have to go to work less." I have always fantasized about giving birth to a girl as beautiful as you, and when the child grows up, I will hold one in one hand, and you must still be very young and beautiful at that time, I guess, I will be envied to death by other men when I walk on the street!" Qian Haiping looked intoxicated and fantasized.

His optimism and vision infected Fang Tingting, and she also looked at the ceiling attentively, and began to fantasize about the future along his train of thought, "Yes, it's beautiful!"

A new life seemed to beckon to them, and then a piece of bad news for them soon reached their ears.

Qian Haiping's mother accidentally flashed her waist because she was working in the farmland, resulting in a serious dislocation of the waist disc and was sent home by a neighbor. Due to the severity of the condition, he was unable to stand and walk on his legs, and he needed surgery immediately. The sudden change disrupted Fang Tingting's plan to have a child.

The two of them took their mother home and contacted the hospital, Qian Haiping's work at this time was too heavy, and the company took on a big project, as a last resort, Fang Tingting took a week of annual leave, accompanied his mother to the operation, and took care of him for a few days. After Qian Haiping's mother was discharged from the hospital, because Fang Tingting still had to go to work, she finally decided to hire a nanny to take care of her at home.

However, Qian Haiping's mother is a very strong person who is unwilling to trouble other people, and often sees that the nanny is busy, or takes a break for a while, and is unwilling to trouble others.

Qian Haiping was very angry when he saw his mother's situation, and blamed the nanny for not taking a good look at his mother, so he fired her and hired another one, obviously, the same thing is still happening. "Mom, can you let us save some snacks? Don't toss yourself anymore, you are so old, just stay in bed honestly, what is there for the nanny to do, okay?" After Qian Haiping dismissed the second nanny again, he felt that his mother was also responsible, so he began to complain about his mother.

"I'm sorry, son, I didn't mean to cause trouble to you, but I feel much better, and I want to be active, so I don't want to trouble others, but I didn't expect to be like this again. After the old lady said this, she became a little aggrieved, as if she had something to say. In the end, she still mustered up the courage to say, "Son, you don't know, those two nannies seem to take care of me and respect me in front of you, in fact, you don't know, after you leave, they always complain a lot about what they do for me, and sometimes, help me to go to the toilet late, I accidentally stain my pants, I will hear the sound of them falling and beating in the bathroom, and scolding in their mouths, I feel very sad, so I dare not use them." As she spoke, the old lady shed tears aggrievedly.

Qian Haiping knows his mother too well, she is not a person who speaks ill of others easily, since he was a child, he rarely heard his mother say bad things about others, it is estimated that the nanny used these two times is too bad, so bad that his mother is so patient, such a kind person can't help but say it.

"They actually treated you like that, no, I can't swallow this breath, I'm going to call their company to complain about them!" Qian Haiping's gentle personality rarely gets angry, but this time it really touched his bottom line.

"Forget it, everyone has been driven away, forget it, don't make trouble, everyone knows that we live here, and if you make trouble for others, there's no need to make trouble for us. The old lady comforted him.

"Mom, it's okay, I'll find you another good one, let Tingting take a few days off and look at her. In the end, Qian Haiping made such a decision.

I don't know, it's their bad luck, or what, this time the nanny, Fang Tingting looked at it for three days and thought it was not bad, but when she was alone with her mother on the fourth day, it caused the old man to have a serious stomach ache.

It turns out that the lunch made by the nanny is according to their own taste, and the elderly, especially the elderly who are sick and recuperating, need a light diet, soup and water, but the nanny is also troublesome for her own preferences, and the dishes she cooks are all spicy dishes from her hometown.

"Girl, can you make me some porridge, just a little porridge?" Faced with the old man's request, the nanny ignored it, "Auntie, you always eat thin and not nutritious, you can taste the hometown dishes I made, it's delicious!"

The old lady dared to say more, obviously, she was an old lady in the countryside, and in their eyes, she looked very talkative, even very easy to bully. So, I swallowed it forbearantly, and then, my stomach hurt that afternoon. The nanny was scared, so she called Fang Tingting and asked her to go home to see what was going on and if she needed to go to the hospital. When she learned that the old lady had a stomach problem that had recurred because she had eaten too spicy, she was very angry and fired the third nanny at that time.

Fang Tingting's family is unstable, and so is her unit.

"Fang Tingting, why do you always ask for leave recently, we are not idlers here, everyone is like you, how will this work be carried out in the future? The work at hand is all done by others working overtime for you, are you embarrassed Mom?" Li Yali stood in front of Fang Tingting's booth angrily, knocking on her desk with her hand.

Fang Tingting, who was already disturbed by the affairs of the family, didn't know where the strong anger came from at this time, stood up, and glared at Li Yali angrily, "Li Yali, you are finished, do I work less overtime for others? Don't pull other pigtails and never let go, no one has any accidents, didn't you yourself take a month's leave because you went abroad to see your brother? Why did you come to me, and after a few days of leave, you didn't have to play? Isn't it okay to take personal leave and deduct money according to personal leave?" For the first time, Fang Tingting argued for herself in front of the public, "What's wrong with you being a team leader? The editor-in-chief hasn't said anything yet! Are you capable of firing me?"

"You, Fang Tingting, how dare you talk to me like this?" Li Yali thought that Fang Tingting would be like this today, which embarrassed her, and besides, what she said was reasonable, so that she couldn't refute it.

She quickly rolled her eyes and thought of Fang Tingting's weakness, "I asked for leave because I made contributions to the newspaper, and I can pull three million a year, which is enough for the salary of all editors here for a year, which is why I am eligible to take leave, and besides, I am not in vain to go abroad, and I have also attracted the sponsorship of foreign companies? And Fang Tingting, you look at yourself, in a year, the advertising income is zero, if I were you, I would like to find a crack to get into." used to rely on the ambiguous relationship with Ouyang Rui to be able to pull some advertisements, but now people don't care about you, now it's all over!"

"What are you talking about? Why are we ambiguous? Li Yali, you come up with evidence, otherwise I won't be done with you today. At this moment, Fang Tingting was in a hurry, and actually ruined her and Ouyang Rui's reputation, I don't know, at that time, she was in some evil, she has always been cold and soft, she actually hit Li Yali with the ballpoint pen in her hand, and it was unfortunate that the tip of the ballpoint pen was drawn on her forehead, marking a bloody mark.

The people present had been persuading each other, but they were dumbfounded when they saw this scene.

Hearing the quarrel outside, Chen Keying walked out of her office, and when she saw Li Yali's forehead bleeding, she began to scream, "Fang Tingting, you actually bleed for me, you want to disfigure me, I'm not done with you." Just like an angry lioness, she pounced on Fang Tingting, who was also dumbfounded.

"Okay, okay, don't do it, what's going on?" Chen Keying hurried a few steps and rushed to them, stopping the extraordinary chaos that was about to occur.

"Editor-in-chief, you came just in time, you see, Fang Tingting wants to deliberately hurt me. "Although I know that my injury is not a big problem, it can be recovered in a few days, and then I will not leave a scar with some scar removal medicine, but Li Yali does not plan to let go of Fang Tingting easily, this is a great opportunity, "Editor-in-chief, I just said a few words to her, as her leader, I still have the right to say a few words about her, I didn't expect her to be cruel to me, you see I am bleeding, how important a face is to a woman, she actually wants to disfigure me!"

"I didn't, I didn't mean to. Fang Tingting explained that at this moment, her mind was already blank.

"Editor-in-chief, you also saw it, just like this, how can I get along with her in the future, I decided, either I stay, or she stays, only one of us can stay here to work, editor-in-chief, you are in charge!" Li Yali's killing moves are step by step, at this time, only by letting Fang Tingting leave, can she relieve her anger.

"This ......" Chen Keying was in trouble, obviously things didn't come to that point, but Li Yali had already said it so desperately, it was too difficult to redeem it.

"Editor-in-chief, I'm quitting. I'm sorry for your trouble, I'll pack up my things and leave now. Looking at Chen Keying's embarrassed appearance, Fang Tingting made this decision, in fact, she didn't want to work here for a long time, looking at Li Yali's face, she has always been very aggrieved in her heart, this haunted woman takes pleasure in torturing herself, and now, she doesn't do it, she can finally get rid of her, thinking of this, Fang Tingting's mood seems to be much easier.

"In the future, this is your world, I won't get in your way anymore, I'm sorry to hurt you, I really didn't mean to. However, from now on, you and I will not interfere with the river water, you take your Yangguan Road, and I will cross my single-plank bridge. I hope we won't see each other in the future. After Fang Tingting said this to Li Yali seriously, she began to pack her things and went to the human resources to go through the resignation procedures.

Li Yali finally won Fang Tingting, which made her feel great pleasure in her heart, "It's good to go, don't send it!"

However, after Fang Tingting left, Li Yali was only happy for two days, and she couldn't be happy. She hated herself very much for doing such impulsive things? Because she came here to work just for Fang Tingting, and making things difficult for her at work was not her original intention of coming here to work? Otherwise, why did she leave her family's business and not help run it, and come here to start from scratch? For a while, with Fang Tingting's resignation, Li Yali's life lost its direction.

resigned, Fang Tingting devoted herself to taking care of Qian Haiping's mother. Obviously, it is much better to take care of her family by herself than to be an outsider, and the old lady recovers quickly. However, the problem also came, as the old lady recovered, she began to be able to walk, and a small amount of activity helped her recovery, so she took the initiative to help cook some food and stir-fry some food. Because, she is used to working in the countryside all her life, and she is really uncomfortable when she is idle.

However, after all, there is a difference between urban and rural areas in rural areas and cities, and the life concepts of young people and old people are different, Fang Tingting feels very uncomfortable. For example, every time she washes the dishes by herself, the old lady will feel that she has drained too much water, and rushes to dry it herself, and then, she is reluctant to use detergent, the dishes and chopsticks she brushes look greasy, and she only uses a small stream of water, and the rinsing is not clean. Fang Tingting couldn't say anything, so when the old lady couldn't see it, she wiped it vigorously with a dish-wiping paper towel. I was never reluctant to throw away the leftovers, I heated them over and over again, and every time I took the initiative to pick up vegetables for Fang Tingting, it was not good for her not to eat them, and she felt very unhealthy after eating them, and when she saw that Fang Tingting and the others didn't eat them, she ate them herself. Especially once, I don't know how she found a bag of rice that fell behind the cabinet from Fang Tingting's cupboard, which was already moldy, and she was reluctant to throw it away, so she made it into rice, and Fang Tingting vomited all the time, almost not vomiting bitter gall. "Mom, you can't eat moldy things, you'll be poisoned. Fang Tingting endured her patience and told her.

However, the old lady said, "We never throw things away casually in the countryside, and rice like this can be eaten after washing it several times, and no one eats it badly!"

And what Fang Tingting can't stand the most is that after the old lady recovers, she often walks around the community alone, and every time she picks up some waste products, that is, those paper shells and plastic bottles that have been thrown away, and then they are piled up all over her house. For this reason, Fang Tingting and Qian Haiping complained several times, "The house has become a garbage dump, and it is very unhygienic and easy to breed bacteria." ”

Qian Haiping also felt that this kind of behavior was indeed a bit excessive, he talked to his mother a few times, but every time she promised to be good, but she still took advantage of Fang Tingting's absence to secretly pick up garbage at home. Finally, Qian Haiping blushed with his mother for the first time.

Although the old lady was simple and reasonable, she also knew that Fang Tingting must be unhappy, and she was also afraid that her habit would affect the relationship between the husband and wife, so she changed her strategy and built a small shack in the woods and lawn in front of their building to store waste products. I thought that such a person could pick up waste for some change without knowing it, but within a few days, she was reported by a neighbor, and then the property was looking for a home. This made Fang Tingting feel very embarrassed, and she had a big fight with Qian Haiping that night.

Obviously, in life, such a small friction cannot be avoided, Fang Tingting tries her best to make herself peaceful, broad-minded, and looks at things from the perspective of the old lady, adapting to the habits of the old lady, but to be honest, the gap between urban and rural areas and the generation gap of age really can't make two people live together very harmoniously, and Qian Haiping is often not at home, always she faces the old lady, she is still a little uncomfortable and unaccustomed.