Episode 10 Divorce

Despite this, this family is still harmonious, and can generally love each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other. It seems that life has calmed down a lot after the scrap incident.

But the problem arose again, the old lady was in her sixties, and she was also a little envious when she saw that others were already three generations of grandparents and grandchildren, so she began to nag in the ears of Fang Tingting and Qian Haiping often, "Tingting, I'm almost fine now, you and Haiping want a child, I'll help you see, I think my grandson has been thinking about it for several years!"

And every time, Fang Tingting stuck out her tongue and gave her a smile, always saying, "Don't worry, Haiping is too busy and has a lot of work pressure, which is not conducive to eugenics." When he is relatively easy to work, we will exercise and exercise, and at that time we are giving you a healthy big fat boy. He said this, but he thought in his heart, "Forget it, you are reluctant to throw away the expired food one day, and you will be poisoned by eating it to your child." And if you have a bad waist and are reciprocal, that one is even more troublesome. And the main reason is the reason for intergenerational education, I learned some habits from you, and I can't change them if I want to change them in the future. Many families are because of the different concepts of the elderly and their children in educating their children, and they are resolutely unable to have children. ”

In this way, the old lady lived in Fang Tingting's house for two years, but Fang Tingting's stomach did not move for two years. She may also feel that she is here to make Fang Tingting feel very uncomfortable, and another may be afraid that she will show her the child, in short, she feels that maybe if she leaves, their life may soon return to the normal track, maybe there will be a child. So, when Qian Haiping's sister was pregnant and wanted to pick up her mother to go to her, the old lady agreed.

finally has his own life and can be free, but at this time, Qian Haiping has become the manager of the company's project department, and his career has entered a new stage. The income is good, but it is even busier, and half of the year is spent on business trips. It turned out that he was just a code farmer, and although he often had to work overtime, he didn't have to do some social things. However, now it is not good, and I often have to drink with customers, which is not conducive to eugenics, so the matter of having a child makes the two of them stranded again.

Practicing yoga every day, beauty and beauty, shopping, meeting Liu Xiaoqian and them, eating and eating have become the main content of Fang Tingting's life, and she has successfully had a rich wife-like life, the life that most women yearn for. However, she doesn't like this kind of life, she thinks it's boring, she once wanted to find another job, but now, young people are stubble after stubble, and many large companies have raised the academic requirements to 985, 211 master's degree, she has no competitive advantage, and she gave up when she saw these.

After another two years, she received an examination report from the hospital on the afternoon of that fall, which read: Breast cancer is in the middle stage, has spread, and is not suitable for surgical treatment. She felt that the sky had fallen, and after painful thinking, she made the decision to leave Qian Haiping and start a short life for herself.

It was another rainy day, and when Fang Tingting and Qian Haiping walked out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, their eyes were red.

Qian Haiping looked at Fang Tingting, he tried to make the last stay, he choked up and said, "Tingting, are we really ending like this? Why do I think this is not true? Why did we be fine before, but all of a sudden? I know that I have neglected your feelings in the past few years, but if you give me some more time, I will try to adjust myself and try to change our life status? Can it not end like this?"

Fang Tingting, who was full of tears, seemed to stroke her hair calmly and showed him a sweet smile, but her voice still betrayed her heart, with a heavy cry in it, "Haiping, thank you for supporting my decision, all along, I know that you have unconditionally supported my various decisions, tolerated my willfulness, and even indulged me, I have always remembered your goodness, but I really feel tired and tired of living with you." Moreover, I know that the meaning of career and work to you is like a fish that cannot do without water, just like an eagle soaring in the sky, if there are no wings, it will lose the meaning of survival. Therefore, companionship will always be a luxury for me, I am tired of waiting, and without me, you will have less worries and fetters. Let's just let it all pass, and everything will pass with time. Let's adapt to each other's life without each other from now on, promise me that you have to take good care of yourself, and I will work hard to live without you and discover everything that is unknown to me.

Retention has become so pale and powerless now, but Qian Haiping always has a feeling in his heart that this separation is just another small willfulness of Fang Tingting, over the years, she has become accustomed to relying on herself, maybe soon, the outside world will disappoint her, or she is tired of the so-called freedom, she will still return to herself.

Looking at Qian Haiping's sad and sad expression, Fang Tingting chose to turn around, restrain her urge to regret, and get out of his field of vision as soon as possible, otherwise, she didn't know what kind of move she would make in the next second, and maybe, some of her efforts would be in vain. With her back to Qian Haiping, Fang Tingting waved her hand hard, "Goodbye, my former lover!" At this moment, she was already in tears, but she refused to return, forcing herself to leave quickly.

The remaining man, after chasing her for a few steps in the rain, stopped, letting the rain and tears wash over his body and soul.

In other words, in this divorce, Fang Tingting only took away one million savings, not that Qian Haiping was reluctant to divide more property for her, but that Fang Tingting herself chose to give up. Qian Haiping's idea is that he can still make money in the future, so he is ready to leave the house and savings to Fang Tingting, and he moves out. After all, as a man, it is easy to cope with anything, and for him, it is only a matter of two or three years to buy another house. He would rather have nothing for himself, and he also wanted Fang Tingting to have a better guarantee, but Fang Tingting refused, that kind of serious attitude was the first time Qian Haiping had seen it, "It can't be like that, those are all your hard-earned money earned by working hard day and night, one million is enough for me, I already have a place to live, in Liu Xiaoqian's house, all, you don't have to worry about me." If you don't agree, I'll tell you my determination in the form of a hunger strike. Under Fang Tingting's serious threat, he finally compromised, thinking about it, in this way, the possibility that Fang Tingting would return to him soon, and it seemed to be faster.

One million, the reason why she took away this money is very important to Fang Tingting now, because she also has to use this money to treat herself. Fang Tingting did not tell the parents of both sides about the divorce. At this time, her best friend Liu Xiaoqian was also on the verge of marriage, he and Xu Peng were separating, and the child was sent to her mother's house.

Fang Tingting lived in Liu Xiaoqian's home, since graduating from college, the two girlfriends have not had the opportunity to sleep in the same bed every night like now, tired of being together, and seem to have endless whispers.

"Tingting, I really didn't expect you and Qian Haiping to divorce, you are the most favored couple among the eight sisters in our bedroom, you are so happy, why do you want to divorce?"

Fang Tingting put her hands behind her head, looked at the ceiling, and told Liu Xiaoqian the same reason she said to Qian Hai.

"We are all dog people, I used to listen to the fortune teller said, from the probability of speaking, although the life of the dog is very good, many people have a good career, can make money, it seems that all aspects are good, the only regret is that the marriage is not good, before, I still don't believe it, it seems that it really makes sense, you are so favored, envied marriage can be broken, and I am now on the verge of divorce. That dead Xu Peng, I never thought that he was actually an abusive person, and he actually had another woman outside, and he even made people pregnant. I didn't tell you before, I'm afraid you'll be worried, but now that we're a pair of hard-working mandarin ducks, I'm not afraid of your jokes. And the eldest sister in the dormitory is not much better than the two of us, because the child was hemorrhaged, the child was not saved, and the uterus was removed, and she could no longer get pregnant. You said that her mother-in-law was very hateful and domineering, and she broke up the eldest sister and the two of them alive. Speaking of which, her husband is the only male in the family, and he has no children, which may be unacceptable for a rural family like theirs. ”

"Yes, the eldest sister is so pitiful, she has no children and has lost her family. You don't know, the last time I heard you say this, my heart is very sad. Fang Tingting sighed, "The world is impermanent, after all, many things are not within our control." ”

"The fourth child is also divorced, why is the life of our dormitory sisters so bitter? There is also the eighth child, you said that she is not bad looking, and her work is good, but she can't find a suitable partner, you say, is the feng shui in our dormitory bad at that time? "What are you going to do next?"

"I haven't thought about it, maybe I'll find a job first", Fang Tingting has to keep herself busy, otherwise, all she thinks about every day is some messy things, and her mood is very bad.

In the following time, Fang Tingting began conservative treatment, and at the same time, she was looking for a job without a match, and her life was quite fulfilling. However, after a month of chemotherapy, she felt that her physical condition was very bad, and her hair began to fall out a lot, she was very scared, and in the end she couldn't save her life, and her hair fell out, and she would die very ugly, so he discussed with the attending doctor whether she could use a more conservative treatment plan.

The attending doctor, Zhong Shijia, is a male doctor of the same age as Fang Tingting, obviously, he also felt very sorry when he saw Fang Tingting's changes, so, under Fang Tingting's repeated requests, he said to Fang Tingting, " Now there is a new anti-tumor drug abroad, but it is still in the stage of clinical trials, and only large hospitals like us in China have the opportunity to give patients a trial, however, because it has not passed the clinical trial, the risk assessment is still uncertain, although its side effects on the body may be a little smaller from the current point of view, and there will be no such impact as hair loss, but before the final experimental data comes out, we dare not ensure that this drug will have an effect, or to what extent the effect can be achieved. After all, as the subject of clinical trials, like guinea pigs, many people are reluctant to take such risks. However, if you want me to provide you with a better treatment plan, this plan is the only one I can provide at the moment, but whether it is better or not, I can't easily conclude this. ”

Fang Tingting listened to his words and thought for a long time, she thought to herself, she can't do surgery, conservative chemotherapy, it seems that the chance of survival is not necessarily very high, all this is like a gamble, without seeing the last hole card, maybe everything is unknown. In the past, she didn't dare to try new things, lived a stable and down-to-earth life, and tried to be stable every step of the way, but as a result, fate gave her such a heavy blow. "What's the point of being a guinea pig? Perhaps, this is also a manifestation of the last value of my life. She solemnly made it clear to the attending doctor that she agreed with his suggestion and chose to become a clinical experimenter of drugs.

On this day, Liu Xiaoqian rushed back from work and saw Fang Tingting saying to her with a smile on her face, "Tingting, I did something behind your back, I don't know if you will be happy." ”

"What's the matter, look at your happy and mysterious appearance?" Fang Tingting was very curious.

"Originally, I thought that you have nothing to do now, and you have no match, so I showed your photos and resume to the chief director of our program, but I didn't expect him to resolutely agree to you becoming a female guest and participate in the recording of our program. As you know, the program group I am in now is responsible for the "It Was You" marriage and love blind date program every weekend, which is very popular now and has high ratings. Maybe participating in our show can give you a feel of what the program recording is like, and it can be regarded as a new experience, and we can have more time together. You won't be upset that you call the shots without your consent, right?"

"You can come up with any trick. As for me, I'm still in my thirties, isn't it a joke to participate in your show? You should give me a refund, I don't want to be embarrassed! I, you don't know, I don't like to throw my face in front of the public!" Fang Tingting shook her head.

"Look at you, didn't you say it, did you leave Qian Haiping just to experience a different life? Now, such a good opportunity is in front of you, you want to miss it? Besides, you don't know, people's marriage and love orientation has changed a lot now, and the people who used to be on the show were some young and beautiful girls, and they also created a lot of topic queens, but now that type is not popular, many viewers feel that they are too superficial and too pretentious, although they are beautiful but have no connotation, and there is a market for mature women with temperament like you. Our chief director has also been looking for some female guests of your type, and after seeing your situation, I particularly like it. You don't know, in fact, I want to be on the show myself, but, you see, I haven't officially divorced Xu Peng yet, and my image and temperament are a little bit worse than yours, so this good opportunity will be given to you first, you go and explore the way for me, maybe, our sisters can find a better Prince Charming than Xu Peng and their stinky men through this way!"

"You just want to get into it, how many couples did you really make it to the end of your show? But it's just an entertainment show, and you really take that show as a shortcut? You're too naΓ―ve!" Fang Tingting teased her on the head.

"Why are you so dead-eyed, besides, no matter how good the odds of success are, after all, we also provide a platform for many unmarried young people, and many of them have entered the palace of marriage, don't underestimate our influence and ratings!" "Besides, I told the director that you can be on the show at any time, don't let me lose face and slap myself in the face from the leader, please, or you can try it, it's fun!"

Seeing Liu Xiaoqian's pleading face, Fang Tingting was a little unbearable, and at the same time, she was indeed curious about what was going on with the TV program recording, "You let me think about it again." ”

Hearing that Fang Tingting finally relented, Liu Xiaoqian also breathed a sigh of relief.

Fang Tingting finally agreed, but she didn't expect Liu Xiaoqian's operational ability to be so strong, and she soon notified her to participate in the recording of the show. Before the recording of the program, the chief director met with Fang Tingting, and was full of praise after seeing her, "Liu Xiaoqian, she has a good vision, and the guests recommended this time have good image and temperament, and I hope to become a new growth point for our program ratings." Hearing these words in Liu Xiaoqian's ears, she was extremely happy, and secretly gave full marks to her little conspiracy.

Fang Tingting didn't expect that she could really walk on the TV screen and appear in the public's field of vision like a movie actor. Fortunately, she knows that the people around her, including Qian Haiping and her parents, never watch such shows, and even if they are discovered, they can lie that they are doing Liu Xiaoqian a favor, and they must be able to get away with it.