"I want to ask, if he wants a divorce and I don't agree, will he not be able to leave?

Doesn't it mean that divorce requires the consent of two people? As long as I don't agree, can the marriage continue?"

Luo Zijun asked Zhang Wei with some hope, from her heart, she was absolutely unwilling to end this marriage, whether it was emotionally or financially.

She has always considered her family to be the happiest, and she has an excellent husband and obedient son.

All I have to do is to fight against loose skin, and sometimes solve the young girls who surround my husband.

Who knows, in the end, it was a mediocre-looking divorced woman with a child who destroyed her family.

Luo Zijun really doesn't understand, how did she seduce her husband?

What is there about him who is inferior to this woman that would make his husband not hesitate to divorce him and be with this woman?

Luo Zijun really didn't know what was going on.

When Zhang Wei heard this, he touched his chin: "What do you say? If you insist on disagreeing, the other party will also file a lawsuit if they want to divorce."

When the court hears a case where one party does not agree to divorce, it will first mediate and settle to see if there is any possibility of recovery between the two of you.

Because many people divorce because they are impulsive, buy a dress and quarrel, there is a possibility of divorce.

However, if mediation fails, and there is bigamy, cohabitation, or domestic violence in the marriage.

There are also bad behaviors such as gambling or smoking X, or you have been separated for two years because of emotional discord, or you have done something that has caused the relationship to break down.

If mediation fails, the court will grant the divorce.

As long as there is no obvious fault in the marriage, generally speaking, even if the other party files a lawsuit, it will fail.

After all, even if it is the freedom of marriage, it is also the freedom of two people, not that one person can get married if he wants to, and divorce if he wants to. ”

Luo Zijun seemed to be a little surprised when he heard this: "In this case, as long as I don't agree, I can not divorce?"

Zhang Wei looked at the optimistic Luo Zijun and shook his head: "No, if the other party is determined to divorce."

Six months after the divorce decree has been granted, the other party can still file a new lawsuit.

When it comes time for the second lawsuit, the court will grant the divorce.

Because it is obvious that six months have passed, and the other party still insists on divorce, which proves that your husband and wife can no longer go on, and no matter how hard you try, it will be in vain. ”

Tang Jing also said to Luo Zijun when he heard this: "Zijun, what you have to do now is to face reality, instead of having unrealistic illusions."

Chen Junsheng, it is obvious to him that you have completely given up this marriage, and what we have to do now is to end this failed marriage cleanly.

We have our own independent personality, we can live a good life on our own, and there is no one in the world who can't live without it!

You just regard the other party as too important, he is not the only one in your life, you still have yourself, your family, and Ping'er.

It's not that you can't live without him, you just don't want to face it. ”

"But I just can't live without him!"

Luo Zijun was about to cry when he heard this, if he didn't really love him, how could he be like this.

I gave up everything for love, but in the end, I didn't get anything back.

Tang Jing sighed helplessly when she heard this: "I told you at the beginning, you never listened, and you have to tell me why I am so tired from work?"

Never underestimate the coldness of a man when he breaks up, the stupidest thing a woman can do is give up her job for the so-called family.

If you want to be independent, you must first be financially independent, at least you can have the ability to support yourself when the song is over, and you can continue to live with dignity!

But what about you now? Do you still have dignity? Even if this relationship is really going to end, you must end it with dignity, otherwise it will only make Chen Junsheng hate you even more.

You know what?"

When Zhang Wei heard this, he scratched his nose beside him, not knowing what to say.

Why do people like to use such big generalizations as men and women when talking about things, and the range of attack is very large......

It's like meeting a man, the woman is like this, and all men and women in the world are the same.

"But ......"

Tang Jing continued: "There is nothing, you are not sober now, and in the end, if you get divorced, you will have nothing."

Think about it, do you still want to lose your children? Even if Chen Junsheng is divorced, don't you want children?

Even if he doesn't want it, don't his parents want it?"

"Hmm...... In fact, you can try to mediate first, and if it doesn't work, you can consider agreeing to the divorce.

This is actually not a conflict, even if our work is mainly mediation, it is rare to go to court at the beginning. ”

Zhang Wei grabbed the hair next to his ear and said with some embarrassment.

Why does it seem that you should either decide to divorce or not?

Prepare with both hands, if you can, a marriage can be saved, it is better to try to save it, if two people don't like each other, who will get married?

It takes 10 or 8 years to run a family, but destroying a family can be as short as three to five days or as long as a month or two.

So if it can be recovered, it is better to try to recover, but if it can't be recovered, then you can only see you in court.

"Okay, that's it, if I can mediate, I still want to mediate first. ”

Luo Zijun nodded immediately when she heard this, as long as there was still a little hope, she still wanted to save this marriage.

Tang Jing suddenly asked at this time: "That, lawyer Zhang Wei, I still have some questions I want to consult." ”

You ask. ”

Tang Jing nodded and asked the question he was most concerned about: "My friend's husband, he cheated in marriage, if he really wants to divorce in the end, he will be the party at fault."

Whether it is the custody of the children or the division of property after marriage, it should be a little bit with taking care of Zijun. ”

"There's no real divorce yet, so there's no need to think about it so much in advance. ”

When Luo Zijun heard this, she said weakly, she hadn't considered the issue of divorce property division at all.

Or maybe I didn't think about what to do after the divorce.

Zhang Wei nodded and said: "Generally speaking, when you get divorced, only the joint property of the husband and wife after marriage is distributed.

Pre-marital personal property, including pre-marital property, is not subject to separate and marital property.

Generally speaking, if both parties agree to divorce, it is the two parties who negotiate and divide the property by themselves, that is, you negotiate the distribution of the property by yourself.

If the two parties disagree, the court will finally make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children and the woman.

Of course, as the party at fault, the other party must make compensation, of course, the premise is that there is evidence, that is, evidence to prove the fault of the other party in marriage.

For example, the record of opening a house, or bigamy or something. ”

Tang Jing continued to ask at this time: "Then if there is no evidence, or that the other party is mentally cheating, the two people don't seem to have a physical relationship."

But I have already divorced my wife for the sake of the other party, is this also a fault of marriage? ”

Zhang Wei shook his head with a smile when he heard this: "In theory, it should be regarded as a marriage fault."

But it's definitely not okay to have no evidence, and you have to talk about evidence in everything, right?

You have to say that the other party cheated, or the other party admitted it himself, or there must be evidence, or you have no basis for what you say. ”

It is impossible for others to believe what you say, and the most important thing is that you have to have evidence.

Tang Jing heard this and said, "He will admit it."

No, but he has now admitted that he wants to divorce because he likes another woman. ”

Chen Junsheng At present, in her opinion, the only advantage is that, at least, he has done something, and she dares to admit it.

knows that he now admits that he asks for a divorce because he likes other women.

Instead of going around making excuses for myself, blaming others for all the faults, and saying that it's not my fault.

If this is the case, as the party at fault in the marriage, he must have to make some compensation.

But I still have some questions to ask, can I?

After all, I also need to understand the situation so that I can better mediate and even prepare for going to court later. ”

When Zhang Wei heard this, he touched his chin and nodded, indicating that he also had some problems.

"Okay. ”

"May I ask you, what kind of state are you in after you get married?"

Although Zhang Wei knows a general situation, he still has to ask.

The first point is that they can't show their "erudition", after all, it's a family affair of others, and it is impossible for ordinary people to know about it.

The second point is because you can't guarantee that nothing will change in this mixed world, and blindly believing in the plot will definitely suffer a big loss.

Luo Zijun nodded, and began to talk about the past between herself and her husband: "Junsheng and I met when we were in college, and the two of us were together in college, and as soon as we graduated from college, the two of us got married."

At that time, he said, let me be at home with peace of mind, and he worked to support me.

Then I was alone at home, he was working outside, and then we had children.

No matter who it seems, we are the most beautiful and happiest family. ”

"So after you get married, it's your husband who works outside the home, and you take care of the housework at home?"

When Luo Zijun heard this, he replied very honestly: "No, housework, including children, is taken care of by a nanny, and I basically don't need to do housework." ”

Zhang Wei nodded reluctantly and asked, "That means that you didn't do anything after you got married, and you just enjoyed life at home?"

"No, he told me that I just had to stay at home. ”

It's too strange to say, if others give you continuous paying, you can accept it with peace of mind, even if you are a husband and wife, you can't be like this!

The relationship in marriage needs to be maintained by two people together, just blindly taking and not giving, how can such a marriage relationship last long?

And it seems that Luo Zijun didn't notice anything about this matter, but he has always been in a state of peace of mind.

In this way, in fact, if the other party grasps this point, Ms. Luo Zijun is also at fault in the marriage.

Ms. Luo Zijun has never had a job, just at home, which is a big burden for most families. ”

"But he told me not to look for a job and just stay at home. ”

When Luo Zijun heard this, he absolutely did not admit that he was at fault in this regard.

Because in her opinion, this is her husband's arrangement for herself, and she just did it, is there anything wrong?

Zhang Wei shook his head: "Do you have evidence to say this?"

If the other party doesn't admit it, financially speaking, you are really putting a lot of pressure on the family.

And just like Ms. Tang Jing said just now, I hope the other party will admit that this is actually a difficult thing, and it is even full of uncertainties.

It may seem to you that the other person may be good in some ways, but don't forget.

According to what you said, this marriage failed because of the intervention of a third party, and at this time, it is not only Ms. Luo's husband who is standing in front of you, but also the third party.

If the other party came for money, do you think she will make her fat sheep thinner when she divorces?

What she wants to do is to make her fat sheep fatter, not to be dug up and cut off most of the meat. ”

If I remember correctly, in the original work, the house was awarded to Luo Zijun after the divorce.

The third party, Ling Ling, still had a way to suggest that Chen Junsheng get the house back and re-mortgage a small house for Luo Zijun.

The most stupid thing is that Luo Zijun actually agreed, if he didn't agree, just that house, Luo Zijun's economy would not be so embarrassed in the future.

Even the child's maintenance later, Ling Ling, a third party, wanted to pay it off at a low price in one go.

even try to keep the child from appearing in his own home, so that his child can become the family's own grandchild.

"What then?"

When Luo Zijun heard this, he said: "You have been worried for too long, didn't lawyer Zhang Wei say it just now? ”

Anyway, if she can not get divorced, she will definitely not divorce.

Until now, I have always held on to a glimmer of hope, maybe my husband will figure it out and return to the family.

If everything can go back to the way it was, wouldn't everyone be happy?

If it weren't for the last moment, she really put the agreement in front of her and let the two of them sign it, it is estimated that she would never really give up.