"Really...... You've just finished a happy event, and it turns out that this kind of thing happened, which is really a bit unlucky. ”

In the evening, Zou Yu listened to Zhang Wei talking about the divorce case he received in the afternoon, and couldn't help but shake his head and said.

Yesterday, I just blessed a romantic couple who are about to get married, and the next day I met a couple who are about to divorce.

It's really unlucky.

Two things collided at the same time, I don't know if it's a good thing and a bad thing to cancel?

Zhang Wei shook his head when he heard this, and said with some surprise: "No way, it's too normal to get married and divorced now, or it's not the same thing at all."

In the past, people used to say that marriage is to go through a lifetime, but nowadays, young people, who still values this kind of thing? Whatever is said to go for a lifetime, it is basically a scene.

If you don't feel suitable, you will divorce, and if you are not suitable, you will divorce, and you will always find a suitable one.

How high is the divorce rate now? Especially in a big city like the imperial capital of the Demon Capital, some people say that the divorce rate has reached half, just as the divorce rate in a city with a more developed material civilization is higher.

I don't know if it's a pathology brought about by development. ”

Anyway, to put it simply, this matter still has to start with an old man surnamed Yuan, who found it in the field one day......

He doesn't know how much time came from......

After the material life is relatively affluent, and people are "too full", the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and I don't know why.

When you're full and idle, you can beat the bear child, what are you doing with a divorce?

Zou Yu said with some emotion: "As the saying goes, hateful people must have pity.

Seriously, I heard what you just said, I feel that my husband is a little pitiful, and his wife is indeed too big a problem.

You say his wife, she is at home every day, and she doesn't do anything, and she hires a nanny to serve her and the children.

In the magic capital, babysitting is a big expense.

Even if she is like this, as a wife, she spends money lavishly every day and lives her life as a noble lady as she wants.

According to what you said, her husband is in the middle of the company, not yet at the top level, and he is not the kind of person with a small goal of 100 million.

How could the family's economy be so unable to stop her from squandering, if I were her husband, I wouldn't be able to hold on, I couldn't get in and out, how could it be?

It's just the same as Crayon Xiaoxin's mother, no, although the mother of Crayon Xiaoxin still sleeps lazy every day with a three-layer tire belly, she also does housework.

What's more, when people reach middle age, they will always encounter a midlife crisis or something.

If your boss wants to climb up and get rid of your subordinates, the things in the company are enough to annoy people to death.

If you drag a real oil bottle like this at home, even if it is a beautiful love, if it continues to develop like this, it will become a nightmare.

I feel a little sorry for her husband, maybe even a little sympathetic. ”

Zou Yu couldn't help but shake her head in the end, as a woman, this is completely wrong, a marriage that is completely supported by men, how did this woman persevere?

Do you really feel that the other party owes her? Just be a moth so confidently? The other party owes her 8 million in her previous life?

Even if it's your biological parents, there's no reason to raise you like this.

Zhang Wei shook his head in disagreement when he heard this: "What you said makes sense, but the question is, no matter what?"

Cheating is cheating, no matter what you do, you can't use it as an excuse to cheat, there is no reason for this kind of thing to be excused.

It is normal for families to have contradictions and disagreements, and there is no family that is free from contradictions and disagreements.

To be honest, a family that doesn't quarrel is too false, the family is not just a noisy life, although it is very unidealistic, but this is life.

If there is any problem, if there is something to talk about, everyone has explained the problem, in fact, there is nothing that cannot be passed.

If her husband feels that his wife has been staying at home and he is under great financial pressure, he can say that his wife is also a graduate of a prestigious school, and it will not be too difficult to find a job.

However, for the sake of his man's self-esteem, he wanted to wait for his wife to find out about it.

Then he pretended to be concerned and excused himself, and then let his wife go out to work.

His wife is also a fool, she didn't notice anything, and she lived happily every day, becoming more and more a drag on the family.

As a result, a person pretends to be nothing, a person really doesn't know that something is wrong, and the contradictions accumulate more and more, and they accumulate more and more.

In the end, the more I looked at my wife, the more annoyed I became, and I felt that every grass outside was fragrant.

Others only need to pretend to be gentle, and then move their fingers to hook it, and it will be successful immediately, he doesn't know if there is a flower behind the vanilla. ”

"Yes, cheating is not right, that's for sure. ”

Zou Yu nodded when he heard this, no matter what, in the case that you have a family, you have some kind of improper relationship outside.

Even if there are 100 million excuses, you are all wrong, and this kind of thing does not discriminate between men and women.

After the divorce, you are looking for a girlfriend, and no one else is qualified to say anything, but it is definitely not possible before the divorce.

Because at this time you are responsible, you are not alone, you represent the family.

But after the divorce you are single, you just need to represent yourself.

Even after divorce in ancient times, no one will object to marriage after divorce, and this must not be misunderstood.

Cheng Yi said that starvation is small, intemperance is big, and he is talking about widows remarrying.

Zhu Xi also agrees with this very much, although this guy repeatedly jumps sideways later, saying that it is understandable to remarry in some cases.

However, there is no use for eggs......

The result was that Cheng Yi's nephew and daughter-in-law who said this sentence remarried......

However, at that time, the wives of many famous celebrities remarried, and the most famous should be Lu You's wife and cousin, everyone should have heard of this.

In the Ming Dynasty, there was also a forced widow to remarry, as if there was a law that the husband fled for three years and the official issued a divorce certificate to you.

In the Qing Dynasty, which had its own national conditions, it began to encourage widows to stay widowed.

However, there are still many cases of remarriage among the people, and in general, they will not be condemned.

But before the divorce......

Oh, in ancient times, adultery was to be immersed in the pig cage, which was a criminal act, but I don't believe that it was just a moral act.

However, Zou Yu did not say anything more on this issue.

In her opinion, Zhang Wei may hate cheating because of the fact that his wife was robbed at the previous marriage scene.

That's right, after all, after experiencing this kind of thing, I definitely hate it more than ordinary people! This is the so-called empathy.

Zhang Wei stirred his drink with a straw: "But our client still wants to focus on mediation, it seems that he doesn't want to divorce, and it's a bit troublesome." ”

Zou Yu didn't think about it when she heard this, and said: "I definitely don't want to divorce! Think about it, all her financial resources depend on her husband."

To put it mildly, she may not even have the ability to support herself.

If you get divorced and your financial resources are gone, you may not be able to live.

I really don't understand, why are there such living women in the 21st century?"

When Zhang Wei heard this, he couldn't help but complain: "Don't say it, this Luo Zijun's previous state is the dream of many women in the new era of the 21st century."

I don't know how many people dream of living this kind of life, you really don't underestimate it. ”

Luo Zijun's original life is simply a perfect restoration of Mary Sue.

My husband works to earn money, he is as beautiful as a flower, and he doesn't have to do anything at home, just go shopping, buy and buy, and there are servants to serve him.

Of course, the only drawback is that the big face is not the face of a domineering president, if it is replaced with a large bowl of noodles, it will perfectly match the Mary Sue.

Zou Yu said with some disdain: "Cut, how many women think like this now? At most, they are ignorant girls who have not entered society." ”

I believe that Cinderella married into a wealthy family, and it was love at first sight, so to speak, she was completely brainless.

The milk tea sister married into a wealthy family, not only because of the age difference and her beauty like a flower, but also because the family itself is a small wealthy family, and she is also a student of Wudaokou Vocational College.

If you want to join a wealthy family, you yourself are not good enough, don't even think about it, even love is good enough to attract each other.

It's really not because of the TV series, because a girl is stupid, the domineering president has never seen such a stupid woman, so the domineering president will fall in love with her......

I have to say, it makes sense, I almost believed it.

When Zou Yu heard this, he took a sip of his drink and said: "This is a woolen dream, relying on the mountains and mountains, relying on everyone to go, or relying on yourself, love to fight to win."

Taizu has said that women can hold up half the sky, why do you have to rely on you men to support them?"

Zhang Wei nodded: "That's right, just like the best friend who accompanied the client said."

If you want to be independent in thought, you must first be financially independent, and it is nonsense to talk about thinking without materialism. ”

Zou Yu seemed to think of something at this time, and said: "But this also reminds us, if the two of us have anything in the future, we will talk directly, don't hold back your words."

In the end, it was broken, and the relationship between the two people collapsed, and it was over, and I didn't want to repeat the same mistakes. ”

"It's true, but everyone understands the truth, but there are few people who can do it.

Sometimes everyone just keeps everything in their hearts for the sake of face, and just doesn't say it. ”

Zhang Wei said sadly, all the truths were written in the book, but in the end he said that only saints can do it.

"Do you think there is still a possibility for those two people to mediate?" Zou Yu asked tentatively when he heard this.

Zhang Wei bit his lip a little tangled: "This is really not good."

There is no absolute in everything, especially when it comes to irrational matters such as marriage mediation, and the fluctuations in possibilities are getting bigger and bigger.

In the current state, the client's husband must feel that the junior outside is good at everything at this time, gentle, empathetic, diligent and thrifty, which is simply impossible to ask for in eight lifetimes.

But what about his wife, willful, princess disease, and ruined girls, it's like a broom star.

He can feel guilty about his cheating, and it's rare to say something unpleasant.

But some people suddenly woke up at the last moment and realized what kind of person the junior outside them was.

Of course, there are also the kind of scumbags who are very sober, who want to be caught together outside the family, and end up losing everything.

If it was just a simple divorce, it would be no problem for her to fight for greater benefits in this situation.

Especially according to what they said, the other party still has a certain amount of guilt, but who can say the emotional problem?"

"Is that so?" Zou Yu couldn't help but sigh when he heard this, as if he was regretting something.

Zhang Wei was a little strange when he saw Zou Yu like this: "Didn't you say earlier that this woman was self-inflicted?"

Why is it a little regrettable now? The preface doesn't match the afterword, is it a split personality?"

"Split a yarn. Phew, don't make me swear, okay? I'm a beautiful young woman with a lot of quality. ”

Zou Yu said to Zhang Wei a little unhappily, saying that she is a quiet and lovely yellow flower girl, don't always make people swear.

Zhang Wei smiled when he heard this: "Be sober, you are 27 years old." I'm going to be called Auntie soon. ”

However, Zou Yu seemed to think of something sad at this time, and said with some sadness: "Didn't you say? The two of them also have a child, in fact, in the final analysis, the child is the most pitiful."

The parents are divorced, and no matter what happens in the end, it is the children who are hurt the most.

A single-parent family and a family with sound parents are different from each other in terms of environment and aspects from an early age.

Although the situation is different, I know this very well.

So I feel a little sad to think that this child may face many similar experiences as when I was a child, but unfortunately there is nothing I can do about it.

And, seriously, it takes ten or twenty years or more to form a family and run in a family.

But if someone wants to destroy a family, a short period of time is enough, and it does make people feel a little scared, and even sympathize with you as a client. ”

Zhang Wei didn't say anything when he heard this, but silently complained in his heart, if you can predict the future.

Knowing that she was ruined by someone else's future of marriage, she still wanted to think about poaching her best boyfriend, so she probably wouldn't think so.

Of course, in the end, the two of them didn't get together.

However, this pair of scumbags and scumbags don't seem to be worthy of pity.

Chen Junsheng is emotionally a scumbag, and he has no wash, but his actor is very good and plays him cute.

Don't bring the characters in the TV series into the real people, and never bring the real people into the characters in the TV.