Chapter 11 ? "I thought you liked me too. ”
The Three Myths of Life:
One is that the phone is vibrating, the second is that someone is knocking on the door, and the third is that he seems to like me.
We are familiar with the latter.
After all, everyone has a time when they are in a relationship, it's just a matter of depth.
Colleague Yuanyuan planted a big hole on this road, and things have to start from Yuanyuan's sophomore year.
(Excerpt from the Japanese drama "Coffee Meets Vanilla")
At an orientation party held by the school, Yuanyuan met the person who made her really let go of it for four years.
The young man is a flight attendant, and he looks more energetic, and his hairstyle is also very refreshing.
As soon as the six teeth of the profession were exposed, they couldn't tell the Yuanyuan fan.
The two quickly exchanged contact information and started a two-year mobile phone chat.
I never go out to play, I don't meet, I just say morning, lunch and good night to each other across the screen.
None of the text, voice and video have fallen, and it is no problem to play games and open black.
Boys report on what they do during the day, read love stories, and tell stories.
He was the one who accompanied Yuanyuan to sleep late, and he was the one who persuaded Yuanyuan to go to bed early.
Yuanyuan always thought that the boy wanted to chase her, so she was ready to accept the confession early in the morning, but she didn't expect to wait for the news of the boy's girlfriend appearing.
It turned out that the boy and his girlfriend were in a foreign relationship, and his girlfriend, who was away all the year round, did not know the boy's life circle in China at all.
That's why the boy dared to tease Yuanyuan again and again.
One is ambiguous and addicted, and the other is naïve.
He just sent a group goodnight message, but you think he didn't forget to miss you in his busy schedule;
He just liked one of your moments, and you made up a series of soap operas of the same type;
He just inadvertently helped you fix your hair, and you blushed and your heart beat wrongly.
This kind of relationship, to put it nicely, is an illusion of love, and to put it badly, it is that you are self-inflicted.
Just because he flirts with you doesn't mean he'll like you.
(Excerpt from the Japanese drama "Heavenly Restaurant")
You're just a doll he thinks of when he's bored, but don't think of yourself as a princess.
It is said that girls are born detective experts, and if you think about it carefully, you will find:
He doesn't really like you that much.
You know, a person who really likes you will definitely not let you go to great lengths to find him.
Because he will take the initiative to send it to the door.
People who like you are available 365 days a day, 24 hours a day, and the most important point is:
The confession never has to wait for you, because from the moment he sees you, he can't wait.
Any plausible ambiguity, or the relationship between existence and non-existence, confirms his unintentionality.
With such feelings, why do you need to accompany them to the end?
There is such a passage in the movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much":
Every movie we've seen, every story we've heard, calls us to wait for true love.
That classic syllogism, unexpected confession, believing that you are the exception.
But sometimes we get so caught up in the end that we ignore the signals around us.
We have forgotten how to distinguish between those who really want to be with us and those who will leave us sooner or later.
The person who should appear will always appear, it is only a matter of time.
Don't be in a hurry to fall in love, and don't rush to be ambiguous, that will only get trauma again and again.
(Excerpt from the movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much")
If you're tired from the long distance, stop and take in the scenery along the way.
Maybe the person you've spent your life with is right next to you, but you haven't noticed it yet.
If not, then improve yourself first.
Be full of love for life, and then true love will not come too late.
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