Chapter 10 ? As a child, how much lie do you have to tell your parents?

Story shared by: Kita Mu Nan

Mom and Dad:

Yesterday the second uncle called me!

My second uncle told me that my father accidentally broke his leg and stayed in the hospital for a week.

A few days ago, I called home and asked you how you were doing at home and how you were doing, but you lied to me and said that you were fine at home.

Mom, you are really, you answered the phone on the day, chatted with you for a few words, asked what Dad was doing, and you lied to me that Dad was playing cards and didn't have time to take care of me.

Dad also deliberately said in a loud voice, there is food, drink, and play at home, so don't worry about it.

If the second uncle hadn't called me to tell me, you would have been hiding it from me for a long time.

How much did you lie to me when I wasn't at home?

But who am I to reproach you, for I have deceived you much more than you have deceived me.

Today, I want to say three sorry words to you, because I deceived you about three things.

I'm sorry, Mom and Dad, I've been unemployed for two months, and I lied to you that I have a stable job.

I'm so scared to talk to you this month, so I often refuse to answer your calls on the grounds that I'm working overtime.

Last month, I had a little conflict with my colleague, and my work performance has not been good, so I chose to quit.

You must think I'm being pushy, right? Actually, I feel like I'm a little impulsive.

Zhang Ailing said: "Life is a gorgeous robe, which is crawling with lice. ”

I went out for an interview yesterday, didn't eat breakfast, was particularly uncomfortable on the subway, and sat down on the ground.

Someone else helped me up and sat me down, and an aunt said, "Low blood sugar, my daughter also has low blood sugar, I brought a glucose today, you are about to drink it." ”

At that moment, my eyes suddenly turned red, tears fell, and the aunt said, "It's okay, I used to be a doctor, I'll be fine after a rest, and I have to remember to eat breakfast in the future." ”

Mom, I remember that when I was sick, you were so anxious that tears rolled in your eyes and held me tightly in your arms, and I really wish I could lie in your arms at this moment.

When I was at home for the Chinese New Year, one night, I washed my hair and blew the wind on the balcony.

When my dad saw it, he quickly brought me a hair dryer and told me to dry my hair so that I don't catch a cold.

Later, when I went out to work, I received a text message from my dad one night:

"I saw that you have a lot of gray hair at home during the Chinese New Year, you have to take care of yourself when you go out, if you are too tired outside, go home, Dad, raise you. ”

After reading the text message, I couldn't help crying and called my dad back and said:

"Dad, you're so annoying, I don't even know I have gray hair, you can't afford to raise me, I have to buy cosmetics, clothes, bags, and eat a lot. ”

After 20 minutes of complaining to you, you say:

"Always believe that good things are happening, that there are more good things in life than in the gloomy, and that happy things are more than suffering. ”

Dad, you're right.

I received a job offer this morning, and I thought I wouldn't be hired by this company, but luck really came to favor me.

Although I am alone now, I am not afraid, because I know that when I turn around, you are right behind me.

Even though I don't know anything about the road ahead, I'm going to go ahead and I'm going to face it despite the pain I feel.

Even if it is dark ahead, I will not forget to look at the brightness, even if I read the wind and rain, I will be a teenager who will do my best.

I'm sorry, Mom and Dad, I was in the ICU once, and I lied to you that I was in good health.

Once, at 3 a.m., I was still in the middle of the plan, and suddenly I felt very unwell, so I immediately called a car and asked the driver to take me to the hospital.

As soon as I arrived at the hospital I fainted and was admitted to the ICU, where the doctor said I was bleeding from my stomach.

It turned out that life was so fragile, and I was only a few steps away from death.

I used to have stomach pain, but I didn't take it seriously, I thought I was still young and there would be no problems with my body.

I remembered what my dad said to me before: "There is never such a thing as luck in life." ”

Dad, do you remember the quarrel I had with you at home during the summer vacation of my sophomore year?

My classmate had a birthday and asked me to go to dinner, but you kept being verbose and told me not to drink.

In the end, I was sent home by my classmates when I was drunk, and I threw up all the floor, and you and my mother were so worried that we didn't sleep all night.

The next morning, you called me up angrily and said, "What I said, you should be in your ears, and tell you not to drink, why don't you listen to me?" ”

I said, "I'm such a big man, what's wrong with a little drink." ”

And you say, "Are you dying?" ”

I had a big fight with you that day, and then I went to live at my aunt's house for 2 days.

It was night when I got home, and it was raining so hard that I had to walk a little way home after getting off the bus, and I was a little scared.

Suddenly, I heard someone calling my name, and as soon as I heard your voice, I happily shouted, "Dad, Dad, I'm here, here." ”

I hugged you and said, "Dad, I'm so scared." ”

You say, "It's okay, Daddy is here." ”

Later, you told me that you must take care of your body, life is precious, and time will not wait for me.

Now, I am in the ICU and I understand what you are saying.

The poetry and distance I pursue are not worth mentioning in the face of illness.

Many people keep going around for a living, for a house, and for decency, but in the end, they get a stomach full of worries, a receding hairline, and emergency notices.

Just like you said, no matter how powerful a person is, he also needs a healthy body to realize his own value, which is the truth of life.

Yes, Dad, not everyone can live this life wantonly.

A good body is a person's greatest capital.

I'm sorry, Mom and Dad, I've been breaking up for half a year, and I lied to you that the relationship was going well.

I broke up, and I didn't dare to tell you, for fear that you would urge me to get married.

When I was 25 years old, you urged me once a year, when I was 27 years old, you urged me once a quarter, and when I was 30 years old, you urged me once a day.

I still remember that on the evening of June 23, my mother sent me a video and said: "I brought my boyfriend home during the Mid-Autumn Festival." ”

I said, "Okay, no problem. ”

Actually, I had been broken up for a few months at that time.

On the evening of June 30th, my father called me again and said, "You're really still dating that guy, aren't you?"

I said, yes.

Dad said: "Your mother and I are not worried about your career, we are just afraid that you are alone outside and no one accompanies you, no one cares about you, no one shares your success, don't blame us for always urging you to get married." ”

After listening to my father's words, I didn't fall asleep all night.

It turns out that in the eyes of parents, the happiness of a child does not need wealth at all, but hopes that someone will accompany her through one long night after another, accompany her through every fork in the road of life, and accompany her to experience the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life.

Mom, do you remember when Dad tied a bell to his hand?

Once you were sick and hospitalized, my dad and I were in the hospital with you.

When you fell asleep, my father said to me, "Bring me the red bell." ”

I said, "What the hell do you want me to buy this for?"

Dad said, "I'm going to tie it on my hand, and by the way, I'm going to tie it on your mother's hand, I'm afraid I'll sleep too deeply in a minute, in case your mother wakes up, I don't know, with the bell, your mother will know when she moves." ”

Actually, at that time, I just thought it was funny for my dad to behave like this, but now I envy my mom, and I also want to find a man like my dad to live my life.

I don't need that man to be rich, how good, I just want him to be delicate and warm to me for the rest of my life.

Probably, the love I want to pursue might be:

There is the youthfulness of youth, the innocence of youth, the purity of youth, and the freedom of youth.

After all the helplessness, the years will not live up to all my sincerity.

Mom and Dad, I'm sorry I lied to you about so many things.

I swear now that I will never lie to you again, then you will not lie to me in the future, and if there is anything, we will face it together.

I know you're afraid that I'm worried, but I'm no longer the little girl who cries when she falls, looks for her dad when she encounters something, and is noisy and noisy when she encounters problems, I'm already a big girl who can take charge on her own.

I'm doing well now, you don't have to worry too much about me, I'll take care of myself, I'm capable of taking care of you, and I'll take time to go back and see you when I have time.

I hope Dad's health will get better soon.

I hope you understand, if you are good, I will be good.