Chapter 20 ? Article Ma Yili's divorce: expired feelings, a decent goodbye is fulfillment.

Just now, the article was posted:

Immediately Ma Yili posted a blog:

Looking back on the relationship experience of the two, it ended in discreteness:

In 2005, the article and Ma Yili collaborated on "Jinyiwei" for the first time, and the two met and became friends;

In 2006, the TV series "Struggle" started filming, Ma Yili and the article cooperated again, and the two turned from friends to lovers;

In 2008, the article and Ma Yili got married, and on September 20, the eldest daughter Wen Junzhu was born;

In August 2013, when Ma Yili was pregnant with her second child, some industry insiders revealed to the media the news that the article was derailed and Yao Di fell in love;

On March 28, 2014, some media took photos of the article and Yao Di together.

In the early morning of March 31, 2014, the article issued a statement of sincere apology, saying that "I am to blame", admitting that he had an extramarital affair with Yao Di, and saying that he had "failed the family, the title of husband and father".

At the same time, Ma Yili also responded on Weibo, "Although it is easy to fall in love, it is not easy to get married, and you can do it and cherish it."

After all, no matter how deep the feelings are, they still can't beat time.

In fact, in most cases, love has a time limit, just like Wong Kar-wai's rumored line in "Chongqing Forest" said:

I don't know when it started, there was a day on everything, the saury would expire, the meat sauce would expire, even the plastic wrap would expire.

I'm starting to wonder, is there anything else in this world that doesn't expire?

There is no doubt that love does not only expire.

And in the face of many practical problems, many times it is often as small as an ant.

For expired relationships, saying goodbye decently is the greatest fulfillment of love.

This reminds me of Faye Wong's Sina Weibo post:

"In this life, the fate of husband and wife has come to an end. I'm fine, you take care too. ”

And Li Yapeng responded:

I want a family, but you are destined to be a legend, nostalgic for all the good times of ten years, love you as before, confused, let go - is the only thing I can do for you.

Hope you're happy now, my high school girl.

The two broke up peacefully, and they still haven't said a bad word about each other.

Love, if it is not implemented in firewood, rice, oil and salt, is difficult to last forever.

We can be brave enough to pursue love, but we must also learn to accept separation.

The world is so big, it's hard to meet someone you really love.

No one can guarantee that the first time you meet someone in your life will be with you to the end of your life.

Say goodbye decently, at least there are good memories of each other.

Gain calmly, lose indifferently, respect this relationship, in order to get the next love.

Only by calmly facing the feelings that have been lost can you have the courage to meet the feelings that truly belong to you.

I've always been afraid of others saying two words, one is for your good, and the other is for me as a last resort.

The former said most of the time without considering your thoughts, and the latter is nothing more than me hurting you, but I have a reason.

Not everyone leaves you because they are terminally ill and can't help themselves like in the movies.

Those who can betray you, hurt you, and give up on you just don't love you enough.

When I was a child, I always had to win or lose in a quarrel, and when I grew up, I always had to divide a right or wrong breakup.

But I hope that I can start the next stage of my life with peace of mind.

So, some people weave some gentle traps to trap those who fail to go first.

Some people leave all their tenderness to one person, and they don't hesitate to hurt others for it.

But I still like the story of one shot and two parts, no matter who owes whom, love happily, go decisively, do not implicate others, and be worthy of yourself.

Song Joong Ki swore that he would never leave Song Hye Kyo;

Li Chen said that he would always protect Fan Bingbing;

Nicholas Tse said that he would be with Cecilia Cheung,

The article said that the proudest person in this life is Ma Yili......

That person also said that he would be with you for the rest of his life.

But the reality is that people go to tea and cool, the world has changed so much, and the only thing that is truly eternal and unchanged is only you by your side.

So on the topic of breakup, we have loved, and in the end we can only miss it.

The little woman is not talented, she has not won the favor of the son, and the son has been disturbed for a long time, and the son is not strange.

For the person who has hurt you, just let it go, don't wait.

Breakups should be decent, and people who have truly loved don't say goodbye and hope that we will never see each other again.

What is there to do and cherish, once it expires, it is difficult to reunite after the broken mirror.

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