I recently re-watched "I May Not Love You", and there was a scene in it that stood out to me:

Cheng Youqing was on a business trip with her boyfriend, but unexpectedly found out that she was a third party and ran out of the hotel in a fit of rage.

Sad, she called Li Daren.

I just wanted to complain to my old friend on the phone, but I didn't expect to see Li Daren standing outside her room door with a beer a few hours later.

Seeing that scene, I knew that Cheng Youqing was destined to be with Li Daren.

There are many people in this world who say "love you", and there are many people who are willing to pay for you.

But there are very few people who can always be the first to show up when you need them.

The person who can leave everything behind to accompany you really loves you.

If you can meet someone like that, don't miss it.

(Excerpt from the TV series "I May Not Love You")

Story shared by: Xiao Ran

I remembered my friend Xiaojia, who called me on the day she broke up with her boyfriend.

When I received the call and opened the door of the room, I saw Xiao Jia, who was drenched all over her body, like a chicken in soup.

It was raining heavily in Hefei that day, and Xiaojia said she found that she had forgotten to bring an umbrella when she got off work.

called my boyfriend and asked him to deliver the umbrella, but unexpectedly, the other party directly said that there was something and hung up the phone.

In the end, it was a kind colleague who sent her to the station.

When she got home, she saw her boyfriend playing games with his phone.

Grievances suddenly came to my heart.

Thinking of the boyfriends who judged the two before and after falling in love, Xiaojia had a big fight with him, but her boyfriend felt that she was making trouble unreasonably.

"He doesn't take care of me when I'm sick, he doesn't bring me an umbrella when it's raining,

He will never show up when I need him.

It's better to have a boyfriend like that!"

I understand Xiaojia's sadness, after all, girls looking for a boyfriend just want to find someone who can be relied on and can be their own harbor.

A lot of people say that men are parachutes, and you're not there when I need them.

When I hit the ground and fell all over my body, did it make sense for you to appear?

People are disappointed, and every time I need you, you are not there, and gradually I have learned to deal with all kinds of problems on my own.

Over time, it doesn't matter so much whether you're there or not.

When I stopped caring about your existence, our relationship ended.

I have the ability to be independent, and when I'm alone, I can do everything like a superwoman.

But when "I" becomes "we", I don't want to be so independent.

I want to need you and I want to be needed.

You can understand that this is the mood of love, or you can understand it as this is the way I love you.

Later, Xiaojia talked about a boyfriend again.

This time, it was only a year and a half, and the two of them received the certificate.

I made an appointment with her the other day and asked her why she suddenly decided to marry that person.

She said that once she was having dinner with a friend, and in the middle of the meal, she found that her phone was only 10% charged, so she called him to tell him about it.

She originally wanted to go back after eating, but she didn't expect that before she finished eating, she saw him appear with a power bank.

He said that he was worried that her mobile phone would not be able to call the car without power, and he was also worried that she would miss any important text messages after the automatic shutdown.

I came straight to take her home.

"Your boyfriend is there to take you home and escort you. ”

Xiao Jia said that at that moment, she was moved to a mess.

It was the most beautiful love story she had ever heard.

In fact, there are really not many girls wanting.

A hug when she is sad, a firm and warm "I am" will move her deeply.

Take her to eat good food when she is hungry and accompany her to the hospital when she is not feeling well.

Be the first to show up whenever she needs it.

I don't know if you've ever had such an experience:

When you want to say something to your person, you don't get a response after sending a "are you there?"

It wasn't until four or five hours later that he slowly replied, "What's wrong?"

Normally, I reply and it's fine.

Because the mood at that time was gone, and the eagerness to tell was gone.

The desired solution has been obtained from others, and the desired comfort has been obtained from others.

And my expectation for you has changed from the beginning to disappointment.

Don't wait for all your enthusiasm to cool down before you remember to make amends.

Don't wait until she never needs you again to remember to be her hero.

There is always a deep affection that can't be watered by heavy rain, and there will be a lover who can't be taken away in spring and autumn for thousands of years.

May you meet a "just right" love who happens to be there when you need him.

With a sense of security that makes you trust, it comes towards you firmly.

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