Storyteller

Child:

You called yesterday and said that you have been busy with work for the past two months and have not been home recently. I said that you should work hard and there is nothing to do at home, but in fact, I know in my heart that you are afraid that you will be urged by your relatives to go on a blind date when you come back.

It's been three years since your last relationship went from falling in love to breaking up. In the past three years, I haven't heard you say that you have a favorite person, and I haven't seen you contact any boy more, I'm worried about whether that relationship makes you afraid and resistant to love.

Mom is a very tangled person, while hoping that you will get married later and don't take on the responsibility of the family so early, on the other hand, seeing that you have not been in love and can't help but be anxious, I want to talk to you about my heart.

Do you remember the time when you were in love in high school and I was called to school by your homeroom teacher? You secretly stuffed me with a letter asking me to keep it a secret from your father. Then this time, I'll write you a letter for you.

If you really have a knot in your heart, I hope this letter can give you a little relief, but I hope that you can have a complete love when you come to the world.

I often hear young people say in an old-fashioned manner: "When you are old, you will find someone to marry and live." “

In their eyes, love seems to be a product of time, and it must take root before a certain date, otherwise it will miss the flowering period. But I think that no matter what age you are, there will be people who are devout in love.

A while ago, Lin Chiling got married, and everyone said that she was finally married, and I think she is such a beautiful girl, she is only thirty years old. Later, I found out that she was born in '74, less than ten years younger than me.

"It's a blessing to meet true love," she said. “

Some people will meet the love of their life when they are students, and some people will not be able to deliver their sincerity until they are not confused. I met your dad when I was 24 years old, Lin Chiling only handed herself over to Ryohei Kurosawa when she was 44 years old, isn't it all love when you meet at the age of 24 and 44, what does it have to do with age?

There is no set time for the answer sheet of love, but you have to carefully evaluate the hidden traps of each question and the possibility of each option.

The guy you're looking for, no one knows when he'll be there in the future, but he's going to be there.

Li Zongsheng wrote in the lyrics: "I never wanted to be single, but I had a premonition that I would marry later, and I was waiting for the only suitable soul in this world." “

Parents hope that you will meet a satisfactory lover, but they hope that you will not be stumped by age, panicked, you must keep your eyes open to find the person who can accompany you for a lifetime, it doesn't matter if it's later, happiness is the most important thing.

What kind of man should a girl find, tell you the story of me and your father.

Your grandfather died when I was very young, and there was a lot of work in the family, and I was in a hurry when it came to the busy farming season. Later, your father appeared, cut wheat and corn for the family, repaired the house and built the stove, and had an extra laborer, so he felt a lot more at ease.

Before I met your dad, I never had a birthday, and at that time, the conditions at home did not allow it, and no one cared.

Once your dad carried a handful of bananas and squirmed into the door, bananas were a rare thing at that time, I thought he came to propose, I was nervous for a long time, and when he entered the house, I knew that he was here to celebrate my birthday, it was the first birthday in my life.

Later, when the conditions at home were better, your father immediately gave me a bicycle, a record player in '91, and the first color TV in the village in '93. Your dad doesn't know how to talk about words, but in the vicissitudes of decades, we have never lacked romance.

Not only birthdays, but also Chinese Valentine's Day and Christmas for your young people, and the gifts given to me are also very fashionable. With this little sense of ceremony, our old husband and wife's life has a little more to look forward to.

"Twenty years of gains and losses are as vast as the sea, and when I look at you, my heart is like thunder. This is the best interpretation of the sense of ritual in the text I have ever read. Men, they must have a sense of responsibility, be sympathetic to their lovers, and know how to give love a sense of ritual.

Do you still remember the movie "Beijing Meets Seattle" that we watched together when broadband was first installed at home?

When Wen Jiajia was in the United States, she couldn't be with Frank. At that time, she had not cut off from the past life of worshipping money, and needed to rely on the snort of others, and Frank's career had nothing to rely on, and it was unbearable.

Later, Wen Jiajia returned to China, gave up the privileged environment, and chose to make a show on her own to become famous. Frank, who was far away in the United States, finally applied for the job and continued to be his doctor. Some people say that no matter what, as long as they see each other, they will eventually love each other.

I don't think even if they stay together again, it won't last long. Because what determines how far the relationship can go is that the two people in the relationship can not only fight each other, but also have similar interests.

Wen Jiajia didn't understand until the end that love is not dependent on anyone, but each of them works hard to enrich themselves, so that it is possible to be happy. Only when each other becomes better people will the clasped hands be extra powerful.

You're a good wedding planner, he's probably a well-known designer, you like different bands, you're going to be "on the same page" because of a social news one day, and although you have a lot of differences of opinion, you'll also get more emotional recognition as a result.

Love is still evenly matched, only if you are not bad, you will be more confident when you talk about it for a long time.

Daughter, whether you like someone or not, when you can meet the right person, you must maintain financial independence, independence of thought, independence of personality, two people rely on each other but do not cling, so that the relationship can last for a long time.

Your dad and I are not usually around you, we have few opportunities to chat with you, and we are both getting old and we can help you less and less.

However, we have confidence in you, and we believe that you have enough courage to love freely, we will do your cover, and please promise your parents not to be deserters in love.