What does it feel like to be suddenly deleted by someone?

A friend told me that when she was studying, she had a friend who she thought she had a good relationship with, and the two of them talked very speculatively, and they would share anything interesting with each other.

Later, after graduation, the two went to work in different cities, and there were fewer opportunities to meet, and the frequency of chatting changed from daily to weekly, and then they couldn't talk for a few months. Even if the other party occasionally sends a message, it is always to help like or vote.

Once, I listened to my friend so much that I forgot to reply to my friend's message, and my friend deleted me.

I asked her, were you sad at that moment?

Sadness is certain, she says, but more of a sense of relief. Because each other's life concerns, topics, and preferences have changed, it is difficult to integrate into each other's world again. Moreover, any relationship that needs to be difficult for oneself to maintain will not last.

If a person deletes you, it means that you are not that important to him at all. His life will not be happier because of one more of you, nor will it be sad because of one less of you.

Sometimes, the estrangement of a relationship is not because both parties have done something wrong, but because each other's growth speed and growth trajectory are different. He is no longer interested in your life, and you have lost the desire to know about his preferences.

There is a saying that you don't have to squeeze the circle that you can't get into, and you don't have to force the people you can't keep it.

The best state of a person should be to get along with people who are comfortable, talk to people you like, be able to accept a certain stage of parting, and be able to embrace the new beauty in life.

Chapter 30 of "Essays on the Rest of My Life" ? If a person deletes you are hitting in the hand, wait a moment,

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