Actually, you're not bad either

I don't know if there are some regrets that have been hidden for a long time in your heart:

I want to forget the people who can't be forgotten;

What you want to say but don't have time to say;

wanting to do something that has not yet been done;

And that one: "I really like you......"

In life, most of them leave the scene suddenly.

In the face of time, we often say wait for the next time, and wait for the future, but we often wait and wait, and all we have to wait for is regret and regret.

The people I wanted to see before, the things I wanted to do before, when I think about it later, they are either the end of the song and the people are gone, or there is no opportunity.

is like singing in the popular song "The Thief of Years":

"Time is something that catches people off guard, and you can't fight for the day, and you think about the past. ”

Time will not spare anyone, and in a casual moment, all the coming days have become gloomy and departing.

Have you ever had a regret? When you hear the word "regret", who do you think of?

I've heard a lot of stories, and the most frequent passage is: "If it was like it then, it's not like that now." ”

If I had studied hard, I would not have been wronged and would not have dared to resign.

If I had cherished it in the first place, I wouldn't have lost the person who was hopelessly good to me.

If I had been braver, I wouldn't have had an answer now, he would have belonged to someone else.

If, if, if......

We always say what if, but the truth is that we don't have that anymore.

Like the classic scene in most movies:

After many years, the female protagonist and the male protagonist meet again.

When the male protagonist asked, "If I hadn't left at that time, would we have been different." ”

The heroine replied: "If you stayed at that time, I would be with you for the rest of my life." ”

There are thousands of regrets in love, and the saddest thing is that two people obviously love each other, but they have to miss it.

I watched an interview with Stephen Chow before, and when Chai Jing talked about his emotional problems, he replied:

"I'm just unlucky. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't be so busy. ”

Chai Jing said: "No, there was once a sincere relationship in front of you, and you didn't cherish it." ”

This can't help but remind people of the classic line said by Supreme Bao in "Journey to the West" more than ten years ago:

If Heaven could give me another chance, I would say three words to that girl: I love you.

If I had to put a deadline on this love, I would like it to be...... 10,000 years.

Now he said, "10,000 years is indeed too long, so don't wait that long, so if you have anything, you have to do it immediately." ”

Maybe when Zixia leaves the Supreme Treasure, the Supreme Treasure can grow into the Monkey King.

More than 20 years have passed, Zixia Fairy has found her own hero, and Sun Wukong has wandered the world alone.

We all think that the wait is only temporary, but it turns out to be a lifetime.

I thought I had missed it for just a few years, but I didn't expect it to be a lifetime.

And life is like this, full of regrets, and one day you will understand that those who truly learn to love will not remember the past.

The greatest generosity for the future is to leave everything for the present.

We always think that time can make up for regrets, but we didn't expect that it is time that creates more regrets.

It's like an interview video on Weibo: What is your biggest regret in life?

A netizen said that his biggest regret was that he didn't stay with his father back then.

"The year before last, my dad was not in good health, and he ran to the hospital at two ends in three days, I thought I just thought that he was old and had some minor problems in his body, so he told a few words.

A few months later, my mom called to say that my dad was hospitalized and had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and might be dying.

I rushed back to my hometown, but it didn't take long for my dad to leave.

I regret that I didn't go back sooner, and I regret that I didn't stay with my dad back then.

I used to live in remorse, until now I understand that my father's departure taught me to be with me. ”

Do you know what is the cruelest thing in family relationships?

It is the son who wants to raise, but the relatives do not wait.

It seems that the more time passes, the more you will understand a truth:

Those who are too late in life are actually the normal state of life.

It's a pity?

Sad? Must be sad.

But it is those regrets that teach us to cherish and teach us to be brave.

"Regret" is like salt, it hurts to stuff it into a wound, but with it, life has a taste.

If you have regrets, you can let go of them.

If you have care, you can accept that you don't care.

Time is always pushing us forward, life is varied, and regrets often come.

Just like Kim Minqi sang in the new song "Regret", we went from being unacceptable to calmly letting go.

From the beginning, he sang sadly, "People who leave home are inevitably worried" and "I met a few of him, and finally formed a scar".

Later, he also changed his flat tone and sang:

"There are so many regrets in life that evaporate with time, and in the end, I hope to say that I am not bad. ”

It's not forgiveness, it's not forgetting, but when that person leaves, we alone have to learn to move forward.

The dead leaves that fell this autumn will grow full of branches at the beginning of spring next year.

The old people who left at that time will come back one day in the future.

If you miss it, forget it, and forget about it.

It's just that in the future, we have to cherish the present better and leave a little less regret for the future.

Hopefully, you'll never understand the song "Regret".

It doesn't matter if you understand, the years that are too late will eventually bloom flowers.

Grasp the present, you can also smile and say in the future, in fact, I am not bad.

If you really can't let it go, then with this song called "Regret", leave a message to write down the sentence you want to say the most but didn't say, and leave your regrets here.

Live well tomorrow, okay?

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