The most fearful thing for people is to suddenly understand a song at a certain stage.

And a song that I suddenly understood recently was the cover of "Late Marriage" by Lao Fan next door.

This 21-year-old boy sings in a voice full of vicissitudes and contrasts:

"I never wanted to be celibate, but I had a hunch that I would marry later. ”

Pierced the softest place inside me.

is different from what the original singer Li Zongsheng sang, the kind of feeling and reflection after the emotions have gone through thousands of sails.

Late marriage

Lao Fan next door - late marriage

Lao Fan's version next door sounds more like a post-90s love declaration:

I'd rather be single than compromised, and I want to find the other half of the soul match.

So what is a soul fit?

The song is also perfectly interpreted for us.

Let me wipe off the fat powder from my face

Let him listen to all the rumors

If anyone fights with me in the future

He promised not to remain silent

I can wipe off the excess rouge gouache in front of him, without excess camouflage, and he can still admire it.

In front of him, I can tell him all the stories of the past and my future plans.

And he just regrets that I can't participate in my past, and will still be with me in the future.

If I am criticized and wronged by others in my work and life, he will never be indifferent.

It's to give you a big hug, so that you can understand that with his understanding and tolerance, you are not alone.

As Sanmao said:

Sometimes, how I wish I could have a pair of wise eyes that could see through me, who could understand everything about me, all the colors and desolations.

Those eyes pierced through my most essential soul and reached my true self in the depths of my soul.

Her words can solve all my confusion or give me a sharp assessment of what I have done.

So for the sake of that compatible person, even if I am single, even if I get married later, I am willing to wait.

From the comments on this song, I found that I am not the only one who adheres to this view of uncompromising love.

Someone commented:

"I'm ready to die alone, but I'm also ready to get married one day. ”

I never wanted to be celibate, but I had a premonition that I would marry later, and I was waiting for the only soul in the world.

Getting married late doesn't mean not getting married.

If we meet the right person, we can move on to the next stage of our lives with full trust.

But if you don't encounter it, don't give in easily.

Because I have seen too many people, because of the growing age and the urging of my parents, more and more people are getting married around me......

In order not to become an out-of-place alternative, he quickly chose to marry someone who seemed to be good in all aspects.

However, is married life really happy?

I have a friend who suffers from this kind of life.

Because I was tired of my parents urging me to marry all the time, I found a good partner to marry.

However, life after marriage cannot be described as "bad".

The friend is a girl who is full of romance and enthusiasm for life, and the other party is a stupid straight man who has no interest in life.

The Tao is not the same, and the two basically do not have any communication after marriage, even if they occasionally communicate, they are the same as the duck.

The other party did not understand the poetry and distance pursued by his friend, and the friend did not agree with the monotony of his daily computer code and plaid shirts.

Eventually, after three months of marriage, they finally chose to divorce.

After the divorce, my friend said: Getting married casually is much more terrible than marrying later.

Don't treat marriage as a task to complete, let alone treat your marriage partner as a partner.

Because only after experiencing it will you find that without love in marriage, it is really difficult to last long.

What you really need is the lover who knows your warmth and coldness, and understands your joys and sorrows.

is like singing in "Late Marriage":

There are a lot of people like me around me

Life is also very stable

We have a lot of talent

Have a free soul

So, if he hasn't arrived yet, don't worry, enjoy the free and splendid single life at the moment.

Being married is just a state of life, and it doesn't mean it's complete.

And being single is also a life choice that should not be defined as a shortcoming.

Therefore, if you are still single, don't give your love to someone you don't love.

And all you have to do is wait slowly, waiting for the soul to come.

After all, something really good, like the end of a movie, will always come a little later.

During this period, it is better to cultivate yourself, be calm first, and then love others.

As Zhang Ailing said:

Expect like he'll come tomorrow and live like he'll never come.

After all, there is no need to panic about the long road ahead, waiting and missing are the only ways to go.

As long as you can meet the right person, it really doesn't matter if you're late.

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