Last night's finale of "Dear, Loved" did not disappoint the sisters above, Han Shangyan and Tong Nian's sweet love finally blossomed and got married.

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This drama is adapted from Mobao Feibao's sweet pet novel "Squid Stewed in Honey", which mainly tells the love story between Tong Nian, a simple cute girl played by Yang Zi, and Han Shangyan, a cold male god played by Li Xian.

When I saw the title and character setting of the play, I thought it was a domineering president who fell in love with a silly and sweet Mary Sue.

But when I saw the back, I found that the two of them were completely right in terms of economic ability, personal ability, and three views.

Sure enough, only evenly matched love can be sweet throughout the whole process and have a happy ending.

In the play, Han Shangyan and Tong Nian are ten years apart, and Tong Nian is a student in school.

And Han Shangyan is already the owner of an international club, and it seems that the conditions of the two are very different, which is the story of the prince meeting Cinderella.

But it's not.

Let's talk about Han Shangyan first, born in Norway, is one of the main forces of the former solo team, and when the team encountered financial problems, he generously rescued them.

After retiring from the army, he continued to study industrial design, and after graduation, he invested in the establishment of KK Club abroad and became the first investor and boss.

And there is a three-story villa in Shanghai, and a Wrangler, and the antique necklace given to Tong Nian is worth 950,000 US dollars......

But Tong Nian did not show weakness.

At the age of 15, she was admitted to the junior class of a key university, and at the age of 19, she was studying at Shanghai Jiaotong University in her second year.

You can easily make a game for Han Shangyan to exercise your hand speed, and you can rent a server for KK's official website at your own expense.

In addition, she is also an Internet big V with millions of fans, her parents are both senior intellectuals, and she is a world friend of Han Shangyan's family.

Home in Shanghai, there is also a two-story old bungalow with a large courtyard.

In addition to the same personal and economic ability, the most important thing is that the three views of the two are also very consistent.

When everyone around him felt that Han Shangyan's profession was not a proper job, only Tong Nian was willing to stand by Han Shangyan's side and cheer for his dream.

even handed over his 68,000 deposits to Han Shangyan wholeheartedly.

And born in a happy family, the optimistic and cheerful Tong Nian can use Han Shangyan, who is warm and cold and inferior, with love, warmth, and inferiority, as if a beam of light in Han Shangyan's world illuminates his lonely and cold world.

let him experience the sweet taste of love, and let him feel the meaning of life in addition to competition.

And Han Shangyan, the old man who was with Tong Nian, finally opened his mind, and used all his tenderness to take care of and care for Tong Nian.

Give her the special and preference of "the world is disturbed, I only love you alone".

The two have not only achieved success in their respective fields, but also been able to support and help each other on the road in the future, whether it is life or career.

Because they are evenly matched and highly consistent, the two see the same world, and it becomes very easy to understand each other.

Chess will look good when you meet your opponents, and you can appreciate each other for a long time.

The best love is when two people are evenly matched.

In addition to TV series, love in reality also tells us this truth.

For example, Lang Lang, who got married not long ago, and her wife Alice.

As soon as the news of the two getting married came out on the Internet, netizens did not slander "who is not worthy of whom", only "talented and beautiful" blessings.

Because her wife, whether it is her good looks or her background as a piano talent since she was a child, she can be on par with the piano prince.

The deepest impression is that the two of them improvised four hands at the wedding, with an incomparable tacit understanding, as if a realistic version of Qin Se and Ming were staged, and it was a quiet love drama.

There is also the love between Carina Lau and Tony Leung.

Tony Leung once told everyone that Carina Lau is the most suitable woman for me, because only she understands me best.

Tony Leung has been autistic since he was a child because of family reasons and does not like to socialize.

And Carina Lau can especially understand her husband's temper, and even treat him as a unique feature of her husband and protect him well.

Carina Lau once revealed on the show that when decorating the home, Tony Leung does not do it himself like other men.

Instead, he shook off the shopkeeper, took a box and left.

But Carina Lau didn't have any complaints, and arranged the big and small things at home by herself.

On the one hand, she is strong enough to solve the problems at home on her own.

On the other hand, she knows too well this man who does not eat the fireworks of the world, and is willing to protect this rare thing in him.

Evenly matched love is:

By my side, you can be yourself, and I have the ability to support you silently.

However, in order to have an evenly matched love, the premise is to have the courage and ability to "it's good to have you, and I'm not bad".

Just like Tong Nian and Alice, because they are leaders in their fields, they can meet Han Shangyan and Lang Lang, who are also excellent.

Everyone has their own magnetic field, and excellent people are like positive and negative poles in a magnetic field, attracting each other wherever they go.

If you are single, you must use self-discipline to regulate yourself, enrich yourself with knowledge, if you are in full bloom, the breeze can come naturally.

If you're a puddle of mud, all you attract are flies and bed bugs.

If you're already in love, try to catch up with your partner, rather than letting yourself stand still.

Otherwise, the final result will inevitably be that you can't keep up with the other party's rhythm and let him get rid of you mercilessly.

is like Ma Yili, who was abandoned by Chen Junsheng's derailment in "The First Half of My Life".

In "We All Have to Be Well", Liu Tao suffered from depression due to the growing gap between her and her husband.

Luo Zijun and Xun in the play, for the sake of the family and the children, gave up their careers, paid their youth, and even became a man's dependence.

This also makes them more and more disconnected from the other half of the world, and it also makes them and the other half no longer see the world from the same perspective.

Therefore, in the end, it was not her husband who cheated, but chose to walk with another person.

Either they have less and less common language with their husbands, it is difficult to communicate and quarrel, and their love for each other is exhausted, and they finally have to break up.

After all, no one will wait for you unconditionally.

If you don't work hard to move forward, you can only make this originally evenly matched relationship unbalanced and collapse.

And in the end, you are the only one who suffers.

In "Jane Eyre", it is said that love is a game, and you must always be equal and evenly matched with each other in order to rely on each other for a long time.

So when it comes to love, I only talk about evenly matched love.

Only this kind of love is sweet love, and can write a happy ending to spend the rest of your life together.

An opponent that is too strong is tired, and an opponent that is too weak is tired.

Only evenly matched love is a long-term solution.

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