Chapter 824
824
In fact, Mrs. Jiang was still startled, he never thought or he had made a great goose in my heart since he was young, that is, he would not rely on his husband in this life, he would have to rely on himself to create his greatest support. In a sense, your old husband Rao has indeed achieved what he did, but at the same time, as he grew older, this old lady Jia became more and more aware of it, so his body became more and more useless, and his mind also changed drastically.
I don't know when I got married and finally realized that my son is just a son, and it is impossible to always stay by my side, it is impossible to give everything like myself, in the other party's body, I am just one of the family members for my son, so the degree may be more important than others, but in fact, the scope cannot be separated from the scope of family rao.
My son has too many things in his life, and he has a lot of things that he needs to consider, and he can't help now, and there are many things that his son needs to think about and bear by himself. At this time, Carrefour people have to admit that the vast majority of his life may be the son occupies all the fields, but this situation can only happen to him, in the same return, the son's life itself only accounts for a very small part.
The moment he wanted to listen to the audience, in fact, the old lady was very depressed in his heart, he never felt that he had done anything wrong, nor did he feel that he needed to regret it, or he needed to feel that he had done something wrong with him, but at that moment he had this kind of overturning importance, he felt that all his life's efforts were all his hard work, all his energy, all his wealth, all of his son, these practices were not correct? But looking back again, he felt that if he was given another chance, he would probably be like a lifetime, even if he had the current understanding, in fact, after so many years of life feelings, he would still devote himself to his son as he chose before.
Maybe that's how long a mother lives, she can pour everything she has into her children, but she doesn't expect the same in return. No matter how many times he chooses, his choice is always to give priority to his own children, which may be a common problem of all mothers below, of course, all mothers may be more or less rewarded by their children, but it is impossible to pay as much as they have paid, but no matter what, they are all without regrets, they are all happy, just like the old lady, he does not feel worthy of his regrets, although he knows that his son pays back his own weight, and it is more than ten times less than his son's weight in his heart, but he still has no regrets。
But no matter what, one thing that can't be changed is that Mrs. Jia finally realized the meaning of her husband's existence, and from that moment on, most of his dissatisfaction with her husband disappeared, although he still often remembered that this old man was really useless, but gradually accepted the facts, after all, only this old man could be by his side in his old age.
However, when Master Jia was no longer so utilitarian in his wife, it seemed that he valued his son's future more and the fate of the whole family. Or as a man, he may have such a strong idea from the beginning, but because of his limited ability, he is unwilling to show it, after all, on the one hand, his own ability is insufficient, and on the other hand, he desperately wants to change the fate of the family, which is very contradictory in itself.
So when his ability is insufficient, this Master Jia is also clear, realizing that in this life, he has no way to achieve the wishes of his ancestors, and there is no way to become a human being like others, at this time, his only choice is to comfort himself to relax, to know to divert his attention, not to let himself concentrate on this dead knot, knock to death on it, and in the end no one will sympathize with him, but laugh at his stupidity and incompetence.
So he showed a breezy appearance, showing an indifferent appearance of fame and fortune, not that he didn't want to, but that he couldn't he didn't have that ability, so naturally he could only accept whether his wife was cast a blank eye. And in his smart son, he did see hope, but he also knew that with his own self conditions, he did not have that qualification, or he did not have the confidence to ask his son to do what he could not do in his life, and to achieve the height that he could not reach even if he worked hard.
At this point, Master Jia can see it clearly, he knows that he can be like a father in other families or other families, make a serious appearance, and then ask his son to study hard, but he has to imagine that when he is oppressed, when he is oppressed by his father, when he asks for all kinds of things and can't do it, the feeling of aggrieved in his heart, he wants to roar at his father, since you can't do it, why ask me to do these things.
So every time he saw that his son Rutz was smart and wanted to do something, or wanted to put all the hopes of the family on his son's shoulders, at that moment, he actually thought of his own past. He was afraid that he was afraid that his son was also roaring in his heart, and he was afraid that his son would be as aggrieved as he once was.
At this point, Director Jiang has always felt that he is indeed a good father, at least he is not like his own father, who can't do things on his own, but imposes them on a child, his own son.
Don't think that there is only one child in the family here in Mr. Jia, only one son of him at home, and only one son at home, this is impossible, in fact, at home, grandpa at home, brothers are three or four people, both enemy and output, in this case, the final inheritance, most of Chiayi's is actually Master Jia, it can be seen that he has the best relationship with Lao Tzu among these sons, but in fact, this good relationship between father and son depends on the skills that this Master Jia can endure.