Chapter 823
823
Since it is said that all the things in this life, all the achievements revolve around his son, then the influence of his son on the old lady of the family is absolutely the greatest, so he actually treats other people, treats everyone, treats his husband, and treats his daughter-in-law.
After the little old lady got older, her attitude towards Master Jia has improved a lot, and she is no longer like when she was young, she can't wait to get started with direct education, of course, this thing has not happened to him, although he has practiced countless times in his heart, but he still has not really implemented it, after all, he has also been educated for more than 10 years, meeting female ghosts and so on, of course he knows that a wife is a big rebellion to do to her husband.
Verbal attacks and ridicule and non-adoption of the other party's opinions, not paying attention to these things are things that Carrefour people are used to, it can be said that they are willing to invite him there, Master Jia is a person who does not need to pay attention to him and does not need to care, anyway, he lives very well alone, and he can live a very nourishing life by himself, he doesn't need him to do anything as a wife, he just needs to take care of his son wholeheartedly.
This is also because her son has shown extraordinary talent at a young age, so of course the old woman of the family put a heart on her son, and then it was a person neatly, all placed in her son's place, but not only to take care of his son's daily life, but also to strictly consult the teachings of various gentlemen, and then cultivate his son's reading and writing ability.
At that time, once the old man was annoyed and pointed out or said something, in fact, he had been ignored by Mrs. Jia, or he was simply forbidden to meddle in her son's related matters. At that time, the relationship between husband and wife was really about to reach the freezing point, and the two people basically belonged to a state of non-interference, non-interference with each other, and non-participation in each other.
But when I get older, I call the old lady, and my attitude towards Mr. Jia has changed a lot, the most important thing is that the son has already made a name for himself, with a certain identity and status, then they should no longer eat themselves as before, the husband has no face in front of outsiders, after all, the husband's face also represents part of the son's face, and he also represents the son's face when he goes out, so the attitude of Carrefour people towards Mr. Jia has softened a lot, of course, another aspect is that the little old lady is also older, and his body is not as good as before, at this time he feels that there are really all kinds of problems when people are old, What needs to be thought about is that the most important thing is who is with him in the end, it is obvious that this question should be put aside, when he was young, the old lady of the family must not hesitate to say directly that he will be by his side for a lifetime, of course, it is his son, but now he does not dare to say it directly.
Facts have long proved that whether the son marries a wife before or after marrying a wife, or marrying a daughter-in-law or a daughter-in-law, anyway, the son actually belongs to the daughter-in-law, and there is indeed only one who belongs to him from beginning to end, that is, his husband.
When it came to this issue, in fact, Mrs. Jiang was taken aback, he never thought or said that he had set up a wild goose in his heart since he was young, that is, he would not rely on his husband in this life, he would have to rely on himself to create a maximum support for himself. It can be said that in a sense, your old lady has indeed achieved what she said, but at the same time, as she grows older, this old lady Jia has become more and more aware, so she is becoming more and more useless, and his mind has also undergone earth-shaking changes.
I don't know when I got married and finally realized that my son is just a son, and it is impossible to always stay by my side, it is impossible to give everything like myself, in the other party, I am just one of the family members for my son, so the degree may be more important than others, but in fact, the scope cannot be separated from the scope of the family.
My son has too many things in his life, and he has a lot of things that he needs to consider, and he can't help now, and there are many things that his son needs to think about and bear by himself. At this time, Carrefour people have to admit that the vast majority of his life may be the son occupies all the fields, but this situation can only happen to him, in the same return, the son's life itself only accounts for a very small part.
The moment I wanted to listen to the audience, in fact, the old lady was very depressed in her heart, he never felt that he had done anything wrong, nor did he feel that he needed to regret it, or that he needed to feel that he had done something wrong with him, but at that moment he had this earth-shaking importance, he felt that all his life's efforts were all his hard work, all his energy, all his wealth, were gathered on his son, were these practices correct? But looking back again, he felt that if he was given another chance, he would probably be like a lifetime, even if he had the current understanding, in fact, after so many years of life feelings, he would still devote himself to his son as he chose before.
Maybe that's how long a mother lives, she can pour everything she has into her children, but she doesn't expect the same in return. No matter how many times he chooses, his choice is always a priority for his own children, which may be a common problem for all mothers in the world, of course, all mothers may be more or less rewarded by their children, but it is impossible to pay as much as they have paid, but no matter what, they are all unrepentant, they are all happy, just like the old lady, he does not feel worthy of his own regrets, although he knows that his son still says that his weight is more than ten times less than his son's weight in his heart, but he still has no regrets。
But no matter what, one thing that can't be changed is that Mrs. Jia finally realized the meaning of her husband's existence, and from that moment on, most of his dissatisfaction with her husband disappeared, although he still often remembered that this old man was really useless, but gradually accepted the facts, after all, only this old man could be by his side in his old age.