Yuan Changwen walked and walked, and unconsciously was downstairs in the company, looking at the time, it was a little earlier than usual.

"Yo, Xiao Yuan, come so early today?"

As soon as Yuan Changwen punched the card, he heard Sister Linlin's ridicule.

Sister Linlin, as an old man in the company, is forty years old, and the maintenance is superb, and she is the first to arrive at the company almost every day, and it seems that every company has such a staff.

Yuan Changwen shrugged with a smile and said, "Yes, there is no traffic jam today." ”

Wrong!

Yuan Changwen is very keen to grasp his emotions and words, why should I lie?

I'm obviously walking here today, so why do you want to say that the bus is not congested?

What am I afraid of?

If I'm telling the truth, I walked here today. Then, Sister Linlin knows the approximate location of my house, and she will definitely wonder why I have walked so far.

Then, if I continue to tell the truth, then tell her that I am thinking about what is real and who I am.

How would Sister Linlin answer?

Yuan Changwen couldn't guess.

But to be sure, this style of conversation is not suitable for communication between colleagues.

So, who dictates this?

It's a social convention again!

I lie to avoid embarrassment on both sides of the topic that follows.

Sister Linlin just asked casually, as a polite gesture to avoid the cold atmosphere and ask questions.

According to society's convention, her questioning did not have any substantive content, nor did it have any substantive goals.

Then, correspondingly, my answer must be decent, just grasp the scale of the answer, so that Sister Linlin can answer smoothly without the topic being too in-depth or superficial.

That's why we need to learn to "speak".

Depend on!

You've got a kind of demon!

The "self" doesn't know when, without my consent, again weaves the definition added to the background.

Am I just saddled with these boring definitions and live all the time?

Yuan Changwen suddenly felt angry and uncomfortable, he was hesitant to continue before, but now he couldn't bear what the demon was doing.

It's hard to stand the false definition of "self"!

Slash!

Conventional means "everyone don't care so much about it first, and then talk about it after agreeing", which means false.

I don't admit it!

However, if you abandon these conventions, you will kill these egos. So, how do I talk to people?

Just like just now, if my answer was to walk, Sister Linlin then asked why, and then I said that I was thinking about who I was. Well, this conversation is bound to end in failure.

Their image begins to change, and everyone will find that their emotional intelligence has become lower, they can't speak, and they can't communicate.

Perhaps, they will point fingers behind their backs, and maybe they will talk to each other without adding me.

Hum!

So what?!

I'm fed up with falsehood, and if the whole world is false, then what's the point of abandoning the whole world!

Yuan Changwen was very excited, standing there, his hands clenched into fists, and he was short of breath.

"What's the matter, Xiao Yuan, why don't you come in?"

Sister Linlin was a little curious, why Yuan Changwen was still standing at the door.

Yuan Changwen reluctantly smiled, nodded, and entered the office area to turn on his computer.

While the computer is turned on, take a deep breath and adjust your emotions.

If there is a next conversation, what should you do?

Honesty? stupid honesty, one-tendon honesty?

In this case, I have added a new definition to my mind, "I only tell the truth, and I don't care about the so-called people."

What is the difference between changing many definitions into one?

It's still the definition of self-weaving.

Depend on!

Go back to the circle and fuck your sister!

The more Yuan Changwen thought about it, the more angry he became, and subconsciously slammed it on the desk.

Boom!

Very quiet office area, this sound is super noticeable.

Sister Linlin asked in surprise, "Are you okay, Xiao Yuan?"

Yuan Changwen immediately smiled and said, "There are bugs and bugs, Sister Linlin is not worried." ”

Sister Linlin: "Yes, I also found bugs, so be sure to wash your hands." I mentioned it to the boss several times to buy some insecticides, but I haven't bought them yet. I don't know what I'm trying to do when I make so much money!"

Yuan Changwen smiled, but did not answer.

In the past, this was a very normal colleague conversation, but now, Yuan Changwen didn't know how to answer.

Just now, when Sister Linlin asked, Yuan Changwen lied again.

Why!

Why are you lying again?

Why can't you say that you are thinking about what is true?

Yuan Changwen was very annoyed with himself, although he did not find the answer to "who am I" now, it was obvious that the "self" was not me.

What Yuan Changwen is angry about is himself!

Without his own knowledge, he weaves various definitions and allows himself to collide and impact in reality.

The definition of a parent, the definition of a teacher, the definition of authority, the definition of society, did you put these into my head with my consent?

Why did I just stupidly accept it all?

Slash, must kill!

Yuan Changwen found that he didn't dare to say what he was thinking about what was true, in addition to the conventional dialogue mechanism, there was another reason.

It's that I'm afraid.

Fear of being ridiculed, fear of being despised, fear of being treated as an outlier.

Once Sister Linlin smiled and said, "Xiao Yuan, are you still thinking about this?"

I was bound to answer embarrassedly: "No, no, I just think about it once in a while, and I suddenly remember." ”

Hehe!

Obviously, I almost didn't sleep all night last night, and I quarreled with my wife a few times because of this problem.

Why don't you dare to say it?

Just because of these fears?

Why be afraid of these?

Yuan Changwen looked at his mind, and countless pictures of the past flashed.

When I was a child, my grandmother taught me to have a good relationship with my classmates at school.

The teacher said that classmates get along well with each other, and everyone takes a step back to be friends.

My mother always persuaded herself to go out and rely on friends, and the trouble came from the mouth.

The seniors shared a variety of lessons learned about their careers.

In the library, there are rows and rows of books for talking and dealing with things.

Therefore, I am walking on thin ice, for fear of being abandoned by my colleagues, for fear that the relationship between colleagues will not be good.

That's it, I was brainwashed over and over again, and I never asked, why?

Oh no, I asked myself, and the rebellious period asked countless whys.

Rebellious period?

It's just because it's not like adults.,Always ask questions that embarrass adults.,So it's called the rebellious period?!

Just like a madman is just different from normal people and interferes with the society of normal people, so he is called a madman.

"Forget it, bear with me, which newcomer didn't come over like this? Just take those words as a fart, don't get along with yourself. ”

"That is, if you can't bear it, you will make a big plan. Don't be so impulsive, we're all here for your good. ”

"Yes, don't take it personally, you really want to go on a rampage, and you will be the one who will suffer when the time comes!"

"It's not worth it, and it's over. Take a shower in the evening, tomorrow is another day. ”

How many times have you heard these words?

How many times have you told others?

Don't get along with yourself? Lao Tzu just can't get along with himself!

Because the so-called self is not oneself, but a false "self"!

If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan? Zhen Nima is funny, a big plan? What kind of big plan?

Assassination or plotting?

It is you who suffers the loss? What is the loss? What is the gain?

Just a few people who sit at their desks, graduate from a bachelor's degree, and read no more than two books a year, what qualifications do they have to talk about losses and earnings?!

Okay, yes!

Demon, I've seen it again.

Yuan Changwen looked at his computer screen, and the demon's beautiful face gradually appeared, and then disappeared.

Still trying to deceive me?

Whether it is rebellious or submissive, it is a self-woven definition, and all need to be killed.

When you declare that "I am such a person", you have fallen into the devil's lie, and if you want to move forward, you must kill all self-woven definitions.

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"Brother, I was working today and was exposed. ”

"Who is so bold?!dare to go wild on Lao Tzu's territory?!"

"I kept following him and watched him enter the office building, and judging by his dress behavior, he didn't have any background, otherwise he wouldn't have walked to work. ”

"Okay, when he gets off work, Lao Tzu will find a few people and block him!"

"Hey, thank you, brother!" 1910