Lin Qiaoqiao was stunned for a moment, and said to herself: "It seems that Senior Sister said that all defense mechanisms are essentially self-deception that cannot face the facts. ”

"Yes, this situation is very common, almost everyone has it, for example, when I was in school, because I was not good at learning because of playfulness, but I always found all kinds of excuses to justify myself, saying that they were smarter than me, saying that my father supervised less, and even blamed me for being a single-parent family that had an impact on me, but in essence, it was my playfulness and dislike of learning. Amplified into life, such psychology also abounds, people with high IQ are low EQ, rich people are not happy, talented people are unambitious, red faces are all disasters, if you don't say so, people like us who have nothing will not be able to live, the reality is cruel enough, are we not allowed to numb ourselves?"

I said a lot, Lin Qiaoqiao looked at me stunned, I thought she understood, who knew that she held her mouth and said dissatisfied: You are a single-parent family? ”

Depend on!

You're here to memorize the paper.

I was helpless and said to her directly: "What you said is a common phenomenon, and I don't have any problem." ”

She put away her dissatisfaction, and continued to recite with a stiff face: "The psychological defense mechanism is the inner instinct of people, and the original intention is to relieve people's pain and uneasy emotions, so as to restore psychological balance, which is positive for people themselves, but excessive stimulation may lead to mental illness. ”

The last sentence makes me a little interested, we often meet people with paranoid personalities in our lives, some people are paranoid and annoying, maybe they are overly stimulating self-soothing and playing a counterproductive role?

After she finished speaking in one breath, she suddenly blushed, pink, I want to pinch it.

"Go on. ”

"I ...... That's all I memorized. ”

What？

It's about to be G o'clock, have you stopped? I was hung up by her last sentence, and I was instantly disinterested, and I got up and wanted to leave, she was anxious, "Do you understand me, it's good to be considerate, the course of studying medicine is very busy, I stayed up late last night to memorize this." ”

She almost cried when she said it, I panicked and comforted her: "I don't blame you, don't cry, I see what you said is too good, go and ask for food to reward you." ”

"Who wants you to be rewarded. She burst into tears and laughed, tears still flowing, and I suspect that they were forced to flow out of her eyes because they had accumulated too many tears just now.

I couldn't see the energetic girl show a sad expression, so I invited her to have lunch together, and just after the first bite, I almost threw up, "Store Manager Chu, didn't your cook come to work today? ”

"Before you were full, you started scolding the cook?" Store Manager Chu scratched his head and walked over, obviously I guessed correctly. Who else can make it so unpalatable?

I poked the noodles angrily and sprayed: "Your pasta is made of soy sauce? Your french fries are so hard? Also! The pasta is added with meat sauce or tomato sauce after the water, why do you fry it!"

The more I talked, the more angry I became, I really wanted to slap him in the face with a plate, and the cooking was unpalatable. He looked confused, took a bite of noodles, and said while eating: "No, I usually do this, my wife loves to eat." ”

"That means your wife really loves you!"

I still want to spray him for another hour, Lin Qiaoqiao couldn't help but giggle, I found that she ate a lot, and she didn't feel unpalatable at all, "You're not a picky eater." ”

She said indifferently: "I've eaten it no matter how unpleasant it is, and I'm used to it." ”

Store Manager Chu smiled proudly, I refused to pay, he told the truth, the chef really didn't come today, he temporarily rescued the scene, I despised it: "You are saving the field, you are smashing the field." ”

He was sprayed honest by me, so he left stupidly, and he didn't say a word about not collecting money, and I didn't even get free when I was pitted, I said that this friend can't be deeply friends.

Lin Qiaoqiao estimated that she was really hungry, and she ate all the things, I wondered, she said that her family spoiled her very much, and she used to show a little coquettish when she got along, why didn't she be picky about eating? So, I asked her: "I remember when I met you, you had more pocket money than my salary, why don't you look like a little princess when you eat, you can eat anything." ”

"Little princess?" she blushed, "am I so delicate? When I was a child, I had suffered everything, and if the food was unpalatable, it would be good to eat some of it." ”

"When you were a kid? That was when your parents started from scratch?"

She was silent for a while, didn't answer me, and asked me, "Are you a single parent?"

"yes. ”

"Why didn't you tell me before?"

"I used to be a liar. ”

She pinched me angrily, "I'm so unlucky to know a villain like you!

Check the water meter? Lin Qiaoqiao asked, as if she was looking for compensation for me to deceive her, she simply went straight to the point, if she saw Shi Nan, I guess she would expose me as soon as she opened her mouth, thinking about my fear, I nodded and should be with her.

"My dad is the only one in the family, and he has a tough body, and I can't beat him. ”

"Have you seen your mother?"

"I saw it when I was a child, I got sick and died. "I have too little impression of my mother, she left too early.

Her face became calm, and I thought she was asking too much, but she suddenly said, "Me too, I haven't seen my mother since I was very young." ”

My eyes widened unexpectedly, the world is full of beautiful young girls, I always thought that she was born rich and cared for by her parents, so she was so sunny and lovely. For a moment, I suddenly felt that I didn't know Lin Qiaoqiao, and that the human manifestation was really herself? At least I wasn't.

This is the first time we talked about our family, the atmosphere seemed a little more serious, she lowered her head and didn't speak, I didn't dare to disturb, who knew that she thought for a while, raised her head and looked at me blankly: "You like to flirt with girls so much, is it because you don't have a mother, and you lack the love of the opposite sex in your heart." ”

"Huh?"

I was caught off guard by the question, weren't you sad memories just now? Are you thinking about this question?

"You can go back and ask your senior sister, people can't see through themselves. ”

She obviously doesn't understand enough of this esoteric question, and it's no wonder that she is not good at studying, she has just been a freshman, and she is studying pharmacy with a partial science subject, how can she know how to study psychology with philosophical colors.

She thought for a while, and finally gave up, I persuaded her, next time just bring her senior sister over, she memorized the paper, she resolutely refused: "No!"

"Why, how thankless it is for you to be caught in the middle. ”

"It just doesn't work!"

I sensed her unnaturalness and asked with a smile, "No, your senior sister is a beauty." ”

She immediately denied: "Not really." After speaking, his little face was a little embarrassed, and sure enough, Lin Qiaoqiao would not lie.

I couldn't cry or laugh even more, what did she think of me, a humanoid self-propelled cannon that didn't let go when she saw a beautiful woman?

"Since you want to see your senior sister when you go back, help me bring her a question for me. ”

"Say it. ”

"Why do people live?"

"Huh?" she was surprised. I smiled and asked, "Do you know the answer?" She blinked for a long time, her long eyelashes flicking up and down like a brush, and finally shook her head.

"So, such an esoteric question can only be answered by your senior sister. ”

She nodded obediently, I seemed to have succeeded in my prank, why do people live? This is almost the ultimate question of life, I look at the floor tiles when I, I often fall into thinking, but I can't get the answer, and finally I am washed away like.

Because there is no answer to this question at all, how will her genius sister answer it? My question was obviously deliberately made difficult and to repay her rude analysis of me. This kind of dialogue in the air is interesting.

Lin Qiaoqiao took my question and obediently left first, and Store Manager Chu came to ask for money, I was unhappy, "Don't think that you are older than me, I won't dare to beat you." ”

As soon as he saw that I didn't give money, he immediately changed his face, "Young man, you lay down a few years ago, and when I was at work, someone came to smash my coffee shop, what do you guess will happen to him?"

"Oh, you were beaten to tears?" I was interested.

He sneered and boasted: "The person who smashed the field has become impotence!

"Hey, store manager, you also stepped on the tip of a knife when you were young, on the road?"

He became interested and rolled up his sleeves, "It's not that I'm bragging to you, I didn't be afraid of anyone when I was a set of hands, my wife and his teaching director, attempted sexual harassment, what ended up in the end? I kicked it into a concussion, I have beaten the first in the rivers and lakes, and it is not a tie." The more he talked, the more energetic he was, caught up with the storyteller under the overpass, lifted up his shirt, exposed his chest, I almost thought he was going to break a big stone in his chest, he patted his chest and said: "See, there is a knife outside the plug in the northwest, saying that a knife will be used to fight, but he finally left three knives on my chest, and I beat him to retire to the rivers and lakes, and he didn't beat me with three knives." ”

But his scar was real, and I looked closely, "Are you sure it's not a scalpel?"

He was embarrassed, and I laughed, "You have had heart surgery in old age?"

"Internal injuries. What he said was the same as the truth, I almost believed it, and he continued to shout: "And this, the ribs on the chest, what the thing said at the beginning that he was a lay disciple, it would have been like that, if I hadn't respected Buddhism, I would have won him a long time ago." ”

I finally couldn't help laughing, Store Manager Chu was busy in the store every day, like a housewife and man, and now this posture seems to have finally been liberated, gushing, I estimate that if he is given two catties of wine, he can blow for a night.

At the end of his speech, he suddenly sat down, his expression gloomy and calm, and said to himself: "Having said so much, you are annoyed." You just said why people live, I have been thinking about it for a long time, I have always felt that for myself, life is like a dream, laughing at life, but then I ......"

He paused for a moment, reached out and touched the necklace with the word "Chu", "Later, I realized that I have to live well, so that the people below can rest assured, after all, one day I will also go to see her, I don't want to be at that time, she will see that I am not doing well, and my heart will be sad." ”

His words seemed to be addressed to another person.