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This makes people a little hard to believe, or difficult to accept, after all, your parents raised a mad or inhumane guy, often cause several families, and even the country will be hurt such a thing, even if the parents blame themselves, no matter how much they suffer, they can't make up for the mistakes they made, after all, a child comes to the world, then it is a blank slate, how to educate, how to cultivate this child is his parents' business.

Even if Mencius said that human nature is inherently evil, this evil does not mean that human nature is inherently evil, but that human nature is originally inclined to evil, and he is more inclined to do evil to seek his own interests, rather than saying that he was born evil, you have no way to reverse it, this thing is absolutely impossible, so in the process of each child's growth, how he tends to the evil or good side is completely dependent on the education of his parents.

And often a pair of irresponsible parents, or parents who are not in the state at all, parents who have not considered how to educate their children after giving birth, in their opinion, children should grow up on their own, or in their opinion, they feel that their cultivation method is very correct, when they realize that the child is no longer under their control, or realize that the child is embarrassed by themselves outside, they often blame the child, and will not reflect on the reason why the child caused such a result, and now it is manifested in such a variety of phenomena, it is entirely because of their subtle cultivation over the years。

Let's take the simplest example, a group of children playing there, some of them don't say now, of course, these children are dressed in silk and satin, some in muslin, some in burlap, some in all kinds of patched old clothes, etc., these are only representative of the economic level of each family, and do not represent any moral problems.

What we want to say is that there are all kinds of clothes in this group of children, but the cleanliness is determined by the children, is this really determined by the children? Children play together, of course, some children wash, some children wash and move, so the clothes of children who love to move will be a little dirtier, and the wear will be a little worse, and the quiet children of course keep their clothes clean more than other children, but on the whole, children can not control, and they want to keep their shortcuts within a certain range, after all, they are still children.

But at this time, you can distinguish it, no matter what material you are wearing, the cleanliness is generally measurable. And when parents see this group of children. After ignoring the distinction between the classes of clothes, then parents of the same class must pay attention, of course, to a table of cleaner children.

If that child belongs to your own home, then congratulations on winning the jackpot, your child is so obedient that when he goes out to play, he can still be the cleanest of all the ordinary children, it is simply a blessing from God.

And if it's not good or your luck is really bad, and your child is the dirtiest one of those children, then will you blame this child, why don't you fight for me, why don't you fight for me, you go out to play and make yourself so dirty, is it not a shame to be ashamed?

Then pay attention, the so-called shame in the parents' mouths, who is the person who is lost? Is it the child's person? That's impossible, children playing together will not see if your clothes are clean or not, just to see if you are interesting or not, whether you are in the same group as me, whether we are friends, whether we can play together and share food, he will not care if you are well-dressed, whether you talk and behave admirably, this is impossible, they have not yet reached the stage where they need to pay attention to these.

Then they will feel ashamed because of the cleanliness of their clothes, it is actually the parents themselves, they feel that if the child is too dirty, it is definitely a shame for them, but they have considered that without the so-called other people's children in their mouths, their clothes are born to be as tidy as possible?

There may indeed be children who are born with a love of neatness, but the odds are definitely like winning the jackpot, ordinary children are generally about the same, and the one who pays special attention to the neatness of the clothes, is it because the parents have specially instructed him before, is it because the parents often change his clothes for him to clean, or he is because of the behavior of the parents and has the psychology of distressing parents, so try to keep the clothes tidy, so that the adults do less work, etc., these may become the factors that he performs so well, but the only thing that does not admit that it cannot exist, that is, because he feels ashamed。

If you really feel the need to hook up, then what you need is to educate your child carefully and pay attention to the aspect of neatness, instead of pulling his ears and pointing at other people's children, accusing you of why you are not like so-and-so, why do you kick you like this all day long, why are you naughty all day long, why are you so disobedient all day long, why do you always do something that others don't let you do.

In fact, does it need to be said? The behavior of these parents has already explained why your child behaves so poorly, why your child is always more naughty than others, because your education is problematic.

Sometimes Li Xiucai wants to catch that person and train him well, haven't you thought about this specific reason? If you continue to let it go like this, your children may rise to the top, that is, among the masses of noodles and tigers, it will be difficult for them to get ahead, it will be difficult for them to stand out from the crowd, to glorify their ancestors, or to meet the expectations in your minds, and it is often you who cause all this.

Sometimes you feel that it is indeed a very worry-free thing to feel that you don't have children, otherwise it is estimated that the couple will have gray hair when it comes to the education of children. After all, for a responsible and responsible parent, raising children is one of the biggest problems in their lives. Sometimes Li Xiucai even felt that he was a husband and wife because he had received God's love, otherwise why would he directly solve such a big problem for them? As for the real reason why they have no children, it is still very easy for the two of them to be treated, after all, most departments have said that there is no problem with their health.

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