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Although it was said that there were several opportunities later, because the family of the bow and arrow came to the provincial capital, the temporary palace did not appear, but his friendship with Li Xiucai did continue, and the two often occasionally drank a cup of tea in private, or went somewhere to buy things or play, in short, there was not much time, and there was no need to work together, but in a short period of time, the friendship between the two became deeper and deeper, so that Li Xiucai simply invited the key to his home as a guest.

And the reason why he made this decision is also a joint decision of the husband and wife, in his heart, the most important thing in his heart is not his studies, nor his future, but his family, and his family contains only one person, that is, his wife.

Many people are upset about Li Xiucai, feeling that his wife is not qualified enough, anyway, it is indeed his wife's fault that he failed to give birth to a son and a half daughter for Li Xiucai. There are even many people who feel that this Li Xiucai's wife is really not worthy of her husband, so some people often persuade Li Xiucai in private or openly, and simply make this kind of remark on that side, in fact, in a sense, it is already a deliberate belittlement of Li Xiucai's wife.

Whenever you encounter such a situation, no matter what kind of friendship he has with the person who said this kind of thing, he will list these people as customers who refuse to deal with him, so being able to become Li Xiucai's friend and continue to do so is simply a certification of character in itself.

The agent is a talented psychology, although his wife did not give birth to children for him, but his wife is another confidant of his soul, it can be said that the two people are extraordinarily compatible, living together have never quarreled over anything, on the contrary, although the views on some things are different, they complement each other and complement each other.

Sometimes you would rather stay at home and talk to your wife than go out to face the laity, or persuade him to go there and marry someone else. As for children, Li Xiucai actually has a very natural state, of course he has also seen his friends, starting a family and having children, having their own families, their own future, their own expectations, that kind of joy makes Li Xiucai feel envious, but at the same time, he also sees that those people value children at the same time and pay a lot, and at the same time, because of the arrival of this strange life, the whole family will undergo great changes, which Li Xiucai is unwilling to see.

There was also an old friend, because he has been obsessed with his studies, so he wasted his children's education, but did not talk about his children's education, that is, he didn't even understand too much about the most basic principles of life, so that the whole was very desolate, so Li Xiucai felt very touched in his heart, he felt that instead of having such unfilial descendants, it was better to live with his wife and He Meimei as now, there is no contradiction between the two, there is no conflict, and there will be no tantrum because of something inexplicable。

And the most rare and most tempting thing for Li Xiucai is that he doesn't have to worry about the nondescript guy he has educated, or the guy who is simply crazy, and having no bottom line is not only a serious harm to his family, but also an extremely irresponsible behavior to the society.

You must know that those irresponsible parents, the evening is often bleak, then they should also be, after all, they have to bear the greatest responsibility for the evil consequences they have planted, but if this matter can stop at this, Li Xiucai will not have any adverse reactions to raising a child, but often things cannot be as he expects, can only be controlled within the scope of a family, and the harm is often greater than the scope he originally envisioned.

This makes people a little hard to believe, or difficult to accept, after all, your parents raised a mad or inhumane guy, often cause several families, and even the country will be hurt such a thing, even if the parents blame themselves, no matter how much they suffer, they can't make up for the mistakes they made, after all, a child comes to the world, then it is a blank slate, how to educate, how to cultivate this child is his parents' business.

Even if Mencius said that human nature is inherently evil, this evil does not mean that human nature is inherently evil, but that human nature is originally inclined to evil, and he is more inclined to do evil to seek his own interests, rather than saying that he was born evil, you have no way to reverse it, this thing is absolutely impossible, so in the process of each child's growth, how he tends to the evil or good side is completely dependent on the education of his parents.

And often a pair of irresponsible parents, or parents who are not in the state at all, parents who have not considered how to educate their children after giving birth, in their opinion, children should grow up on their own, or in their opinion, they feel that their cultivation method is very correct, when they realize that the child is no longer under their control, or realize that the child is embarrassed by themselves outside, they often blame the child, and will not reflect on the reason why the child caused such a result, and now it is manifested in such a variety of phenomena, it is entirely because of their subtle cultivation over the years。

Let's take the simplest example, a group of children playing there, some of them don't say now, of course, these children are dressed in silk and satin, some in muslin, some in burlap, some in all kinds of patched old clothes, etc., these are only representative of the economic level of each family, and do not represent any moral problems.

What we want to say is that there are all kinds of clothes in this group of children, but the cleanliness is determined by the children, is this really determined by the children? Children play together, of course, some children wash, some children wash and move, so the clothes of children who love to move will be a little dirtier, and the wear will be a little worse, and the quiet children of course keep their clothes clean more than other children, but on the whole, children can not control, and they want to keep their shortcuts within a certain range, after all, they are still children.

But at this time, you can distinguish it, no matter what material you are wearing, the cleanliness is generally measurable. And when parents see this group of children. After ignoring the distinction between the classes of clothes, then parents of the same class must pay attention, of course, to a table of cleaner children.

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