Volume 6 Section 122 One cannot step into the same river twice
"It's kind of interesting. Shen Jianhong nodded, she is a cadre from the All-China Federation of Trade Unions, and she is naturally very concerned about the rights and interests of employees of state-owned enterprises. ”
Shen Jianhong's evaluation is very high, and Zhu Fenghou and Guo Yeshan are very happy.
Guo Yeshan didn't say anything, Zhu Fenghou originally had some friendship with Sha Zhengyang, and he had a close relationship with Cao Qingtai, so he naturally paid close attention to Cao Qingtai's "proud disciple".
It is said that Du Gaocheng and Wei Qingliang, deputy secretaries of the provincial party committee, will be at the age of next year, and they will come down, and Shen Jianhong is likely to directly serve as the deputy secretary of the Hanchuan Provincial Party Committee in charge of the work of the party and the masses, and the right to speak will be heavier.
Thinking of this, Zhu Fenghou was also happy for Sha Zhengyang.
This guy is really a bit lucky, he can toss something to make the leader interested wherever he goes, it turns out that he is deeply trusted and valued by Lin Chunming in Wanzhou, and after he comes back, he doesn't know how to make You Wangang fall in love with him, and he appreciates it very much, and now a random suggestion actually makes Shen Jianhong's impression of him better.
Guo Yeshan, this guy, can see this opportunity to help make suggestions, and it can be seen that this guy must have a good relationship with Sha Zhengyang, which also shows that Sha Zhengyang can handle the relationship well wherever he is, and his emotional intelligence is very high.
"Secretary Shen, Sha Zhengyang is also a cadre of our Handu, he used to work in Yintai, when I went to work in Yintai, he had just left Yintai, and his work in Yintai was very prominent, Dongfanghong Group was founded by him, he is a very rare talent, and he has worked under Lao Guo for two years, right?"
Since Guo Yeshan is deliberately helping Sha Zhengyang build momentum, Zhu Fenghou certainly does not hesitate to help the other party.
"Oh, or are we cadres from Handu?" Shen Jianhong actually knew Sha Zhengyang for a long time, but she didn't know that Sha Zhengyang was still Guo Yeshan's former subordinate, Zhu Fenghou said this, which also shows that Guo Yeshan and Sha Zhengyang have a great relationship, "This shows that our cadre selection mechanism in Handu is very smooth, and this can also produce excellent cadres, and even the province has taken a fancy to it, which is a good thing." ”
"Secretary Shen is right, Sha Zhengyang is indeed very good at enterprise work, which is probably the reason why the province wants to transfer him from Wanzhou to Changhe Energy Group. Zhu Fenghou explained.
"However, Sha Zhengyang's suggestion is indeed very enlightening and operational, and the task of our Handu state-owned enterprise reform next year is very heavy, and the pressure on stability in this regard will be great, if it can be buffered in this way, I think it should have a good effect." Shen Jianhong groaned and said: "Lao Zhu, you worry about this matter, understand the next step of their Changhe Energy Group, which can be used as a reference for the next step of our Handu work, and I will also give Secretary Zhou and Governor Wang I suggestions to see if this method can be studied as soon as possible, and if possible, it is best to make preliminary preparations as soon as possible." ”
"Okay, I'll get in touch after I come down, and I'll see if there are any new opinions in the province on this aspect, if they can be implemented, maybe we in Hanchuan and Handu can make a try in this aspect across the country." Zhu Fenghou nodded in response.
When the work and research were over and the others left, Shen Jianhong looked at his secretary, "Xiaoyan, I see that you were in a trance just now, are you not feeling well,......?"
"No, no, Secretary Shen, I'm fine. Sun Yan didn't expect the other party to be so meticulous in his observation, and he was in a trance for a while, and he was also seen by the other party.
"Yes, I think you seem to be absent-minded just now, but it's the first time I've found out that you have such a situation, what's wrong?" Shen Jianhong valued herself as a secretary very much, and in all aspects, Sun Yan's performance made her very satisfied.
She has always felt that she went to Hanchuan to work, and the most satisfying thing was to meet such a secretary who was very comfortable in all aspects, which not only made her familiar with the work quickly, but also entered the state quickly, and in private, Sun Yan's relationship with her was more similar to the relationship between the eldest sister and the younger sister or even the mother-daughter relationship, so many times they talked about everything.
Shen Jianhong knew that Sun Yan had a boyfriend before and later broke up, all before she came to Hanchuan, but Sun Yan never mentioned this matter, so Shen Jianhong never asked, and never even inquired, she felt that with Sun Yan's intelligence and wisdom, she was completely able to deal with the problem of personal feelings by herself.
"Nothing. Sun Yan bit her lip and shook her head.
"Really?" Shen Jianhong asked again: "What do you say, I have so many years of experience than you, and I may be able to give you some help and advice on both official and private matters." ”
Sun Yan raised her gaze and said after a long time: "Secretary Shen, in fact, Sha Zhengyang is my ex-boyfriend. ”
"Oh, your ex-boyfriend?!" Shen Jianhong was taken aback, but felt that it was reasonable, with Sun Yan's excellence, a man she could look at would definitely not be bad, "But you broke up, is it your reason, or his, or is it really not suitable?"
is very good, it may not necessarily be suitable, and it may even be just not suitable, of course Shen Jianhong understands this truth, but for these young people, he may not understand.
"I don't know. Sun Yan shook her head a little confused, "I was still in college, and he was still working in the township,......
Sun Yan introduced the process of her and Sha Zhengyang's acquaintance and love, and finally talked about Sha Zhengyang's work in Wanzhou.
"At the beginning, my father hoped that he could be transferred back, but in fact, at that time, if he wanted to be transferred back, he could do it, but he may not be so happy in terms of job arrangement, but he flatly refused, he thought that he would be more developed and better if he stayed in Wanzhou, and I was also ,......very busy because of the pressure of work."
Shen Jianhong nodded slightly.
This is the trade-off between two young people who both have their own careers to pursue.
Handu and Wanzhou are thousands of miles apart, and the two people themselves are very busy with work, distance will produce beauty, and the same distance will make the relationship slowly fade away.
The wear and tear of time and space on a relationship is considerable, especially when the relationship has not been completely stabilized and has not been bound by laws and morals, then it is easier to break.
It can be said that this relationship doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong, it's just that their choices are different.
No one is willing to make concessions in their careers, for the sake of feelings.
Or they both feel that the other person should make some sacrifices.
Sun Yan may think that the other party has a lot of opportunities to transfer back, but it is completely different to go to Wanzhou by herself, so Sha Zhengyang is unwilling to make this sacrifice, which shows that he does not cherish this relationship.
Similarly, Sha Zhengyang may also think that he has such a good opportunity in Wanzhou, how can he give it up as a man? And women seem to be born to make sacrifices, and this concept is deeply ingrained in the minds of many men, especially men who have achieved a certain degree in their careers.
Because of this, such a relationship will end without a problem.
"No one expected him to be transferred back to Handu so soon,......" Sun Yan was a little distracted.
"Well, Sha Zhengyang is not married yet, and he has never had a partner? Or did he have it later, and now he is divided?" Shen Jianhong thought for a while before asking.
Sun Yan hesitated for a moment, "He is definitely not married, and there should be no confirmed partner now, maybe he had a favorite, but probably it didn't work out, and I didn't know the specific situation." ”
"Then what do you think now?" Shen Jianhong sighed in his heart.
She felt that it would be difficult for this relationship to be reunited, if Sha Zhengyang had been waiting for Sun Yan, then after returning to Handu for so long, I am afraid that there would have been a move a long time ago.
The problem is that the other party has not moved for so long, and although the meaning of Sun Yan's words is vague, according to Shen Jianhong's understanding, that is, Sha Zhengyang has probably been with a partner, but it may not be particularly suitable, in this case, the relationship between the two people may have cooled down, and it is almost impossible to return to the original state.
If these two are middle-aged men and women in their thirties and forties, and they no longer have too many extravagant hopes for the so-called love, then they may be able to come together for a career, but these two seem to still have extravagant hopes for love, so it's really difficult.
Of course, Shen Jianhong is just thinking about this point of view silently in her heart, and she can't make it public, she just feels a little sorry for this young man.
"Do you want to listen to my advice?" If it was someone else, Shen Jianhong would never give any advice in terms of feelings, it would basically be harmful and useless, and it would not be good if it was divided, but for Sun Yan, she couldn't do it.
Sun Yan bit her lip and nodded.
"You can find a chance to talk to him, find out how you feel, if you can both find the same feeling, then you can also consider starting over, if not, then let go as soon as possible and find your own emotional home. Shen Jianhong said lightly.
It's really about getting them to give up.
People cannot step into the same river twice, and this sentence also shows that the past is gone, and it is impossible to come back.
Shen Jianhong understands this, but she doesn't know if the two young people, Sun Yan and Sha Zhengyang, understand, so let them collide and feel it again, and they will understand and make the right choice in the end. ()
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