Everything in the world has two sides, and if you feel that fate is punishing you, then naturally, fate is also saving you.

But the point is who can see through and work hard.

Providence allowed me to return to my hometown and continue to prolong the days of unemployment.

At that time, I always felt that God was going to destroy me. In fact, it was my ignorance, short-sightedness, and I didn't know how to see through the opportunities behind this fateful arrangement. Although I continue to be unemployed, I can still seize the time to improve my skills and make myself more confident in finding a job in the future.

If Heaven really wants to destroy a person, it is almost a matter of seconds, and if there is a catastrophe or something, the soul can be destroyed in the blink of an eye, so why bother to arrange so many things?

I realized it slowly after I returned to my hometown......

After returning to my hometown, the door of my house was reoriented and replaced with stainless steel, which is related to feng shui. I had an idea about this matter a few years ago before Uncle left, but I couldn't start it. Now, it's a wish.

When it came to the Qingming Festival, I finally went to worship my ancestors.

The last time I went to worship my ancestors was when I was in the first grade of elementary school, so many years, no wonder my luck was so bad. That's because I forgot my ancestors. Therefore, through this worship, I will come back to continue my annual worship of my ancestors during the Qingming holiday in the future. I want to tell myself not to forget my ancestors.

All these things were done by providence for me to go back to my hometown. If I get a job, maybe I don't know what year in the future I will go to pay homage to my ancestors. After all, this era is easy to make people impetuous.

In my hometown, an old Chinese medicine practitioner with many years of medical experience can help me treat chronic nephritis, but it may take a few months. In this regard, I choose to believe in the old Chinese medicine doctor. After all, the Western medicine treatment was too direct and drastic for me to stand it.

In my hometown, my daily diet has become light, and I can only eat a little lean meat, a lot of green vegetables, and only a little salt. At first, the food didn't taste good, but when I got used to it, it had a special sweet taste. Perhaps, if I am suddenly asked to eat a normal amount of salt, I will feel salty instead.

In her hometown, her eighty-eight-year-old grandmother can see her granddaughter's language every day, and she is naturally much happier. Because of the sub-language, the family is also a lot more lively, and many children will come to play in the abuser-language. Ziyu is also in these joys, slowly babbling and learning, and also began to learn to climb. Sometimes, you can rely on your own strength to slowly stand up by holding on to a fixed object. At that moment, there will be a kind of gratifying happiness in my heart!

In my hometown, I am responsible for helping Ziyu take a bath every day, and at eight o'clock in the evening, after Xiaoshi gets off work, I will video with Xiaoshi and let her watch Ziyu. At first, Xiaoshi would be a little sad, but slowly, she got used to it.

However, our communication has not always been smooth.

On the contrary, within three days, there will definitely be a conflict.

Because Xiaoshi can't take care of Ziyu, she will let me and my aunt do the same in the way she thinks she can take care of Ziyu, and if she finds out that one of them is not done well, she will start to lose her temper. And most of the sources of her tantrums come from dissatisfaction with the way her aunt takes care of Ziyu.

I'm in the middle, and I'm always in a dilemma, but I can't escape it. After all, the most critical person in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is me, who is sandwiched between my mother and wife.

Sometimes, I can't handle it, and I have no choice but to keep silent......

Even, sometimes I will feel depressed and feel that life is particularly dark.

What I am looking forward to most is family harmony. If there is no harmonious atmosphere in a family, how can there be happiness?

Whenever the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very serious and I can't control it, I will hate why I can't work yet. Without financial means, I don't really have the right to speak.

During that time, I deeply realized the importance of financial ability! If I hadn't started a family and was just single, I wouldn't have had so many financial worries at all. However, the price of starting a family is to face up to the role of the economy, which is also the driving force.

The days are sometimes calm and sometimes turbulent.

Approaching the May Day holiday, Xiaoshi asked me to play with my aunt in Shenzhen for a few days, and then go back to my hometown.

That's exactly what we planned.

But, really, sometimes plans don't keep up with changes.

On the night we drove through Shenzhen, my aunt got motion sickness and vomited a lot. It should be said that it was not long after getting on the bus that I started to get motion sickness. If the aunt sleeps in the sleeper car, it may be much better, but the train at the station has been reformed, and most of them are seated, and the aunt is particularly prone to motion sickness when she sits.

Therefore, the responsibility of taking care of Ziyu fell on me alone.

Feed her formula, change diapers, and put her to sleep...... I thought it was going to be a very painful night, and I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to cope with it alone.

I never thought that I would be able to take care of Ziyu by myself. After all, to feed milk powder, you have to pour boiling water and cold boiled water, the car is a little shaky, Ziyu is crying, and there is a lot of luggage......

Arrived in Shenzhen in the early morning, and returned to the "new home" again, and the second sister also cooked porridge and waited for us.

After that night, I realized that I had grown a lot. At the very least, I didn't panic and calmly handled everything.

Because of that night, my aunt felt that it was difficult for me to get in the car, and I felt the same way. I signaled to her to take care of Ziyu in Shenzhen, and after the May Day holiday, I would go back to my hometown to recuperate.

Although my aunt is still a little worried that I will go home alone to recuperate, she really can't take the car. Therefore, she decided to take care of Ziyu in Shenzhen, and planned to discuss with Xiaoshi when she returned.

The afternoon before May Day, I went out to the supermarket, called Xiaoshi, asked her what she wanted to eat, and I bought it and cooked it at home.

She said it was all right.

So, I bought her favorite chicken feet and wing tips.

That evening, she was on her way home.

I'm cooking, hoping to surprise her!

However, things turned out again to my surprise.

After Xiaoshi returned home, she wanted to hug Ziyu with an excited face, but Ziyu couldn't recognize it at once, so she cried so much!

Xiaoshi had no choice but to give Ziyu back to her aunt to hug. At this time, the aunt said innocently: "She hasn't seen you for too long, and she cried a little raw." It is also possible that he has just woken up and his mood has not stabilized. ”

The speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention.

Xiaoshi was very unhappy! She replied dissatisfiedly: "Yes! I'm raw! I'll go to Dad's side later!"

Xiaoshi has always been very concerned about Ziyu being taken care of by her aunt in her hometown, because she is afraid that one day Ziyu will not know her. I didn't expect it, but it really is. Therefore, the emotions in her heart are very complicated! There is anger, helplessness, and sadness.

Actually, Auntie didn't mean that, she just wanted to express that Ziyu hadn't seen anyone for too long, and it might take some time to get used to it.

This scene is still up to me.

However, the most critical character, Ziyu is not cooperative! Although Xiaoshi doesn't hug her, she will cry when she sees Xiaoshi, but she keeps turning her head to look at Xiaoshi. Alas, I sometimes don't understand the thoughts of my little princess.

In fact, as long as Ziyu is happy and willing to be hugged by Xiaoshi, there is no problem.

The original surprise has become a useless existence.

Because Xiaoshi had already entered the room angrily, saying that she didn't want to eat dinner.

After that, in order to coax Ziyu to sleep, and in order to let Ziyu remember the little poems faster, I carried Ziyu into the room and soaked milk powder to feed her.

It was fine at first, but my aunt kept saying things in the living room that didn't help the situation at all and might even make it worse, so I yelled angrily, "Shut up!"

Maybe it was too loud and scared Ziyu, who was drinking milk, and she immediately burst into tears. And because she was crying while drinking milk, she spit up!

When Xiaoshi saw this scene, her temper came again!

The situation is getting worse and worse! How could the joy of reunion be like this?

My heart is so tired!

After that, the aunt finally coaxed Ziyu to fall asleep, and also carried Ziyu to Xiaoshi's bed, and Xiaoshi's temper eased.

That's why we can have a good dinner.

At dinner time, the aunt said her decision to take care of Ziyu in Shenzhen, and asked Xiaoshi what she thought.

Xiao Shi's eyes were immediately pleasantly surprised, of course she agreed with this decision very much, and finally let her daughter not be so far away from her. On weekdays, you can take your daughter to play on weekends, how nice!

From that moment on, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law between Aunt and Xiaoshi was much easier than before. The smile on Xiaoshi's face also increased, and I was able to chat with her properly.

That's right, that's what I want to see.

That night, Xiaoshi slept with Ziyu and slowly regained her previous feelings.

After dawn, the first day of the May Day holiday began.

After waking up, Ziyu finally remembered Xiaoshi and was willing to let Xiaoshi hug her, and Xiaoshi's mood at that time was like picking up a treasure.

I understand, after all, I was a paternity watching how hard Xiaoshi worked to give birth to Ziyu.

On the first day of the May Day holiday, my aunt and I accompanied Xiaoshi and Ziyu to play with their parents, and then to play with their parents.

After playing, my aunt and I went back to our "new home", after all, I wanted to make Chinese medicine and drink. And Xiao Shi took Ziyu to play with her parents for a few days, and then returned to her "new home".

During the May Day holiday, I felt okay. Because there are no serious problems in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I feel light.

One night before the end of Xiaoshi's May Day holiday, I finally kissed Xiaoshi's mouth.

Seriously, I haven't kissed Xiaoshi since she became pregnant, and the lingering of the soul is even rarer. In addition to the reason for the sub-language, there is also my health condition and the existence of family conflicts.

That night, I got in the car, but it didn't drive far before I stopped. Because, the sound insulation of the room is very poor, and she is afraid that Ziyu will sleep with noise.

So, it's been a long time since I've experienced a thrilling drag race. Whew, I want to work hard, and then rent a large room with a few bedrooms, a room with good sound insulation, and regain the original romance!

After the May Day holiday, Xiaoshi continued to work, Auntie took care of Ziyu in the "new home", and I went back to my hometown again to take care of my body and reshape myself by the way!

Now, the time has come to pass.

Finally, it caught up.

I think God is giving me this opportunity to reinvent myself, develop good habits, and be the self I like!

Providence is unpredictable, but you can choose the way you live.

There is one sentence that I particularly like: God helps the self-helpers!

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