Quietly thinking, how do I start......

Quietly, quietly......

Well, isn't that a good start?

It's like I'm always thinking about when my baby will come into the world, thinking about it, and then one day it's coming......

A lot of things, let it be, when it's time to come, nature will come. If you don't dwell too much on the beginning, there will naturally be a beginning.

Time went to mid-July 2018, well, Xiaoshi's belly was already quite big, but in the eyes of others, her belly looked like it was only about five months.

Without contrast, there is no embarrassment.

Many pregnant women who are closer to Xiao Shi's gestational week look several times bigger than Xiao Shi's belly, and even if some pregnant women are not as long as Xiao Shi's pregnancy circumference, their bellies still look bigger than Xiao Shi's belly.

Because of these contrasts, Xiaoshi sometimes wonders if the baby in her belly will be very small and light......

I, on the other hand, would smile and comfort her: "No, your belly doesn't look as big as theirs because you're smaller than them." They have large bellies, and it is possible that they just have a lot of amniotic fluid. ”

She would look at me suspiciously, "Isn't it?"

I'll still smile: "Of course." ”

In the third trimester, the baby will be more active in the belly......

For example, the baby will kick Xiaoshi's stomach.

For several nights, Xiaoshi and I quietly stared at her belly to see if the baby was kicking.

We were pleasantly surprised to see a foot-like figure bulging and sliding on her belly, just like when we were kids going to an amusement park for the first time.

Then, the happiness in our hearts will prompt us to touch the foot-shaped Dongdong with our hands, and a special warmth will arise spontaneously.

However, every time we touch it, the baby stops kicking. It's like, it's like we're playing around with us adults.

It doesn't matter, I'll touch enough when I give birth in the future.

There should also be a memorable part of pregnancy, and that is taking maternity photos.

Xiaoshi has always wanted to go to the photo studio to take a set of maternity photos, but she didn't go for various reasons.

And I only took a photo of me kissing Xiaoshi's pregnant belly, which can be regarded as a more memorable maternity photo. The angle of the shot is okay, but unfortunately, there is only one.

Later, I bought a pregnant belly patch online and there were several cute expressions. I was going to stick it on Xiaoshi's stomach and then take pictures of her, but what we didn't expect was that the baby "struggled"!

It was already the tail of July 2018......

On that day, we were going to the hospital for a prenatal checkup, and after the checkup, we went to see a new movie......

On the way to the hospital, Xiaoshi also happily described what toys to buy after the birth of the baby in the future, she has always liked the kind of pedal piano, the baby sleeps and kicks the toy gym rack with those keys that will make sound. I said at the time that I would buy it after the baby was born in the future, and it felt quite creative.

We are very excited about the future of the baby after birth, but we did not expect that the baby will start to "struggle" more than two weeks in advance......

When she went to the hospital for prenatal checkup, Xiaoshi's prenatal doctor told her to go through the hospitalization procedures immediately, because the baby was about to come out and had already opened a finger, and it might be born in the afternoon or evening of the same day!

Xiaoshi said that she doesn't feel anything, can she wait until she feels it before being hospitalized?

However, the doctor told her very seriously: "When it comes to feeling, it may be too late." ”

So, Xiaoshi came out and told me all this.

Well, what a sudden!

The planned shopping and movie watching or something was all messed up. At that moment, I felt a special tension enveloping me, and my emotions were very complicated. I couldn't tell if I was scared or excited......

The first time I encountered this situation, I didn't know how to deal with it, so I called my family first to ask for their opinions.

After the communication, the second sister excitedly told the aunt the news, and heard that the aunt was very excited at that time.

After that, the two sisters took time out of their busy schedules to take a car to the hospital to accompany Xiaoshi, and I took the car back to the "heart world" to get the luggage that Xiaoshi needed for hospitalization.

Because I didn't expect the baby to come out so many days in advance, I haven't started to prepare the list of items to prepare for giving birth to the baby that Ah Shen sent me before. Oh my God, sure enough, it makes sense to plan ahead.

After hurriedly packing my luggage, I rushed to the hospital on the bus.

By the time we arrived at the hospital, it was already late afternoon.

The second sister has already helped Xiao Shi complete the hospitalization procedures, and Xiao Shi has also changed into a hospital gown.

It turns out that it is very quick to switch from one state to another.

Suddenly, I felt a little uncomfortable.

After the second sister went back, my aunt called me and asked me if she wanted her to come to the hospital to take care of Xiaoshi.

I said, no, just let me take care of her.

Because Xiao Shi had already opened a finger, the nurse asked Xiao Shi to sleep in a ward closer to the delivery room. If Xiaoshi is about to give birth, she can quickly advance to the delivery room.

At that time, I thought that Xiaoshi might be giving birth that night......

Because her attending doctor examined Xiaoshi and said that she had already opened a finger and a half......

But, that night was quiet.

Xiaoshi didn't feel any special pain, and I sat on a stool and slept on the side of her bed. But if you sleep on your stomach for a long time, your head will be very dizzy. Therefore, after that, Xiaoshi told me to go to the hospital bed and sleep, one and a half.

Well, it was the third time in my life that I slept in the hospital.

The first two times I slept in the hospital were sad memories, but this time I was happy.

At night, the nurse will come over several times to help Xiaoshi check on the baby, so as to understand the baby's dynamics.

The next morning, Xiao Shi's attending doctor helped Xiao Shi check and found that it had become a finger again. Therefore, she suggested that Xiaoshi go for a walk more, which is conducive to promoting finger opening.

So, for the next few days, I walked around with Xiaoshi or watched TV in the ward......

Well, why hasn't there been any movement for a few days?

Not only I couldn't figure it out, but the attending doctors couldn't figure it out, and they had already opened two fingers one night, and they all said that they should give birth that night. As a result, after that night passed, Xiaoshi was still alive......

We were the first to go to the ward, and there were at least three or four pregnant women in the back, and they all gave birth. However, the little poem has not yet been born......

Xiaoshi and I are speechless, isn't this time coming?

Later, the attending doctor was anxious, and she felt that she was going to have an induced labor injection, because looking at her stomach and opening her three fingers showed that she could give birth, but she was not yet pregnant. This situation can easily lead to a lack of oxygen in the baby's belly, which will cause serious consequences for a long time.

I agreed......

After that, I went through a severe mental ordeal......

Because after the inducing injection, Xiaoshi felt very dizzy and her stomach hurt......

I felt sad to see her uncomfortable appearance...... But I couldn't do anything but comfort her next to her......

Later, my aunt called me and asked me if I knew that I agreed to let the doctor give Xiaoshi an inducing injection, and her first reaction was to be surprised, and then she scolded me. Because she thinks that the induced injection will hurt the pregnant woman and the baby.

I told her about the situation, but she still didn't understand it......

Before that, I told her that it was a private hospital. Unexpectedly, she thought that the hospital was not formal enough, and she gave injections and charged indiscriminately. She thinks that it is true that it could have been born naturally, but she deliberately wanted to put forward a caesarean section and so on......

She even called her dad to tell her about it.

Dad immediately called me and asked me angrily: "The hospital you went to is a private hospital? If Xiao Shisheng can't come out, you tell me what you are going to do?!"

At that time, I was really in extreme pain and helpless......

Really, I didn't even know if my aunt wanted to kill her son......

Although I knew that my aunt was also worried, my tears still fell uncontrollably at that time, and no one understood the helplessness, and I could only struggle with the pain......

At that time, it was Xiaoshi who explained to her father. She said that this hospital is the hospital where we have been for prenatal checkups, and her eldest wife has given birth to two children in this hospital......

After Xiaoshi finished talking on the phone, she couldn't help crying when she saw me working so hard: "Honey, don't cry, I want to cry when I see it......"

Therefore, when Xiaoshi had an inducing injection and was pushed into the waiting room, my heart was very uncomfortable.

I couldn't go into the delivery room, and Xiaoshi called me and told me that she was a pregnant woman inside......

The most she messaged me was that her stomach hurt......

As I said, I can't bear to leave her sad or miserable alone......

What made me even more uncomfortable was that the attending doctor said that if Xiaoshi still didn't give birth after the bottle of induced labor injection, he would continue to take the injection the next day.

Five hundred yuan a bottle is not what I care about the most, what I care about the most is that Xiaoshi has to bear so much pain alone......

At that moment, I really had a thought like this: I won't have a second child in the future, I don't want to see Xiaoshi so painful......

The helplessness at that time was the ultimate helplessness, and I couldn't do anything......

Just when I thought that the pain would continue to haunt me, a turning point appeared, the inducing injection worked, and Xiaoshi was pushed into the delivery room!

I didn't want to leave her alone anymore, so I decided to go in for a paternity. The paternity fee is 500 yuan.

changed into a maternity suit and went to Xiaoshi's side.

I know that when I am by her side, she will feel much more relieved and empowered.

As she took a deep breath, I grabbed her hand tightly, come on!

Don't let your mommy work so hard!

……

The process of the birth of that new life is imprinted in my mind, and it is extremely precious!

When the baby's first cry responds to our love, it is finally here!

Good work, dear!

I was pregnant for ten months, and I was moved by that cry.

In fact, our baby is not small, although it is not as greasy as other babies weighing seven or eight pounds, but it is also more than five pounds.

After giving birth to the baby, the expression on Xiaoshi's face became much calmer.

At that time, the baby was born in the same delivery room, and a young woman next door.

She was on her own, with no family members by her side, and she had a painless delivery injection. So, within two clicks, she gave birth. During the whole process, I didn't seem to hear any screams of pain. However, this injection costs several thousand dollars.

I jokingly said to Xiaoshi at the time: "Otherwise, if you have a second child in the future, you can also get a painless delivery injection." ”

Xiaoshi shook her head and said, I don't want it.

I think it's also a kind of love, a special kind of maternal love.

I love you as much as I can bear the pain you bring.

Therefore, there is a song that is sung like this: Only a mother is good in the world, and a child with a mother is like a treasure......

That night was the prelude to August 2018.

Mmmm, our little princess is a Leo baby.