"What the hell am I doing?"

"Am I crazy to make this decision in the first place?"

"Look at what I've gotten now?"

"Listen to your inner voice, do what you can, and leave the rest to fate. ”

"The unreal doesn't exist, and the real never ceases to exist. ”

Yuan Changwen suddenly felt that all this was like a dark whirlpool, and he kept pulling himself to sink.

It's all self-inflicted, so why is it always sad and sad?

Is it because you still identify with something?

Money!

Or money!

Yuan Changwen couldn't believe it, his problem was still here, how many chapters were there?

Really Nyima!

I feel sorry and feel sad, it's nothing more than that after I obeyed my inner impulse, I didn't get any financial achievements or anything like that.

If you follow your heart, you can get countless envious eyes, and you can have a lot of money, then you will definitely not feel bad.

At the end of the day, it's about money.

Who put the self-definition of "money is very important" in my mind? and let it take root and build an unparalleled underground construction area under the desert?]

(How can you buy rice without money, how can you survive without money?The importance of money is self-evident, why do you always have to deny money?)

[It's not that you deny money, but why can it pull me like this?]

(Because it's important, it's a necessity for the whole life.) ）

[Air is also important, water is also important, is it just because it is easy to get it?, is it because I always think that there is not enough money?]

[But why do I need so much money?Is it just because I want to be envied in the circle?Is it just because of my own vanity?]

[In fact, it is not money itself, but the purchasing power of money. If the purchase of everything needs to be done by eating, then you will definitely be anxious that you eat too slowly and too little. 】

[At the end of the day, it's your own possession and you want to have more. No, not more, but more than others. Even if you own the whole earth, but I am the only one on the earth, it is meaningless. 】

[So, is it still showing off vanity and comparison?]

(Fart!Can't you just make your life better??)

[Yes, but why does it pull me like this? Why does it occupy such an important influence? Do I allow it? This is my life, why can it be so arrogant?]

[If it's just to live a better life, then why are you anxious and angry when you don't make more money?

(If you don't get what you want, of course you'll feel uncomfortable, which is normal.) ）

[Am I normal? It's all fear, fear of the future, fear of the status quo. 】

Money?

Haha!

Yuan Changwen's anger began to burn, wanting to burn down the buildings in the desert, those self-woven definitions.

You're just a dead thing, and you're more important than your family.

Even when I go home to visit my parents, I think about my financial situation, whether I can fly or take the train.

You're awesome!

Over the years, such a huge structure has been built without realizing it, and it is also quite well camouflaged, hiding most of it under the desert.

And, lest I look directly at your existence, at your cancer, you are entangled with other self-definitions.

"Money is not everything, but no money is everything. ”

"Don't worry too much about money, seize the present and enjoy life. ”

"Work hard to earn money, but the purpose of earning money is to enjoy life, not to be a slave to money. ”

"Everyone is in a hurry for a hundred years, life does not bring death, and the money is enough. ”

Looking at these self-woven definitions, it seems to make sense, but in the end there is only one goal, and that is to make me ignore you.

Ignore the underground areas you've been thriving in my head and the underground areas you've been building. You're afraid that I'm too afraid of not having money, and I'm going to see through money, so you arrange these words to ease it.

What's more, when I say these words, the people around me will naturally show their approval, because no one dares to admit that they love money more than anything else in their lives.

If someone dares to say this, where is the family left? Does it mean that you can abandon your humanity for the sake of money? What is a friend, a tool to make money?

Therefore, after I say these seemingly positive words and win the recognition of the people around me, I can't help but think that I have a good view of money.

But in fact, you are hiding from the world, step by step, to tighten your grip on me.

Attaboy!

Why didn't I find out before?

Yuan Changwen took a deep breath, this anger not only burned money, but also burned himself.

For more than 20 years, is this how I eat to live?

When I was about to graduate from college, why didn't I think carefully about my life, why did I believe the inspirational words of others, and why did I take success as my life goal?

Without thinking about it yourself, you will receive what others give, damn it!

Am I brainless?

I should have thought carefully and asked myself, as I do now, what is real and what is worth my life.

"Huh. ”

Yuan Changwen suddenly chuckled, if he really thought like this when he graduated from college, he would probably be sent to a mental hospital.

Because once you start thinking about life, once you think about it seriously, once you are honest with yourself, then all the conclusions will inevitably point to one result.

Life is meaningless.

The only truth is that "I exist".

Look at those so-called inspirational, the so-called thinking about life, that is just a trick of "self".

Make yourself stand out and make yourself think "I'm the one who thinks about life, you're all trash." ”

Isn't that how the so-called talking points come about?

Boasting, showing his thoughts and feelings, and enjoying a little worship from everyone. In order not to let myself fall behind, in order not to have nothing to say among my friends, I continued to think and learn deeply.

But all this is just to put yourself in the lead. Once someone contradicts you, once someone dismisses you, then you will get angry and feel uncomfortable.

You can't stay ahead forever, and when someone refutes, you will take the form of a counterattack to show that you are right.

Or take a step back and show a generous demeanor that doesn't want to argue. Then, on the basis of his existing masses, he continued to promote his own theories and continued to enjoy the approval of his fans.

In order for your fans not to leave, you must strengthen the "self" of your fans in addition to strengthening the content of your "self". No fan wants to see their idol just keep saying that fans also need to be noticed, and their "self" has this survival instinct.

Therefore, you must also establish the concept that "after listening to my words, you will be superior to others, and you will already be different from others." All the fans, we have been ahead of others, and in this turbulent era, we have taken the lead. ”

it!

Yuan Changwen couldn't believe the conclusion he had reached, but all this was "self", wasn't it!

This model can be applied to any group. Because no group is going to say, "You join me, you're rubbish." ”

Right, the "self" of the fans must be maintained, and their "self" must be noticed in a certain aspect, superior in a certain field.