If you like it enough, then fall in love!

When the relationship is mature, then go to meet the future father-in-law and mother-in-law......

Once upon a time, I was a lonely nester in the 90s, struggling to survive in a world sprinkled with all kinds of dog food, both real and virtual.

Going out, a couple of couples holding hands, one step, two steps, three steps, four steps, looking at the sky, hugging and hugging, Qingqing and me, you kiss me and kiss all kinds of kisses. Oh, it's not singing, it's really feeling the popularity of couples showing affection.

Swiping the buckle space, Weibo, WeChat, what I saw was not this show of affection and selfie, or the fact that I got married, gave birth to children, etc., which proved that I was really a lonely old man.

Well, I endured the humiliation and ate the dog food for all these years, and I also admitted it. Because, quite simply, I will eventually sprinkle dog food into this world!

If the love between me and Xiaoshi is divided according to the progress, it should belong to flash love. Then, under the urging of both parents, Xiaoshi and I moved towards a flash marriage at an incredible speed. Well, is it bright enough?

Before the flash marriage, of course, it was to meet my parents! Xiaoshi had already met my uncle and aunt, so naturally it was my turn to meet Xiaoshi's parents. When you are single, you always hope that your other half will appear and enter the palace of marriage. But when his other half really appeared and was ready to meet his future father-in-law, he realized if he got married too early......

Whew, it seems to be slow, it seems to be fast. When I was a child, I hoped that I would grow up quickly but felt that time passed slowly, and when I grew up, I felt that I had traveled in an instant from my childhood, hoping that time could be turned back or go slower.

After all, people do not know how to cherish the present, but always look at the future and guard the past.

I looked at the sky and let out a soft sigh......

In order to successfully complete the plan to meet my future father-in-law, I also had to take a leave of absence. Regarding leave, hehehe, the cold noodle boss is a wall!

The time of the leave was sauce purple:

Looking at the leave slip, there are a variety of reasons for asking for leave that can fish in troubled waters, but they don't feel very reliable. In the end, according to the facts, I wrote down two words "hired". Well, it couldn't be more reliable, at least than the reason for resignation of "the world is so big, I want to see it", right?!

The cold-faced boss who saw the reason for my leave, his first reaction was to chuckle unexpectedly: "Hire?"

I was a little panicked and pretended to be calm and said that I really wanted to go to my girlfriend's house for a job, the last time my girlfriend came to my house, this time I went to my girlfriend's house.

After listening to my words, he looked at me with some suspicion, and the corners of his mouth slightly hooked up in an incomprehensible arc. However, the fact that I had a good reason for taking a leave of absence, and that was so interrelated with the reason for my last absence, made it feel like it was genuine. Whew, what does it look like? It's true! So, he still took action and left his name on the leave slip.

Okay, over a wall, and a mountain. Well, it shouldn't be easy to convince the supervisor, otherwise how could he be the supervisor?

Still with a sense of trepidation, he found the director, hoping that a miracle would give him the leave slip with both hands.

He took the leave slip and looked at it, and was also slightly surprised: "Hire?"

I forced a calm smile and explained, "Yes, the last time I took a leave of absence was when my girlfriend came to my house, and now I go to her house." ”

His response would directly determine whether I could take time off or not, so my breathing was paused, as if waiting for the lottery to come out.

There is also a kind of happiness in the world called "Thrill and Danger". When he smiled and said, "That's a good thing!", it was like a roller coaster ride. Well, this leave is done! Unexpectedly, the director is quite humane. Very good! Very good! I don't know how many times better than the cold noodle boss! I like such a human director.

Everything is ready, the east wind is not owed, it can be fought and won.

A week before I went to see my future father-in-law, Xiaoshi asked me on the button: "Honey, are you nervous that you are going to accompany me to see my parents in a week?"

Although I am not a person who has seen strong winds and waves, but I am also a melon man who has been out of the country alone, can this make me nervous and afraid? Hehe, it's not impossible, but it's not very possible.

I replied with a smile on my face, "No, it feels natural." ”

She replied to me with a surprised expression, "Isn't it?"

I replied with a smile on my face, "Of course." ”

She replied to me with several shy looks......

However, the night before I was going to see my future father-in-law, the situation changed, because my aunt wanted to accompany me. The reason is that Xiaoshi's uncle and aunt want to see my aunt and hope to catch up together. They had known each other well with my aunt and uncle before I came to this world, and they were old friends. So, on the day I go to meet my future father-in-law, there will be a lot of people gathered for dinner.

That's not what I was hoping for. After all, it was the first time for me to meet my future father-in-law and mother-in-law, and I even had to meet Xiaoshi's uncle and aunt, as well as my uncle and aunt. How did this situation not make me, who had never seen strong winds and waves, feel nervous and scared?

Alas, I want to sing the sentence in "Lying": Life is already so difficult, some things should not be exposed.

I remember that two or three months before the college entrance examination, I often played "ask" on the button, liked to answer other people's questions, and longed to be recognized by the questioner.

One of the men's questions that impressed me was that he was on his way to his future father-in-law's house, and he felt so nervous about meeting his future father-in-law for the first time, and he was afraid that he would not be liked and approved by his future father-in-law.

At that time, I was undoubtedly still a single dog, and I had no experience in love, let alone various strategies related to marriage to meet my future father-in-law.

However, I am a good kid who loves to drink chicken soup for the soul. So, I'm willing to share with him the chicken soup for the soul that I like to drink.

According to the patchwork of memory, the answer I gave seemed to be purple: believe in beauty, and it will be beautiful. Don't always think that you may not be approved by your future parents-in-law, which will only make you more overwhelmed. You should think on the bright side and imagine that you have been approved by your future parents-in-law, then you will not be so nervous and your chances of success will be greater. Big brother, believe in yourself, come on!

Well, although this bowl of "chicken soup" is not very hot, it is expensive in its original taste.

Originally, I just suddenly wanted to share my chicken soup for the soul, but the next day he adopted my answer and became the best answer. Moreover, he happily replied to my comment: "Thank you! My parents-in-law are very happy with me!"

So, I'm quite impressed by this memory.

I just never expected that I myself would be nervous about to meet my future father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Fate is so special. What you are experiencing now that seems to have nothing to do with you may be connected to you after a while. So, don't ignore every experience you have, because one day, it will be your experience.

Even though I'm nervous, I'm the number one actor after all, and I still sleep when it's time to sleep. Insomnia, unless I need to, is not my cup of tea.

On the morning of the day I went to see my future father-in-law, it was a little gray and smelled of impending rain.

My aunt and I made an appointment to take the bus to "happiness" at the agreed bus stop, and the road turned several times to the door of the supermarket where Xiaoshi and I agreed to meet.

A light rain fell in the sky......

Before Xiaoshi came to the supermarket, my aunt and I went into the supermarket to buy some fruits and the like, after all, we are guests, we always have to buy something, otherwise how embarrassing the scene is. Although I don't like it, I can't help but be in awe of this deep-rooted society.

In my heart, Auntie is a person who attaches great importance to human feelings, because my aunt taught me about the world.

Xiaoshi told me not to buy any fruit before my aunt and I were about to go to the supermarket, and the refrigerator at her house was almost full of fruit, but she didn't eat much.

This seems to be a very meaningful piece of information, and I also told my aunt. However, my aunt's answer to me was this: "Of course, if you visit relatives or be a guest, you have to buy some fruits, you can't go empty-handed, right?!"

Looking at the aunt who had already picked half a bag of apples, I had to add: "Even if you buy it, you don't need to buy too much, there are so many fruits in Xiaoshi's house that I can't eat them all." ”

Auntie continued to pick apples seriously, and replied a little unhappily: "What do you know?!" Either help pick or shut up. ”

Well, I really don't understand...... Alas, how should I live if I don't understand the world?

I picked the fruit for about ten minutes, I suddenly felt a pat on the right shoulder near the elevator entrance, my body reacted normally to look back from the right, Xiao Shi was a little playful behind me on the left side of the smile looking at me.

This feels familiar......

I was a little surprised: "When are you coming in?"

She smiled, "Guess?"

I smiled and shook my head.

"Where's Auntie?" she asked.

"Pick fruit over there. "I pointed in the direction of the fruit section over there.

"Didn't I say you don't have to buy fruit?" she wondered.

"Do you think my aunt will not buy fruit?" I was helpless.

She smiled and nodded, "Okay." ”

"Xiaoshi, are you here?" Auntie finally finished picking the fruit and then appeared behind Xiaoshi as if in an instant.

Xiao Shi looked back in shock: "Auntie." Yes, I just arrived. ”

After I helped my aunt take the fruit bag and carry it, my aunt immediately took Xiaoshi's hand and walked, and said, "Xiaoshi, you have to help me, because you know your parents better, you think about what your parents like, I'll buy it." ”

Xiaoshi smiled a little overwhelmed: "Ah? I have a lot of fruits and snacks at home. ”

Auntie was also a little unhappy: "How can you not want it?"

Xiaoshi had to look back at me with a helpless smile, and I could only respond to her helplessness with a helpless smile.

Immediately, Xiaoshi suggested that she could buy tea, and her father liked to drink tea.

After receiving this valuable advice, the dark clouds on Auntie's brows instantly dispersed: "That's right." ”

Then, the aunt hurriedly walked briskly to the place where the tea was sold, and we followed closely......

Xiaoshi looked at me with a smile, and I looked at her with a smile. Perhaps, this is the prelude to the future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship.

Then, I struggled with what kind of tea to buy. Black tea, green tea, Tieguanyin, Dahongpao, Longjing......

Whew, I have feelings for tea wood, I can only drink it, I can't taste it. After several minutes of discussion between Xiaoshi and Auntie, they finally bought Tieguanyin. Looking at the conversation between the two of them, I hope that their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship will always be harmonious and beautiful in the future.

Hey, you haven't seen your father-in-law and mother-in-law in the future, why did you talk about the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

You're insane! Isn't Xiaoshi my wife now? Now I'm just writing memoirs. Whew, sure enough, there is really a big difference between the feeling that has just happened and the feeling that has been experienced for a while.

Is this a spoiler-like spoiler?

Well, it doesn't matter what you see, the important thing is that the process is not too unexpected for me.

After buying what Auntie wanted to buy, we finally walked some distance to the door of Xiao Shi's house.

Xiaoshi's parents are also farmers who grow vegetables, so they live in a farmhouse built on the side of the vegetable field, but it is much larger than the farmhouse on my side.

Before entering the door, my mind swept through a variety of ways to deal with Xiaoshi's parents next.

However, I am inexperienced after all......

After entering the door, Xiaoshi said that her father was cooking, and her mother was still working in the vegetable field.

Well, of course, it's a greeting in the first place, but what should I call my future father-in-law? It's a little earlier to call "Dad", and it's a bit stiff to call "Uncle".

My aunt acted as my light and called Xiaoshi's father "second uncle", because Xiaoshi's father was the second among his brothers. Therefore, my aunt also asked me to call Xiaoshi's father "second uncle".

Although it still feels weird, at least my aunt knows more about people than me, so let's be obedient.

After our mother and son greeted Daddy Shi, Daddy Shi's smile responded to us while he was busy cooking. Well, listening to Xiaoshi, her father likes to talk more than her mother and communicates better. But when I first saw my future father-in-law, I felt that he was not so easy to communicate, it was just a feeling, a feeling that I experienced from the future father-in-law's brief smile.

As soon as the greeting was over, my aunt asked me to ask my future father-in-law if there was anything he could do to help. This, from the perspective of human sophistication, is indeed a good impression. However, I can't do it yet. I couldn't close the distance between me and my future father-in-law so quickly, and this worldly approach was not for me. I just want to let my future father-in-law understand me in my own way, what kind of person I am, and deliberately being sophistication will make me very funny, not like myself at all. Therefore, I want my future father-in-law to really understand what kind of person I am, so that his approval or disapproval of me will be the most genuine.

I didn't do what my aunt said, but sat on a chair in the living room and waited for the little poem to see what dishes needed to be picked.

Time has passed a little long.

Because, as the minutes and seconds passed, Xiao Shi's uncle and aunt, sister-in-law and her pair of children, as well as uncles, aunts, cousins and sisters-in-law all arrived one after another.

All kinds of greetings, all kinds of kind words, all kinds of embarrassment that I don't know how to answer, the atmosphere of the scene is very oppressive for me.

Xiaoshi's uncle and aunt chatted with my aunt very openly, as if they were back to more than 20 years ago. Slowly, I began to wonder if I was hired at all. It feels like it's a memory kill for adults. And the two protagonists, me and Xiaoshi, are sitting in the corner playing with their mobile phones, eh, is this the rhythm of the protagonist's light being obscured?

The atmosphere was so embarrassing and uncomfortable that I walked out of the door and made a phone call to my three sisters.

In such a situation, I need to create the illusion that I am talking on the phone to someone important, so that even if I am not involved, it will be reasonable. But I don't usually talk to others on the phone, but fortunately, I have a lot of common topics to talk about with the three sisters, so I can be regarded as looking for her to save the scene and save my younger brother.

It seems that the conversation has been quite long, and although there is still a light rain outside the door, it always feels a hundred times better than the awkward atmosphere in the house.

Towards the end of the conversation, an aunt smiled at me, and I smiled too.

When I finished chatting and hung up, my aunt suddenly walked up to me and asked me, "Did you say hello before Xiaoshi's mother entered the door just now?"

I was stunned! Oh my God! The aunt who smiled at me turned out to be Xiaoshi's mother, my future mother-in-law?! How embarrassing is this! God! Help me! Why is it so difficult to hire the next one?

At lunchtime, my future father-in-law put my favorite tofu in front of me, and asked me to eat chicken from time to time. Aside from smiling and nodding in response, I was almost always eating seriously......

I didn't want to eat chicken because it was too tough. If it tastes too tough, you need to use your hands to pull it, but this action is a bit rude to me as a guest, and I can't do it.

In order to finish a meal smoothly and naturally, I eat chicken with no bones, or chicken skin and more tofu and vegetables.

Also, because the guests who finish eating first generally have to politely say to those who haven't finished eating, "Everyone eat slowly", and I can't express this sentence, because eating first means that I eat quickly, which is easy to indirectly make my future father-in-law feel that the dishes he cooked are not to my liking, and I will be a little unhappy. In order to avoid this, I naturally have to eat slowly and for a longer time. But the problem comes again, if I eat slowly, then naturally there will be two or three people left who eat slowly. If I don't eat at this time, then I should say to the remaining two or three people, "Whoever eats slowly", because the remaining two or three people can't be said to be "everyone eats slowly".

So, in the end, I was the last one to eat at a large table. Well, who else?!

The plate of tofu that my future father-in-law put in front of me was all lost by me, which is very rude, and as a guest, you shouldn't eat like this. However, I have no choice but to eat slowly and need the company of food.

It's okay, at least I'm real.

According to Xiaoshi, when she asked her father to buy vegetables, she said that she could do without any dish, but not without tofu, because Jinlong's favorite food is tofu.

I feel very impressed!

After lunch, adults are still the topic of conversation, and Xiaoshi and I are still laughing and playing with our mobile phones.

In the end, the dowry did not come to fruition.

It's not that I disagree, it's just that I need to wait a little longer. But what is certain is that Xiaoshi's parents are my future father-in-law. Well, the next time I meet my future father-in-law and mother-in-law, I can call their parents.

After saying goodbye to my future father-in-law and mother-in-law, Xiaoshi sent me and my aunt to take the bus, because there was still a few hundred meters to get to the bus stop.

On the way, Xiaoshi and I had some happy little fights. Auntie took a fancy to the opportunity and took the opportunity to shorten the distance between me and Xiaoshi.

For example, the aunt said that couples should hold hands with each other, so that they can be considered lovers. Also, I'm a boy, so I should take the initiative to hold the girl's hand. So, for the first time, I stretched out my hand to Xiao Shi, and then, the touch of my fingertips brought out a new feeling. The first ten fingers are tightly clasped, and the palms of the hands are close to each other, and the real companion is real. I held the girl's hand for the first time, and I felt a small electric shock......

Xiaoshi happily said that it was the first time she had her fingers clasped with a boy.

When Auntie saw us holding hands, she smiled and quickened her pace: "Yes, this is like a couple." I'll go fast and not bother you both. ”

Looking at my aunt's back, I felt an inexplicable sadness in my heart. If it weren't for my aunt, maybe I would have been so hard......

My father-in-law and mother-in-law have met in the future, so what awaits me?

God knows......