Jump out of the river!

Let go of the falling cliff!

Surrender and let the Tao take control of your own ship of life.

Why can't I do it myself?!

All kinds of pros and cons analysis, and I'm tired, but I just don't let go and don't surrender. The ego is still tenacious, and it knows that it will face its death.

However, if the "self" is not dead, then I will still be pulled by emotions, and I will still identify with certain things and take them as real.

For more than twenty years, I never doubted anything.

Really, anything!

Yuan Changwen grabbed the window frame hard, as if he wanted to crush the aluminum alloy material.

I was so stupid at the beginning, so stupid that I cried!

Keep covering up your confusion with hard work, as if you can have good returns as long as you work hard.

Isn't this wishful thinking to comfort yourself?

It's like having some setbacks in what you're doing, and then you get over it and you feel at ease, thinking, "With these setbacks, I'm sure this thing will work." ”

Isn't this kind of thinking a form of self-comfort, finding some sense of belonging to one's own actions?

"It's good to have setbacks", as if there is a rule in God, "I have experienced setbacks, so I will grow, and then there will be rewards." ”

Shit!

What are you doing if you work hard and strive for progress?

Confusion is a good thing, because life is not meaningful, and any fancy statement is just whitewashing this fact. As long as you are honest with yourself, honest to the point of cruelty, then confusion is the best friend.

Give up those life coaches, give up those successful inspirations, give up those sect beliefs, give up everything you believe.

Now, I'm going to see for myself what the hell these are!

After listening to so many truths, I still can't live a good life.

Why?

Because I want to control, it's not that I can't live this life, but I can't live my life according to my own desires. If you go deeper, you just can't stand on top of the world and live your life.

Yuan Changwen began to hate the existence of the "self", it wanted to trample others under its feet, it wanted to pay attention, and it tried all means to declare that it was not dispensable.

False!

Once myself, I vowed to mix up my personal appearance, and vowed to work hard to fight for which position I would be in the industry in ten years. It's for such a role, and I have worked hard for myself.

It's just a character, but I take it as real, as the only reality that exists. As if everything could be sacrificed for the sake of this role.

A good son, a good husband, a good colleague, a good subordinate, a good leader, a good guest, a good brother......

When several characters clash with each other, they will be troubled and uncomfortable, and they seem to be facing problems in life.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, work-life coordination, and the relationship between husband and wife......

Dhunima is false, not true!

Yuan Changwen closed his eyes and took a deep breath, trying to resist his urge to bang on the window.

There are no life problems at all, and none of this would exist without that character. If you want to be a good son and husband, you will inevitably encounter a difficult relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

If you don't have this kind of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, how can you show that you are a good son and a good husband?

Give up this role, then all the effects of the role will also dissipate.

It is never the answer to the question that destroys, but a higher perspective.

But why can't you let go?

[Hey, wait a minute! Thinking about who belongs to? It belongs to Yuan Changwen, right. In other words, the whole thinking is Yuan Changwen's, and it is all part of the "self". 】

[Who wants to let go? Who is asking "why don't you let go?" is still Yuan Changwen. I'm that stupid background, just aware of Yuan Changwen's thinking. 】

Sure enough, it's a suicide mission......

It's not an easy thing to do, and after so many chapters of hard work, I don't dare to confirm whether to start or not.

Whether he is going in circles or slashing forward, I don't know at all. The only thing that is certain is that emotions are ebbing and falling, coming and going, going and coming.

Even so, I can't be sure if these emotional ups and downs are an indication that I'm on the right path.

What can be determined?

To be certain in itself means to be in control, and to be in control itself is a move used by the "ego".

it!

Yuan Changwen found that maybe his efforts in so many chapters were useless. Maybe there is no such thing as awakening at all, who knows that Buddha and Jesus are real?

I can't even be sure of the window frame in front of me, let alone someone who has been dead for more than 2,000 years.

If I'm not sure, why do I choose to believe unconditionally?

That scientific knowledge seems to have become a kind of common sense, and if you know too little, you will be ridiculed. However, scientific knowledge is inherently uncertain, not to mention that the most fundamental assumptions of science are false, and the mere updating of scientific knowledge is enough to establish this uncertainty.

How many times in history has scientific knowledge been changed?

Who knows if the basic scientific knowledge we know now will change?

Before the discovery of quantum physics, scientists around the world thought that the edifice of physics was nearing completion, and that all that remained was tinkering.

But the advent of quantum physics has completely destroyed the edifice of modern physics. All matter is made up of atoms and smaller particles, and if these basic underlying structures operate differently, how can the world be claimed to conform to so-called physics?

Science can't play in its own circle, let alone objective things fall within the realm of "indefinite truth".

Stop believing it!

Yuan Changwen looked at the sun and suddenly laughed at himself, does the sun really exist?

And what body and soul must have one on the road, on the road, on what road, on the way to where?

What is the purpose of reading more? Isn't it just to despise others by making yourself a better person? Isn't it just to hear from others, "Wow, you are so good, you read so many books", "Wow, you know this", "I like your reading temperament." ”

Travel?Hmph,Find your true self in travel?Zhen Nima is funny, where is your true self?Is it true that you have experienced some different times from others?

Going through those so-called tribulations, going through those so-called travel events, can make people know themselves more clearly, participate in various volunteer activities abroad, help flamingos settle down, help elephants bathe, protect kiwi birds and set up rat traps.

If that's the case, then it's okay to go to the countryside to raise pigs, pick up all the garbage on the street and throw it in the garbage can, it's also an extraordinary experience! Or wipe every bus stop sign clean, an experience that few people have!

Isn't it that I went on a trip and you didn't, didn't I just want to show off, didn't I just want to attract everyone's attention, didn't I just need to pay attention to myself!

It seems that after traveling, after seeing the shock of the mountains and seas, there can be a kind of cleansing of the soul. How long will this wash last if no one listens to you showing off? Will it turn into a desire to talk? and then into complaining?

That's a hairwash!