Some people are busy getting married, and some people are busy being single.

While Hong Yanwu was enjoying the happiness of his marriage, no one would have thought that Yang Weifan had just waited for the completion of the divorce procedures.

To tell the truth, even Yang Weifan himself didn't expect that he and Zhou Manna would come to this point.

Indeed, in the matter of Zhou Manna stubbornly going abroad, he found that he didn't really know his wife.

But at the beginning, he didn't think so desperately about the marriage between him and Zhou Manna.

He always thought that Zhou Manna was just too playful, too willful, and too immature.

It was because he was an only child that he was spoiled by the second elder of the Zhou family.

Come to think of it, even if she is still a child herself, how can she have the courage to take on the responsibility of being a mother?

So he tried his best to restrain his sorrow and pain, tried his best to consider from the other party's standpoint, and took the initiative to excuse all Zhou Manna's actions.

He thought that as long as Zhou Manna saw the appearance of a real foreign country, she would be satisfied.

Slowly, through all-round cognition and observation, you will also have a rational judgment.

At that point, they can have a good talk.

She will most likely realize the mistakes she made because of her idealization, and most likely regret it.

But whether she took the initiative to confess her mistakes to him, as long as she wanted to come back, he was willing to forgive her at any time.

From then on, they completely forgot all the unpleasantness, lived a good life, and restored their former peace and tranquility.

They even had another child, so that the parents of the two families would no longer have to worry about them.

But he never imagined that although he had always thought that the difficulties in their relationship were temporary, everything would get better again one day.

But things turned out to be exactly what he expected.

First of all, since Zhou Manna went abroad, he has been able to get less and less news about her.

She said she didn't have time to reply to him, citing her busy work and studies.

In no time, her letter was transformed from a few pages into a single piece of paper.

Sometimes even a page is not enough, and the content of the letter, full of idealized perceptions of life abroad, is becoming more and more serious.

So although he himself has insisted on writing a letter to Zhou Manna, the letter is full of thoughts about her and concern for her life.

But this protracted insistence was exchanged for the other party's gradual indifference.

In the end, her only feedback turned into a routine transatlantic phone call every week.

Even because the time is random and there is a time difference, sometimes he may not have received it.

Then this call will only come back when she remembers it next week.

Second, even these few opportunities for communication can increase the tension caused by their different philosophies.

Because of her own initiative, after staying abroad for a period of time, Zhou Manna actually wanted to interfere in Yang Weifan's future.

She was dissatisfied with Yang Weifan's further study in the military art academy, and proposed to let Yang Weifan do the same and come to Paris to study vocal music.

In this way, Yang Weifan can go to the international music scene and achieve more brilliant achievements.

At the same time, the two of them can also be romantic together again.

But on this issue, Yang Weifan has his own persistence and sober understanding.

He knew where his current achievements came from, so he naturally flatly refused.

And for good reason, he said that his music can only grow on the soil of the republic.

He went abroad to learn vocal music, which was not only blind but also ineffective.

And he never thought about entering the international music scene at all, he just needs the recognition and liking of domestic audiences.

You can't go around with the ass of the foreign devils, and you don't need them to admit anything.

So instead, I asked if Zhou Manna had had enough fun and when she would come back.

As a result, the two of them were on the bar of the needle.

Probably influenced by the free air of France, Zhou Manna, who is abroad, is not only good at temper, but also good at learning.

After the two of them quarreled countless times, she actually knew how to use legal means to coerce her husband.

She said that if Yang Weifan didn't go abroad, he wouldn't love her, and then they would be more and more different in the future, so that they would no longer have a common language.

If that's the case, it's better to get a divorce.

also said that she didn't plan to come back anyway, and whether she was willing to maintain a husband and wife relationship with her anymore was up to Yang Weifan to choose.

And the next thing made Yang Weifan never expect.

Because when he deliberately broke off contact and wanted both of them to be calm and calm.

Zhou Manna didn't just talk about it, but really sent a domestic lawyer to come to him to handle the divorce procedures.

It's unbearable.

Yang Weifan drove away the lawyer, and in a fit of rage, he finally scolded Zhou Manna on the phone.

Because of the loss of control of her emotions, she couldn't help but bring up the old things again, and she was questioned for doing the abortion on her own.

But what he didn't expect was that in the face of his accusations, Zhou Manna not only had no remorse, but rightly injured him even more.

She declared that women should not be fertility machines, and that many French women do not want children for life.

So not only does she not regret it, but she also doesn't plan to have any more children in the future.

In Yang Weifan's disbelief, Zhou Manna's voice seemed to come from a deep, deep cave.

At this time, she flexibly used all the insights she absorbed abroad to give Yang Weifan a fatal blow to her emotions.

"I know what you think of me. But I don't care. Don't hold yourself too high with that moral set. Because we are all normal people, ordinary people, mortal people. ”

"I have never found out in the past that your thinking is so outdated and pedantic? What kind of revolutionary tradition and patriotism do you really believe? Ridiculous and naïve. ”

"I'll tell you. People live for themselves first and foremost, and they want food and clothing, work, rest, entertainment, socialization, and fame, all for themselves and not for others, and for their own physical and psychological needs rather than for others. As long as you can get along with others, care for each other, help each other, and respect each other. ”

"But to get in the way and sacrifice ourselves too much for the sake of others is beyond our nature as mortals. You are like this, so am I, or don't be each other, don't be too demanding. ”

"I'm not afraid to tell you, I didn't know until I came out, in fact, the relationship between husband and wife is nothing, only trying to realize personal value is the first place. No matter how good the relationship is, if the degree of recognition of a couple is too far apart, there is no way to go through a lifetime. No matter how intimate the relationship is, no one will necessarily be with another person forever. ”

That is the unrealistic and illusory pursuit of the Chinese people. Do you have to use feudal thinking to tie two people into grasshoppers on a rope, and let one become a stumbling block to the other, is it moral? Not to mention, want to use children to bind us women......

This candid confession made Yang Weifan's body cold, like falling into an ice cellar.

He wasn't afraid of whether Zhou Manna really wanted to abandon him, but he still couldn't control a psychological fear.

That's because he doesn't know that going abroad has made a person who once cared so much about him so cold?

Or is Zhou Manna originally an insatiable selfish woman like Ah Yimei in the movie "Cold Heart"?

But in any case, there is no point in dwelling into it.

Because he no longer has any extravagant hopes for his wife, who is in a foreign country......

That day, when the reality was completely shattered, Yang Weifan notified Zhou Manna's lawyer with tears in his eyes and shuddering.

Then he decisively owed the divorce agreement and put it all to an end.

From ideal to reality, from hot to cold, it has only been more than half a year.

When sending Zhou Manna to the airport, Yang Weifan imagined many scenes when he was reunited with his wife.

But such a scenario did not come true, and the reality in front of him was something he never dreamed of.

Maybe this is life, which is always different from what people imagine and plan.

On May Day, the divorce procedure was still going through the procedure, and it took a long time to travel across the ocean.

In this case, in order not to be rude, Yang Weifan still prepared gifts and went to Zhou's house to visit his nominal father-in-law and mother-in-law.

He hadn't told the old man about it yet, he was afraid that it would affect the mood of the old couple for the holiday.

I was going to keep my mouth shut for now, and wait until after the festival to find a chance to talk about it.

Unexpectedly, when he said goodbye after dinner, Minister Zhou personally sent him to the door.

Not only did he hold his hand, but he solemnly said "Thank you, you have always been a good son-in-law".

also said with guilt, "We didn't educate our daughter well, I'm sorry for your Yang family."

It turned out that the old man already knew everything.

The rest of the matter is how Yang Weifan told his parents.

And it was easier than he thought.

Because the next day when he came home for dinner, he found his mother lying in the house with tears on her face and not wanting to come out.

And the nanny at home quietly told him that Minister Zhou and his wife had just come in the afternoon.

He immediately understood what was going on.

Although Moody's can't think about it, of course. But Yang Yaohua came from the sword mountain and the sea of fire, and his attitude was very flat.

also specially brought a bottle of Moutai to drink a few glasses with his son.

At that time, the father and son didn't say anything, they poured it and drank it, and the two of them drank three glasses in one go.

It was only then that Yang Yaohua asked people to take back the cup and said to him, "Little Liu'er, before you know it, your kid has grown up." Speaking of which, my father was derelict in your upbringing, and he didn't fulfill much responsibility. But now I have two words for you, which I hope will help you in the future. ”

"One, even if you are engaged in literature and art, you are still a soldier, and what you do must be like a man, and you can't lose the face of a soldier. Especially if you have become a public figure, then only if you always maintain this, others will respect you. ”

"Second, you still have a long way to go, although you have encountered bumps, but this is nothing, you still have to look ahead. Because a person's happiness does not lie in the fact that he has more, but in the fact that he cares less. ”

These words immediately made Yang Weifan's eyes moist.

But his feelings didn't come from anywhere else, but because he suddenly found out.

My father's hair was all white, and he had age spots on the side of his face.

The final feeling came from Hong Yanwu's wedding.

After returning home that day, the memories of touching the scene and sadness seemed to bring Zhou Manna's whole person to Yang Weifan's side again.

It seemed that the words she had spoken were still ringing in her ears, her scent, and her physical body had returned.

That night, Yang Weifan sat alone smoking cigarettes, drinking wine, looking at the wedding photos on the wall, and sitting late at night.

Half a bottle of soju went down, and he didn't feel a little drunk.

After thinking about it, he figured everything out, and then he realized that it was not as painful as he imagined.

Because he and Zhou Manna essentially don't have any real feelings for each other.

Their union was born out of an accident.

It's just that he takes marriage too seriously, and Zhou Manna takes marriage too lightly.

Speaking of which, she seems to be quite righteous, and she didn't drag him back, and she didn't make any more scandals.

So this dream is as thin as a layer of paper, and if you say it, it will be broken

yes

Yang Weifan in reality, when he really calmed down, began to sort out this relationship little by little.

Only then did he realize that it wasn't that painful.

Because neither he nor Zhou Manna seems to have any true feelings.

He just takes marriage too seriously, and Zhou Manna takes marriage too lightly.

Speaking of which, she seems to be quite righteous, straight and straight without dragging him, and did not cause any scandal before the divorce.

So this dream is as thin as a layer of paper, and if you say it, it will be broken.

Yes, my father was right. Can't be too careful.

The reason why people are tired is precisely because they can't put down the shelf, can't get face, and can't untie the complex.

Not only should he look forward, but he should also explain his mother.

And just like that, another few days passed.

On June 18, 1983, Yang Weifan officially got the divorce certificate and resumed his life as a bachelor.

So because of this, Hong Yanwu was often taken out to drink again.

Then he has the opportunity to guard his wife and children, so he naturally has to sacrifice some more.

The second group has been opened, group number: 608640021

(End of chapter)