Think about it, someone asks you about your future plans, and you say you don't know. So at this time, what is the expression and mood of the other party?

My girlfriend asks you, what are we going to do in the future?

Father-in-law and mother-in-law ask you, what are your future plans?

Hey?

Yuan Changwen suddenly felt that this question seemed to have been killed before. It doesn't matter, can't you kill again if you kill it?

"I don't know", it seems that this answer is a kind of humility, a kind of coward, and the beginning of a garbage life. Like, I have to know, I should know, I need to plan for the future, and so on.

How did this idea take root in my head?

It's a little inexplicable, what is there to plan, and what is there to know?

It seems that a detailed planning report, a survey of the current stage of the industry, and a carefully considered future implementation plan seem to be very reassuring. It seems that as long as you act according to the plan, then you can definitely achieve it, at least not too badly.

No matter how much you whitewash, it can't change that this is just a guess, and it is also just a matter of using the limitations of the mind to manipulate infinity. Won't you get tired? Or do you have to persevere, because that's life?

Anyone who claims that "suffering is life", or "struggle is life", "sweat is life", etc., the full expression is "In my limited knowledge and humble cognition, I think this is life." ”

Once fully expressed, it is clear that these words are all one-sided, so why take them as true?

If free will does not exist, the mind is just what it is perceived at the moment, and the question of why it thinks the way it is will disappear. And taking falsehood as truth, just like the content of the picture that is perceived at the moment, can only be like this.

Is there a problem with your pet being disobedient?

Do you have a problem noticing that your wife and children don't match your ideas?

Is there something wrong with perceiving that the world has become evil?

Do you notice that people become kind, is there a problem?

There are no problems, that's it. Any attempt to answer a question is a forcible distortion. For example, how can one's own memories be false, for example, how can time not exist, for example, how can the character's thinking be a fixed program?

There are no problems, these problems are gone. Problems are only encountered when trying to associate perceived elements of the picture. It is only when the perceived visual body is perceived that it is a real person, that there is a problem.

Is there a problem with the awareness that the role is not completed at the moment? No problem at all, it can only be like this, because these are the things that are perceived at the moment.

Like, there is no accident, but some people want to say that this happened by accident. I don't understand, how can something that has happened be accidental? Isn't "already happening" enough to mean that it is inevitable?

Fortunately, I don't have any disciples to teach now, otherwise I would definitely rush over and slap him twice.

Yuan Changwen smiled, remembering the scene of his teaching in the empire. There are so many disciples, although they are not in harmony with the head of the empire, their teachings have never been divided into any family groups or anything like that. When I teach, I treat everyone equally.

In this way, the title of spiritual master will not be insulted.

Well, I admit that I'm misleading people, I'm blocking other people's progress. If I saw me now, I would probably rush over and slap him twice.

There is no such thing as "living in the present", you can only live in the present at any time, and I would like to know how to live in the past or live in the future.

Those who preach "living in the moment" seem to emphasize that if they see something in the moment, then they can only think about what they see in the moment. For example, if I'm eating, don't think about yesterday's work, or tomorrow's work.

Isn't this? I'm eating, and then thinking about eating, is "living in the moment"?

I'm thinking about yesterday or tomorrow, and I'm thinking about it right now. It's just that the content of thinking at the moment is about yesterday or tomorrow, and "living in the moment" is only thinking about "eating at the moment".

Is there any difference?

Does what you think about?

I am thinking at the moment, why do you claim to live in the moment because of the difference in content?

If you realize that the character's thoughts have nothing to do with you, then the content of those thoughts will not affect you in the slightest. There will be no different cool state because of thinking about the past or the future. Nor is it because just thinking about the moment will show some emotions such as satisfaction.

It's completely putting the cart before the horse, and the most important thing for a character is to realize that the role has nothing to do with him.

It's the so-called "-a-me-".

Then, after realizing this, the content of thinking about the character will not be forcibly distorted, because it is not you thinking at all, but your character is thinking. You are only aware of such a thought.

Forcibly twisting in an attempt to make the character "live in the moment" is completely unnecessary. If you recognize the distortion in your head, you will naturally not believe the ideas in your head. At this time, thinking about the past and the future becomes a state of fun.

The character of Yuan Changwen thinks like this and behaves like this, I don't have any problems.

Therefore, the key point is to realize that this thinking has nothing to do with you. And when you break a template character and become a custom character, it's easy to "live in the moment". Otherwise, the so-called "living in the moment" is nothing more than a drag show of fear.

"You see, I've tried my best to live in the moment, why do so many uncomfortable things still happen" and so on, you will frequently wonder if "living in the moment" is nonsense, because "not being afraid of life" is the starting point of everything.

And when I'm not afraid of life, I think about the past and the future while I'm eating, what's wrong with that? Even, I can clearly see that I'm thinking about the past and the future at this moment, what's wrong with that?

The so-called "living in the moment" means that when you see something at the moment, you only care about the things at the moment.

This is even more nonsense.

What you see and imagine is just the element of the picture that you perceive at the moment. There is no reason to think that the scenery is more real than the imagination in the mind, and there is no evidence to claim that just thinking about the scenery is more "in the moment" than thinking about the imagination in the head.

It's all just a picture element that is perceived, and it's all perceived at this moment. So, how can one not live in the moment, and since I can only live in the present forever, what is the point of forcibly distorting and only caring about what I see with my eyes?

They are all perceived elements of the picture, and there is no distinction between high and low.

This distinction is already in deception.