"Passerby" - 2015.2.24

When I rode out after eating, the road was dark and there were no lights.

When I got to the intersection, I slowed down, and somehow I looked back (I don't usually do that), and I didn't think there was anyone riding behind me.

There's a little light at the intersection. Suddenly, a long flowing hair floated past me.

It turned out that the person who was riding behind me just now was a girl! Looking at her back riding a mountain bike, she had such a sporty temperament!

She rode very fast! I was originally a cold-blooded slow rider, but my blood accelerated at once!

I wanted to see what she looked like, so I chased after her car, getting closer, closer and closer. She is dressed in a jeans and pants, so stylish! The point is that her thin waist exposed by riding a bicycle is so white against the backdrop of the street lamp!

My "flash" seemed to give me a response, and she chased smoothly all the way to the end! After chasing, she occasionally turned her face slightly, trying to look at me behind her with her peripheral vision, but never looked back.

I chased after her and thought, why should I chase her? Is it because I thought my fate had arrived, or did I just haven't seen a girl with such an athletic temperament for too long? Or did I have a lot of sex? Why should I chase her?

Just after thinking about it so much, I realized that I was thinking too much, and I couldn't catch up with her at all!

Her bike is so well equipped! It's so fast! And my "Flash" happened to be a little deformed on the rear wheel because of the exertion of the past few days. In this situation, it was really hard for me to catch up with her......

Is that really the case? I didn't use all my strength at all. Finally, at a fork in the road, the left side is to go back to my accommodation, and the right side is to go outside. I rushed with all my might, to the left. But she slowed down suddenly, causing me to be unable to react at once, and I couldn't see her clearly. But my peripheral vision tells me that she really looked back at me. At that moment, I felt that if I continued to ride after her, maybe I could really soak her. Whew, just think about it.

When I got back to the door of the accommodation, I thought about it, it seemed like a pity. So, I turned around and went to find the girl, and if I found it, it would prove that I was destined for her.

Okay! I sped up suddenly! I was called by a "Liu Jinlong"!

Look back to the side of the road. Oh! It turned out to be Brother Xia, who was my team leader in my last job. Once again, he recognized me on the road. We talked a little bit more.

Finally, in the end, I understood, that girl's accidental appearance was just to let me be met by Brother Xia. If it weren't for her, I wouldn't have been met by Brother Xia. Because, not on the same path.

So, I have the feeling that the people who can appear in your life must have an impact on you, whether good or bad, whether they appear for a long time or a few minutes as short. Even if she's just a passer-by who misses it in a hurry......

Destiny - April 30, 2015

It's been a long time since I've written about it, so let's write about it.

Today is the last day of April 2015, and after today, there is one more day to go back. Sometimes when you think about it from another angle, it's also quite cruel.

In the past so many years since I was born, how have I come back to life? all kinds of joys and angers, all kinds of sorrows, all kinds of moods......

There are many inspirational books and quotes that say that people can control their own destiny. A lot of people don't believe it, because a lot of people think it's self-deception. In the same way, there are many people who believe it, because many people really feel the feeling that they are in control of their destiny. I have supported both positive and negative views on this. Now, I just have a question.

Some people are terminally ill, but after a period of time by adjusting their mentality and changing their lifestyle, they not only did not leave this world, but also lived a healthy life. As a result, some people say that it has changed their fate. However, why can't it be said that such a change is destined for such a period?

Some people were originally very good, but then they got into bad habits, and finally embarked on the road of no return and ruined themselves. As a result, some people say that they are not in control of their own destiny. But why can't it be said that it was destined to be like this?

Perhaps, each of us lives in our destiny. Everything we do now is meant to be. Joy or sorrow......

However, if you think about it this way, do you feel that life is too boring? Since everything is already predestined, why do you keep repeating so many upheavals? Therefore, it is better to change the perspective of a little positive thought, or the sentence "three points are destined, and seven points depend on man".

Some of these things often seem to make sense, but they are just so hard to do. However, that's not a lie, it's really practical, it's just hard to learn to use. Like, happy or unhappy anyway, you have to live every day, so why not live happily?

Yes, why not live happily? Many people think that it is easier said than done. It is true, but have you tried to do it? When unhappiness strikes, do you try to make yourself happy? If you don't even work hard, then the unhappy life is also self-inflicted. No one else is to blame, no one is to blame fate, only to blame yourself for giving up happiness.

Destiny can be a fate that is predestined, or it can be a fate that is controlled by oneself.

But what kind of fate is it? In the final analysis, it is up to you to decide.

My destiny will speak.