The falling flowers intentionally follow the flowing water, and the flowing water has no intention of falling flowers. I like this quote www.biquge.info because it speaks for the mood.

I'm not trying to express any point of love, but I'm just trying to express my feelings from a conscious or unintentional perspective.

At that time, I met a sister named Meihui a few years ago, she is a local, she is about 30 years old, and she has a relatively healthy complexion. To my surprise, she spoke Chinese very well.

She is a person who belongs to the outer factory. At that time, Sister Fang, the boss of her factory, brought her and a dozen girls to our office to rummage through boxes. Because the quality of the goods they make is not good, they need to be re-turned and repaired.

Turning through boxes is a very troublesome and thankless task, and I hate turning through boxes very much! At that time, they were in charge of turning through boxes, and I was responsible for checking the quality of their boxes.

No one wants to do it, which is time-consuming, labor-intensive and costly. There was already a basis for being unhappy, and Sister Fang scolded those girls for being slow. The office originally needed to be quiet, but Sister Fang, a particularly strange woman, ignored these and didn't pay attention to other people at all, and continued to shout and scold.

You know, it's not her company......

Looking at Sister Fang's scolding of those girls, I felt very ugly! The scolding words were full of swear words, and they also hurt people's self-esteem! It seems that those girls are inferior, and she is superior. Yes, if you look at the management of the company, it is the boss and the subordinates. However, in terms of name-calling, it has gone far beyond the scope of corporate management and has risen to the level of morality.

Looking at Sister Fang, I really feel sad for those girls...... The speed at which those girls did it was not slow, but Sister Fang's heart was too anxious!

I really can't stand it in the face of such people. My eldest sister, Lina, couldn't stand it either......

Well, it was because of this person that I met Mie. She was actually deceived by Sister Fang to be a translator, and later became a worker. The reason for the scam was to take her out to play.

Although she knew that she had been deceived, she still took a good sense of responsibility to do the task assigned to her by Sister Fang. Even if she does a good job, she will still be scolded by Sister Fang.

Somehow, she and I chatted quietly. She has a more optimistic personality, and I have rarely seen a woman who has been abused smile and talk to me as if nothing had happened. Moreover, the number of times he was scolded was no less than seven times in a day. But she can still smile and chat with me with a relaxed and natural face, and even say playfully: "That woman is so fierce, I hate her so much." ”

Haha, I laughed. Because she even has a very relaxed and natural expression of hating someone, and there is no angry expression. People with this kind of physiognomy are generally more blessed.

Later, she added my work WeChat.

After that, although she added my work WeChat, she couldn't type Chinese, plus she was busy. So for a while, I didn't communicate with her.

After that, she almost always took the initiative to talk to me. She said she wanted me to go to her hometown during the holidays, and her hometown was so beautiful. I said I didn't know the road, and she said she drove me on a motorcycle......

She may have genuinely wanted me to go to her hometown from a friendly point of view, but I always deliberately perfunctory her, making all kinds of excuses that I couldn't go.

It's true that I can't go, and every time I have a big holiday, I sign up for a group to travel......

At that time, the day before yesterday, she suddenly sent a meal emoji, and I replied to her with a eating emoji.

Then she told me to have a full meal. I said I would eat my full meal.

Then, she sent a goodbye emoji. I replied to her with a goodbye look.

It seems so simple, and it seems so complicated......

Why wouldn't I take the initiative to make small talk to her? Even simple friends can make small talk......

Whew, that's the hardest thing I can do in relationships.

So, I don't know how to stay......

Time goes on.

It was the birthday of the King of Cambodia, so it was a three-day holiday. However, the third day coincided with Sunday, and that country had an extra day for any big holiday that fell on Sunday. So, I had four days off.

Coincidentally, my "queen mother" also happened to be on her birthday. So, I got up early in the morning and made a long long phone call to my "queen mother" and sang a song.

My "Queen Mother" seemed to have changed her taste at that time, she used to like to hear me sing "I Really Love You", and at that time I wanted to hear my children sing "Mother's Kiss" the most. It's normal for the taste to change, as long as she likes.

In order to be able to sing smoothly that day, I downloaded "Mother's Kiss" to learn to sing. I thought it would be easy to learn, but when I actually learned it, it was a bit difficult. After all, the feeling of singing the words in the lyrics in several tones is relatively unfamiliar to me. However, this makes sense, at least I really have the heart to learn to sing this song, and I want to sing this song well to my aunt.

Early that morning, after listening to me sing "Mother's Kiss", my "queen mother" said that she was so moved that she was about to shed tears. I know it's true, and I can imagine it.

Because when I used to celebrate Mother's Day or birthday as a "queen mother" and I sang in front of her, I could see her expression so moved that she wanted to cry. It's been a long wait, and it's been a long ten or twenty years since I grew up healthy from a little kid to an older kid to sing these songs to her...... There is as much hardship as there is a lot of emotion......

Perhaps, I will understand this feeling when I become a father in the future......

Well, that day, I suddenly called my aunt "queen mother" because when I was talking to my aunt on the phone, my uncle laughed at my aunt and became my "queen mother". Then, my family became a royal family! So, I just mean to call me "Queen Mother" and Auntie.

If I were by her side on the day of my mother's birthday, I would buy her a gift. But from the moment my "queen mother" changed her taste and wanted me to sing "Mother's Kiss", I felt that the way I loved might be able to represent my heart, but it could not really meet her heart's needs.

For example, my "queen mother" actually wanted to eat apples, but I bought a durian for her. Durian is my heart, but the queen mother's need is apples.

Here is the confirmation of the saying: love the person who loves in the way that the person who loves wants to be.

My "Queen Mother" wanted to listen to "Mother's Kiss", and at that moment it showed that she really wanted to hear her children sing this song to her. Then, other gifts are relatively inferior.

Okay, I'll just learn to sing.

It is the intention to love someone in your own way, and it is true love to love that person in the way that the person you love wants to be.

Mother's kiss, sweet kiss, makes me miss it to this day......

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