When there are not too many waves in life, there will be no ups and downs in the storyline, but can you really not experience some beauty and think about the meaning of life in ordinary daily life?

Life obviously does not have many years of storms, more is the repetition of the long stream, in the repetition, there may not be too much freshness, but it is indeed a proof of life. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 infoAt least, it can be repeated over and over again in the world......

If, over and over again, the feeling is more pain, how can we believe that the world is beautiful?

Tonight I saw a picture published by a former foreign colleague with a series of English on it. Although my English level was not at level at all or I was diving at all, I could barely read that sentence of English. The English phrase roughly means that everyone wants to be happy and not want pain, but how can you see a beautiful rainbow without a little rain?

Whether the world is beautiful or not, perhaps more feelings do not depend on whether the world is really beautiful, but on whether the world in your heart is really beautiful.

As I read before, when your heart is happy, the world is beautiful!

However, the final question remains, are you really happy?

Why does people's mood always fluctuate between gains and losses? After getting it for a long time, they get tired, tired, and bored. But once I lost it, I cried, regretted, and suffered. When I got it again, it seemed like a new life at first, so I was grateful, happy, and happy. But time still won't stop, slowly, for a long time, so I get tired again, tired, bored, but there will be another cherishing in these emotions, but the degree of cherishing is not enough. So when I lose again, I cry, regret, and suffer, and there will be a new hatred in these emotions.

Why is this so? Because I don't know how to cherish it.

Why don't you know how to cherish? Because cherishing means giving more, bearing more, and seeing more. For example, the care of a relationship, to cherish well, naturally to make the heart bigger, more tolerant, this is to bear more; the protection of a family, to cherish good, naturally to make the ability stronger, more durable, just like the ability to work hard to earn money and love the family, this is to pay more; a physical care, to cherish the good, naturally to make the body and mind more optimistic, more meaningful, just like in the ordinary day after day to live a full and meaningful feeling, looking for the beauty of their own life motivation, this is to see through more。

Because they have to pay more, bear more, and see through more, many people are too lazy to cherish it because they are troublesome or afraid of being uncomfortable. When it comes to losing, I hate myself who used to be troublesome through various regrets, so as to achieve an effect that can make my heart feel better. However, regret will only lead to more regret. Therefore, many people who lose something and if they can get it back, they will generally try their best to get it back, unless they can't get it back.

Such gains and losses are just because of insufficient attention. Just like many people live in a city where there is water to drink, but they often waste water because they have not felt the horror of dying due to lack of water, many people have a healthy body, but often do some bad behaviors such as staying up late, smoking, drinking too much, etc., because they have not personally experienced the situation of worrying their families or even not starting a family because of a serious illness......

However, this is a common phenomenon in society.

It's not that many people don't know how to cherish it, but they know it, and they still do the same. Some people stay up late, smoke, and drink too much because they are lucky, and some people stay up late, smoke, and drink too much because they are overwhelmed by life...... But these are everyone's own life choices. Whether it's right or wrong, there's no absolute standard at all.

The other evening, I made a phone call to my good friend Ah Shen. I've known each other since elementary school, and I'll still use the phone to contact my good friends, well, maybe it's a bigger part of the story, I've known each other since elementary school, and I've still used the phone to contact people other than my relatives, and there's only one God.

That's one of the very few calls I make to him, because he's usually the one who calls me, so it's really hard to be my friend, especially when dealing with a person who doesn't take the initiative very much. However, Ah Shen and I have been floating on the boat of friendship for more than ten years.

On the other side of the phone, his voice was a little hoarse, and he could hear that the pressure at work was too great, and his tone was slightly vicissitudes. And my tone is still as naïve as a child, and I don't know how to mature, you know, I'm a year older than God. Sure enough, I grew up really slowly......

On the phone, Ah Shen said he smoked.

When I first heard him say this, I couldn't believe that serious god in my heart could also learn to smoke. But think about it, maybe when the pressure is too much, smoking can really soothe your heart.

Ah Shen smokes because the pressure of work is too great to vent, and I, as for an unemployed person, not only do I not have to feel the pressure of work, but I also filter it out of the pressure of life, but I often stay up late. In contrast, I am the one who really doesn't know how to cherish.

Ah Shen smokes just to relieve stress and make myself work hard to persevere, so what about me? What is the purpose of staying up late? Can I be sure of the point of staying up late? It turns out that I don't have the confidence at all......

God has indeed changed a lot and become more and more mature in order to work. Maybe it's really tiring, but it's worth it.

Sometimes I wonder if I can't hold on to my work, life and family pressures, will I learn to smoke or drink to relieve my stress?

All of this is just for the sake of pleasure.

Only when you relieve stress will you be a little happy and persevere, and if you persist, you will get a little more happy harvest, and only when you get the harvest can you realize the good wishes in your heart.

Happiness is the driving force to go on. Therefore, everyone wants to be happy, but behind happiness there is always pain to support it.

Everyone has different ways of being happy, some are chatting with their families, some are playing with friends, some are romantizing with their lovers, and some are coming to a certain point to realize their dreams......

For me now, the only way I can find happiness is to extract the meaning I want in my ordinary daily life. Like, I'm writing right now.

In the past, I always liked to read inspirational books, because when life was very confused, I would feel very passionate and energetic after reading inspirational books! If you don't read inspirational books for a long time, you will feel that life is always dark and you can't see any light.

Later, there was the topic of "chicken soup poisons people's hearts" on the Internet. In fact, even if there is no chicken soup text, people in society are full of confusion and pain now. Chicken soup is just a scapegoat, because many people seem to be full of chicken blood after reading the chicken soup text, but after a few days of reading it, the whole person is listless again, so they think that the chicken soup text deceived them. Therefore, all kinds of dissatisfaction in life and work in my heart are pushed to Chicken Soup Wen, as if as long as I accuse Chicken Soup Wen of being poisonous, there will be some perverted pleasure in my heart.

If we compare chicken soup to human food, people who eat food when they are hungry are naturally very satisfied and happy. But when people don't eat food for a few days, they are so hungry that they panic, so they say that the food is poisonous!

Chicken Soup Wen has never said that it is omnipotent, and those who think that Chicken Soup Wen is omnipotent must have a once and for all psychology in their hearts, and always feel that after reading Chicken Soup Wen, anything good will happen. However, this is the most realistic nature of mind in society - impetuousness.

People, once they become impetuous, will be impatient, and the brain will not be able to calm down and think. As long as you encounter the slightest disobedience, you will either turn into anger and burn, or you will endure to distort your psychology in your heart for a long time. Therefore, those who often scold this and that on the Internet are just psychologically distorted because of long-term repression, so they choose that alternative but common way of venting.

If you look through a little bit, the problem is not the chicken soup text. It's that people who read the chicken soup text and think that the chicken soup text is poisonous have not really thought about the meaning behind the chicken soup text or used the useful factors in it with their hearts. As I wrote before, chicken soup is like chicken soup in our lives, some people drink chicken soup to make up, and some people drink chicken soup to be indifferent, which should be drunk according to the corresponding physique, not indiscriminately.

When you're in a very low mood, if you can't get back on your feet, then you can only watch other people's stories to bring a glimmer of light to yourself. This is the nutrition of Chicken Soup Text, extracting the factors that are beneficial to oneself at a certain stage in other people's stories and reinvigorating oneself and moving forward.

Of course, when you have a low ebb after cheering up for a while, don't feel that the chicken soup is poisonous. Because it's like you drank a bowl of chicken soup today, and your body, which was a little weak, felt a lot better. But after a few days, you feel a little weak again, it's not that the chicken soup is poisonous or that the chicken soup has deceived you. Because those nutrients in the bowl of chicken soup you drank a few days ago have already been consumed by your body. Therefore, the nutrition of chicken soup also has a time period.

There are also some people who read chicken soup every day and are eager to be energetic every day. That's not right either. If you think about it, if you drink chicken soup every day, can your body really stand it? Unless it's someone who is very weak.

Or maybe you can look at it, as long as there is no major psychological dilemma, there is actually no need to read any chicken soup text. Life is inherently full of joys, sorrows, and sorrows. So, sometimes it's a little emotional, just just vent it and don't think too much. The more you think about it, the more confused you will be in the direction of your life, and the worse your mood will be.

So what kind of existence is the Dongdong I wrote?

When I was in high school, I went to the bookstore to read books, and I found that there were more books on the shelves with the struggles of some successful people. They all have one thing in common, that is, those who are already successful people, those books are written after they are successful.

In other words, they use the "examples" they have already succeeded in giving direction to those who are currently lost on the path of life. Well, it seems to be an inspirational book. But, I haven't seen it. Maybe I was used to watching chicken soup at that time, and I always felt that those "examples" belonged to them, and I would only watch them as TV series after watching them, and there was not much sense of staying.

Therefore, what I write is a little more alternative than the history of the struggle of successful people, because this is the Dongdong that I write while growing up, and I write whatever I experience, peaks or valleys, anyway, it is not what I wrote after my success. Of course, if you don't succeed, it's better to leave it to the future.

As I said above, if you can't get back on your feet when you're in a very low mood, then you can only watch other people's stories to bring a glimmer of light to yourself. So, I wrote my own story. Sometimes when the tide is low, I will go to see how I got to where I am today. Give yourself chicken blood!

Although the "now" is not a story, the "now" will always pass, and once it has passed, then it will naturally be a story.

When life is not too turbulent, only ordinary day after day, how can I find a little happiness in these ordinary and persevere?

Well, just like now, I feel life with my heart and write about it, and there are readers who are watching it seriously......

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