Chapter 126: Folding Wings XXXVII
On the way to the future, what do you think is the happiest?
I think that the person or thing I like and pursue can be recognized and supported by my family, that is the happiest!
When I came back from that trip, I called home the day early and wanted to call home because I thought the journey was safe. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info
It was Uncle who answered the phone, and Uncle was very happy to ask me if I had a good time traveling. It sounds like Uncle should know from my sisters that I went to Bali.
Then, I happily talked about how I flew to Bali and what I did when I went to Bali.
Uncle laughed happily as he listened.
When I used to go on small trips, I didn't like to tell my family how much money I used, because they didn't quite approve of my spending like that. So when my uncle asked me how much money I used, my heart was knotted, and I was afraid that my mood would be swept away again. But I still said that I used a few thousand yuan, thinking that Uncle would say that he would use so much money or something, but Uncle said that it was worth it! This is simply a small miracle!
I was stunned for a moment, and then suddenly my mood brightened!
Uncle also smiled and said that the three sisters of our family wanted to go a long time ago, but I didn't expect to go first.
Listening to the tone of my uncle's smiling voice, I felt very happy!
After chatting a bit, Auntie and I chatted again.
In the same way, my aunt and uncle gave me a reaction that happily agreed with me on that trip.
Auntie said that I am young and have not yet started a family, so it is good to have a chance to play.
This is really different from before, in the past, my aunt didn't approve of me going to a distant place to play, for fear that I would encounter dangerous things. But that time, my aunt was so happy to agree that I would go to such a far place to play. Sure enough, it seems to keep pace with the times!
In any case, I was able to get the approval of my family, and my trip was worth it even if I didn't have diving and parasailing!
Before the big trip, I was afraid that my aunts and uncles would be worried, so I didn't tell them that I was going to Bali, but only said that I would travel with a group and would not go far.
Come to think of it, after my aunt and uncle were in high school, I made many decisions about everything. Whether it's choosing a university, major, or job, they respect my choice. For me, it's the warmest freedom.
Emotionally, the people I liked, they agreed with and opposed, but they respected my final choice. As long as I like it, they support me. Therefore, when it comes to love, I am the only one who can hinder the man.
What about my dreams, will my family agree with them?
Well, because my dreams are imaginary, and I can't find an entity to compare with in reality, so I can't say that I really exist. But it did accompany me growing up. So, as long as my family doesn't object to my own preferred lifestyle, it's time to identify with and support my dreams.
On the way to the future, you must have the love of your family in order to go on with true happiness!
Time goes on.
Time is like water in a sponge, as long as you are willing to squeeze it, there will always be it.
Time, like the water in the ocean, as long as you want to drink, there is so much that you can't drink it all.
At the time, I was waiting in line to get my hair cut. Waiting, is a boring process. If you let it be boring, you will waste your life, although nothing is in vain for me......
So, keep writing.
The night before, Lao Xi and I talked about some things in life. Well, this kind of topic will jump up from time to time to harass the brain, after all, the reality is cruel.
Lao Xi said that after I returned to China, I should choose a direction and keep going, not to change around. Otherwise, it will become a useless waste like he was then.
There are things worth thinking about in what Lao Xi said, such as choosing a direction and going all the way. After all, it's hard to specialize half-heartedly. I wasn't sure which direction was right for me, so I didn't have a job that would last a year. Even the last job I was confident to keep doing was cut off by the job I went abroad, so I'm still trying......
As for the sentence behind him that he lives like a waste of wood, then I disagree very much. His monthly salary is tens of thousands, and he is about to buy a house of more than 700,000 yuan, but in his consciousness, he still feels like waste wood. The negative energy in his heart is very large! The feeling he gives me as a whole person is that he has no mental state of exhaustion and no vitality. If you are not careful, it is easy to be infected by his negative energy......
Because he used to walk on a high place, but now he can't go to that high place, and his heart is very unacceptable. Men are very face-loving, especially middle-aged men.
Almost all of the apprentices he brought out before were doing well, but as their master, he was worse than them, so his heart was extremely unbalanced. There is a complaining regret hidden in his heart that has been tormenting him......
He thinks that college students going to Cambodia are wasted firewood! When he said this, it should have been untargeted, but it indirectly affected my mood.
He also gave an example of how useless it is for someone to leave his family to develop in Cambodia, even if he is allowed to get a monthly salary of tens of thousands of yuan? If his family is unwell, what will he get in the end? I ask you, what can you get?
Every time he asked, his tone became heavier. I feel so embarrassed!
If I answered him, it would put me in a situation where I was arguing with him. But if I don't nod my head silently, it's as if I'm forcing me to accept his point of view. I hate both of these feelings! So, when I talk to people, I hate talking about these serious and meaningless topics. If I want to talk about this, I might as well not talk about it and read a book by myself.
Later, as we chatted, I talked about what if I went to work in the United States? His attitude immediately changed! He said that it was different, that he made a lot of money in the United States, and he knew that he was rich.
At that moment, I thought he was ridiculous!
He said that no matter how much money he earns in Cambodia, as long as his family is unwell, nothing is of use. In other words, he focused on his family. Then, what he agrees with should be to develop around his family and be able to take care of his family members often.
However, when it comes to the American statement, his argument is untenable. First of all, he thinks that working in the United States is good, so isn't working in the United States just to leave his family in China to develop? So what is the difference between going to Cambodia to develop? Then, he feels that he makes a lot of money in the United States, so what he said before is useless no matter how much money he makes in Cambodia, isn't this a contradiction? Finally, he can conclude that what he really cares about is still face! In his heart, he is very unhappy that people who were worse than him in the past are better off than himself, so when he complains a lot in his heart, he always feels that he is a waste of firewood!
Living with this mindset, I don't think there's any happiness at all.
How many people envy his monthly salary, but he only sees the so-called "achievements" in his eyes, and he doesn't have the heart to feel what he got at that time. Actually, how sad it is......
However, everyone has their own way of living. He has his outlook on life, I have mine, and not forcing others to accept his outlook on life is a form of respect for others.
Therefore, go your own way, and other people's opinions can be considered, but they cannot be messed up.
After cutting my hair, I went back to the dormitory and continued to write, and before I knew it, it was getting dark......
Time is like water in the ocean, even if you don't want to drink it, it will evaporate.
What you see is no longer what you saw an hour ago......
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