Brother Monkey's mother was overjoyed by me, and she couldn't love the child so much that she teased the child and said, "Let's stay and eat at night, I'll go grocery shopping, don't leave at night, just eat here." ”

I hurriedly said, "No, it's too troublesome, and there is something to do at night." ”

Brother Monkey also said: "Mom, you don't have to be polite with my sister. I also have something to do in a while and come back later in the evening. ”

Ono, who had been recuperating on the sofa, suddenly shouted: "What can you do at night!

Brother Monkey's mother looked at me embarrassedly, and then said lukewarmly: "I come to see the child at night, and it's normal for men to be busy outside." ”

Brother Monkey hugged his mother's shoulders intimately, knowing that the old man was not very comfortable talking to Brother Monkey when he saw Ono's tone. Brother Monkey didn't pay attention to Ono, and said to his mother, "Mom, I've worked hard for you at night, I'll try to come back as soon as possible." ”

His mother smiled at me again, and then said, "Every time I come here, I buy so many things, and I haven't entertained you at home, so let Yichu treat you to a good meal another day." ”

I smiled and said, "I'll be out of the way if I'm polite." Auntie, you also work hard to take care of the children, and you can sleep for a while when the children sleep, don't let yourself be too tired. ”

Although I have only met his mother a few times, I feel very familiar with each other, no wonder Brother Monkey used to always talk about me and his mother. Indeed, there is an aura of similarity in us, so it will seem extra close when we meet.

We sat down on the couch around the child again and started chatting, I shared a lot of my first parenting experience, his mother listened to me with relish and asked me all kinds of questions, and Brother Monkey kept joking around. Ono was alone there watching TV, I used to think she was a smart woman who knew how to judge the situation, but now I found that she seemed to be getting dumber and dumber, and she didn't even know what to do with her trade-offs, what her role and definition in the family was.

Seeing that we were chatting so lively, she got up angrily and went back to her room to sleep, slamming the door shut.

Brother Monkey's mother gave me a leisurely look, and then said, "This kid has a big temper, don't be surprised." ”

I said, "Where can it be, she may have just given birth to a child and has not yet adjusted her emotions, little brother, you coax her more, let her get over the air, and it will be fine." ”

His mother sighed, and then said, "No, her parents just returned to their hometown." When I lived here before, hey, the house was chaotic......"

His mother couldn't hold her breath compared to Brother Monkey, and she looked like she wanted to spit out her bitterness. I know that she really treats me as her own, otherwise she wouldn't have said so much to me.

Brother Monkey hurriedly said: "Mom, Mom, it's all over, don't mention it, who has nothing to do, you can take care of it more, wouldn't it be good when the child is older." ”

His mother glared at him, then smiled and said, "You, you married a daughter-in-law and forgot your mother......"

I don't actually need his mother to elaborate on that little thing, who didn't come over like this, those small grievances and adult resentment can destroy all the illusions and purity of a woman. I said, "Auntie, think about everything for the better." You see, this grandson is good-looking. You see, your house is big. Look again, your son is handsome. Everyone else should envy you, don't you say?"

His mother was very helpful to me, and she was happy to hear me say it. I knew she had a lot of criticism about Ono, so I didn't talk about Ono. She said, "Well, when you say that, I really don't know how to cherish blessings." Also, as long as my family and my precious grandson can be happy, I will be content. ”

I took her hand and I said, "Yes, Yichu is strong, you can rest assured." It's all right, is it, little brother?"

He said sneeringly, "Well, you have to put the child down, and you see that he is asleep again." My sister and I will go out first and come back later in the evening, you have worked hard. ”

I motioned for him to come into the house and talk to Ono, and he understood, calling as he walked to the door: "Daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law......"

In fact, he can still tolerate Ono, and he can hear it from this cry. I couldn't help but sigh in my heart: "What a man!"

His mother put the child in the crib, and then whispered to me: "My son has a good temper and can tolerate everything, you can help persuade me." Men have to be tough, and women won't go up. ”

I nodded, and I said, "Auntie, don't worry, you should be persuaded to persuade everything." At the beginning, he was a good-hearted person and kind-hearted, and he knew how to be grateful, didn't you teach him well, and taught such an excellent eldest son. ”

I tried to make her feel more relaxed, and she was happy after listening to it, which mother doesn't like others to praise her child. She said: "Yes, yes, and I teach too sensible, so ah, he always suffers emotionally." ”

I patted my aunt on the shoulder, and I said, "Auntie, at best, suffering is a blessing, a family must have someone who can tolerate it, so that the family can be peaceful." ”

As we spoke, Ono's voice came from time to time in the house. The door was ajar, and I couldn't hear what Brother Monkey was saying, but I could sense him coaxing her. Ono seemed to be crying, Brother Monkey persuaded for a while, and finally heard a heavy sentence: "If you make trouble like this again, I will ......"

His mother looked at me and whispered, "Hey, every day, if there is trouble, if there is trouble, there will be no peace." ”

I smiled and patted her hand. The second half of Brother Monkey's sentence weakened again, and after a while, he walked out, shaking his head as he came out.

His mother asked, "What's going on?" ”

He said, "Hey, it's okay, women, there's always a little bit of a little temperament." ”

With that, he motioned for me to go. So I stood up and said, "Auntie, I still have some business, I'll go first, and you can rest for a while." ”

After we exchanged pleasantries for a while, Brother Monkey and I prepared to change our shoes and leave. Then I heard the sound of glass shattering in the room.

Brother Monkey frowned and ignored it, his mother sighed, and then said, "Come back early, otherwise you won't have a good night's sleep." ”

We walked out of his house, and Brother Monkey exhaled a big breath, and then said, "Sister, what do you want to eat at night?"

I knew he didn't want to talk about those annoying family matters, so I said, "Whatever, let's fry a few delicious Sichuan dishes, and let's drink some liquor, what do you think?"

He patted his head, and then said, "Okay, but it's not good for women to drink liquor, it's too strong, let's drink yellow bars to nourish the stomach." ”

I said, "You can drink anything, the key is to drink with you." ”

He laughed, and he said, "Let's go, I won't drive anymore, I'll take a taxi back later." ”

We stopped the car, went to the sauerkraut restaurant we used to go to, ordered a few dishes together, and then began to drink and joke with fists, and neither of us said anything about the troubles of the other, so we drank and played with all our hearts.

Before I knew it, time flew by, Brother Monkey's phone kept ringing, and he didn't answer it, just threw it aside and let it ring.

I said, "Take it quickly." ”

He shook his head, and he said, "If you don't pick up, you will ruin your mood, and if you go home and coax again, you will be fine." ”

I said, "It's okay for you to be so coaxed all the time." ”

He said, "Sister, let's not talk about her today." Let's drink, and then let's talk about the two of us. ”

I said, "Shall we?"

He nodded, probably a little too drunk, and he said, "Sister, I actually regret it all the time, if I had been firm, if I had married you, how happy I would have been now, you say." ”

I said, "Fool, what you can't get is the best." If you do, you don't necessarily think so. ”

He smiled and said, "Seeing you and my mother talking so happily today, I regret it even more." If it were you who married home, the family would be happy now. You and my mother's personality is close, and you have a gentle temperament and don't like to stir trouble. ”

I said, "Don't talk about it, I'm not that godly, and I'm horrible when I lose my temper." I'm living in your fantasies. ”

He shook his head, and he said, "No, I feel more and more now that marriage is too scary. ”

I said, "Think about it, don't think about it that much." Ono will slowly understand, she just doesn't know what to do. ”

He said: "When I first met her, she was so sensible, she didn't talk much, she didn't like to gossip, and she was careful and considerate. You said that this woman got married, why did she become a monster in an instant?"

I laughed and I said, "yes, I didn't do that before." She may actually care too much about you and use it in the wrong way. ”

He said: "Don't say it, don't say it, why do you talk about it again." So, I said, why do I think I'll be happy with you. Because, you are a wise woman. ”

I had a glass of wine and I said, "The definition of happiness varies from person to person, but now I enjoy more and more freedom, and I don't want to step into marriage easily." ”

He said, "That's right! Sister, I miss my former freedom! No, I miss it very much!"

I looked at him who was now trapped and helpless, and I was very distressed. Marriage is sometimes really a catastrophe, it turns innocent and immaculate girls into chattering and unkempt women, it makes uninhibited and chic men become aggrieved and helpless men. In fact, many times women complain so much, but they don't know that maybe men also have so much dissatisfaction and indignation in their hearts, but they choose not to say it.

Therefore, when a woman habitually spits out her bitterness on a man, she cannot get the forbearance and understanding she used to have, because people are not saints, and sometimes it is not that he does not want to give, but that he is equally painful and longs to be understood and forgiven. That's what I've learned from my failed marriage, don't blame your man or woman if he's doing his best to give you everything he or she can give.