146. If you are not afraid of women, you are afraid of women
It is said that Xiong Zilun challenged Xia because of his unsatisfactory work and clamoring to reduce his workload, and was transferred to his post by Xia and the president with a quick knife. She thought about it for a few nights www.biquge.info and felt more and more faceless, so she remembered the smiling face of Team Leader Zhang, who presided over the planned credit inspection, when the audit team of the head office came to the Hubei branch to inspect it.
Team Leader Zhang's name is Zhang Yu. After working in the preparatory group of the Citizens Bank for a few months, he has been promoted by the staff of the preparatory group to the section chief, and after less than three months as the section chief, he was promoted to the vice president of the Meilin branch to preside over the work, which is the deputy director-level treatment that people often talk about. In contrast, Wang Xianyao of the Hubei branch is a person who has made relatively slow progress -- from deputy director to vice president in charge of work.
Xiong Zilun is a caring person, and Zhang Yu's promotion made her aware of it. She felt more and more that Team Leader Zhang was someone she could use and even entrust. Of course, I'm married, so I can't think too far, so let's use it first!
The idea is certain, just do it.
Xiong Zilun picked up the phone and called Zhang Yu's office, which was now transferred to the vice president of the Meilin branch, and when he heard Zhang Yu answer the phone, he said, "Hello!" She giggled, and then said sweetly: "Hey, President Zhang? Who do you guess I am?"
Although Zhang Yu likes to deal with girls, he naturally won't embarrass the young lady who plays hide and seek with him like this, but since he likes girls, the stock of girls in his mind will not be less. With a string of "giggles" and a question, it is natural that Xiong Zilun and his person are here.
Zhang Yu guessed a few, but none of them were right. At this time, Xiong Zilun said appropriately: "President Zhang is really a forgetful person and a busy man! I am Xiong Zilun of the Hubei Branch. Do you still have an impression of me?"
When Zhang Yu heard Xiong Zilun report to his home, he immediately said "oh oh oh", and then said, "Why did Miss Xiong remember that Brother Zhang was here?"
"Brother Zhang!" Xiong Zilun said with disgust, "After you left Hubei, you were promoted, and you didn't even have a phone call!"
Zhang Yu hurriedly said: "Isn't this busy! I just came down to preside over the work, and I have to do everything myself, so I disappointed Miss Xiong?"
Xiong Zilun hurriedly said: "Don't be disappointed, a manly man should focus on his career." How about your busy work, do you want me to help you?"
Zhang Yu couldn't help but be overjoyed when he heard that Xiong Zilun was still understanding, and said: "Don't talk about one arm, even if you open your arms and help me with your two arms, I can't ask for it." β
Xiong Zilun giggled again and asked, "Isn't it, President Zhang Daxing?"
Zhang Yu said, "Come on! Just tell me in advance when you come." β
Xiong Zilun said: "It's better to meet by chance, tonight, after dinner, I'll go to you, how about it, okay?"
Zhang Yu said, "Okay." β
It is said that Zhang Yuqi, although he is tall and has a rugged beauty, is not a traditional creamy type of beautiful man.
In our country, girls have not admired rugged beauty for a long time, and it has only been quietly fashionable in recent years. Of course, any kind of aesthetic or even the popularity of things has its internal laws, as long as you understand it, you will be very relieved. After research, people have found that there are at least two or more reasons why rugged men are favored by people, especially women: First, ruggedness means that the body is strong, powerful, healthy and durable; in the past, people did not often say: The body is the capital of the revolution! Now it has been changed to: "Health is a blessing"; as long as there are healthy and knowledgeable people in modern society, any miracle can be created, and what can be more valuable than the word "health"? The second is that people's requirements for women are higher than those of ancient society: the body should be slim, the thin place must reach the level of skin and bones to be the realm of beauty, and the place where it should be strong should also be unambiguously "very good" - that is, "being a woman is 'very good'", but one or two parts of the body should be a little flesh and blood. In this way, the standard of beauty about women develops in the direction of morbid beauty. This is far from the traditional Chinese aesthetics of the fat ring and thin swallow.
The little one doesn't dare to evaluate which standard of ancient and modern aesthetics is fairer and more objective for women, but it is very in line with the direction of human development to require rough beauty as a selection condition for beautiful men for men. Not to mention it far away, let's just say that because women are getting more and more beautiful, it means getting thinner and thinner, and such a beauty must find a man with rough beauty to protect, so that she can shoot when she should shoot. In addition, men can't get sick! Housewives are all thin women, and the man is responsible for the livelihood of the family, and the cream boy can bear the burden of the family? Therefore, all kinds of practical needs make women favor rough men. In this way, don't let the men's world stand out immediately?
Of course, the change in people's perception of men has also evolved over a short period of time.
As early as the seventies of the twentieth century, in Guangz, which can be called the window of China's opening to the outside world, the aesthetic standards of many young female college students were quietly changing. They often like uninhibited and uninhibited male classmates, that is, people usually say they are not angry and arrogant, or even male classmates with a little murderous face as their first choice for dating or worship.
In the first year of the resumption of the college entrance examination at the beginning of reform and opening up, there was no age limit for candidates, and there were old high school students in their thirties, working people, farmers, young intellectuals who went to the mountains and countryside, soldiers, and fresh high school graduates. At that time, the older ones, who were more sophisticated, and a little masculine, were obviously more favored by female classmates than the fresh high school graduates who were admitted to college.
At that time, Guang Z had an economics department at a university that recruited 50 students. Two-thirds of them were girls, and 10 out of 15 boys were experienced high school graduates. These people are quite popular with girls. Among them, there is a boy who has reached the age of thirty-five. Speaking of his experience, it is also complicated: after graduating from high school, he served as a soldier in the army for two years, a squad leader of the People's Liberation Army for one year, and after demobilization, he became the deputy secretary of the party branch of the brigade (village) and the deputy director of the revolutionary committee (deputy village head) in his hometown. Married and had children in the countryside. After graduating from high school for more than ten years, he took the first exam after the resumption of the national college entrance examination and was admitted to university. Because he has gone through a long journey on the road of life, he also has a different kind of indifference to his classmates. In addition, on his murderous face, there are also spots when he was a child when he was a child, which makes people know at a glance that he is not a good master. However, it is precisely because of such a person that one-third of the female students in the department are fascinated.
At that time, a male classmate asked one of the female classmates puzzled: "From our man's point of view, if you ask him to lie down, you will fill a bowl of water and pour it on his face, and not a drop will fall, how can you say that he is not a beautiful man, why are you so obsessed with him?"
The female classmate said: "As far as you said, he can hold a bowl of water on his face, but you can imagine what he can put in his heart? What's more, the place where he has water on his face is what people often call nasolabial folds, and nasolabial folds can hold a bowl of water, so it is safe for any woman to follow him." β
The girl was right. After graduating from university, this male classmate has been hanging high in his career in life, with unlimited scenery, and in the blink of an eye, he has been an official to a provincial and department-level cadre.
Look, the little one is a little too far away. It is said that although Zhang Yu has a rugged appearance, he is also deeply liked by girls. However, his luck was not as good as that of the "seventh and seventh" college students mentioned above. The former knows how powerful women are, and they can't touch it, but Zhang Yu prefers this bite, likes it when he looks at it, wants to make friends, and wants to play to his heart's content. This woman, in ancient times, some people compared them to vinegar jars, and gave them a proper noun: "jealousy". Usually a woman's heart likes to put on a man completely, and others can't snatch the arms and legs of the knife. Otherwise, they will fight with you. And Zhang Yu obviously did not rise to the theoretical level of this level of women, and his mind was filled with different beauties, just like a room full of different brands of sour vinegar. Therefore, you can't think of a problem.
Zhang Yu's personality is rough, but he is also extensive at work: he doesn't know much on weekdays, and he does it when the leader assigns it, and if he doesn't assign it, it is better to have more than one thing than to do it. In this way, a lot of energy accumulated in his body has no place to digest it, which causes him to be more attentive to girls. Less than three months after he worked in the preparatory team of the Citizens Bank, he attracted the attention of a girl named Huang Que.
Huang Que also graduated from university and has been in Shenzhen for some years. It's just that the personal problem has not been solved well, to put it bluntly, it is that the other half of the heart has not been found.
She really wanted to marry herself. However, her hometown is the birthplace of the matriarchal society in Chinese history, and there is still a legacy of men at the mercy of women. In addition, Huang Que's personality is soft on the outside and rigid on the inside, which will somewhat discourage men who have dealt with her.
The minimum requirement for modern men, not to mention dominating women in terms of economy and family life, is it always okay to have an AA system? If you want to be completely at the mercy of women, many men would rather not get married, and they would rather not throw themselves into their arms and win the favor of women. Among men, the popular jargon is: "If you want to drink yogurt, it's not too late to buy a bottle when you want to drink it, why should you have a cow at home that specializes in yogurt?"
And Zhang Yu is not a professional farmer raising dairy cows. He was favored by Huang Que at first, but in the end he became a happy enemy, but it was inevitable by chance.
In the preparatory stage of the Citizens Bank, President Gu Dingli successively transferred some people according to the progress and needs of the work. Since most of the work in the preparatory phase was complex and the number of personnel was relatively small, the personnel of each group were used in a staggered manner. In this way, Zhang Yu and Huang Que, who are not in a group, often work together.
At first, Zhang Yu was very fond of Huang Yu's gentle appearance and beauty, and Huang Que also fell in love with Zhang Yu's rough and irregular beauty and unwilling to do too much things. The two of them came and went, and each of them allowed the other to come in as if a door had been opened. Moreover, the relationship between the two of them seems to be faster than the opening of the Citizens Bank, and they can't wait to tie the knot on the day the Citizens Bank beats the gong and drum to open, so that everyone can drink the wedding wine.
Usually, people evaluate the development of the relationship between a man and a woman like this: a man chasing a woman, a mountain, and a woman chasing a man, a layer of paper. And the relationship between Zhang Yu and Huang Que is precisely that Huang Que's sincerity and initiative prevail. So, not long after, the two of them took the pulp and achieved that good thing.
Just when Huang Que turned Zhang Yu into his own person at the speed of Shenzhen, and then wanted to convert the love relationship between the two into a family relationship, on the one hand, Zhang Yu's ideological preparation was insufficient, and on the other hand, Huang Que gradually showed her inner and rigid nature in the transformation of family relationship, which made Zhang Yu feel particularly uncomfortable. In this way, the two of them changed from quickly getting closer to being separated and looking like they were separated. More often than not, Zhang Yu dodged the yellow finch.
Huang Que saw that his proposed marriage might be reversed, and he suddenly became resentful in his heart, and began to pay attention to Zhang Yu's social circle. After a long time, I found that Zhang Yu, who was a little introverted on the surface, was not as dedicated to her as he was when he first met, and he had a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and his feelings were very casual. This made Huang Que suddenly feel that he was on the thief ship and was deceived, and he became more and more resentful of Zhang Yu.
Not long after, Zhang Yu left the head office and went to the Meilin branch as the vice president of the work. At this time, Huang Que had no intention of working, and was thinking about how to take revenge on Zhang Yu all day long. She said in her heart: "I was taken advantage of by you, don't think about getting out so easily, if you can't become a husband and wife, you are a sworn enemy." β
The ancients said that the woman who is most afraid of resentment in the world, when she thinks in one place and makes efforts in one place, whoever is unlucky will be unlucky. This should be said to Huang Que, it is really very appropriate. Since Zhang Yu arrived at the Meilin branch, Huang Que ran to the Meilin branch after getting off work every day, after having dinner in a hurry. What did she do at the Meilin branch? In the jargon of the current public security police, it is called "squatting in the pit." "It's to make it clear what Zhang Yu does in his spare time, who he talks to, who goes to his office to chat, how many hours he goes in and how many hours he comes out, and records them in his notebook.
Pity this fish is a "three-door" cadre, how can he withstand this kind of toss. Readers will ask: What are the three subjects that the "three doors" cadres are talking about? That is, when I was a child, I came out of my home, I went to the door of my school, and after I graduated, I went to the door of my work unit. This kind of person goes from one door to another, and the experience is relatively simple, and he has not been tempered by the complex environment of society. Zhang Yu would never have dreamed that his former lover would turn into a spy and make such a name for himself like a spy stalking.
In today's open society, men and women make friends, you love me, and you can sleep when you want to! Isn't the popular song sung like this: "I only care about what I once had, and I don't care about how long it lasts." "How good that isβZhang Yu said in his heart. (To be continued.) )